herveze: Pls i need help about my stammering,i have been in this problem since my childhood,i have took many steps to find cure for it but unfortunately for me i cant find any cure even i google it.pls i need your help because i am going to interview on monday and i dont want to face the shame.

I feel your pain @op, am a stammarer too and I know how it feel like and I talk too fast that most people don't what I say,bt what I do are 1. I calm down when talking,I dnt look into people's face,so I wnt see the curosity in their faces..2. I try to smile than speak(I only speak when its damn so necessary) 3. Maybe during or after a fight,I dnt exchange words 4. When am at home,I pronounce difficult words myself e.g denomination,education(words more than one syllable sha) 5. If I know am too fast for comfort or I stammered all through,if my words were incoherent,I try to repeat what I say(its always better and smother the second time) 6. Do not rush to speak and be confident (like if I have an interview or a public function,I rehearse @ home....but remember @op,stammering don't go especially if you talk fast too...peace

I love my mother even she wasn't there for me all through,I cherish her cos she gave me something no one else could have given me better, LIFE and that the most precious thing I got from her...I promise to be the best mom for my boys to make up for it..I love you mom but dad u rock..u r jst d best

byvan: My kids use to take off initially once they see that weird movement beneath my clothes but they ve now come to terms with their new play buddy,i entertain them with it

I cnt laff oooo,pls upload let's see...as someone said earlier maybe u watch WWE..u nid to stop doing dat..I know the older ones wit be so eager to meet dis lovely LO...

Good evening mummies...how are you all doing? @bukky tnx so much,we are gud now...jst felt I should share what apnd to a neigbhour of mine yesterday here,we might learn one or two lessons..Around 10pm yesterday,I got a knock on my door,I was scared @ first cos hubby isn't arnd and I ddnt know who could be knocking @ dat time of d day,I opened sha and it turned out to be my pregnant neighbour,she asked me if my hubby was @ home and I said no,she said she wanted him to please go and drop him in the hospital cos she was feeling funny. Then I ask her what the problem was,her water was broken already and her husband wasn't in town,I sha ad to tell her am not familiar wit lagos road yet,luckily for me,my SIL was around,I had to drop my babies with her,it was a 20mintues drive to the hospital,lo and behold,she was already crowning when we got dia,the birthing was just too fast dat I was suprised..the main reason for me posting this here is to tell us that once you are approaching ur due date,always be @ alert,don't stay @ home alone if hubby isn't around,once u start feelin funny, and dnt feel shy to ask for help cos she could av givin birth alone if nt for quick intervention..go to the hospital..if u dnt av a car,make sure u av a friend/family who has and stays close..labour can be short sometimes..may God help us all

Honiepie24: oh dearie @ humming,u r still a brand new mum,awesome,congrats once again,n like itsmelex wud hv loved to help out bt am soooooooooo far away,bt y did ur aunt spend jus a few weeks,is she workin?dnt worry its always lik dat durin difficult times,relatives go run.God bless those cuties,may dey bring me twinnies,amen,hope dh is helpin as little as he can,cheerz dear.

,thnx,@itsmylex too,I rily apriciate it...since u wnt twins,u wil av it IJN,amen...dh has bin helpin dat m suprised cos he used to b d lazy type bt I guess fatherhood changed him for good God bless u too swit

itsmelex:

I wouldnt have said it better! Very true! Dearie, I am adding my strenght to yours oh! Wish you'r close by wouldnt mind throwing in a hand from time to time... Take care ok? This bundles of joy will always bring you joy!

***search deep down to see if the desire for twin still exist***

,pls join d twin mama's club...amen,thnx for d care

Warfibabe: trust me, if my husband doesn't feel the rope, I will definitely feel it. I dunno about others but every tym we wannadothething I will always be conscious of the IUD, and the whole feeling will definitely fly thru the window.

if I wanted to go FP,especially d IUD,what if hubby feels d rope during d act or if d rope starts comin out down below ,

Honiepie24: @humming hahaha hw young r dey currently?enjoy dem jare,in actual sense wats d most challengin period in havin a child?conception,pregnancy,labour or bringin up kids?which did u find most challenging?

