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ivolt:
This is funny.
Women in poor household make more contribution to family income than richer ones.
In many cases, the man cannot shoulder the family responsibility even if he wants to.

People with unstable income and even jobless men have wives sometime multiple.
When I visit construction sites, almost all the women moving mixed cement up storey buildings are married.
You would think they would be home enjoying their comfort and security.
When I looked at the major applicants of microfinance bank loans, they are mostly married women who needed
money for business. Certainly, they must hate comfort and security.

And when we organized empowerment schemes, it is not single unmarried women that makes the bulk, it is the married
one who should be enjoying comfort and security according to you.



If this is true, marriage would not survive in modern time in poor countries
because many of this husband cannot give themselves comfort let alone extend such to another person.

You must be living in fantasy land.

Whenever we are discussing women-man relationship matter on this forum, please do note that the focus of discussion isn't the uneducated community women but the presumed educated 21st century Nigerian ladies who think they are wiser than King Solomon

Taliban should contact their terrorist brothers in Aso Rock, together with Pantami to give them a template they have been using to destroy Nigeria since 2015, which they have successfully applied in Gombe, Katsina, Borno, Plateau, Benue, Kaduna, Sokoto, etc

We need to take in some....Borno, Katsina, Sokoto, Yobe and Taraba can accommodate at least 1 million Afghan refugees.



Allahu Akbar

He didn't threaten Igbokwe.....he only said Igbokwe's relatives should be prepared because nature will reward Igbokwe with "death" for wishing Nnamdi Kanu death.



That's the summary of what he said.......please mods should edit the title. He never said he would kill or send assassins to kill Igbokwe which would qualify as threat!!


Many Nigerians have also wished Buhari a natural death because of Buhari's wickedness and bad leadership.....it doesn't mean Nigerians are threatening Buhari with death!



Go school una no gree go

purples25:
Lots of women marry broke guys by the way.

Rich people are very few around here.

A lot of women marry broke men out of no other choice or option.



And even the presumed broke guy they married, they still married him in hope that he would become financially buoyant soonest and bring all their financial fantasies to reality....and when this takes longer to achieve, they start to misbehave and disrespect the man continuously and frustrate his life


Even Zahra Buhari, President Buhari's daughter married Indimi's son because of Indimi's wealth....so stop trying to twist it....its natural for women to desire a financially buoyant man over a broke man....they only tend to act otherwise when the desired becomes scarce or unreachable or when they see that it may burn their hands later, #KissTheTurth

ivolt:
I have been seeing this lies repeated over and over again.
But marriage is more common among broke people than middle class to rich ones.
Then you wonder who is marrying who.

There is this truth many of you don't want to accept, relationship of people with unequal social status
is very rare.

Most are still marrying that presumed broke man to escape a worst family poverty....or to have a man to throw all her financial burden upon...so whether poor marry poor or rich marry rich, majority of women all over the world marry mostly for financial comfort and security before any other reason, so the earlier you and every other man out there realizes this, the better for you all

prince3009:
So what happens to going straight to the point and opening up to tell the guy the major reason why you can't be with him rather than just vaguely turning him down?

Doing that without those reasons at the emboldened will send a red flag that it could be because of his financial incapability at the time because 95% of Nigerian ladies look at the money factor first when a man approaches them.

The guys themselves sha are shameless.

I can never go back to a lady a week, month or years after she turns me down.

I see it as someone who tried to buy a Nokia java phone in 2007 sold for maybe N30,000 and it was above his purchasing power only to go back to looking for the same Nokia java phone in 2021 simply because he now earns 200k a month where there are more sophisticated Android phones that go for about N150k which to me is plain stüpidity.

Only foolish boys go back to a lady that once turned them down.


The moment a girl or lady turns you down or act up....please forget her, delete her and move on......of course with time you will look back and laugh at yourself for ever making attempt to woo her because she will be uglier than your current taste of women, and that's only if you are progressing financially yourself though.



