Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,164,300 members, 7,857,174 topics. Date: Tuesday, 11 June 2024 at 01:01 PM

Iamblessed85's Posts

Nairaland Forum / Iamblessed85's Profile / Iamblessed85's Posts

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (of 7 pages)

Romance / Re: Aside Sex, Is There Anything Else You Guys Do In A Relationship? by Iamblessed85: 7:23pm On Dec 29, 2023
CandidAdmin:
The question is for those in a relationship

What else do you do aside knacking up and down?

Mynd44
Nlfpmod

Lol if you’re like me then the sex becomes a chore with time. There’s really not much to do but thing is, there’s an innate void nature has put in men and women to desire each other. Nothing else fills this void and it’s usually amplified with age. When younger, you think you dont need the opposite sex but as you hit your 30’s to mid 30’s, you start to feel funny and lonely even with your millions.

You don’t have to do anything per se. Most times, being with each other is enough even without speaking.

It’s all energy and they carry the opposite of the ions which we carry, hence their soothing presence

2 Likes 1 Share

Romance / Re: Do You Need An E-friend To Pour Your Troubles On? by Iamblessed85: 8:30pm On Dec 28, 2023
TimiRume:
cool

I hope no one is stupid enough to subscribe to this. This is just a prostitute disguising online.

1. You’re not even a professional councellor. If you are, show me your certs.
2. You abuse the word “friend”. No friend will ask you to pay for such a service.
3. I’m guessing you’re not without your own problems? How would you feel if someone charges you to pour your heart out to them?
4. You have the audacity to say you ain’t interested in a sexual convo. Pure case of eating your cake and having it. It’s pure greed and the greedy donot last long.
5. Hid my advice and take this silly post down. It’s stupid and childish to read. If you’re broke, then beg outrightly. It’s just repulsive to read this
6. I’m guessing you’re between 22-26? Take this from an elder bro who’s passed through your stage. Your breakthrough may even come from someone you meet while offering a free and genuine service. By his grace, i’m probably everything you dream of becoming already and my advice is this, render genuine service and kindness to humanity. This way, the entirety of God’s creation would be in debt to you. Maybe you would get it, maybe you wont.

3 Likes

Romance / Re: Where Can We Find Successful Young Women Ready To Marry by Iamblessed85: 1:29am On Dec 24, 2023
TimiRume:
I'm in Lagos and oh I just thought you might need a remote assistant maybe with little Data entries.

Here you are, looking for a hand out (which isn’t a bad thing). What’s disturbing is that you also have an advert where you intend to charge people for companionship.

On the surface there’s nothing wrong with your model and i dare say it’s even innovative but upon close look, it reeks of a ploy to take advantage of those that are going through emotional issues and are in need of someone to speak to.

It’s thesame thing if the OP decides to charge you before helping or giving you a job.

Take the advert down. If you have a skill or talent of giving people a shoulder to lean on, do so and expect nothing in return from them. You make money by meeting a need but not by taking advantage of people’s pain.

What do i know though

1 Like

Romance / Re: Where Can We Find Successful Young Women Ready To Marry by Iamblessed85: 5:18am On Dec 23, 2023
Mcslize:


Unfortunately, it doesn't always work like that. You can't just go about toasting ladies in such a group. Except something unique brought two of u together.

Besides, ladies in those types of groups are few. Men are dominating.

Exactly. Another thing, most ladies in such category are full of pride. A guy can earn that much and be humble but a lady that earns even half of that will frustrate you with her bad character and ego. I’ve met a couple and i used my hand to delete their numbers.

@TheOldGods, I know how you feel. You aren’t asking for anything you are not. At worst, you are asking for a replica of yourself right?

I would advise you to ignore the craving else it would turn you to a beggar for love or a desperate guy. The feeling will consume you soo strongly that everything you’ve worked hard for may loose taste in your mouth. You will constantly walk around unhappy, restless and ungrateful to God whereas you should be in a state of peace and thanksgiving.

You are what you seek already. Keep making money and keep being rich. It is greater than any stupid companionship. Also, the richer you become, the more you can afford to travel etc and meet more people. Just remember, if you are a good person, then all of life and even God will conspire to bring you your best outcome. This means you have to wait and trust. One last thing, the magic happens when you remove your mind from it. Also, avoid prostitutes, masturbation and other unholy acts. These things distort our course

6 Likes 1 Share

Romance / Attractive People Have An Ethical Responsibility To Tone Down Their Looks by Iamblessed85: 2:49pm On Dec 18, 2023
Something happened to me and it got me thinking. At times, i look buoyant and flashy for the fun of it. I also noticed that females automatically become nice and more engaging. I resent this when it happens and I deliberately become rude. I am sure the ladies on the receiving end wonder why i act rude.

