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This fresh looking boy wasn't a militant. Dude doesn't look like he can kill a fly.

This is just one of those connected kids that used the amnesty programme to get "free" scholarships. By "free", I mean scholarship without hassle.

rheether:
You need to show me say you fit take care of me

Are you a pet dog? Are you less privileged? Aren't you an adult?

savvy12:
our constitution allows consent at age 16?why don't u go and sleep with a bunch of them?
Just pray ur 16 year daughter won't sleep with a man old enough to be her dad... since there's nothing wrong with it.

Chances are, your dad has slept with a female young enough to be his daughter. Chances are!

The bolded part shows you lack logic.

Safe to say everyone on that table is worth at least £1M.

I want this lifestyle God.

I'll come back to this post in 5 years and take stock.

This is a response to Alibaba's IG post https://instagram.com/p/BVHZ2K0g8ru/

You mistake your popularity for expertise. You are no expert, Sir.

Sure, some New Generation professions are bankable but money isn't everything. That man that prefers his child becomes a lawyer has Power in his mind and not money/popularity. He knowns money can't always get you power but the reverse is always possible.

If you have been to an NBA induction session, you'll realise THEY run this country, the rest of us just live in it. Conventional professions control the POWER. New Gen professions make some money. I won't bother explaining which is important.

Well, I'll bother! Mikhail Khodorkovsky was the richest man in Russia. His riches couldn't save him when he stepped on the toes of Power. We all know how his story ended. The same thing is applicable to the billionaires in Nigeria. They are only billionaires because the powers that be let them be billionaires.

Obama's salary was about $400k/year as president. Judging by the kind of cars and houses the Okoye brothers own, it's safe to say they collectively out-earned Obama for the period he was president of the world...but he was PRESIDENT OF THE WORLD!

Therefore, I will ensure my children are trained on conventional professions. When they become the Chief Justice of the Federation, Senate President, EFCC Chairman, Bank Exec, OPEC Exec etc, they can hire humans from your end to come use their crafts in MUA, Event Planning, Dancing, Rapping and Comedy (like yourself) to entertain them and their guests. Don't worry though, all you crafts people will be paid with taxpayers monies that were duly appropriated for that purpose. Bloggers may not be paid. They are likely to trend influential people for free. When you are big, you are big!

Sure, not every trained conventional professionals will make it to the positions of power, however, not all comedians will make it to the Alibaba level neither.

I don't expect you to understand my point. I can only just tell you.

In conclusion, let's all follow our bliss. They sky is big enough.

God bless.


By the way, when you speak about domestic violence, always highlight situations of both genders being perps and victims. It's is more reflective of what happens in the society we live in. Don't trivialise or hide male problems.

cc MissyB3 Fynestboi

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I don't understand the need for a let-the-world-know engagement...unless, of course, the whole marriage shenanigans is part of a business model.

majorbravo:
You basically just confirmed the same point with the bolded statement. Procrastination is not essentially negative. It simply means leaving a task that can be done now till a later time, either due (in part or whole) to a number of issues with their ability to accomplish the task itself that they chose to delay. So it depends on the context. It doesn't necessarily mean inability to meet deadlines. To use your example, It basically means they would tell you when they can get the job done which might appear longer than normal people would probably get the same job done, even if it turns out to be better quality. This is because they want to give it quality time.

If the perfectionist is the one setting the deadlines, it really isn't a subject for a procrastination tag. If I gave a perfectionist a job to do for me and asked him to finish by 4pm, he would likely try to negotiate another time he thinks is best so he could give it full attention, that itself is the procrastination the op writes about. A non-perfectionist would rather try to do what he can within the time he was given, even if the quality of the result suffers as a consequence of insufficient time and/or resources. A perfectionist on the other hand, wouldn't try his luck unless he was absolutely sure of the time and availability of resources, and that might lead to procrastination cos he won't start the job till all factors are on deck and ready for deployment to the task.

In layman terms, A perfectionist working at a bakery wouldn't slice a cake if the knife available wasn't sharp enough for a precision cut, as this would make the cake come off with unsightly crumbs, they'll put off the job till they can get a sharp knife. A non-perfectionist on the other hand would slice with whatever is available.

You seem to not understand the meaning of procrastination. Basically, the word means extending to completion time beyond what was AGREED!

