₦airaland Forum

kevotek1000:
You're right... They are some overdue and over ripe ladies at there... They wouldn't settle for this kind of marriage arrangement. Kudo to the both, It's not easy.

then let the ladies finance it.....

it all depends on how you pass the message across to her

safarigirl:
Atani in Abia State

that's cool....
I so much wish if I can do a wedding like the OP posted.... but my family and their wahala
but anyway I may give it a shot...

a very small glamarous wedding with invitees less 50

safarigirl:
the bride price in my village is 25 naira, but is that all the groom brings?

awww what's the name of your village

that's cool...

safarigirl:
the bride price in my village is 25 naira, but is that all the groom brings?

no...with 30k you can do a proper traditional wedding....

for my sisters...the groom is to come with two cartoon of Malta and a crate of beer
and also some yams, 10 litres of Palm oil and also coconut like 5-10, kolanut and one hut drink

SecretSpy666:
Waoh! That will be nice. From which part of Nigeria can someone get a wife at that low expenses?

you can get from Edo....

the bride price is 24 naira while some families take 2400 naira

BARAJ92:
who were those five Nigerians that voted without choosing her.

we have some of them here too....
Nigerians barely support their own.... even though some foolishly claim to be objective and rational in their support but If one look closely he sees nothing but absolute foolishness and jealousy

Blueelf:
Even if one of them leaves, a showboater isn't the perfect solution.

Mr Blueff i never knew you know more than the European team scouts...

you seems to talk like someone who has achieved all in life...

don't you know that the lad still have so much to learn...Okocha was once like that but as he grew he learn to play much more better....under a tactical and knowledgeable coach like klopp everyone with eyes that see knows that he will improve in his end product provided he is humble enough to learn...

C. Ronaldo was not so concerned about goals then when he newly came to man United but now he had grew so much...

so Mister players grows... they learn and improve....free the young man he is not even 23 yet....

Utonwanne:
Am not against 'hyping'... I just wan people to accept the truth... Dazzul

and what's the truth....
the fact that you and few guys hold such loopsided views does not make it the truth....

you think is easy for an Africa lad to leave the shores of this country to go play abroad and as well bench European kids who have been exposed to the rudiment of soccer in well standard academics right from childhood....

you really need to think this well.... if this lads were Europeans they would have been asslicked by many of you guys who claim to herald this so called truth that look nothing but the opposite of the real facts

charlesemeka85:
do you really know the meaning of the word overrated? that should be used for the likes of okechukwu,nwakali and others not chuks.

a kid that made his snr debut in professional football and the best league in the world just last season and currently been linked with top clubs around europe. he is already rated among the best young players in the world and was nominated for the golden boy and caf young player of the year

why is there so much interest in him if he isn't good as hyped? abi u think those interested teams do not send scouts to watch him play?

some peeps think that when we say or call this players bundle of talents we are over rating them....
I doubt if they would have say otherwise had it been this players were of other nationals....

it is obvious that this lad is even underrated here.... and only rated well by top scouts in Europe and Others....

jihday:
It's because of this type of attitude we had 5 representative to vote for the female African footballer of the year, none of them voted for Asisat they all tot 'not good enough' but other Africans tot she's the best. Y'all can keep downplaying our players effort ls

thank you... it is such a shame.
sometimes I see the way RSA hype percy Tau and Tanzania hype Semantia and the way England hype their players.....
it helps boast this players confidence in a great way....

and here some Nigerians who barely know nada wanna form objectivity claiming the players are being hyped out of patriotism bla bla shouldn't be.... this are folks who simply can't apply same principles when it comes to their own selfish interest.....little reason why the country have refused to make progress because we're not patriotic enough.....beginning from our leaders to the followers....

especially Blueff his pessimism towards our players is so real and somehow makes him look like a perfectionist....

Samueltemi337:
Can't you just make your opinion know without insulting someone


Behaving childish

but you insulted him first na
he who does not want heat should not go to the kitchen....

he only replied your insult

BascoVanVeli:
U do know that they were league champions last season right.

That said, humility017 must think Enyimba management are asking jamb questions of their coaches talking about he is the most intelligent. We all know how demanding this club is, I can't say that this is a surprise

Exactly.... moreover I can make excuse for the loss in Plateau State ..let's say the weather and for the other loosing streak.

