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This is a Mills & Boon story cooked up in the head of a jobless Nigerian youth, especially a lady, to entertain jobless Nigerians since Nigeria has refused to employ able bodied youths, gossip and telling fantasy stories online have therefore become the full job of most Nigerian youths.


Who said they cannot marry and cope shuttling between the two cities which most white expatriates at Chevron Ajah shuttle almost on a daily basis.


Before you people yan dust, I have a brother who was transferred out of his state of residence as a manager, his wife lost her job not long ago, my brother didn't tell his wife to relocate with him and their kids to his new job location....he rather makes out time to go see them for now instead of relocating them to a state he doesn't wish to bring up his kids in.


This is reality not fantasy stories told on Twitter to satisfy Nigerian ladies and their fantasy life of living in paradise till death.



In this time in the world that many people are losing their jobs.....who in his or her right senses will advice his or her partner to resign his or her job to relocate to a new state with no vision just because they want to answer married person

This is one reason I hate Twitter; fake people and fake stories full that platform, Jack Dorsey needs to do something to checkmate all these Twitter fantasy stories before serious people start avoiding that platform

Pattypatt:
I'm serving too and I know a host of other ladies that are reserved and we dont sleep around. Speak for yourself please.

can you swear by sango or Amadioha that you have never been fvcked by your fellow corpers or random guys since you started NYSC, though your NYSC period is boring and dull, maybe that could be your saving grace

Only foolish men will argue this or start defending ladies. The op is right. If you feel your woman is different then STFU and wait for time, stop defending what you dont know. Most corpers fuckup a lot...I always advice guys, don't marry an undergraduate girl or a girl going for NYSC, wait for her to finish and whatever she is then accept it, don't put yourself on a tight corner girls don't usually have sense until they have made several mistakes in their life and by then, they are done with schooling, done with NYSC and their stay at home wondering what next for them in life brings their senses back and draw some closer to God.


Undergraduate girls are for fun not for marriage; don't say you were not warned!! Guys telling you these things are the same guys fvcking these undergraduate girls and coepers for free, listen to them and learn, you are not Puyol or Sergio Ramos that must defend everything you see, learn and move on

YungMillionaire:
So wait? You and Kanu/IPOB already have it figured out. So why are you complaining to me? Why are you asking me to tell Yorubas and Hausas to let you go? If you all have it figured out then you should be calm and confident since you know your plan is gonna to work. Are you getting my point?

Kanu is creating the necessary awareness for Biafra and getting the world to know how failed a state Nigeria is and the danger it is to the peace of the world if allowed to continue the way it is. He maybe doing it the wrong way through some direct tribal slurs, but he is getting the right attention to the cause, so he might not be the one to get the key for Biafra but he is playing a vital role in creating global awareness for Biafra.


Freedom fight is not an easy stuff, it takes lots of efforts, determination and time to achieve. Nigeria will sure be a history, every reasonable person know this truth except the unrealistic people benefiting from the corrupt and destroyed system of Nigeria. But it sure has an expiry date

BrownLondon:
Can brexit stand without Brussels approval?

Even Catalonia is still dangling because Spanish forces resisted people from voting, the number of votes is very small compared to The whole population.

Why am I saying this? You can't get freedom without the approval of your parent country unless everyone wants to leave like the old Yugoslavia..... And in this case Biafra is the only group trying to leave.

if the powers that be like US become interested in getting Biafra out of Nigeria, they don't need approval of parent country. They will apply international diplomacy to force them to accept.


North Sudan never wanted South Sudan to go because of crude oil, but the moment US developed interest, they gave South Sudan freedom. Same happened to Israel.


Nigeria will sure divide, just a matter of time. You know that

YungMillionaire:
I am not Hausa or Yoruba but you Igbos want to leave Nigeria. What is stopping you? Tell your governors and politicians to start pushing for it? Why are they silent? I am just a nobody on NL, what do you expect me to do to help Igbos get their Biafra? Are you getting my point?

then stop saying what you dont understand its process, stop that nonsense talk of talk to your Governors and Senators to help you get out of Nigeria, it has never happened anywhere, it doesn't happen that way. It usually starts with secessionist movements, agitations by non partisan politicians, mostly human right activists, courageous soldiers do theirs through coup detat or civil war which is old and outdated.