So if a perfectionist tell you to come by 5pm for a job another person could have been done with by 2pm, it doesn't mean the perfectionist procrastinated. It just indicates the perfectionist incorporated the time required to perfect the job into his schedule (which is plus 3 hours).

So, in clear terms, procrastination is illustrated by "your work will be ready by 5pm".
"Oh sorry, did I say 5pm? I meant 7pm"
"You know what, please come tomorrow by 10am"
And so on and so forth.


That is not what a perfectionist does. Don't get it twisted.

majorbravo:
Actually they only do when they don't have the time to finish some work. This is not as a result of laziness but rather as a result of the fact that they want to give it 100% attention and if that time is not currently available, they push the project to a later date when they are sure they can, this is also borne out of the fact that they rarely ever delegate (They'll say: "If I can't give it my 100%, I don't trust anyone else to be able to, so the job has to wait till I can devote my time to it".

Perfectionists don't procrastinate! They are just careful about giving a delivery date.

A perfectionist will make a statement like "it will be ready when it will be ready" or will tell you to allow for 3 weeks to take delivery of a job that others may do in 10days. . They are smart enough to incorporate time needed to perfect their deliverables.

This is discrimination against the male child. If it were a female child, she wouldn't hv been arrested.

Perfectionists don't procrastinate.

Hope he's smart enough to get a prenup.

Press charges and make your money. Sue Ibrahim, his manager and their company. Too much money. It's that simple.

He knows there's nothing there. He knows it's all packaging.

There's no point putting a female on a pedestal because of booty. After a couple times of banging it, you'll regret why you put in so much effort to get the female in the first place.

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Did you bother to find the backstory?

I did.

She went to the hotel with him to tidy.

They tidied (that's why there are no rape charges).

She told him to pay her $500. He said no! $150? No!

He went on to say her P wasn't worth $100 even.

So he went to sleep.

While he was sleeping, she cracked him in the head with a wine bottle. He woke up and hit her back albeit excessively.

When he saw how bad she was, he called the cops and they both went to the hospital. He had to be stitched too. All the blood samples gotten from the bed were his. That's why the police dismissed all but 1 charge.

Some women just ain't shit!

I have a feeling this back story is similar to what happens in these celeb marriage cases. The woman will come up with a pic of the injuries and tailor the narrative to make her seem faultless. What's worse is that people won't ask questions. They'll just allow the lie.

SammyAx:
My dad gave them a small price because he said we don't need their money and he is not selling me. But the problem was that the boxes of items they were to bring for me ended up being all cheap stuff, not even one single set of gold jewelry. ?

Since you're not for sale, why are you bothered about the costs of his gifts?

How much gifts did you give his people?

Is he free of charge?

He made a dumb move by trying to marry you. He's lucky he corrected the move before it got late.
You know my dear, countries in the west and Europe have no respect for men's right. It gets worse when a man marries. Marriage to men in those countries is like giving the woman a fully loaded gun. She may not shoot you but why take that chance?

You have already proved you can't control your temper at least twice...and this is before marriage. Wonder what you'll do when you have the full control of the loaded gun.

Leave the man alone. He has regained his senses.

She's a business woman. Hoe business is still business.

Men almost always rule the day

Thanks to the feminist movement, women are more empowered now than they were in the past. There are actually female bosses, female CEOs and female managers in Nigerian offices now. There are even female ministers and senators in the government as well. Despite this improvement, women with these positions still have to grapple with the traditional idea that men are superior in Nigerian offices. There seems to be this undying notion that it is “a man’s world”, and as such, subservient roles are still to relegated to women. For instance, in a team of men and women, the women will be expected to organize refreshments, or a female will be expected to serve the tea at the board meeting. Even the lowest staff would feel such roles are beneath him and a senior colleague will have to do it, just because she is female. True, women empowerment is on the rise and things are changing. In some offices, especially female dominated offices, these changes as a result of women empowerment are noticeable; but overall, the effects of these changes are minimal.

If you are in an office and heavy lifting or security duty is to be done, what gender will be expected to do such duties? When furnitures, AC units etc are to me moved, aren't the men made to do them?
So you see my friend, the sexism swings both ways.

