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FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:49pm On May 21, 2021
cococandy:
Nothing disrespectful in washing dishes.
Y’all are weird AF
Yeah yeah, go wash dishes for free at the nearest McDonald's

Why you ladies dish out what you can't take hiding under feminism BS is strange
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:46pm On May 21, 2021
cococandy:
If only you’re coddled jobless women who are not contributing financially to the home in the same way you coddle jobless men


[quote author=Tecno66 post=101922481]She actually deserves an head butt. Not slap.

huh
The man in question is at a very vulnerable point in life. I think you pissed him off. The level of understanding between the both of you would have smoothened any rancour here. You hurt his pride
It's simple breadwinner who sacrificed regardless of gender deserve abit of respect

I work 9 to 5 gave you a business, intrest free capital and am gonna be a janitor because am jobless
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:39pm On May 21, 2021
walozanga:
If she get home training , there are a lot of good ways she can even go about him helping her out at the restaurant.
U see restaurant, and beer parlor female owners na their lifestyle be this.
WHEN THEY GO DEY OVER LAUGH , AND PLAY WITH THEIR CUSTOMERS.. THEM GO FORGET SAY THEM DONE MARRY. IMAGINE WEYTIN SHE OPEN MOUTH TALK FOR PUBLIC. (MADAM PEPPER-SOUP)
Sad thing the customer fit be one small Yahoo boy and him babe
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:38pm On May 21, 2021
Ninisun:
Mama_put is establishment you are making mouth with? He is a lazy man and too proud.
This is Nigeria, even a mere indomie or Suya stand cost money to setup... If it was cheap let her father set her up and still come to wash plates his brothers can sweep also
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:36pm On May 21, 2021
IRALIFE:
I don't understand you o. Since she took over providing for the family, she couldn't pay her staff and they all left. She had to do it all alone.

It should be a family business. In fact if he helped, the business will boom more and they will have more finance for the family.

She didn't need to ask him sef, he should have just blended in. It's not demeaning. They are a team.

I don't know the manner she asked though. Probably she asked rudely. Whatever it was, I think he should have spoken to her about that rather than slap her.

Ego doesn't pay bills. You can imagine he ran away now and left the woman to take care of the children. She is also running the shop alone. Who would help to pick the children from school at least? Would she have to close shop to do that thereby loosing some customers and money in the process.

When his friend is tired of him, he will come back home and be the man he should be, addressing the main issues.

Sincerely, I understand that he's feeling bad that he can no longer take care of his family through his business. However, in times like this, he should encourage himself.

Thank God he set up the business before. Invariably, he is the one still providing for the home. He should join hands with her to make the business bloom. If he sees it this way, he will be at peace.
You sef reason the way you stated and articulated your point why wasthing the plate is good and in the overall intrest of the family... That's acceptable

But me walking into a place I paid my blood and sweat to set up and my wife tells me pointing rudely to the dishes to wash because some juvenile yahoo boys want to eat...

Honestly slapping her would be the nicest thing my aunt, mother, sisters would do to her if they see such
CelebritiesRe: You Are STUPID, You Dont Regard Your Mother- Ada Ameh Blasts Naira marley by Hotshisha: 3:25pm On May 21, 2021
habsydiamond:
Oga abeg Park well, even if obasanjo and him son fvck the son's wife, did thry made it public before the deed was done and how sure are u that the whole story is Not a fallacy... Naira Marley needs brain surgery to comot the akamu that is dominating his brain
Oya charge him to court if he committed any crime for saying his fantasy
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:19pm On May 21, 2021
Ninisun:
Why not pay workers to help her? Useless man!!!!! Dont worry,hunger will deal with him soon
Hunger in my own bloody establishment.... I will trash her and take my business kicking her to the street

Let her also hustle for money and start a fucking business, her father can give her money and wash plates
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 3:17pm On May 21, 2021
moshino:
No you missed nothing.

So why cant he sit down, carry sponge and wash plates, to help his wife?
Let her call her father and brothers to do that, Atleast he sponsored bthe business, let them do the washing and dishing while he earns back his investment with full intrest
CelebritiesRe: You Are STUPID, You Dont Regard Your Mother- Ada Ameh Blasts Naira marley by Hotshisha: 2:34pm On May 21, 2021
He wants to sleep with consenting mother and child as a fantasy not like he wants to rape them...