Nnamdi Kanu is on course and he is making progress, though he fumbles at times. Nigeria will not last long, efforts are being made.


The Governors and Senators from the Southeast will be caught under surprise. They cannot get Biafra for Igbos. You get your independent state mostly through foreign diplomatic games and UN charter....get the right nations to your side and it is done.

In the past it was US...but their recent President have no interest in foreign politics and melding. Maybe future ones maybe like before.


Only UN can dissolve a nation not national assembly, stop listening to quack Yoruba activists and politicians trying to discourage Igbos from seeking for secession through their talk to your Governors and Senators to pass a bill, what bill

Which President will endorse and pass such bill into law

BrownLondon:
This one sef don tey for Yoruba land.

You can't get your Biafra online, take the right step.

Catalonian took the right step.
Kurdistan did same.
UK recently left EU amicably.

Buhari won flawlessly, I don't want to believe you're part of those brain dead Atiku fans that believes in Inec server.

Buhari's victory shows that Nigerian still have hope in hope, even if petrol sells for 2k per litre he will still win.


Convince your Igbo law makers to sponsor a bill.
Get UN approval to conduct referendum.
Then get approval if Leave Nigeria >Stay in Nigeria.

That's how you go about it.

You directed the message to me like I was the one holding biafra, if so Wa gba nigbanan niyen.

what do you know about freedom fighting Where in the world have you seen senators and politicians currently enjoying political office helping a nation they are serving to divide Most of you just copy what you hear and paste without thinking....secessionists are never members of parliament of any country, they are independent and concerned people. How can someone demolish a house he is enjoying free rent and free amenities Before you type think.


Catalonian leader is not a Spanish senator, he is currently seeking refuge in Germany or so, stop typing nonsense from rumors you here others type.


I and many have been to UN, EU Parliament, etc for Biafra, you don't expect Southeast Governors, senators and serving politicians enjoying the corrupt Nigerian system to make any move for Biafra freedom, it has never happened in any country.


And what do you know about BREXIT Is BREXIT same as disintegration of a nation I can now see the calibre of people commenting here, it's well

YungMillionaire:
Azikwe should have supported Awolowo's secession clause then. What Awolowo saw years before 1960...Zik and Igbos could ONLY see so many years after.

MAN PASS MAN.

I agree with you still, Awolowo pass Azikiwe by far, zik no get sense, but they are dead, will you continue to suffer the mistake of your forefathers when you can correct, or doesn't that make you a foolish person dwelling on the past even after many decades have passed

Are you enjoying the way Igbos always disgrace the great Yorubas and Hausa-Fulanis even abroad Is it not better to get rid of them by sending them away from Nigeria and join hands together with Hausa-Fulani and build a great Nigeria I think that's the best solution to this Igbo people madness and hatred of great Yorubas, or what do you think

Topsic70:
Hold ur forebears: zik, Ben nwabueze and ironsi responsible 4 ur cries!

you said Igbos are a mistake adding them to Nigeria and sincerely I agree with you.


Whatever mistake in life can be corrected so long as you are still alive.


Because your forefather was a poor hunter, must you continue as a poor hunter even after realizing that your forefather ended up poor because he chose to be a hunter


You correct it by maybe becoming a carpenter or bricklayer.


The rest of Nigeria ought to peacefully tell Igbos you can go and form your own country. At least Niger Delta will remain with Nigeria, so you guys don't need to worry about losing your beloved crude oil, or what do you think

Topsic70:
What r we saying and what is ds 1 saying?
All d deflective jargons u just posted has no correlation to what is being discussed.

