₦airaland Forum

Tetehjewels:
They say Buhari is incompetent but everyday he keeps doing things PDP never did and could never do in their entire 16yrs of failed leadership.

He is showing through action that he is competent.

For the first time in decades the Eastern ports are coming alive with vessels

yeah, for infrastructure, the man is trying.

Though I am not his fan due to state of the country but I have to admit that his Lagos Ibadan Railway project opened an indirect door of multimillions for me...

cyprus000:
yea, tho not in the concupiscent form enshrined as norm.
In all probity, my disposition to them can be aptly deemed infinitesimal, but I'm of the opine that it's transient, and galz with the aforementioned mentality, can never be the once I'll have anything with. I'd rather die single.

simple as ABC according to my mom

" I am of the opinion" not I am of the opine

It's ones and not once.

You should learn how to use one word after another. Being verbose does not mean you should mix words that shouldn't go together in a sentence.

I thought your kind had left Nigeria. I am sure the Englishman would be laughing at your use of words. Too many clashes, bro. Tone it down.

chris31:
During secondary school days i thought that the love i read in the novels & watches in Nollywood exist in Nigeria
The way my eyes take clear i no even no
Most naija girls are very greedy & cunny so i have find the best format to deal with them now
I can't not come & kill myself

na d same school me and u go

Hahaha hahaha good.

Stupid woman should go sit her ass somewhere please. double face imp

Respect55:
You will be alright.
But for your information, I have many fictitious stories in my system but I direct them to where they should be directed and not here on Nairaland. All my threads here are realities about me if u have checked well.
Of what use is it to me to lie unnecessarily? I have better things to do.

You opined that my motive is to market my wares, I just pity u. I'm not struggling bro. If you reside here in portharcourt, you can take a stroll to my shop and see things for yourself. I'm also engaged in so many other things that yield income.

Learn how to post responsibly or walk over when u aren't sure of your instinct.
Say what you know. He family don't speak English? Tell me more. That's the only language they speak even in their house whenever I visited. Take that for real.
The police case had to end that way because there is actually no case against me. The police might have told the dad that at my absence. Were you expecting the case to drag on on which ground precisely?

Any way, continue thinking.

Learn how to identify a troll and never feed them. You should have ignored that dude.

Respect55:
Good to know u still had the guts to give it a try one after the other. More commendable is the fact that such didn't change your perception about girls and relationships. I won't lie to you, it changed mine totally. Maybe I was broken to the root. Maybe Maybe my heart was shattered and my feelings flew far away.
As a matter of fact, when I see people now talking about their relationship or the likes, I seem to pity them. There is this mindset recorded in my memory that something bad will always happen in a relationship.
I really need to see a psychologist

Lol..it will pass

I know that feeling bro. we all have been there. There was a time i hated women... as in, serious HATRED, including those that I had no history with.

jconsulting:
Someone said something will happen the day Sowore is released, and true true Kalu Orji sentence to Prison

Kingspin:
Something is fishy

very well. There is something we do not know. It's a game.

chudidonas:
Hello guys, I intend to ship these phones (Samsung S10 and Asus Zenfone) from France to Nigeria and going through FedEx or DHL will cost alot of money. Please, is there any reliable third party shipping agent I can use to get cheaper services. Please I need your opinion on this as I have a decision to make in the next 24 hours. Thank you

Check this guy's and call them.

https://www.valuehandlers.com/ship-to-nigeria-from-france

dannybrasky:
Reason he called o.p back when o.p was leaving because he was surprised o.p didn't react, and then introduced o.p's girl as his own girlfriend. The guy too sharp

Well, I did that one time. I collected the guys number, called him and asked questions and dude answered me well until he suspected I was doing some detective work.

Omo, all these girls way no pure. No b today dem dey do men strong thing.

shadeyinka:
Very funny!

But please be careful of words as it could bounce back against you several years down line.

Basketmouth is a good case!
Peace

lol. I was kidding

paix:
Thank God you've never been in a desperate situation. It's a terrible experience. Especially if you're a father, your children are hungry and you've nothing to give them.

I understand you. I have been on both sides but my rule is "never ridicule another man with money or food"

One thing you will never find me do is look down on anybody.

We can do better.

You can still give these women all the money and they will not stay. A friend burnt what could be worth 60M today cos of woman and she still didn't stay.

Even the girl I am currently dating, I am being careful about money cos there is a kind of affection you give to women and they will abuse it.

Getting married to financial stability is not bad but don't make it seems that is all you care about cos the man can be in financial de-stress tomorrow and because she never cared about any other thing, she will not stay. That is when her true colours will come out.

It's a very sensitive issue in my book.

frankike1:
@respect 55
i think now i have clear picture of what happened that day u met her.
she was hoping she has found a better guy.
And the guy has disappointed her, now she want to come back.

This girl acted wickedly.
she would have even break your heart if that guy accept to marry her
The wicked shall not go unpunished.

some. People were suspecting she staged it but I think the other found out she had a relationship with this OP and created a scene to expos her and kick her out after forking her. The other guy knew about it.