Gbenga. Obasanjo's wife fvcked. Both Obasanjo and his son yet no outrage
RomanceRe: "Behind Every Successful Man, There's Always A Woman" Complete Rubbish! -redpill by Hotshisha: 1:43pm On May 21, 2021
TheGidRedpiller:
Your type only understand things the hard way
Yes cos I am a man and hardness is my way not softness

If she wants your property get a lawyer and a prenup

If she wants to cuff you with a baby, make her a baby mama

If she denies you sex get it outside with other girls


A man should be in control of women in his life and not make silly excuse about ladies, when out ancestors marry countless women with just one dick
RomanceRe: "Behind Every Successful Man, There's Always A Woman" Complete Rubbish! -redpill by Hotshisha: 1:34pm On May 21, 2021
TheGidRedpiller:
Understandthat they are nothing but distractions in all levels of life, this is why men should go MGTOW because women don't even deserve your ring!
Na , hell No.... Men ain't going MGTOW except gays


All we men need is better understanding of what we want from ladies and how to get it stress free for a good bargain
AutosRe: TOKS 2004 Honda Accord EOD In IB. #2.2m. by Hotshisha: 1:30pm On May 21, 2021
Homeboiy:
How can you put 2.2 mil for this car

E no suppose pass 1.2
Naso dem dey hype price of some uber compatible cars
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha: 1:21pm On May 21, 2021
Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell
Do you know why they say the downfall of a man is not the end of his life? And not the downfall of a woman is not the end of her life

You have never worked , sweated to give someone money for love,

You have recieved all your life and never given

To you all man should cater for your father and parents responsibility

And when they choose not to look at how you describe them in your own word


All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

I hope men and your male children read between the lines
RomanceRe: "Behind Every Successful Man, There's Always A Woman" Complete Rubbish! -redpill by Hotshisha:
Different stroke for different folks

I find women distracting during my journey towards financial success/ stability...

Honestly the women who were helpful were few and not even romantically involved with me, they just played elderly / sisterly role for God sake
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha:
BruncleZuma:
You don't have a husband, no real man assaults a woman over such issues.
I payed 100k to rent a shop

I payed an extra 100 k to buy plastic chairs, table and accessories for interior

I bought gas stove, microwave, cutlery, and food stuff almost 100k

Gave the wife another 100k working capital

All in all I spent 500k on a business venture or $1200 USD on a business venture I earned zero Kobo from( 1.2k is minimum wage of hard labour in USA) and annual income in Nigeria

Yet I am told to wash plates for the customers and I should not get angry and slap the person degrading me because I want to be a real man

I won't slap her , I'll take over my business with receipt and proof of payments I made starting up the business, I'll start washing the damn plates and keeping my profits for my damn self, for 50k I'll get an excellent cook in Lagos and run a proper business, let her go and ask her father and elders in their village to wash plate after buying her plates and business so she can survive




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PoliticsRe: The Igbos Have Been Criminalized, Marginalized, Yet Forced To Stay - Fani Kayode by Hotshisha: 12:38pm On May 21, 2021
cool





CCT chairman's Biafra attacked him at Abuja comment, and Malami's remarks of spare part dealers getting banned like killer Herdsmen shows how most aboki hate Ibos especially for killing Sarduna


I watched videos if Ibo traders getting looted in Abuja in broad daylight and I wonder why they are docile and just making video


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Christianity EtcRe: Whose Claim Do You Believe? God Or Satan? by Hotshisha: 12:33pm On May 21, 2021
God created the world but Devils and demons control it
PoliticsRe: Re:Petrol To Sell At #385/litre (NGF) by Hotshisha: 12:32pm On May 21, 2021
We must end useless subsidy... Criminals
PoliticsRe: Sokoto State Govt Budgets N155m For The Propagation Of Islam. by Hotshisha: 12:31pm On May 21, 2021
Free Oyel money
FamilyRe: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Hotshisha:
undecided



That's not the full story

Once a man losses his source of income women become rude , unappreciative and wicked

Even if you ask Buhari to wash plates with proper manners he would gladly do that but ungrateful Nigerian women are something else


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FamilyRe: How Do I Make My Broke Friends To Stay Away From Me by Hotshisha:
huh huh



If you are the richest or smartest among your friends and peers, it's time to change your circle of friends or you risk doom


In your mind you think they are only taking your food, but it's far more than that

To cut off parasite, a host must also deprive itself of some luxury

Hide your food stuff

Stay more at your work colleagues house or have area brothers who are richer more mature than you over the weekend