Chai, d saddest day in history shd be d day lugard or whoever included u lots in Nigeria.

very correct, you are absolutely right and that is what we want to correct peacefully yet your people are attacking them, why


Human mistake can be corrected, all we need to do to correct this unfortunate union like u pointed out is peaceful dissolution to allow Igbos go their way so other Nigerians can enjoy enduring peace.

So I agree with you, Igbos were a mistake in Nigeria, and all we need to do now is to allow them leave in peace so Nigeria can become a great nation it was meant to be

Topsic70:
Which 'wound' biko?
Any one of u lots dt don't have hate and bitterness in his dna shd be crosschecked; perhaps d mum played 'away match'.

Nwanne, its in u...... continue!

if Yoruba experience an inch of the collective persecution and marginalization Igbos have experienced under Nigeria, you won't even be alive to be commenting here, but as usual, blacks are insensitive and selfish, they lack empathy, to you, all is well. But when Abiola, just Abiola was killed, Yorubas went mad, imagine if the whole Nigeria invaded Yoruba land, destroyed Lagos, Ibadan, Ado Ekiti, Oshogbo, etc and killed millions of Yorubas just because of the actions of few young Yoruba soldiers and even after that, no apology has been formally tendered and no effort to pacify the Igbos and rebuild their region, instead they are threatened and reminded of the events of 1966 to keep them shut amidst persecution.


But Yorubas rejoiced and celebrated Buhari for later announcing Abiola the winner of June 12 election, something done to say we are sorry for what happened in June 12 of 1992.

Try and put yourself in other people's shoe before you judge or conclude okay, it will take you far in life

Gandollar:
Move ahead to where nau?

We will hunt her down to the deepest holes!
Rubbish!

in fact seeing her news have further angered me and I will also use my own little influence to mobilise people to ensure she pays the full price of her stupid action as a hard lesson for others like her. Don't joke with fire, the wound is still open, Nigerians must tread with caution


Visit the link below, Igbos are chipping in millions to keep the petition on spotlight till mission is accomplished. I chipped in mine just now.


You can sign the petition here http://chng.it/PFZhdn77NR

Throwback:
What has the website got to do with the facebook group where she made her outburst to her over 1 million members?

What will she learn when Kanu and IPOB have not learnt?

You guys are confusing things here, Kanu made his mission and intention clear from the start; he is running a secessionist movement agitating for the secession and freedom of Biafra from Nigeria. And he has a style he adopted, every freedom fighter have a style they carry out their agitation, some carry arms and form anti government militia, some adopt dialogue, some use protest, some apply diplomatic negotiations, Kanu adopted his style and no Nigerian organization will make him ambassador of the organization, neither will UN or WHO do same, they know what he wants.


Is Susan a secessionist

Is RantHQ a secessionist Facebook Page or Group So why compare the two individuals running opposite movements and with entirely different goals


If Susan wanted to become an Odua Republic secessionist movement leader, she ought to have stated it from the beginning so people won't be surprised with her actions.


Imagine if Shekau of Boko Haram wakes up one day and start preaching gospel of Jesus Christ, won't his Islamic fanatic followers be shocked and worried

Try and understand the difference

adedayoa2:
search well, i just searched and its still there. But some posts deleted.
Seun should also delete some thread on NL, this place is becoming a war zone.

Seun is trying if not nairaland would have been completely destroyed, though more work needs to be done.


As for those saying Igbos are touchy or overeacting, pray your region or tribe don't witness war and persecution just because of the actions of few young soldiers, until then, you won't understand the wound Igbos are carrying about in Nigeria

BrownLondon:
I don't want to suffer from another ban I swear, I would have rain Insult on you.

What you wrote up there is a complete trash.

So Kanu has the right to Insult a whole tribe, call a whole Nigeria a zoo, threatened to burn down Nigeria, called Yorubas slaves, all because he was an audio freedom fighter.

Bigotry is when to carry out a coup targeted at other ethnic groups, they killed northern leaders even a pregnant woman... And that was the beginning of Bigotry in Nigeria.... Nigeria didn't start today.

The past will reflect in the future, good or bad..... Karma.

