ayandee: Hummingbird, i think u should see ur doctor immediately. Next 2weeks is a long time. He may tell u to take some tests to rule out pre-eclampsia. Also don't let d stress of wedding preparations get to u. Make use of people around u to get things done. The ceremony will turn out fine even without u being overtly involved involved in d preparatns. I was in my first trimester when i got married too. I didn't bother about organising asoebi or other things. I let my sister handle most of those things. What matters now is ur health and that of ur baby. Wishing u a happy married life in advance.

thnk you very much..about me seeing a doctor,am not in town now(came to my parent's base for the wedding) so I will go to a nearby good hospital..also about resting for the wedding,every one is making sure I rest well...all the same I will go and see a doctor tomorrow..thank you. (Plus can you tell me more about the pre-eclampsia stuff)

Hello...how are you all?I hope all our babies are kicking?I have a question to ask..I just finished my first trimester..into the early stage of the second one.I am getting married next weekend(20th & 21st of April)..of recent I have having sleepless nights(mayb due to anxiety,dunno)my husband to be thinks its natural cos of what is ahead of me...Secondly..I went out on Monday and my sister told me my feets are lightly swollen,I decided to check for muself,they are indeed swollen,two or three persons have noticed that too.Thirdly I feel weak..headache..backaches.I dnt want to get scared but have been hearing stories about that too..I will be seeing my doctor in two weeks time but before that any advice would help and I will apreciate it..thank you

uj_sizzle: @Topic,
I'll take Game of Thrones any day. Spartacus is too extreme(both visuals and words) and i can't say I've learnt anything worthwhile from it. Couldn't even go past the first season.
GOT on the other hand is quite educative, has viewers appeal, creative in the craziest way.

My favourite quote is one from the Imp to Jon Snow:
Never forget who you are, the rest of the world will not; wear it like an armour, and it can never be used to hurt you

Tyrion Lannister...I love his character...very wise man...

Game of thrones is a must watch movie...xo educating n entertaining

byvan:


Nice meeting you there!!

same here swit

byvan: Just crossed the Ist trimester hurdle,anyone there with me?

almst tru wit d first trimester tooo

Alhaja

tjskii: Agi,it is well with u IJN,we shall com and chop naming ceremony rice

amen ooo...ours wil come too by God's grace

tjskii:

Watever ure craving,take it and enjoy ,ure stil early in ur prgncy,so dnt wory too much bout wether its healthy or not

aite ma....

Hello...I have been following dis thread ever since I knew I was pregnant...I must say dis,u r all trying**am in my 11th week now...it hsnt bin easy bt all d same am njoying every bit of it...bt nw I av dis craving for maltina n farouz...I dnt ao healthy dat is...bt m stil going tru d mawnin sickness(av bin admited twice cos of dat) bt d only tin I fil lyk takin al day...I wnt to know ao much is too much for me...thnk u all

August 6th

Layun meeme in ma dialect(ondo dialect)

Dyt: End of story
Happy married life

thank you ma'am

chidyhels: am happy for you dear,am seeing a happy ending..i hope it works..be strong

thnk u ma'am...seems am getting there gradually

Idowuogbo:

U've done well!!! I'll say give him a chance...but! he has to take things slow.....no rushing no pressure.Tell him at dis fragile stage, u need a friend.Also,thoroughly explain to him the concerns u have about ur reunion, if hes fully in it dis time, he has to give u ALL not HALF.And u my dear, need to stop stressing ur poor self. i see a happy ending... goodluck baby mamma! send my naming IV o!!!

its not easy oo...cnt wait to av dat cute little angel in ma arms

Ivynwa:

All in all there is nothing like closing those legs and being very very careful with these things. We are not supporting that young women should carry pregnancy o-o when they are not married, I'm only being happy that you are getting supported and understood with your decisions over it.

I understand..and to all who it may concern...premarital sex is a no no..do not only run from it..flee from it

Ivynwa:

Girl, you have such a sweet sweet tolerant, exposed and mature father. I feel like giving him a big hug for the way he is handling things. Some other fathers would have not only chased you away and threatened to disown you, he would have broken the neck of your boyfriend as soon as he stepped into your house. Hear now, I was told how a cousin of mine threw a boy that impregnated his sister down from their two storey building. I mean their family was that unhappy, ashamed and traumatized when their sister got impregnated.
Hope all things work out for good for you. You seem like a lucky person, some other Nigerian girl will have been going thru triple hell with the pregnancy morning sickness and tribulation from family and the shame-shame look from the society. In your case your father shielded you so much that you don't even know how much our people look down on this case. Abeg make una follow support the other girl for the other thread make she no dey feel like the world is ending around her. I will refer her here to this thread to come and get educated and enlightened too.