I wonder what makes some mumu guys go back to a lady that once turned them down, for what When there are millions of dazzling super gorgeous hot ladies littered all over the world...all you need is little financial comfort and some cash to do vacations (local and foreign) and you will be amazed at the number of super beautiful ladies longing for a man like you

kalu61:
Forget the shit you spilled.

From the two examples you gave, two of the guys were turned down by you when they were nothing financially and you didn't tell us why you turned them down then. Now you are pained how they have proved to you that you shouldn't just judge a guy because of temporal brokenness.

They both asked you were you are now and you didn't tell us how you have a job or own a company.

Since both of them came back for relationship, you think they all have ulterior motive for pay bavk. One of them may be genuine and that's how you will miss out but will keep calling God in future.

She is just a woman of course....an acting-smart-black-woman who thinks she is smarter than tortoise but she doesn't know that she can fool some people some time but she cannot fool all the people all the time

purples25:
I just stopped laughing.

Something I'm used to happened today. A guy that I had politely refused last year came to me this morning. He immediately told me he has a job now. Told me the full name of the company and everything else. Then he started asking me aggressively about where I have reached in life and all that.

I chatted normally with him, I told him I was happy for him. Later, he asked if he could call me at a certain time. When I told him he could, he started saying that it was not so before, that before, my anthem was that he cannot reach me for various excuses.

I laughed, because, I now understood the whole issue. He believed it was because of money that I didn't allow him access to me anyhow. I just told him that he shouldn't worry because my phone was bad. He continued to reply in a sour tone. The funny thing is that I have no business with his money, because I am sure that none will land in my palm...so why would i be tripping because he got a job?

Another guy I rejected politely acted normal at the time. But after years he came back, asking me with full spite about my marital status and my job. Lol. He told me how he has a company now. I knew that was true because I had seen evidence of it growing and info about it in public over the years. He insisted that we should be dating now. But it couldn't happen because i knew he was just bitter, and thought that i should fall now because he has made it.

Guys, its not all about the money. Some women don't use your money to survive. Some have parents and don't really care to be bound in chains because of indomie and egg, credit, or sharwama. There are more serious issues. E.g the relationship should be going somewhere. Sometimes its tribal or religious, maybe she knows her parents wont accept you. Why would a woman smell what she won't eat, just because of your feelings?

Guys, take a chill pill.

You are only being careful not to be used and dumped knowing you once rejected them when they were broke, maybe because of bitter lessons you have learned from reading tales of guys telling their stories with ladies and those that once rejected them......you aren't being the natural you....the lady in you is just playing smart to avoid being used and dumped, doesn't mean its not about money/financial comfort for majority of women, including you writing this

abimbola74:
God knows best.

God has given you the brain to know the truth from lie and to know right from wrong.


It is glaring to the blind that Islam is a curse to the whole world.


Tell me one technological innovation or invention or solution to serious global problem Islam has preferred solution for None.


Islam only teaches its adherence hatred, dominance, intolerance, extremism, barbarism, bloodletting and massacre, discrimination and subjugation of women and all manner of inhumane acts.

damosky12:
humilitypays already responded to you aptly.


Nature teaches us to evolve and grow-up. We shouldn't remain in any ideology that's injurious to us and others, just because we were born into it. Adulthood is a period to take responsibility for what we hold on too.

Many of us were born into religions, cultures, practices, etc. that we've come to shelve today. Willingly remaining confined to the circumstances of one's birth or environment is, in itself, a choice...

Honestly it baffles me when I see young educated and supposedly enlightened youths still practicing Islam


Islam should have been abolished with the slave trade era.


