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midnighter:
You do not seem to understand that I definitely see OP as a weakling with this behaviour he has been displaying. So you don't have any point.



Lol so if both families were made aware of the cheating she would still go and write stupid suicide notes with his name on it right?

She would still go to his sister and rub her face on the ground without saying anything when the sister knows she is a cheater. Ewo!

She is actually winning because neither of the two families know about her shame. He just made himself look like a time-waster which I'm sure the girl is thanking her stars for.

Unseroiusness begets unseroiusness...you are all welcome to keep praising each other smh

at 3.45pm, you are still replying everybody on this issue. Is it by force to accept your point? I have never seen a female nairalander act this way. Like, WTF?

lomprico:
lol

am 100% sure there was no sensitization towards it. the Nigerians I know no dey take ear hear the word 'free'

You got that right. how many people hear am. They didn't televised it, no radio announcement etc.

chudidonas:
Thanks but I am buy from a French company, so it will be shipped from France

Have you paid for it and are you buying brand new?

midnighter:
As immature as the OP. What a surprise

Immature cos he didn't react? Kee yaaa seeeeeffffff. U can join the stupid girl in her grave if you wish.

midnighter:
Well apparently, you cant. You cant see through anything! Thats why youre still here talking nonsense.

E pain her o. Kee ya sef.

chudidonas:
Hello guys, I intend to ship these phones (Samsung S10 and Asus Zenfone) from France to Nigeria and going through FedEx or DHL will cost alot of money. Please, is there any reliable third party shipping agent I can use to get cheaper services. Please I need your opinion on this as I have a decision to make in the next 24 hours. Thank you

get same phone US and use mikkyangel (he blocked me on WhatsApp but doesn't stop me from recommending him) to ship to Nigeria.

midnighter:
Its actually you who is wrongly representing the male species here. You cant read or what?

I clearly wrote that this was not about emotions, yet youre still harping on about showing signs of emotion.

I clearly told him to get rid of her for good instead of extending the mess, youre talking about sucking pússy. Now that the woman is writing him in suicide notes, you people feel good right? Hes sucking her pússy already, if you dont know!

You cant handle another persons argument so you just start making things up to console yourself.

Luckily I know that not every man reasons as badly as you do.

Dont annoy who? You Mtchew

You are just wasting your time disgracing yourself even more.

People can see through charades

rs172:
Leave them, what they wanted was the o.p to lay his hands on the girl before or to come seek advice on nairaland asking 'i am confused my girlfriend did this to me what should i do or Please advice me should i accept my ex back' but it never went that way, the girl should be thanking GOD the o.p isn't mean she for don turn him sexual pleasure.

Very terrible thing. They always want you to react and make u feel guilty. It is why they do most of the foolish things that they do so that they can accuse you of being too emotional and childish because you reacted.

johnmartus:
World bank and IMF should keep off from Nigeria.

same. World Bank that ur stupid president goes to meet for loan abi

Lagosians should carry their cross.

midnighter:
No need to engage him, he is a total failure

who is a total failure?

midnighter:
You keep trying to make it about me so that you can undermine me and score cheap points, but you can't answer anything that I wrote.

Why do you bother quoting me if you're going to keep speaking besides the point

I have made no mention of showing emotions here.

She did her own he did his own yet he's the one opening a topic about it and being dragged down to the police station early on a Saturday morning. Does that sound like a victory to you?

He didn't hold her, she held him...that was my point. She couldn't have done that if he didn't allow her.

The whole thing was extremely childish and totally pointless! He messed up

Good night sir

Childish and pointless? So you expect him to go suck her puzzy or start yelling?

See, don't annoy someone please.

Dude has done the best by not showing any sign of emotions and that is the best.

I tire for your matter o.

Most times you ladies always make it seems like women are stupid but I am glad that a few are sane and has values.

midnighter:
Thank you for your advice, in fact I'm smiling replying these and don't have an issue with my temperament but as you can see, some of the people in this thread are quite irritating to talk to.

you women don't always accept you are wrong. You don't any problem with your temperament but your vibe says otherwise and every discerning minds can easily see through you.

EmptyCoconutHead:
shut up. you talk too much.

she is even more emotional than the guy who should be. Should we conclude she is privy to what happened as in a friend to the girl in question or something?

Her reaction is surprising me to be honest. I am suspecting she is linked one way or the other.

midnighter:
It was a rhetorical question. I mean what is the essence of his being there? Why are they all there in the first place?