Korllami007:
At bolded.
It's even worse in the case of op. The man she's claiming that she loves; another guy introduced her as his girlfriend in the presence of her lover, but she acted as if nothing happened and went to club with the guy, slept over in his place. Abeg, which kain love be that? If she truly loves him, conscience won't let her spend another minute with the other guy. What I see here is that she has already seen op has a weakling in which op is far from it. She believed whatever happened, she would still find her way back to op's heart but op na Mr. No nonsense.

Your last paragraph is what I will suggest for op to do.

I said it last time that she did what she did cos she had no idea that there is another part or side of the OP she had never seen.

I once kept silent for a girl when she tried to ridicule me. For 3 months, I never replied any of her words till she picked the phone and called.

Then she did another one. At this point, I knew if I don't react this girl will think I am too gentle and I gave a her piece of my mind.

The day she called me psycho was the happiest day in all of this...at least I knew I sent a clear message. she thought I was too gentle and she found it pleasing to keep messing me up and feel good about herself.

I am extreme of both worlds... I can be extremely loving and I can be extremely razz.

In my street, a man I always greeted "sir sir" didn't believe his eyes when I went haywire on his ass. They reported me to the chairman of my area and it took my brothers words to stop me from reacting even more.

I generally calm but if you step on toes, be ready for retaliation.

OP, may God bless you more. Just relax. It will soon pass.

shadeyinka:
It's so unfortunate no one can be trusted now. I was scammed by a Pastor of my first two plots of land.

The police will only favour the biggest client with money to spend.

You can report him to NBA or look for a SAN to speak to him on your behalf

If police can't help. I will personally kidnap him until that money comes out. I will collect interest on it.

Kylexy21:
please report this matter to any human right organization...... don't u know uncles are very wicked!!!! u made a mistake ... secondly buying of lands require so much enquiries.... land dispute has sent many to grave.

I am currently involved in one land acquisition at the moment. We are talking about land acquisition that will run into 1k acres if all goes well but the first one we found, the man that took us to the place has been pressuring us to bring the buyer to come and pay... I told my friend to tell him not to disturb us cos if any problem come now, he won't be there solve the problem.

He is after what he will eat without considering problems that will come up later.

paix:
When someone is in a desperate situation, they lose their sense of reasoning.

ok

Gracejeri:
I pretended I was studying for the law in the university, when I've not gotten admission, later when I got admission {hir} and tried changing course back to law and it didn't work... I called him on phone one day to tell him the truth,and he straight away told me we are no longer lovers that I should see him as mere friend... I felt so bad.. Cos he knew I loved him so much.. Even uptill now.. But what can I do... I'm not going to beg him again... I was sincere to him and he hated that...

how can you say u were sincere when u lied? May b he was looking for a way to break up with you and you gave him just that

Indispensable85:
The world is indeed a very funny place.My girl doesn't like being fvckd hard.She'll always tell me to go gently, thats d way she enjoys it.I went hard with her sometime last month that was the last time I saw her till now.I've been begging her since then to forgive me.Thank God she finally promised to come around next week.

She may have been raped

paix:
My friend, you're a little bit too harsh on her. Women want comfort, would you want her to experience what her mother experienced? She wanted to break the circle of poverty in their family.

Its not the best way to go about. My sister is married to filthy wealthy dude but telling a man you can't date or marry him cos he has no money is really shallow.

If the guy is not making any effort, that is a different ball game.

But if you as a lady don't even have 100k in your bank account and feel you can ridicule a man with such, the joke is on you.

Let's assume she eventually gets a man who has money, she will be completely dependent on him for everything.

There is nothing like a man making effort and woman is also making effort in her strides and together they are building. But no... These ones just want someone's son to go make all the money and come marry them, after marrying them, he foots all the bills day in day out. What happens when the man loses his job or source of income?

Some men have money but have toxic attitude.

There is nothing wrong about desiring someone with financial muscle but the way most of these girls go about is makes it wrong.

I have made money and I have lost money. In May I lost nothing less than 500k due to mistakes from my end. Half of that was for charity though but I made effort to make back the money.

Though, that guy shouldn't have made reference to her dad and just cos her dad didn't have is not a reason why He shouldn't have.

ojibole:
She said she wanted to get married but I wasn't ready. 2years later I'm married and she's still single

lol. Inside life.

Hamzaay:
I just got a break-up message from my gf rn

If what I see there is anything to go buy, u are the one that must have done something wrong and she got fed to move on.

Divinelady:
True cos at the beginning of the year, I asked him about his plans for the new year, guess what he said" it's only a dead man that doesn't have plans" He didn't tell me anything after that and trust me I didn't ask.

don't worry, the right one will come.

Divinelady:
After 4 years , dude said he had trust issues...he was trained by his father not to trust women.He also said even if he gives me the whole world I won't be satisfied.....After telling his friends that I don't like demanding and the idiots told him I'll be over demanding after marriage..

