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lilmax:
maybe if you were serious during the fruitful time of your life, you wouldn't have been in this situation

one thing that irritates me is unserious girls

anyways, its your burden, figure it out

cus no matter what people tell you here, whatever your minds says, you'll do

they're good lessons to learn from this though

same thing I am going through with my current girlfriend....
I love her so much and I have made plans to marry....her come next year
but she is now acting not interested...

she do tell me she can still wait for years...being that she is 25...

Christeety:
Yes I am

okay...

if we really wanna look at the meaning of rape...you will find out that most Nigeria men are rapists including the married men...
even some ladies encourage rapes...
how do ladies encourage rape?
if as a man you believe that when romancing a woman and trying to put her in the mood for sex even to the extent of fingering her...
you interpret her STOP IT PLS as STOP I LIKE IT...then you're a rapists....
most Nigeria ladies and men have a very bad sexual orientation...reason why a lady can't open up to her man especially for the first time they will be having sex that she is really in the mood for it...as a result during romance instead of her to allow the man to do his thing..... she don't often wanna appear cheap...she try say STOP IT..even deep inside her she wants him to continue...
should a man stop by heading to her words or facial look...she will see him as a green leaf....this has happened to me severally.
to be honest I don't understand Nigeria ladies at all....
they always think that expressing their sexual needs to their man for the first time means or will make the man to tame them cheap and spoilt...of which is not true.
I have had such issues... even then many guys I know had to start tell me...you really have to force a woman for the first time...then every other time will become normal
It hurts me because I can't do that...
and when you apologize to this ladies afterwards for touching them inappropriately they laugh and see you as naive.....
if we must go by that standard...any man who continues to Romance and forcing in on a woman in such circumstances is a RAPIST..and any lady that foolishly say STOP IT while in the senses she wants it...is a PARTNER TO RAPE.
RAPE IS A COMPOUND WORD that we should look into holistically

elyte89:
I agree with everything u said BT saying


Raping ur wife...u married legally, dts debatable,

Mind u,if u want to reply to my post,answer diligently within d context of our society and culture.. Thank you

lol...when did the meaning of rape now become restricted?

rape is rape...irrespective of the culture or religion involved....

a man rapes his wife...if he penetrates her or continue romancing her to put her in the mood even when he said NO... or STOP.
she is a human and not a commodity...she has feelings and emotions...

there basic things to put your wife in the mood for sex and not to start force her at night...

hoodedjaystrim:
Not here please

*Sprinkles holy water

Lol...to be honest with you...
the word RAPE is broad...
sometimes we narrow it to what we see as generally tipped to be wrong but in the true sense......
no man should go on force a woman or continue when say STOP.

R2bees:
RAPE.... Sometimes i wonder how they get fully erect doing this considering the fact that their victims would be crying, shouting and in some cases grasping for air.. WTF!! Which kind Konji be that one na

forget it bro...
most Nigeria men are rapists...
any man who forcefully have sexual intercourse with a woman be it his wife or girlfriend without her consent is a rapist...

have you continue to romance a lady and trying to finger her even when she tells you to stop? thinking she don't mean it...
then you're a rapists... rape goes beyond the normal regular meaning

safarigirl:
this makes no sense

Forget the female victims for a moment, do you know how many men weee victims of rape and sexual abuse as children? Do you know how many boys that have been defiled by one aunty, housemaid, sister, or even an uncle?

How many of these men voice out their experiences? Do you think they enjoyed being molested and touched inappropriately as little boys just because they said nothing? Do you know how many damaged men we have, walking around and looking fine, but are psychologically traumatised and don't even know it?

The first misconception people have of rape, is that only women can be victims, and this is erroneous. Men are suffering inside, they are being eaten up slowly by the trauma someone they trusted, foisted upon them when they were too little to decipher wrong from right. Do you now say, that these men enjoyed the time spent with their molesters? Did the little boys that were molested by Catholic Priests in Ireland, enjoy it? Is that why it took so long for these atrocities to come to light?


This analogy is wrong and holds no water in today's society

if we really wanna look at the meaning of rape...you will find out that most Nigeria men are rapists including the married men...
even some ladies encourage rapes...

how do ladies encourage rape?

if as a man you believe that when romancing a woman and trying to put her in the mood for sex even to the extent of fingering her...
you interpret her STOP IT PLS as STOP I LIKE IT...then you're a rapists....

most Nigeria ladies and men have a very bad sexual orientation...reason why a lady can't open up to her man especially for the first time they will be having sex that she is really in the mood for it...as a result during romance instead of her to allow the man to do his thing..... she don't often wanna appear cheap...she try say STOP IT..even deep inside her she wants him to continue...

should a man stop by heading to her words or facial look...she will see him as a green leaf....this has happened to me severally.
to be honest I don't understand Nigeria ladies at all....

they always think that expressing their sexual needs to their man for the first time means or will make the man to tame them cheap and spoilt...of which is not true.

I have had such issues... even then many guys I know had to start tell me...you really have to force a woman for the first time...then every other time will become normal
It hurts me because I can't do that...
and when you apologize to this ladies afterwards for touching them inappropriately they laugh and see you as naive.....

if we must go by that standard...any man who continues to Romance and forcing in on a woman in such circumstances is a RAPIST..and any lady that foolishly say STOP IT while in the senses she wants it...is a PARTNER TO RAPE.
RAPE IS A COMPOUND WORD that we should look into holistically

kellycute:
don't mind humility. Very Immatured fellow. Na him dey attacked me yesterday ooh but see how he dey displayed his childish sef here lol. Well he jus dey joke though

thanks bro for coming up to my defense...
i actually i never knew the words to reply him...

i am so sorry for the way i talked to u earlier...
please lets support the team regardless...

one love

darkelf:
Fews weeks to AFCON and he went to hire fitness trainer so that he can gatecrash....