Then about female bosses, a Top 40 highest paid models list was released by Forbes and all 40 models were women.
Similar situations are obtaineable in other female dominated fields like Nursing. I was at a Diamond Bank branch yesterday and most of their marketers were females. The Branch Manager was also a female. It doesn't have much to do with sexism. It's just the field of endeavour.

filani:
@ HumanistMike

I am doing my little bit, keep doing yours

Correct. I follow the Rational Male as well. He is good.

Lalasticlala pls do the needful.

Crieff:
...In the same vein, the development of the girl child should not be at the expense of the boy child too. However, do not let this contaminate the clarity of the mind of what it is really about.

Nice point sir.

oxon:
bruv I salute you , you are a real red pilled , neo masculine specie , in a time where many beta males will kowtow to the feminist imperative , I reek with pride to know a few ones out there would still stand their ground , not hiding behind the obscurity of political correctness . oya all yee social justice warrior come and lynch me

Sure man. I'm an MRA MGTOW.

I'm impervious to shaming language and don't need female approval. I always do my best to support men because society doesn't support us.

Even male celebrities bend over and spread cheeks for female approval. RMD wrote a letter to the Boy Child a while ago and I responded the day after. I tagged him on Instagram with the response but he untagged himself. Sissy men don't like being called out.

I posted the response here but the Mods didn't front-page it. I know RMD read it and felt totally embarrassed, hence his desire to untag me.

You can find my response here https://www.nairaland.com/3487643/response-rmd-plight-boy-child

Whenever you get a chance to support a man in these kinda situations, please do so.

lonelypal:
Bro I think you are mixing up facts here. I dont see how the boldened is gonna happen cos the suit against Toke is a defamation suit while in the instant case, we talking of Copyright infringement (IP matter) which allows for specific and peculiar interim orders like Anton Piller orders

Maje also filed a suit ordering Toke and her publisher to retrieve all copies of the book.

InvertedHammer:
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Don't argue with women.

Just sue them.

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Exactly man. Sue or report them. Or both. Also, it is important you keep records (evidence) because an average woman will attempt to lie and cry her way out of responsibilities. A good evidence will prevent that from happening.

Lalasticlala do the needful

computergeek:
Okay you are not only a psychotic asshole, you are also a sociopath. I guess maybe you've been rejected by a lot of women who can't stand freakshows who think they know everything but are only just haunted that now, you attack the entire gender. This is my friend's contact. She's a leading psychologist. She'll treat you for free because your case is pathetic. 08127777777

I told you to run along but you are a bad listener, I get it.

You come across as a woman child with learning disability and a severe case low of self esteem.

You can't stand the truth. Logic is alien to you. Will I join issues with a sub-adult? No! Not until you act matured and understand its concomitant responsibility.

I would tell you to run along again but you wouldn't. So stick around female. You aren't useful anywhere else anyway!

computergeek:
You are a psychotic sexist.... Google the meaning of that phrase and go get yourself into therapy.

You are a typical run-of-the-mill female. You are like them two females I referred to in my post.
Always feeling life should bend to accommodate them. Females like you have a problem with owning their sh1t. Be a responsible adult! Respect the rule of law! Respect people's intellectual properties! Respect people's privacy! BE AN ADULT. GROW UP!!

You don't need the dictionary or google to figure this out. You don't need a shrink neither. All you need to do is STOP BEING A SUB-ADULT AND BE AN ADULT WITH COMMON SENSE.

Now run along lil one!

She looks like she'll be cute naturally. Why the excess makeup.

Ladies that makeup excessively maybe trying to hide something.

News like these excite me.

These females have to learn how to act.

Toke Makinwa is next. They feel they are too diva to bother about court cases. The law isn't looking at your makeup laden faces dear.

You can't plagiarise or tarnish a person's image and hide behind your gender/makeup.

I bet when Maje's lawsuit kicks in, Toke will go to the press crying and acting like the victim. It's difficult to out-victim a woman in the court of public opinion (even with all the evidence in the world) but it's pretty easy to out-victim them in the court of law.

I'll love to see how Toke will keep her face when she comes out to the press to cry after the court orders seizure of all the copies of her book.

"100mill in the account" for Maje!

himkers2:
Akwa ibom people no get sense.. They re organizing a red carept reception for a rapist

Who did he rape?

It's Toke Makinwa's turn next.

All these females that think they are too cute (with makeup) to be bothered with court cases will soon have to wipe off those makeup with tears lotion.