Let's me Frank sometimes this coaches deserve a tea table talk...prior you sack a coach who won you the trophy last season...I doubt aigbogun would have won them that....

Danielnino00:
U are joking..

Under him Enyimba have been reduced to mere elephants of Aba..Outside Aba they can't do sh*t! ..

I read he won the league last season

Kbs468:
Enyimba sack Abd'allah after Plateau United thrashing


Following a five-game winless run across all competitions, the People's Elephant have parted ways with the 45-year-old tactician

this Enyimba management don't just have sense....
this coach is one of the best and most intelligent in the NPFL....

Jewessgratitude:
Wait o....is this the same humility? Azin....HUMILITY? ok.

Mmmm.... Not like ive never loved any guy but I feel....mtchw... Its errrmmm...(chuckle).

Truth is, I do feel like what if it doesn't work? I'll now be regretting all I did for him which will keep breaking my heart each time I remember. So I feel, its not worth it.
If it works, fine. Then I can do anything for him. Not like I dont have a good heart o but the guy has to earn it.

Lol...it's like you know me too well..

but you see having the probable mind that what If the relationship didn't work will not help you to give your best in that relationship...somehow the best and things like this we do in a relationship go a long way to influence our partner's decision to spend the rest of their lives with us or not.

what we do in a relationship some times tells if that relationship will make headway or not...for example being in a relationship with a guy who Is stingin will make you you scared of the future and not wanting to settle down with Him.

I have been in a relationship where I gave my all even though it never works...it still doesn't change me... because the next one I will even give more...because by then I must have improved in knowledge and resources... will keep it up until I find love...want love to meet me at my best.


Dear.... love with an open mind and be willing to give your best..... it works if you're in a relationship with a responsible man..... if it does not work... move on but please make up your mind that you'll never allow anyone change you.

GeniusWannabe:
From the way he returned the watch, to the content of the message, it has everything to do with arrogance.

I agree with you...
that goes to show you the kind of guys so many ladies are in love with.

men who believes that good character is only something only women should have...forgetting that a man needs a good character too to maintain promising relationships

Jewessgratitude:
Well... I'm only reacting to the way he treated her. Like she could have used the money for something better rather than bringing this insult upon herself.

I will not lie, ive never bought a gift for a man before cos boyfriend na boyfriend, Not husband.

If I'm to buy hubby a gift, I'll look for a nice TM shirt or nice cufflinks I know he needs more of. Yes! And if oga nor like am, I wear it cos I love corporate wears a lot. Even the cuff links, I go wear am.
Boyfriend? Mbanu..

meaning you've never love any of the guy you ever dated....
because you can't love without giving

a man who cant spend on a woman while in a relationship definitely can't spend on her when married...likewise a woman

I believe you've always gotten gifts from your boyfriends... if yes do reciprocate sometimes... though I pray not for you a guy like the above who is an ingrate....

someone like me.... a woman can only humble me with gifts once a while...Such a lady I will make sure she lack nothing...
I once did that to one of my Ex. who lend me 50k sometime then... even though I declined...she insist I take it.
I make sure she never lack a dine, can empty my last cash just for her...

if you're opportuned to date a good guy please sometimes get him gifts it matters a lot...

you can't separate true financial commitment from from a premarital relationship it shows

Jewessgratitude:
Babes. Ntorrr ..
If you gave that Money to your mum to cook soup wait you, momsy too for see small change gain inside.
You now wasted on a common boyfriend who doesn't even regard you and now see the insult.

Abeg girls, this mumu should end this January. Stop behaving like men are about to go into extinction. Men yapaa. Stop being men pleasers all in the name of 'I get boyfriend'. If a guy loves you, if na pure water you give am, he'll gladly collect. Highest he'll tell you to sit on his laps and both of you will drink the pure water in love together. Dont mind NwaAmaikpe.

Collect that watch and send to your granpa in the villa and he'll pray for a good husband that by the middle of this year,youll be dancing to the altar with your loving husband.
Leave all this chingum I feel alright boys you're messing around with.