dey r 6weeks plus o...for me,pregnancy was fair..labor was errmmm,painful bt short,I ddnt s cream bt my tears nearly filled bucket especialy wen a whole is inserted to check d dilation(I screamed den sha o.raisin 2kids @ d same time is rily rily stressful,especially since dey r my first issues n I ddnt really av an elderly one arnd(my aunt jst spent 3weeks) so raising dem na d koko,al dos sliples nyts,breast pain,tears in d down region..I remenbered when one of my babies inhaled water water wen I ws bathing him(he was jst 3days old den o),all my feets turned cold..motherhood isn't easy bt @ d end its all worth it

Honiepie24: hello everybodi,@jade tnx dear,d thread is movin,@hummingbird abeg employ me,i no get job,wink.kiddies aint easy,i always fink bk,my second youngest bro was so dosile,i cant remember i fin dat happened durin his baby dayz,no resident domestic staff,come in d mornin go in d evenin,bt dez dayz kids nid more dan one staff carin for dem,i dnt knw y,i cnt say its frm feedin because basically wat we where fed as babies is wat we feed our todayz kidz.well done @humming tk finz easy,lets always remember dat kidz r bundles of joy,if u dnt hv dem u feel less of a woman.

wud b glad to employ u dear but I bet after 2days,u wnt b interested again,like my aunt tod me,dem never start d ijogbon @ al,dat I shd wait til dey disorganise d whole ous,play ball in d livin room

ify's world:
my dear i understand ur position. My twins are 14mths, i resigned bc of them. Explore and accept all de help u can get. I know what i passed thru taking kia of dem ALONE. God will strenghten u. De plus is what others does in 18mths, we did in 9mths. Soon u will smile and wonder how u survived. Big hug to ur cuties.

thnx xo much dear,wen I go out n pple start saying wat lovely cuties av got,dey sincerely dnt knw wat stress I go tru,so I nid all help I can get now befor I resume work and start anoda stress too

ify's world:
my dear i understand ur position. My twins are 14mths, i resigned bc of them. Explore and accept all de help u can get. I know what i passed thru taking kia of dem ALONE. God will strenghten u. De plus is what others does in 18mths, we did in 9mths. Soon u will smile and wonder how u survived. Big hug to ur cuties.

thnx xo much dear,wen I go out n pple start saying wat lovely cuties av got,dey sincerely dnt knw wat stress I go tru,so I nid all help I can get now befor I resume work

bsoda: Hello mummies! Sorry this is coming late but I had my bouncing baby bros on monday evening. That was my EDD & he came weighing 2.9kg. Praise the Lord with me o! More details coming soon!

congratulations dear,may God be with u and ur LO

omogemi:
mama twins pls vaccinate ds babies here b4 u go abeg. As for me i ll say u get her to come down to spend tym with u. Those babies health is very delicate. U need househelp if u can afford one

thnk u very much,we have an appointment on thursday,I wil make sure dey get all d necessary vaccines...and about d travelin,since I wil b resuming work very soon,d only time I can go visiting is now,to c family members(avnt seen anyone since d wedding) and since its going to b flight to and fro,I rily dnt tink it shd b stressful for dem..and for the househelp,its a no no for hubby,though he's trying his best but its nt enough so m learnin to manage on my own

@ jade,tnx dear...hubby dsnt wnt to travel bt my dear,I nid breathing space(wish I can travel n leave dem n hubby alone) bt its nt possible again..like criously,d babies are nt givin me a hard time,I jst wnt to go home never bin dis far away frm home

All this Nigerian men sha ..am married wit kids and am stil adicted to trousers and I use my make up(nt heavy though),like I cnt do witout my lipstick,hubby met me dat way,so y shd he nw try to change it now.Whenever I reveal part of my cleavage,he jst smiles and tell me 'iwo omo yii o mope o ti marry abi'?(Dnt you know u r married) and I go bak n change it,like last week a friend came around visiting so we wanted to drop her,on our way I wanted to get some stufs in a shop and I was putting on a short nt rily a bum short though n one of his t-shirts,I got wat I wanted,when I got back into the car,he jst started laffing telling some youngs boys were starring at my backside n whistling and we all laughed over it ;Dhe only said 'oh boy,I carry eyes go market buy better tin ooo'he only tin he insists on authoritatively is my wedding ring..