At least Rant HQ was lenient, she said senseless Igbos should leave while the sensible ones should stay.

The likes of Reverend Martin Luther King, Malcolm X didn't fight for black Americans freedom with hatred, they didn't call America zoo, they didn't call whites names.

Susan Ade Coker did a great Job.

You are a small boy, go and grab some sweet

Throwback:
So the summary is that your tribe constitute a terror and nuisance to others, while not willing to accept any nuisance from anyone else?

Your victim dummy has never fooled my type.

Thanks for clarifying it for others who have been fooled by you constant wailing and whimpering, when indeed you are a deadly predator.

Just remember that members of other tribes have not taken it personal with Nnamdi kanu and the many IPOB hate mongers whose identities are not also hidden.

if that's how you see it, my brother wetin concern me


But let me tell you something about Igbos and Jews; they have been victims of collective persecution in the past without any formal apology and effort to pacify them and heal their past wounds, this further created lingering hatred transferred from generation to generation which pushed Jews to be brutal on any opposition from the time they got their independent state of Israel....they crush anybody without pity when they look back at how the world remained silent and watched Hitler slaughter millions of Jews in the 1940s, same fate they suffered in Egypt. Remember humans are shaped by their experiences of past.


This same thing happened to Igbos in the 1960s, and Hausa-Fulanis and Yorubas and the Nigerian nation refused to tender formal apology to Igbos and even make effort to pacify them and revamp their damaged region, instead they give excuses of the wrongs some Igbo soldiers did as a justification for whatever they did in eastern Nigeria during the civil war, and you expect all Igbo generation to forget such horrific experience that till date other tribes mock them with it, rob it on their faces.


Even Rwanda made efforts to appease the Huttus and pacify them, but Nigeria made no effort but continued on willing exclusion of Igbos from national leadership and economic marginalization and you expect Igbos to be happy with Nigeria, how

Put yourself in Igbo people's shoe and think brother

BrownLondon:
Apology is not necessary here, Kanu said more...


Loosing a Facebook page is not the end of life, although Rant HQ is still kicking.

People from other tribes seems to have bad remarks on igbos......

hausas,Yorubas, South Africans and recently Niger Deltans.
Igbos have no friend, that's why a day old better stand a better chance to the our president than the greatest ibo politician.

When different people don't like you, then you're the problem..... Change your way.



I came in peace.

Kanu is different, Kanu is a leader of a secessionist movement, a freedom fighter who is challenging government, is RantHQ a secessionist movement fighting for Odua Republic If it was, nobody will raise alarm, but she is doing a normal social media online biz, why bring bigotry into it She doesn't have sense, she lacks sense.


People get killed because of what she did. If you like take your Igbo hatred away from Nairaland, if some crazy Igbo boys mud you, you are on your own, life will go on. You better let your Igbo rants and hatred end on faceless Nairaland if you love your life, I have talk my own, if you like listen, bigotry does not pay. Buhari has been struggling all because of bigotry.

ERockson:
So should she beg you guys even when she believes she has done nothing wrong, so that you guys can continue to beat your empty chest

she can even be assassinated for that act, don't think everybody is like you. There are Igbos who are killers, secret assassins even abroad, drug lords, same with Yorubas, Hausas, etc, and one or two of them can feel irritated by her act and take it personal and mud her, what would you say She is too small for a whole tribe.


Buhari a whole President of a nation has never enjoyed peace just because of his 5% comment about Igbos vote for him in 2015 presidential election, talk more of an ordinary social media page owner not even Mark Zuckerberg the owner of Facebook, she is too small, she should be careful cos when she thinks it's over she can be taken down anywhere.


Igbos share some similar trait with Jews....go and check how many secret assissination jews did to revenge those ridiculing Jews and the state of Israel. Don't play with everything.


Many people get away with tribal comments and stereotypes on nairaland mostly because nairaland is faceless, anonymous and filled with mostly unemployed youths who don't have the resources and financial power and will power to prosecute war or things of that nature. But on twitter, facebook, it's entirely different cos you are not faceless.