Wise up.

do you have an idea of how much the guy has spent on her...

though I am not in support of the guy's action...but you know some partners have high taste for some items...like me I love wrist watches.... I would have appreciate something like this because it is a gift by trust me to always get her X5 of whatever she gets me..

most relationships guys spend more...you can't be in a relationship and not spend money on your lover

StrongandMighty:
Which kini world War?? Small Iran no fit ignite another world War abeg. Had it been its between USA and Russia, China or even France small fear for dey, but Iran?? Nah they no fit can


But shaa I know our jobless religious extremist brothers from the North go begin nonsense protest/riot upon wetin no concern them.

they won't bother much because Iran is like an orphan in the middle east and basically theyre shitittes

Joebie:

I no just wan answer that guy.

modified
so just because we go abroad go school we should be shut out completely from coming back home to contribute to the economy.
Some of those players were actually born in Nigeria. Many others are children of immigrants who left because of the sorry state of the country. And there are also those who are biracial. Who are you to say they should not be given a chance like every other Nigerian? Anybody hold gun for your head say make u no develop your country?

Happy bday bro...

Me don tire to reply this kind mentions tbh.

I have said it wiithout numbers harnessing the players in the domestic scene shouldn't make you to accommodate those who born abroad willing to play for us....

Both should be harnessed to the advantage of the national team.....
Only a parochial mind will shut one out for the other.....

charlesemeka85:
I'm just saying we should take it easy on him

Nobody is being hard on him.....

charlesemeka85:
Am not saying u re the only who attacks him but 80% of folks in here do that on daily which is very bad.

Even when he is making sense or not he is been attacked and called out which is unfair

Please are you his lawyer
You act like the good man...the other time you said this and I took time apologize and now you've started again trying to draft what is good and bad for the thread....

Why can't you tell him to be more objective in his analysis and stop belittling Nigeria born players...

valentineuwakwe:
My First snap was that of My Lovely wife,after church this morning.....Happy New year to you all!

Your wife is beautiful sir....
Please treasure her and keep to your new year resolution never to look outside any longer ....

God will help you keep to it.
I just pray to be in your shoes someday married....that's my desire this year

Emodeee:
You did not give any other guy green light aside your husband?

I have sent you a private message will like to talk to u

minfelix:
Watching Amaju pinnick on tvc sport, u wil know that man has good intentions for Nigerian National teams esp super eagles

It's like you don't know Nigeria politicians
They always appear to have good intentions on the TV but their actions and the end results shows the contrary

Kalapizim:
na Ijaw name, likely warri south (burutu, patani) or Bayelsa

otawowie is an edo name sir.

that's my late paternal grand mother's name...
she was the daughter of late chief egharevba....

many Edos bear names

Eartquake1:
It is totally coordinated

But it will end in tears

the painful thing is that those In top positions don't love the country at all....

BARAJ92:
This your logic no be am, amount have we(Man utd) spent since winning the premier league 2013, how many player did he buy in his first season. How much did Liverpool spend and they are yet to win a single league.
Mancini and pelegrini won the league when those players were at their peak.
likewise zidane won three champions league based on the team being together for a while

so the players in man city are not at their peak

and also the players in man city like zidanne real Madrid have they not being together for a while now??
what's stopping them from winning the champions league....

klopp and pep forget all this hype are not in same level...... give klopp that Barcelona with messi at his peak then and the other Spanish players he will win the UCL and La liga.

Eartquake1:
Rohr has reported to the sports minister and the sports minister has said that Pinnick has full jurisdiction over the matter

It's now up to Rohr to accept the contract or leave it

so this is planned work

Truidstar:
On this Gernot Rohr new contract, we can only clamor and pray that the sports minister will intervene and call pinnick to order. Anybody clamoring for homebased players in this day and age is either a football agent or confusionist. Make we dey look how this drama go play out.

please can you help with the sport minister Facebook and Twitter handle.....

we have never had it this bad..... if I say now that south south are one of the most irresponsible folks when it comes to public sector management..... many will call for my head.
pinnick and Jonathan just can't let me think elsewhere....

Eartquake1:
What kind of stupid clause is this?

you see how stupid pinnick is

how I wish the sport minister can wade into this...and take up the deal himself....