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MzNelly:

Nna, you are velu velu weekhead!

johnjon:
So what does the word friendship entails?

No be our friend we go chop?
Abi na your enemy dey nack your ponmo.


Op chop the toto. It's not a crime.

charismaticdave:
Stop using your experience to judge women, as the saying goes, not all men are the same, the same applies to women. I hate to tell you this, i had over 12 heartbreaks before I found the one I love and I just wanted the honey too at first

But when I realised she truly and positively loved me, i had to love her with the whole fibre in my being.

I love her so much, this is just like my own story being replayed and I would love Hotwax to consider it first before making a men's decision.

Hotwax, she thinks she has scared you away with what she said, that's why she wants a meet. Please please please, can you just tell her you will think about it and just talk to me. Please

proxillin:
Read his story well. He never waited to prove he is better than her fiancee.

He even mentioned it that he no longer feel sexual urge for her again. Until she brought up love issue. The op has tried as a gentle man.

I know of many housewife that sleep with their close friend when they and their husband r having issues.

The op made sure not to open her legs when she was having problems.

That's the point most girls fall. When they have problem with their relationship...the next nice guy always take advantage of them.

Op u try small sha. Not many guys out there can do it

Did he befriend her for a chance to pull a hit and run on her? YES

Did he support her during hardship and did that make her fall in love with him? YES

Is he only interested her body at this moment? YES

Does she think that he is better then her ex and want to marry him? Yes

Is he asking whether he should pull a hit and run on her or not? YES

I do not think that I misread the story sir and I fail to see how anybody can call the OP a gentleman.

proxillin:
Chop am mr plan b. Ladies and plan b. They will keep many male friends in friend zone just in case something happen to their relwtionship

okells:
For sure yhu na PLAN B... If she knew she loved yhu why was she willing to get married to that other guy, now the guy has finally told her his mind, she comes running to yhu tellin u she's in love.... She's really desperate duden your her safe zone

hotwax:
errm..how do I start?

Ok..

I met this beautiful young lady few years ago. I had the intention of lick her honey pot .No more no else.

She however told me outright that she is already with a man and she loves him...I can only be a friend. Chaiii that hurts

You know how guys play na, I accepted the friendship proposal with the hope that opportunity might presents itself later. After all, I have dated a girl like that that friend-zoned me and after some years called me to come and chop . (I still don't understand how their so called friendzoning works. Its a misery).

So, we got so close to the extent that she now looks like a blood sister to me, whenever she is with me, I don't have sexu.al urge for her (may be its because I zeroed my mind). She will come to my house, do all sorts of things..my mind wont even go there..(to be candid, guy instinct kicks in at times, but my body doesn't move cuz I didnt want to disappoint her ...

rewind back to late 2012, she had a fight with her man, they broke up few months, I was the one for her, guiding her on how to handle the situation and making sure her relationship works.

2013...May, they did this so called "yoruba family Introduction". She didnt inform me, I dont know why, I only saw her pictures on BBM..We quarreled and later settled it. Things continue normal.

July 2013, she lost her immediate brother to a terminal disease. The following week, her sister told her she heard a rumor that her man impregnated one IT girl in his office. She didnt know what to do, she came rushing to me on this faithful day crying. I calm her down, I made her realize its a rumor, she should find a way to confront her man and it should be systematic. She asked how she is gonna go about it.
I told her to ask her if he is hiding any secret from her. She should tell her she will forgive any secret or misdeed no matter how grave it is. I just gave her many hints and approaches.

I dont know if my formulas worked or not, she just called me one afternoon, crying and sobbing, "I am finished", "nothing left again", "this is a curse". "why me".
So the rumor was true. I didnt know what to do too, I nearly cried for her. It was 2 blows at a time. I consoled her, stayed with her. She will come to my house sleep, I cook for her.

So I advised the girl to still stay with him so far they have done "introduction" and have picked their wedding month (both family agreed already). I said she should still go ahead and forgive him, thats how God will have it.

The shocker came to me last in November when the guy called her and said he can no longer continue again. He wants to marry his baby mama to be. There is no point marrying someone else when a lady is pregnant for her.

My girl nearly committed suicide. It was a huge task for me. It was like baby sitting. She will just come to my house crying all day. But I make sure I keep her happy.

So, now, throughout all her trying times, she will cry on my arms, I will pet her to sleep right on the same bed. And I made sure not to open her legs. Cuz I knew ladies are fragile in that situation.

We went to church for cross-over night on 31, when we were about heading towards our different destinations, she said "I love you, I have loved you for a long time, Its just circumstance...I miss u", she then hugged me in a way she has never done before looking into my eye ball. I wanted to kiss her. But I told her, "we need to talk about this, go and rest first"..