Dude was never ready. He had no plans for you both.

Cuccitini:
She say am not the kinda of guy she need in her life that am too gentle nd linear that she need a man she would fear and b intimidate her. behold she is now dating Mayweather jr

na so Dia life be. It's how they are wired. Treat them like crap and they will stuck, treat them nicely and they will leave.

Lindaa97:
We never got to the main stage of the relationship b4 baba tell me say if he would end up marrying me he must love me less, that he loves me too much.
I was like are you making sense at all??

He has point, though it sound silly. Women generally loss interest in a guy that gives too much.

AnanseK:
So you want to do the same, abi?

abeg swerve. US has destroyed many lives than any country in the world.

AnanseK:
Your problem is morality and respect for the right of others. As long as we don’t have the conscience about what is right and what is wrong we shall continue to live like animals.

Your president does not obey court orders and he still there but u are here talking about morality.

Fork you all.

This case is not Nigeria's but see EFCC wagging their tail in excitement while other thieves walk free.

Until we start a balance judiciary system, not placing or above the other, none of us have any right to call the other immoral.

WackyJ1:
To be honest Midnighter is a very confused girl and it has become apparent to every single male here.

I engaged her and educated her and she gave up in a matter of speaking.
See here: https://www.nairaland.com/5547427/broke-up-double-dating-girlfriend/24#84396493

I thought it had ended there only to come and see that she is still making threads here.

It is clear. She is doesn't like the OP for ignoring the girl.
She always ends up blaming the op for the actions of the girl.

She has blamed him for the girl cheating on him.





She has also blamed him for the girl drinking poison and attempting to kill herself.
It's funny because she acknowledges that the girl is stupid and manipulative but somehow ends those posts where she acknowledges the foolishness and manipulative nature of the girl by blaming the guy for not seeking her definition of closure.

See an example here:


She also makes my point here about being unhappy that the OP is ignoring the girl. She has called the action of the OP ignoring the girl Childish and Infantile. She has called it Cheap Revenge.



A man was cheated on. He decides to ignore the girl and move on with his life quietly. Yet, his action which brings no harm to anyone is being called Cheap Revenge. Are we not seeing that there is an agenda here?

The same person has alluded that there is a possibility that his actions might have pushed the girl to cheat on him.

If any of you have seen a comment where Midnighter held the girl responsible or accountable for her own actions post it here.
But she wants the OP to go and talk to her to Hold her accountable in the name of closure




A man was on his own facing his life and his hustle, nursing a broken heart from a cheating girlfriend. The girl is on her own deciding to cause commotion and confusion and yet, He is the one getting himself into more trouble.

See more evidence here.


Once again she is blaming the OP for the girl's actions.



She wants him to cut her off. He did that


In the presence of his sister no less. Yet Midnighter still blames him for her subsequent actions.
How can she be suggesting that he cut her off and yet she still wants him to go and meet her for closure?

See this midnighter babe is mad confused.

She has an agenda and she blames the respect55 for every single thing that has happened. She wants to influence him to take her course of action and she is covering up her attempt at manipulation under the guise of Logical thinking and seeking closure.

Once again here she is blaming Respect55 for the girl's infidelity


Go and find out is different from the cut her off she was suggesting earlier. So which is it?

Once more. More blame for the OP


The challenge is still open. Find me a post where Midnighter held the girl herself accountable for her actions. I'll wait.


She wants the OP to follow her suggestion and she is very sure that her suggestion would have prevented the whole thing. When it comes her way, she is completely sure of the girls actions.



But how can she be so sure that the girl won't continue the manipulation or still go ahead to drink poison when she sees that the OP is refusing to change his stand, when she has admitted the following before




Someone even replied her and told her that


Even repeated what I said above


Guess what. She never replied him.

See at this point, it should become clear to everyone that there is no Logic and reasoning here from Midnighter.
Only an agenda and an attempt to coerce and shame the OP into taking responsibility for actions that are not his and to do something that is not in line with his values.

dannybrasky
I888
Korllami007
tejiri4
rs172
jamesfadairo

She just want to the OP to feel guilty and nothing else.

Manipulative girls generally have that trait.

Ebubeslym:
I just tire for the kind talk flowing frm that handle.

make una leave that stupid girl jare.

midnighter:
Somebody quoted me and I answered, does it bother you sweetheart?

Just give mummy her phone back okay? Maybe you should go and take your siesta so you can wake up later and understand what a total idiot and dunderhead you really are

Because I disagreed with you and you couldn't answer my point you're taking offence when I reply to another person. You must be a child.

Our conversation ended how many hours ago, I haven't quoted you again but you still somehow found your way back into my mentions. What a fool! I guess you must be craving my attention.

It's 5.07pm and you're still following me around this thread like a dying mosquito, quoting me from nowhere since yesterday bloody idiot

U must really think I am a gentle man... if i start now, na u go run, as in, i so go down gutter with you until you leave this thread for good...