She wouldn't have tried all that if all if this was out in the open. Because he didn't air the issue on time is why she had the guts to spoil his name everywhere

He would rather act out some Zee World melodrama with poison and police station than get her issue and let her go

Lol. Ur anger is that dude didn't show any sign of emotions.

Keep waiting for that while he has made up his mind already. I didn't see where he used chain to tie her down that would require him to "let her go"

She did her own and he did his own... What's there to talk about?

If any guy is reading this, I am sure they have learned the best way to deal with women is to give them the silent treatment.

Have a nice night ma'am

midnighter:
Yes, we know she is a terrible person. That's why he should have gotten it out of her and freed himself instead of all this charade about suicide and hospital.

Tell me, what exactly is he doing in that hospital? With the woman who cheated on him

They sent for him and that is why he went there. Can't you see that the guy does not even care if she had died?

healthserve:
Very funny thought line.

she is trying too hard to make the OP feel guilty. The OP kind are rare kind... the cold no nonsense kind of guy. Trust me, the biiitch dey fear the guy right now... as in, she didn't see this coming. na just guilt dey kill her where she dey.

healthserve:
Very funny thought line.

I know their type. Next year na my own una go read. just chill bro...

midnighter:
Exactly what I've been trying to tell you people!

The girl said he did something and instead of him to go and find out what it is he's here discussing with hundreds of people who don't even know them!

How can you say you "don't remember" whether you did something or not How can you know if you have offended somebody unless the person tells you?

Of course he would say he doesn't remember, human beings naturally like to paint themselves in a good light and forget their shortcomings.

He did something? so she can not tell him but expect him to read minds and for same reason chose to go fork another dick.

Clap for yourself.

rs172:
Kii yourseff

Bro, I tire for the babe o. As in, the thing dey oain her say OP no react. I have done this same ish before. See, if you wan kill any girl... no react. no show sign of any pain... just treat the whole thing like way the OP treat am. Silence kills women fatally than words.

midnighter:
This has nothing to do with being nice or generous.

If he had confronted her and reported her to their family members in the first place he wouldn't be wasting his time visiting her in hospital.

The woman has been whining him with stupid behaviours since he caught her with that guy and he just allowed her continue until the whole thing ended with him and her father in the police station. Is it not the biggest pile of rubbish you have ever heard of

How can the stupid girl show up at your sisters house without informing you after clubbing all night with a strange man and you have nothing to say about it

He couldn't even answer the sister who has been buying clothes for her since, as her baby in-law. Very soon he will bring a new girl without even explaining WTF happened to this one. So his sister should keep buying clothes every time you change girls with any explanation right

No serious person behaves like that. He was just being dramatic to entertain himself and you people giving him morale, simple!

The issue is the kind of energy you are expending on this issue. Why are you taking it a bit personal? You are not the girl, you are not the guy. Dude has made it clear that is not willing to give any emotional extension to this issue and you do not seem to be happy about because you want him. He has chosen to be cold towards her.

This tactics works well on women. I have done it before... silent and without words.

See, if I were in his shoes, I may not even move. Let the family prove I killed her in cour or whether I forced the poison into her. I bet she never expected the guy to be this cold and it is getting to her real GOOD. She can die if she so pleased. The world will be a better place without her kind.

Respect55:
Let me post here also for the very last time. I know the mod will ban me afterwards but I just chose to keep you all in the know. This will be the last time surely.


The end of a thing is actually the beginning of another. I thought I had gotten over all these issue with my ex only to find out she kept to her words.

I got a call from her mom wound 5pm today that I should as a matter of urgency, come to their house. I said OK. I took some few minutes to take somethings in and lock up where I hustle. I got there only to be told my ex attempted suicide by drinking a poisonous substance. To them, all thanks to the immediate younger sis who rushed to her soon to see her writing in pains. A call was put across to the dad who left his office at Lagos brokiri here in portharcourt, rushed down and took her to the new mile one hospital where it was confirmed she was poisoned.
She left a note where she stated I should be held accountable for her death with my phone number. That was how I was invited. (I used to talk to her my before but never with her dad).
The dad told me that I should reserve whatever I have to say to the police tomorrow because the matter has been reported accordingly at mile one police station.
I have contacted my people here in portharcourt too. Please if u are here in portharcourt and a lawyer, follow me let's talk privately. Treat as urgent.

PS: I won't reply to comments again. I'm been tested.

You be man... AS IN YOU BE REAL MAN OF STEEL!.

midnighter:
On the contrary, I cannot and will not ever crush on somebody who does not know how to handle a problem.