The problem here is, she is not my wify taste. She is too flashy for my liking. I can't marry someone like that. What I am interested in is her boooobs and honey pot. You can't even walk with her on the street without guys shifting all attention to you. Naaa I dont want that.
I dont know how to handle the situation now. I want to lick that honey..And she is looking for husband..I can play along just to get what I want, but she has passed through a lot, If I add my own again. This saying "men are wicked". But not all men are wicked.

You can crucify me all you like. Guys know what they want. i know what I want

Pardon all grammatical blunders. I will come and correct them later. I am in a rush

godsamist:
Very much correct bros,these politicians has drain this country alot for too long now.
That aside, for the fact that nobody to probe their past makes them behave like demi-god.
Is time to let them pay for their carefree and reckless attitude to nigerians,i believe ths wil call them to order!

charismaticdave:
Brother Hotwax, with what you wrote, the lady is in love with you, it is very hard for a lady to confess what a man means to her. But in this case, she manned up and told you her mind, it has not been easy for her, you know.


What is her type that you can't get married to? Is she the prosmiscous type or what?

I am sure you love her too, just that you are confused right now, when she said that, am so sure you smiled and walk away, and you smiled all the way home

Because you know her past doesn't make you a PLAN B, everyone is a Plan B in one way or the other.

I was once in your shoes and I ended up marrying the lady in question and we ended up having the most handsome Bobo in the whole world


Bros am begging you to reconsider and know that she really loves you


If you look for a useless argument and try to break up with her, and she says she will kill herself, then what?


Please before you take any step, I sent you an email, can you reply and Lets chat, let me share my story with you and maybe just maybe I can be the angel to change your heart and thinking


Please please please

Atmmachine:
Who killed Ben Ogedengbe by a death penalty for a crime that didn't carry death penalty when he committed it?
Who doesn't attend the Federal Executive Council meetings yet collects his allowances?
Who cancelled former Lagos Governor Jakande's metroline and forfeited the $50 million paid for it by the then Lagos State Government?
Who used Violence to stop the 1985 National Conference of the National Association of Nigeria Students?
Who jailed Tai Solarin and denied him his asthma drugs simply because he campaigned against military rule and for democracy?
Who Jailed Nduka Irabor and Tunde Thompson for writing a truthful report which embarrassed his Government?
Who raided respected Papa Awolowo's house and seized his passport so he couldn't travel out of the country? Was he also corrupt?
Who threw Former Vice President Alex Ekweme in jail even though it was proven that Ekweme never stole any money?
Who jailed honest and respected Pa Adekunle Ajasin?
Who jailed Fela Kuti in I984 for singing against the dictatorial tendencies of his Military Government?
Who banned the Nigeria Medical Association (NMA) during his regime?
Who stopped the Ooni of Ife from traveling abroad simply because he visited the holy land of Israel in 1984?
Who broke up the press conference of ASSU in 1984 and detained four of their executives?
Who jailed Beko Ransome Kuti who only demanded for the release of his brother?

eightsin:
Hahaha. You've wasted enough time pampering her all these years and it sounds like you had no life without her. Well, encourage her to get herself a man while u become her side man. This time with benefits

dimples2:
Sorry if that came out wrongly, was playing with words.. Everything seems to be political these days.

Michelle55:
@Op.. just tel her calmly dat tinx cnt work out btw u guys as she expected... pls dont lead her on,kindly tell her u want u both to remain frnds.

dimples2:
U know u may end up loving this lady
And I feel it scares u to love someone that is not ur type.

But love is supposed to be unconditional, u love her for no reason just cos...


U say she is the flashy type, is that all??
Because u can "unflashy" her.

dimples2:
Lol! Charmer
Renew gini?

See, yo charm no go work here

Meanwhile, have u come to a decision?

Thinkr:
OP you are just like a second choice goal keeper. Don't seks her and also don't fall for her trick.... Tell her its not possible... She should accept life like that and move on... Rada Rada

dimples2:
I accept one

Give the rest to our friend

HizMissy:
pls, go lick another honeypot... not this one.

dimples2:

dimples2:
Expose u! Lol

Its okk then
I believe you sha

dimples2:
All right then!

Let me see Now

dimples2:
Haha
Yeye

Prixus:
aite...I'd be glad to show u. d resemblance is stunning. send me a msg on WhatsApp...08067484005 or add me up on BBM...

dimples2:


Ehen

Let's see it then
[b]Hope u don't have to squeeze ur mouth [/b]to one side tho

Tymax:
Dump her àss fast. Nor wicked her o. Just leave her.

dimples2:
Lol! I like people with dimples...