Go and ask El Rufai's wife that publicly tendered apology to Igbos how far, you never see anything sha

To cure an addiction you need to replace it with another addiction, but a lesser addiction. There are some youthful addiction he can be helped to develop passion for as a way of letting him quit the current drug addiction.


One of them is womanising or even gambling

That is also applicable to masturbation, to cure that addiction, the person need to replace it with another addiction to get their brain occupied with another exciting stuff during the time they fall back to their main addiction.

I need to be paid to continue

Nbote:
Dis one week me ooo

my brother e month me too

There are many routes to success but one sure route I myself have tested and it's working even for people I have taught it is LAW OF ATTRACTION. You can attract whatever you want into your life if you master how to apply the power of attraction, it works like magic


Also, any man who loves only extremely attractive and beautiful women usually ends up successful, I can explain if need be.

Hahahahaha Nigeria, house of comedy


Who needs any other comedy film when you have Nigerians and their comedic leaders

Dansuqi:
Sorry to say this but am very surprised. It is shocking.he doesn't look it physically.he looks innocent and like a gentleman.during his tenure,he clamped down on insecurity which odili promoted. It was only militants that gave them headache.it was during the 2016 legislative rerun that amaechi for the first time employed violence.am really surprised... Looks can really be deceiving

oh you think every cultists must look huge lol.....the deadliest cultists and thugs look very slim and in fact thin

Genset:
Stingy broke fool! User oshi.... U re whining here because of ordinary 1k and 2k. See bros no vex me this hot afternoon. Free the babe abeg. Nonsense and ingredients

I don't think he's complaining about the money he spent on her, he is worried about wasting his time and energy on a girl who is not ready for marital commitment.


My advice remains that guys looking for a wife should forget about undergraduate girls. Go for those done with their NYSC

goodman41:
I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.

One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.

I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.

When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.

After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.

After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.

I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.

Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.

Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?

if you are truly ready to settle down and marry, forget girls below 25yrs and any girl still in the university or polytechnic or college of education or nursing school. Forget them. They are only good as girlfriend and mistresses for fun. Yes it may sound harsh but that is the reality almost anywhere in the world, not just in Nigeria.


Girls start having sense from 25yrs and above, some from 27yrs above....if you want a wife, search within the age bracket of 27yrs and above, that's if you want a happy marriage devoid of girlie nonsense

paradigmshift:
Are u serious?
Just hearing that

he was a known cultists, a very radical guy. Most people ruling Nigeria are thugs, all of them, and that's why Nigeria is where it is today

fefenoble88:
Bode George he tire me pass....
Who curse this country come out make we gather beg you. We don tire for Mad people,Hmmm God abeg make the country be 50% corrupt and 50% good because right now na 120% corrupt human and -20% good. #problem

as in, the curse on Nigeria is so strong that it turns intelligent people to mad people once they join Nigerian politics.


Take a look at Prof. Osinbajo, they have messed up his brains, dude no longer knows what's right from wrong, it is well

The truth is, Buhari may have some good intentions not to steal public funds, but Buhari is very bad in decision making and his tribalistic and nepostic nature cannot allow him appoint great people with proven track records to help him make sound policies and implement them to help Nigeria become better, and worst of it all, his band of illiterates supporters keep chanting him to doom

Dansuqi:
It is wike that is notorious not amechi

you don't know nothing, keep talking

Ebenezer2O2O:
the fact that you're based in calabar south still doesn't explain how a lady is well aware of the cult slangs such as "aro" .
You must be a male or probably a female cultist cos majority of calabar south girls are into cultism, black bra, daughter's of Jezebel and the rest..
Its only those that reside in Calabar Municipality that I respect cos anyone who stays in Calabar South is an Agbero.
You shot yourself in the foot by telling me you're based in Calabar south.
You've lost my respect.

Majority of Nigerian ladies are girlfriends and mistresses to cultists and kidnappers, don't be deceived

Rotimi Amaechi should always thank his luck for escaping revenge because he was a notorious cultists too, he was really fortunate