Such is too important a quality for my potential spouse to lack.

how does he not know how to handle a problem? See, the OP may have not stated this but I am sure that for him to have reacted this way, he had experienced something similar previously.

I can tell you for a fact that there are some of us who are extremely kind and generous but if a girl abuse whatever privilege we give or take us for granted, I can assure we would not even care if she died.

Sultan5:
Correction, clean closure isn't the way, it is your way. But there are merits to your argument granted. But to insinuate that your way is the only way just sounds off to me.

Not everyone one wants clean closure. And surprise surprise not everyone needs it. There are times you've just had enough and don't really care why they did what they did. As in they have broken a trust so strong and real that it has utterly diminished their importance and reasoning.

You can't toy with people's heart upandan. There's a breaking point where it's just doesn't matter what you have to say. As no excuse no matter how big is enough to absolve you of your misconduct.

Everyone must not react the way you want them to. Just because they don't, doesn't in anyway make them any less right. While you crave closure, the op doesn't care for it as his mind is made up. Learn to step out of your own point of view and try understanding others point of view. You don't have the monopoly as to the right way to do things.

No one could have predicted what she did. And you don't know how it would have played out if he had gone for closure. Knowing the op will refused to take her back. She could have come with poison to threaten him. Claiming to take her own life if he doesn't take her back. Am sure the op wouldn't take her back. Causing her to carry out her threat exposing the op more to legal action than he currently is.

There are many right ways to climb a mountain. But there are mountains that will push the boundaries of your skills. Doesn't mean your strategy is wrong. Just means you're on a challenging mountain.

You shouldn't expect anything less from a fellow female on a thread like this. They have a way of trying to tilt things in their favour. I had accept they are wrong, If the OP had reacted irrationally, the stupid girl will play tactical maneuver by trying to blame him and also make him feel guilty.

If you read previous post, the OP hinted that the girl had commented on this thread and I saw her following the thread even after 2 days of making an initial post. Her words were that the OP didn't do something and that is what resulted to the outcome, to which OP stated that the only thing he remembers not doing is not FORKING the bittch.

All NOTICE that the number girls that commented on this thread are not even up to 10 because virtually all of them are guilty.

I love the way he really handled this, to be honest.

MetaPhysical:
West pioneered developments in Nigeria. We dont boast....we just prove the point.

Which other region in Nigeria can match West? West taught East religion and cathechism. West standardized and taught your alphabets to you.

These two alone is proof we opened your eyes to education and how to read and write your own language. Dispute with Bishop Ajayi Crowther if you disagree. He lives in google if you want to know.

LIES!

majamajic:
this country

they know how to set laws for the masses meanwhile , they can't cover their own end


no basic amenities !!

The stupid masses should carry their cross mbok.

Ishilove:
I have made a vow never to loan people money because everyone I have ever loaned never paid me back. Humans beings are a unique bunch.

I loan if what I can afford to loss and loan if I know your financial standings.

Respect55:
How do u mean?

the way you handled it is the best way to deal with women...

No emotions, no complaints, no fighting... Just cold composure.

She will eventually come back to beg you.

Respect55:
U have done well. Thanks for the time. Sincerely I don't bear grudges. I don't hate her. I'm not even happy that all our efforts have gone down the gallows. But you see, I have learnt to accept the things I can't change. It's not about me, it's about my heart. My heart is no longer there. This thing called love is one funny thing. You can imagine a situation whereby the person you used to look forward to seeing makes your mood bad at present. It's not my fault

I still went with her people this afternoon to see her. I asked how she was doing she said fine then turned her face to the wall. I didn't say anything again.

I have no ill feelings whatsoever towards her. The love isn't just there anymore. It comes naturally.

You killed that girl...

SLIDEwaxie:
You no go Italy go learn shoemaking, na China you come go.

U sha wan improve on the overall fakeness.

What kind double-wahala be this sef?

The phone you used to type this nonsense is made in China. The Iphone your friend uses is made in China... Your laptop is made in China. over 80% of appliances and electrical fittings in your house are made in China. China is the factory of the world... but your dumb skull does not know this.

dawnomike:
Please where is your location and how can you be contacted?

Mine is 0.7.0.6.8.8.0.1.4.2.7

Are you based in Lagos?

Hello,

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We need someone who can make custom shoes in bulk. Image attached for reference. specifically for kids between 4-15 years of age.

Kindly indicate.