@ Jade pls wen can I start changing their sleeping position and sometimes m jst too tired to sit up and fed dem,especially @ nite,can I breastfeed dem wen lieing down

Jade William:
Hello beauty.How ar d twins?&how's ur health&bp? I hope u'r better now.More grease 2ur elbow dear.Takin care of twins is not an easy job.But b4 u travel,let dem get their 6wks vaccination includin d rotavirus.Goodluck

they are fine o,was jst thinking I should go cos my aunty dat cam to do 'omugwo' has gone bk to her base so I nid someone to help me..so can't I get them anoda paeditrician dia or its nt advisable?? I rily nid a helping hand befor pesin go run craze ooo

Hello mummies,pls can I travel wit my babies nw,dey r 6weeks plus..I nid to go n visit my MIL,op dey arnt too young for me to move them(I mean d weather,water,environment)

@bvyan,party rice dey hungry me ooo ,I consume like..dos boys r suckin me dry ,the more dey suck,d more I eat,and d more I loose weight ........about the contraceptives,I think am going with the natural method(calendar,mucus and withdrawal)@ least one should work...looking @ d pro's and con's of FP,fear catch me,I no get the liver and hubby tod me if I do anytin behind I'm n it backfires,am on my own(he means it)

Jade William:
My sister;me I knw dat calender method vry well.Wen we were in courtship na dat timin thng we dey use o.I set alarm 2tel me I'm close 2ovulatin&so on.Now dat we'r married,he's now d boss.Mshww.It gets worst wen they quote dat Ephesians 5:Wives b submissive 2ur husbnd.

the calendar method dsnt rily work for me...dis Fp tins makes sm women obese(I hate big tommy)...n hubby will never condomise never,I dnt rily like it too,d lubricant irritates my skin,so now d only option is withdrawal **may God help us sha,I cnt do d coil method too cos I stil want one more kid,a girl hopefully. Plus my babies are drooling oo,what can I do?I dnt like it a bit

zinylizzy: Na wa o...which one is d best na? all of them haf side effects.

m opting for the natural method o..may God help me,I cnt face all dis risks..and if another baby comes before 3years ,wil acept it(hopefully it wnt be twins den)

itsmelex:

Amen!

thnx swit

itsmelex:


Thanks oh! In fact I relunctantly tried again today and he refused. I am really gratful to God oh and I pray I dnt experienve any pain, none at all so far. Heeyyy!!! Honie abeg take back that part of 'another bump on the way...'. walai I never ready ooo over caareful sef oh because I have chosen to do the natural birth control method (this is because I tuk over 12months befor marriage to study my body and can tell almost for sure). My boy is almst one and no goal yet, I desire he is exactly 2yrs befor another goal will take place....
***claps hands, closes eyes and prays*** Oh God please dont forget my request oh, Junior should be 2yrs old befor I get pregnant again and pls let monopause just begin after I and DH decides childbearing is over, I wouldnt want these negativ effects of contraceptives. I know You can do this for me. Thanks God. IJN. Amen

criously dis got me laffing hard really,wish I could make dis kind of prayer..m prayin too,wen my babies r 3years old,all shots before den shd be offside..I pray oh Lord..

Pls mothers,I beg you in the name of almighty God,before you go for any family planning/contraceptives,please go to the doctor(gyneocologist),hubby jst tod me d pros on cons of dis tins,infact a woman I knw,very close to me,I heard she died on wednesday,dey said she died of cervical cancer,and dey said she did al dis family planning(dnt knw ao far its true,bt behind every rumour,dias no iota of truth) m getting scared of doing dis fp tins o,cos dey said it has effects over d long run

tjskii: Hello preggyz,ow una dey hope our babyz are kicking
@humming,I feel u o,wetin my eye dey see wth my 2boys,no be small tin,it now occured to me dat,mistake no spose happen join wetin I dey go thru rite now,that was ow I carid myself for family plannin orientation yesterday,d contraceptive I settled for is one called jadelle(its an implant)they insert it into ur arm,abeg has anyone here used it before,ow did it work for u