Wait o, Hummingbird are you sure that this kind of understanding is happening in our Nigeria or are you merely painting up a story for us that will have us cooing aw-aw-aw-aw. Make I dance Azonto for my country -o-o abeg, Naija don dey sweet o like obodo oyibo and Ndi ocha people. hahahahaha

ma dad is the most caring and undastandin man in the whole universe...ma story is so real..m nt makin dis up

I left them there..I went indoor,slept,then woke up..was doing everything just to keep me busy..I want him back but I doubt his love for me..I can force a baby on him..I dnt want to let him marry me out of pity..I dnt want that..I want a genuine athmosphere of love for my baby..not one out of pity..so I made my conclusion..I really need time..I love him but this is an innocent child am about to bring forth here..he/she deserves the very best..so I sent him a text that all I need is time..nothing more....so on Monday,I woke up feeling pain all over my body..went to tje hospital with my dad(he called ma bf)he came around..the doctor gave me some drugs..and we(jst my bf n I) went home(ma dad traveled)he took me home(prepared food for me)ws suprised cos he's not the type..I ate and slept for what I thought was a few hours(twas actually 5hrs plus)..I stood up to go to the toilet and I felt faint..al I knew was that I woke up in the hospital to see him beside me..he was there(spent three days)he was there all through..even when I got admitted the second time(5days)he was there...he seems to have changed BUT AM NOT LETTING MY EMOTIONS CARRY ME AWAY...my mum,his friends,his sibling..my sister everyone are just begging on his behalf..but I just need time...hope am not making a mistake...please help me...I need more advice now like never before...thank you all

My dad greeted him(like he hsnt seen me that day)..he then asked my bf to talk to me..he didn't talk,then my dad said its best they excuse us..so they left us alone..he changed his position to sit right beside me(I cudnt help the tears flowing) he called me and I answered with a nod,he told me he was sorry that he didn't know what came over him..he knelt down..I didn't talk,later I told him if I said I didn't miss him,that's a big lie,but he had hurted me,and treated me bad..I said I needed time to think..bla bla bla...he said ok..later our parents came in,and they just told me nobody will force me to do anything(just that I should harm the baby)..

Yess...am back..thanks to all who have been posting here to advise me..thnk you all...back to business...my bf's parent and mine met on Sunday(cnt remember the date again)..they met and talk..I was indoor with my cousin until I was called into their midst..when I saw him,like seriously I felt like telling him how much I love him,how much I want to be with him,that have forgiven him..but something in me wanted to ask him why he's making me go through all this..what have I done to deserve the cruel treatment from him..I sha sat down beside him(It took me everything in me not to brekdown)..

Ivynwa: Big hugs to Nikkykay, Dyt and others that are being a great support system to this young lady. Nikkykay you are indeed a special lady with a sweet/good heart. People like you are hard to come by.

One almost wants to get angry with her on hearing her say that she already aborted three times for the fr*aking boy, that had me wondering why these young ones will just be opening their legs for young, irresponsible boys to pour in their stuffs just to make a fr*aking boy (that can't even man up to his responsibility) happy. I remember shouting in a thread telling young ladies "that these boys you all abort for will end up finding you disgusting" and that wasn't an empty talk.
Poster hummingbird ndo, you have learnt your lesson. You are very lucky to still be able to get pregnant after 3 abortions and you are even luckier to have a supportive family and find supportive friends online to chat with and educate you too. I wish you a safe carriage of your pregnancy and safe delivery.

thank you very much..have learnt my lessons here...thnks to all nairalanders..u r d best

M very sorry for not updating since...kudos to all mothers in the house...have been very sick that's why I havnt been updating...like criously,I think God is trying to teach me a lesson here,the past two weeks have not been rosy @ all,I throw up anything that goes into my stomach..even odours make wanna faint.even got hospitalized last week for 5days..to all those who have been there for me...a big thank you to you all...will update you before the day runs out...thank you all

*Maryhill convent pry school..idi ape..Ibadan. *Success kiddies university,Ondo,Ondo state. *St. Louis second school,Ondo,Ondo state. *FGGS Zaria. *Adekunle Ajasin university,Akungba Akoko,Ondo state(pre degree). *UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN...

nikkykay:
Good to knw u r having a building d bond btw u & ur mum.
Lets see hw d meeting goes ds wkend.
I wish u all d best.
Gve us updates pls

wil kip u updated...he cald me today,bt I ws slipin..saw hs 5misd cals..m nt caling I'm bk though...tnk u al fr bin dia fr me

[quote author=nikkykay][/quote]yes...plannin on movin nxt wik,I wnt to wait n c ao d meeting btwn our parents go dis wikend....lyk criously I wudnt lyk a big tommy,cos I av a smal stature,m nt tal nor fat..al d same..its gud knwing a tiny bieng is dependin on me for survival(fr fud,air,care,love n affectio)..my mum ws almst cryin wen I asked ha if I shd com ova..she cnt even bliv I said it..xo its a green lyt fr me nw..tnk u

pDude:

Nne, my liver fail me that day o. As I big and huge reach, see as water dey fall from my eyes . I tried everything I could to do macho but na one tiny 7 pounds baby fall my hand o . I couldn't believe that na my own child I dey hold for my arm. At that moment, I knew I could forfeit my life for my child if there was need for it. My dear, it is worth the entire journey.

awwww...av bin chckn ma flat tommy eva sinc if dias rily a child growin in dia...congratulations cos it takes a real man courage to acept hs responsibilities