If at all any human still want to practice Islam, it should be the uneducated, unexposed old people living in remote villages and huts, not 21st century youths

abimbola74:
Ever since the taliban took over at Afghanistan, I have read series of post from Nigerians saying why can’t the citizens unite and fight them up , I just smile and shake my head .
The question is , even the protest organized here in Nigeria to express our grievances against the bad government we have here , what has always been the turn out aside the “ END SARS PROTEST”. After seeing how some people were killed at the toll gate , people now rant behind their keypads saying all sorts but they wouldn’t move an inch. Cowards everywhere, if this happens in Nigeria, you guys will still shout why can’t we all unite and fight this people at the corner of your house.
2. To the Christians that always shade the prophet and almighty Allah for the stupidity of some religion bigot , you are not different from those terrorist because it started that way to for them. Why not see beyond religion because that is the root of terrorism in the world.
3. To affirm my assertion as regard calling people cowards , it’s been long that Leah has been in the captive of boko haram, have you ever heard CAN making a plan to either negotiate or take a drastic step to save her ? It is to show only the name of our religion binds us together , no genuine love anywhere.
4. Mostly, our Christian brothers are fond of shading the prophet as if he is the one leading the terrorist , please reason beyond religion . We mostly all are practicing the religion we are born into and not that we decided to select a particular religion ourselves , only few changed cos of one predicament or the other so why shading other religion when it was only by chance you are born into the religion you practice now.
Religion is the root of the problem we have in this word and all thanks to the religion leaders.

Islam is a terrible religion.



Leave Islam and become Atheist or Buddhist or even Hindu, it's far better for you. I didnt say you should join Christianity nope.


Why always Islam


How many Budhist or Hindu or Christian or Atheist countries are terrorizing the world and their people if not Muslim nations alone

All the rich and wealthy Muslims all over the world prefer to live in Christian nations like America or Europe. They send their children to study in Christian nations they love to hate while deceiving the poor wretched Muslims in.their country to uphold Islamic doctrines to the core.


Why cant Buhari go to Saudi Arabia or Qatar or Oman or Yemen or Syria to seek for medical help

Rich Muslims keep deceiving the poor Muslims with Islamic abracadabra they call religious doctrines.


That you are born a Muslim doesn't mean you must die a Muslim, change is constant, if I was born a Muslim, the moment I enter university I flee forever cos there is nothing good about Islam at all.


Go to any western or developed country in the world that's not Muslim country and identify that you are a Muslim and dress like a Muslim and watch how they run from you cos they know you are a potential trouble, a waiting terrorist now or in future or a potential father or mother of a terrorist in future.



Islam is terror, an archaic outdated bloody cult called religion that ought to have been destroyed from existing in our modern time.



Islam is one of the major causes of conflicts and wars and terrorism all over the world today.


Nigeria have wasted trillions fighting Muslim extremists, money we ought to have used to build a world class nation. same in Somali, Sudan, Ethiopia, everywhere you go.



It's a shame. Muslims should be ashamed of their religion and their barbaric lifestyle.



This terror is what Northern Muslims and their Political elites plan to enforce on the whole Nigeria through Boko Haram, Bandits and Fulani herdsmen terrorists but gullible Southern Nigerians think it's a joke, they keep playing politics with their future and future of their generations unborn

Every Muslim all over the world should be ashamed of Islam.


Islam is terror!


All the nations and communities where Islam is majority are all living in cage and terror.


Starting from Northern Nigeria to North Africa to Middle East to Far East Asia.


Yet young educated Nigerians continue to remain in this terrific religion that breeds terror and horror.



and after causing havoc they still rely on Christian nations they love to hate, what a people

[quote author=favelli post=104875658[s]]Another 100 years of recolonization is what is truly needed for this country. It's obvious we aren't mentally ready to lead ourselves yet.[/s][/quote]1,000 years

proclinician:
Boko haram is consistently and steadily infiltrating the Nigerian military. You bring a set of hardline radicalists and say they are repented boko haram fighters you must be stupid. An ideology is not something people repent from over night. As you keep on integrating them into the society and into the Nigerian military a time will come when there wil.be more boko haram ideologists in the military than normal soldiers. By that time it's game over. Ask your self this question, why is there no military resistance against Taliban as they are approaching the capital and presidential palace, the answer is there are more Taliban soldiers in the military than normal soldiers. Game over Afghanistan.

Islam is satanic.

This is the saddest truth.


Southern Nigerians and their foolish, greedy politicians should wake up before its too late.



Northern Nigeria want to bring Afghanistan and Syria to Nigeria.....those guys are Muslim extremists....wherever they are found, its bloodshed and chaos......