madam Tskjii,d tot of getting preggy again makes me shiver..pls do I jst walk into the hospital n tel dem I wnt a contraceptive or family planning cos I wnt to verify mysef befor I discus wit hubby,am always very shy o..I also heard most of this contraceptives av effects over the long run...pls come to my rescue...mistake mustnt hapen oooo or else

tjskii: Hello preggyz,ow una dey hope our babyz are kicking
@humming,I feel u o,wetin my eye dey see wth my 2boys,no be small tin,it now occured to me dat,mistake no spose happen join wetin I dey go thru rite now,that was ow I carid myself for family plannin orientation yesterday,d contraceptive I settled for is one called jadelle(its an implant)they insert it into ur arm,abeg has anyone here used it before,ow did it work for u

madam Tskjii,d tot of getting preggy again makes me shiver..pls do I jst walk into the hospital n tel dem I wnt a contraceptive or family planning cos I wnt to verify mysef befor I discus wit hubby,am always very shy o..I also heard most of this contraceptives av effects over the long run...pls come to my rescue...mistake mustnt hapen oooo or else

Rukemi291:

Closed ke? Let's see if you wont be back on this thread next year.....

..I pray I disappoint u,til 2016...c u den,bt I criously hope n pray so(u can join me too)..n hubby too

beauty?:


i feel u, after twins, you reallllllllllllllllllllllllllly need a break

my dear sister a really need a very long one..my legs are closed for now o

beauty?:
@nice, how are u doing. @hummingbird, can u wrestle now?@chicolo, how are u, are u eating now?

@all, trust u are all good.

am fine now..thanks so much...miss this thread though and I have no intention of joining you soon...# Imeanit#

team humming bird jare,I sleep late at night and the alarm on my head wakes me up by 5am even if I slip by 4am but am a very deep sleeper,sometimes I dnt even hear when my babies cry @ nyt

Hello mamas or lemme say undergarduates cos me don graduate even get automatic masters (two babies no be beans o) thnx for all ur prayers and supports(@tskjii,u r really a blessing to dis thread,tnx fr al d mails ..m feeling better nw,as you all can see,have resumed my nite watch ,dey r wide awake nw. To all preggies,abeg chop wella ooo,dnt starve our LO's..pls eat and dnt watch weight,wen I ws pregnant,I craved for cold tins like lacasera,coke,sprite,wen hubby started complaning,I started taking teem,seven up n soda,thinking dos ones were bitter n managable (for my mind o). As for d zebra marks,am a bit lucky(got few ones on my butts and am using cocoa butter too n virgin strech marks removal...and for my tommy,it has reduced in such a way dat am suprised compared to d big load befor ,all I do is eat small healthy meals @ short interval other than taking one big meal..and I drink lots of water and fruits,hoping to have my flat tommy back soon and go back to my old sisi . To you all,may you all deliver complication free by God's grace..will always pop in to check on you all

Jade William:
Oh! My good frnd.Sorry dear.I hav fatigue&jointpain too.Just commenced artesunate as prescibed by dr.Sorry dear.I knw dat wen I had malaria d tym I was breastfeedin,d dr said d malaria drug was safe in breastfeedin but I don't knw abt d injections they'r givin u&d labelatol (is it an antihypertensiv drug) cos ur bp seems high.OMG.U c y I told u dat u need al d help u can get.Wit just one;I was goin dunzo.I remember stayin 5straight days without sleep.Visitors,baby,housework&so on&i shut dwn.I was seein stars.Dats wen dr placed me on valium cos I was depressed;stressed&goin mental.As 4ur question on bf whil on treatment;I knw dat wen my collegue had twins&her bp shot up,sh was admitted in d hospital&sh wasn't breastfeedin cos d dr said d bp drug slips in2 BM&might drop d baby's bp too so d babies were on SMA gold.Be expressin out d bm&discardin it 4now til u'r totally off medications or u can confirm wit ur paed&gynae though.

thnk u my dear sister..m only xpressing out d milk and throw away,(breast wey no get plenty milk befor)..and yes labetalol is used to treat high bp in pregnant n nursing mothers..d main reason m nt breastfeeding is cos of d oda drugs n injections...the only tin left nw is dis terrible cold especially in the evening, I shake like smthng else,d injection to subside d cold jst work for like 30mintues n anoda round of cold starts again,dnt knw wat else to do,any suggestion might help pls