Get a girlfriend or hire an olosho for the weekend, gladly tell them to excuse you as you have conjugal obligation


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CelebritiesRe: Sex With Mother & Daughter: Naira Marley Responds After He Was Criticised by Hotshisha: 11:58am On May 21, 2021
Baba Ijesha never teach this one lesson
PhonesRe: Nigerians To Submit Phone IDs In Three Months - NCC by Hotshisha: 11:57am On May 21, 2021
leofab:
so I don’t be able to resell my used phone and then top up and better one ?
Why not, you can register and deregister, unregister or re register
PoliticsRe: FG Should Support Boko Haram To Defeat ISWAP – Adamu Garba by Hotshisha: 10:35am On May 21, 2021
If I was a President I'll cede Sambisa and close LGA to Boko Haram and Southeast to Biafra

We can't continue spending huge forex fighting for barren land
PoliticsRe: Yorubas, Anioma-Igbos And Few Ijaws Started The Civil War In Nigeria - YA GAZIE by Hotshisha: 10:28am On May 21, 2021
Asgard73:
grin

Yoruba will always have different history from Nigeria history

Yoruba say zik left a day before the coup grin

Yoruba man said igbos killed akintola grin

Yoruba man is asking why ironsi took grin over

Yoruba man said nzegwo kill saraduna wives grin

Yoruba man said ironsi forcefully take over


Yoruba narratives lies and propaganda...

Ignorant Sophistication

Funny he called the new clever by half

Yoruba sha...
Your life no pass Tinubu and Yoruba
If you have any other truth abeg tell us
PoliticsRe: Yorubas, Anioma-Igbos And Few Ijaws Started The Civil War In Nigeria - YA GAZIE by Hotshisha: 9:41am On May 21, 2021
orion7:
is ogbomosho supposed to be a city or what ?

Anyways these Muslims from the north re busy sponsoring articles that align with thier divide and rule tactics.

Eventually when the chips re down the fate if the rohygian muslims or the muslims in CAR will be a childs play. The will weep and beg in deaf ears. What the Palestinians re expecting will be small compared to what will happen to them. .
Ok less than 300 Palestinians died, less than 50,000 since 1940s.... 6 million Isrealis died in holocaust, 3 million Ibos starve to death during civil war

Yet you are mocking Palestinians and Ogbomosho

Hahahah
PoliticsRe: Buhari Approved N30 Million Mosque, Centre For Herdsmen: Minister by Hotshisha: 9:38am On May 21, 2021
Buhari is something else
PoliticsRe: Yorubas, Anioma-Igbos And Few Ijaws Started The Civil War In Nigeria - YA GAZIE by Hotshisha: 9:32am On May 21, 2021
shocked





Half clever

Tell us who were the casualty and if a single Ibo leader got gunned

Tell us why My One Nigeria Nnamdi Azikwe suddenly went on vacation a day before Ibos killed Samuel Ladoke Akintola the greatest Ogbomosho leader ever, tell us why Ahmadu Bello and his wife had to die while Eastern region leaders didn't get killed


Why did Aguiyi Ironsi an Ibo forcefully take over without considering starting a new democratic dispensation like Obasanjo did


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CelebritiesRe: Davido Shells Out 183 Million Naira For Rolls Royce by Hotshisha: 9:27am On May 21, 2021
oluwaseyi1759:
This one said 183 million., Tundeednut said it's 240 million.. Abeg which one is true.
Njigeia has different foreign exchange rate... One from CBN, another from banks, the surest one from aboki money changer
PoliticsRe: Afenifere Condemns Buhari’s Shoot-on-sight Order In S’east, Accuses Him Of Nepot by Hotshisha: 8:23am On May 21, 2021
Jostoman:
so how many herdsmen carrying Ak47 have they shot dead compare to the innocent Igbo youth that been shot dead by this evil government.
Go to the closest mutuary to count the bodies. What is certain is armed men are been killed before killing anyone whether Ibo or fulani
Christianity EtcRe: I Will Become A Christian Again If You Can Answer This Question by Hotshisha: 8:20am On May 21, 2021
FatherOfJesus:
Really? Something must be wrong with the Bible narrations then.
Bible was written by Arab, Jews and Persians of the old eastern civilisation about their Legends and myth,

Greeks have their myths and gods passed down for generations same as Yorubas

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