Jones4190:
Those saying Nigeria will soon become Afghanistan are either not truth to themselves or ignorant of present situation. Don't we remember how boko haram was all over Northern Nigeria, even in Abuja, bombing was a daily routing for boko haram, motor parks, markets, police stations, UN building were all bombed. Every Sunday, one church is bombed, when last have you had of bombing in Nigeria? Give our gallant army some credit and save yourself from hate. Why will you even wish your country to become Afghanistan? You think if Nigeria becomes Afghanistan, it will affect APC and PMB or. PDP and Atiku? The people suffering in Afghanistan today are not the politicians, politicians are not refugee in other countries, they are not in IDP camps,.. Keep Wishing Nigeria to fall in the hands od terrorists and wait to see who will be on the suffering end.

You are ignorant of what is happening behind the scene so shut your mouth and just observe.


Nobody is wishing Nigeria evil but Northern politicians and Northern Muslims don't wish Nigeria peace and unity....they want to take over.



For your info, Boko Haram changed tactics......Fulani Herdsmen and Bandits ravaging and taking over entire Northwest are all offshoot of Boko Haram okay


Now tell me which Nigerian state terrorists haven't penetrated under the guise of Fulani herdsmen


Keep wishing.....keep deceiving yourself......Northern political elites and Muslim extremists have a mission, only time will open the eyes of the dull, gullible ones like you

Newboss:
Look for that thing they said they don't like and start doing it.

The relationship will die naturally.

For me, when I'm done with a girl, I will text her very early in the morning, every day, and tell her "Come over this morning, before 12, let's fûck". If she no come before 12, I go shout for am and give some punishment. That's disgusting, I know. If her eyes doesn't clear after some days, I would start to cûm inside her mouth. Then move to fûcking her in the ass for days. No money involved.

Na she go tire, then quit the relationship. Then I go call her for days telling her that she disappointed me. That would make her feel like she won. If she comes back, I go continue the whole shît show until she quit again.

If a girl you don't like call you at night to tell you that she miss you, tell her "come over tomorrow morning before 10 let's fûck". Ask her to skip whatever plans she have for that time. Make it look like you are desperate. Girls get turned off by desperation.

Mr Lazarus please remove his name from the list of those going to heaven

I see. Buhari have already written his name in the sands of time as the most corrupt, most nepotistic, most pretentious corrupt integrity lacking, most terrorist loving and most failure defined and wicked, clueless, lifeless President to ever govern a society in history of humans.



If I were his son, even though he has pretentiously stolen billions and stashed away for me and my siblings, I will never be proud of him as my father because his hands stinks of innocent bloods which must cry for vengeance even after centuries have passed

Funke Akindele and Tiwa Savage ex husband's WhatsApp group member



The guy must be based in The US or UK, grown up man living off a woman, what a taboo

AchalugoNwa:
but but I thought Delta igbos are not igbos according to Tinubu urchins

Useless bunch of head slamming bastards

lafmaooo, just because of crude oil that is in abundance in Southeast unexplored out of political marginalization to keep Igbos economically down, they deceive some efulefu Igbos in so called politically-made Southsouth region to be denying their Igbo root, it is well

pocohantas:
[s]How many have Range Rovers?

As employee come get money pass employer.

Funke Akindele is one hardworking woman. She started from the bottom. Found love when it looked like her time has passed by Nigerian standard. I stan her[/s].

She found a loyal gold digging Gigolo

What's the difference fvcking one boyfriend you are not married to and fvcking more than 1 one guys


It's all the same fvcking sin so long as you are fvcking one guy you aren't married to, you that's fvcking one boyfriend and the others fvcking 5 guys are all same sinners, so

labelle123:
. And you think women don't want the same too?