Him think say Rohr no get sense. Fitness trainer he didn't hire all season

Lol...I tell you bro
I truly respect mikel so much.
him and ogu there are elders of the team.
mikel takes nonsense

elyte89:
Take am easy na

wish I was there...to beat him up.
when he missed that glorious chance against man city...he never knew that miss alone ruled him out of afcon
he denied Rohr compatriot the chance to win the EPL

emmyreelz:
lol.. someone just asked, how much is a plot of land in Ibadan. I still think that the prices above are inflated though.

it wasn't inflated oooh.
the op even reduced it...to be honest it is more than that....
I live in gwarimpa that's why I am saying this

sinisters:
Apo? Are you kidding me?
Bro 1 bed in Apo starts from 650k
Ok average.......

houses in Abuja are just too damn expensive

Barryseal:
This rumors about Kelechi trying to attack the coach and had to be restrained. Mikel also had to be restrained as he wanted to slap him. How true is this ??

hmmmm...who did mikel wanted slap pls?

if it was Nacho...mikel should be allowed to beat him up.... Shehu and ighalo should have joined him to beat the pulp out of him.

naughty boy...If it is true ooo

R2bees:
Well said bro. I just don't understand how someone would choose to support a player over his national team. Even if Nacho was my younger bro, i won't make such statement

he has no shame.... that's what you expect from a man with no reputation to protect

kellycute:
Y'all know how to use and dump people. There will be wailing and gnashing of teeth here. Averaaaaaaageeeeeeee team, averaaaaaaageeeeeeee country.

I thought you were responsible...
your words just exposed u.
you should be ashamed of yourself for a grown up adult to talk this way....

respect to Goodjoe
even though Nacho omission pains him..
he still wish the team success and kept it cool.
that omission nor pain me at all....

just that I have begin to suspect this Paul of a player.... he look tall for nothing and too slow...@yesterday's match

R2bees:
Drop this, drop that... Your Favourite player might not get a minute sef. Hope you won't start kicking when it finally happens, i believe some people are here today just because their favourite player/friend made the AFCON squad just like that Kelly guy that got himself exposed over Iheanacho's Exclusion. *Spits*.

abeg leave that guy....
I was so surprised with his statement...it makes nonsense.

this team and possibly the under 17 team come August for the under 17 world cup...are the only teams that will lighten up and make Nigerians forget their worries this year....except If Manu garba should to allow the devil use him to replicate another Aigbogun debacle....

but for now....Rohr deserve all the supports...the team make sense abeg

Eseose9:
see as you dey behave like pikin because kele was dropped.
was kelechi not at the WC when we left at the group stage?
abeg make person hear word
you are not the only kelechi's fan here

I was so surprised with his comment...
he sound as if he is the only nacho fan here...

I am so happy with this list...though I would have love to see Ajayi replace Ogu on that list....but anyway Ogu has a team bonding spirit...he acts like a big brother and don't read sad lines to him sitting on the bench...

anyway I am so happy Nacho was dropped....
next thing is for Oshimen to take over that 9 role.....

Kyrx:
I knew that Ihenacho won't make the team, Mikel Obi should have been dropped too, but I guess the coach need his experience as a "Senior man" in the team, not really for his football prowess.

The most useful additions to this team upfront is Samuel Chukwueze and Henry Onyekuru, @Chukwueze is big star and I wish him more success.

what are you saying?
did you watch the match yesterday?

you guys should stop saying trash

Christeety:
Watch, some boys will start abusing her.
Go girl, you are 100% right. You have right over your body, boyfriend or not, you need to take permission before you have sex with your babe. Be sure that you both are on the same page.

Penetration against one's wish is RAPE!!!

you make so much sense...
please are you a lady will like to talk to u

junnyjake:
Nonsense game!!!
Had to go put off my Gen.

I said it the other day...that the Falcons will be the tahiti of the group. . you guys lambasted me...
I laugh..hard..... that coach is Aigbogun in disguise....

Kog45:
I beg humility leave my bros alone o

Lollllllz

Koboko99:
I don't think that's Ikpeba....most likely Victor Ezeji

i think u are right
Ikpeba has a horrible english

Kog45:
A fit Balogun is Nigeria best defender but lack of playing time really questioned his readiness for the Afcon so normal for guys to be suspicious.

i don't care if we draw this match... from what i have seen egbon we are ready for AFCON
in egypt this team will be a beast...it will be a different ball game

Bolowolowo:
PMC - Pinnick Media Crew

Lol.. Charles and IKpeba are not serious

WHO STILL WANT LEON BALOGUN DROPPED?

these super sport commentator are high
saying the stadium was well built

I am enjoying this game..Victor offer more offensively

Icon79:
Bros, what happened to the live streaming? It reverts back to the first half. Please help!!


O pari

try facebook

Famocious:
Onauchu hasn't impressed me so far.. Looks slow and poor positioning

me too... ROHR should replace him with nacho
let's see what he has to offer

peterd53:
Line up

something tells me this ladies will be whipped

one of PAUL/NACHO should be dropped

Icon4s:
I am not enjoying the game at all. I am even enjoying the Spain vs SA game more

seriously the match has been sweet so far
especially the midfield

the stadium is the problem