Maybe they do but they aren't open about it like guys. If they were, they should start accepting to fvck all the guys that asks them for sex, of which most guys would accept to fvck any girl that ask them for it, unless the girl is very ugly and shapeless

The greatest fear of all men and women are:


Growing old
Sickness/Death
Poverty (every Nigerian fear this including Presidents, Governors, Senators, etc that's why they steal and loot public money with reckless abandon )

Not getting married (99% of women fear this)

illicit:
A broke guy might even be servicing the wife


The guy looks like he can't fvck

It doesn't matter. Most successful men don't usually have the time and patience to be sexing a woman for too long or to make her have orgasm. They are okay with touches and kissing and romancing of their body while they work or watch a favorite TV programme.



The reason for this is because the stress of making money and staying financially successful is very demanding mentally and sex does more with mental strength than physical strength.



If she finds happiness being sexed by some random broke guys, let her enjoy herself but responsibly without bringing shame to her rich hubby. She should do it with respect and also ensure she doesn't stop playing her wifely roles

Married couple should have sex once a week or once in two weeks to avoid killing the fun.


Frequent sexing of same person bores men especially. sometimes make yourself unavoidable for him.


As a married lady, watch your tummy and boobs.


Big tummy and saggy boobs are the main reasons married men lose sexual fire for their one time hot wifey.


If you can afford it, after giving birth go for breast lifting to bring it back to shape it's not a bad thing.



Naturally men get bored sleeping with one woman over and over. the few men that manage to stay with one woman sexually are only doing it for the sake of their religious doctrines and to please their God not because its easy for them or because their wife is beautiful or perfect in bed. No sex style or beauty or hot body can stop a man from desiring to sleep with other girls he finds appealing.


Married ladies hate to hear this sad truth but the truth must be told, blame nature not men

Beautiful.


Black race need a hero, a nation to savage the black image and give blacks a say in the global arena

Evolutionlove:
Hmmm Is alright ooo, Words are easier said than done. The way Companies & Business People Manipulates the "Less Privileged" these days Is at alarming rate. God help you, All the best.....

I understand you. Like I said, I have been a victim of poor welfare so I can't intentionally allow such to happen to my workers.



As a small business or startup that my business is, I think I am not shortchanging my staffs based on what others are paying.


Thanks for your concern and your good wishes, wishing you Godspeed in your endeavors

Obere4u:
Make I mail you baba mi.. Make you mentor your boy

Honestly I can't mentor you. I can only give free viable tips here to help you and other interested persons.


I am too busy most times to remember some things. You won't understand.


If I promise you that, I will be lying to you

Evolutionlove:
Ogbeni make I hear word abeg, To start with, Are you paying your STAFFS their real Worth and benefits? You think you are talking to your Kids and your Junior Ones here abi? Nigerians are extremely too dumb for my liking....

lol



I am one of those few Nigerian employers that believe in rewarding staff handsomely and you know why Because I was once a victim of poor staff welfare where I worked like a jerk and got paid like an ant.


I have already told my God that my desire is for my staffs to own good cars, so that when you come to my business premises, you see good cars belonging to my workers.



This I have not yet achieved because I am still growing and expanding, but once things gets to a certain level, things will change. I will have a car loan program for my workers to own their own cars and even houses. These are my desires and future goals and praying God helps me achieve them cos not by my power alone.


At the moment, I think based on my business worth and monthly revenue generated, my staffs are not being shortchanged. I do visit different business areas once in a while and sometimes I playfully find out how much workers are paid there and whenever I hear it, I feel proud of my little self.


God is my witness, I do even advice friends that also own their own businesses to try and increase their staff salary, I use mine as reference.

Obere4u:
Oga mi, show your boy way.... I wan become rich then wealthy will follow

You need to build a skill, any fast selling internet based skill, it helps a lot today.

You see e-commerce, take it serious. Though it's becoming oversaturated now, but you can still make something out of it if you devote your mind and time to research.


You can build a whatsapp TV and earn massive income on direct ads.


First thing you need is a skill, a sellable skill.


Above all, God factor is also there so you must not take it for granted.


Lastly patience is key. Riches comes with consistency which leads to mastery. Consistency happens with time. Don't be jumping from one business or skill to another.



Salary job can make you rich if you are lucky to get employed in a bluechip firm but this route is not usually that easy, so I will advice you try business, entrepreneurship, starting from skill acquisition and mastery