It’s because it makes me feel like i’m being used. Does it mean i donot deserve kindness and respect if i cannot afford to look this way? It dosent make me a nice person because i am fly. Also, i try my best not to be guilty of lookism and so it pisses me off when people do it to me even if i am on the benefitting side.

To my point, i was crossing the road in ikoyi and a lady drove past me. I noticed she was staring me down to the point she almost hit a pavement. I felt soo sad and guilty. What if she had an accident? There’s no way I would’ve convinced myself i was not responsible.

I then began to theorize that good looking people should not max out their looks because people stare helplessly as a matter of reflex and if anything happens to them or if they are led to think unwholesome thoughts, we can not say we aren’t liable to an extent.

1 Like

Romance / Does This Happen To Other Guys by Iamblessed85: 12:01pm On Dec 18, 2023
After my first date with a lady, she automatically becomes my girlfriend. I have 90% success rate after first dates. Infact it’s soo bad that if i am going on a date, i say to myself, “lets go get another girlfriend”. Once she accepts to go out with me on that first date, it is done.

I am not rich rich nor exceptionally handsome though in my younger years, i had a number of women approach me for my contact. If you ask me, I’ve lost my looks and i donot look like my ideal handsome guy. Infact maybe last year, i was strolling around pekas ikeja and a lady i used to mess with saw me. I was embarrassed when she blurted to her friend” ewooo this guy no fine again”.

2 Likes

Romance / Re: Man Marries Lady Who Snubbed Him For 5 Years by Iamblessed85: 12:10pm On Dec 12, 2023
LordAdam16:


As far as I'm concerned, he is asking for it.
He deserves whatever f*cked up sh*t she does to him.

Marry him.
Continue riding the c*ck carousel.
Convince him to Japa.
Congratulations, you've won at life.

-Lord

Why are they always hell bent on convincing their spouse to japa? Even the ones with good paying jobs

1 Like 1 Share

Romance / Re: My Lack Of Commitment To Women Is Killing Me Slowly by Iamblessed85: 10:51am On Dec 06, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:
@ MikeofKd
Lemme give you one of these pieces of advice as an older man.

Know one thing for sure. There will always be something you can't have.

For some it will be money.
For some, they won't ever conceive.
For some they won't ever have a good relationship.

Most times our instincts are always right and this nose never lies.
If you're having a cold feet going into a relationship with any lady. It may be a result of the past trauma or just your instincts playing out here.

You see human beings get into a whole lot of trouble when they believe they can have it all.

You necessarily do not need a romantic relationship.
What you need is a relationship.
If you need to feel loved, look into your own family or get a baby mama and have kids.
You will still be very fufilled regardless.

This touched me. I usually excell at most things but there are some things i dont have and i keep beating myself up on those things to the point i become ungrateful for the things i have. I guess i have to let go of those things

5 Likes 1 Share

Health / What Test Measures Ph Level In The Body? by Iamblessed85: 6:42pm On Nov 26, 2023
Hi guys, please what test can i take to measure the level of of body Ph?
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 2:50pm On Nov 23, 2023
bolakale30:

you haven't responded boss

Sorry for late reply. Responded
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 11:03am On Nov 23, 2023
bolakale30:


Have you sold them, boss? I want them now

Still available bro. You can hit my email.

Inspiredbypeople85@gmail.com
Romance / Re: Where Do You Find Pleasure Apart From Drinking, Smoking And Sexual Activities ? by Iamblessed85: 10:22am On Nov 13, 2023
Samantha124:
I love that song too, especially when it's playing in a car or big speakers.

The person is singing in the Tsonga language, I can translate it for you, if you want.

Kindly translate. What’s the meaning of “Haibo”?
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 9:25am On Nov 13, 2023
Still available
Romance / Re: How Do I Woo This Girl? by Iamblessed85: 10:30am On Nov 10, 2023
SHIVA001:
She no like you. Girls like wo dem Dey always see face to face. It takes 15days for a lady to start liking a guy. For guys it take just 5secs. To start liking a lady

Good point. So that means meeting random women on the road may not be a good strategy and may lead to unnecessary rejection
Romance / Re: 20 Secrets Ladies Admire by Iamblessed85: 10:11am On Nov 10, 2023
Thread should be named how to create a Simposaurus Rex 🦖

7 Likes

Family / Re: Why Do Most Breadwinner Wives Deprive Their Husbands Intimacy In Marriage? by Iamblessed85: 9:43am On Nov 05, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:


And you think mens physical look doesn't depreciate? Haha... The pot belly? The weak waist and jawilne? The receding hairline and all those physical flaws that make them look shapeless? Every human being loses form and shape as time goes on but a woman can still attract a man, no matter what but a man can even be good looking and still not be attractive because of his pocket.

I saw my ex recently ( now a father of three) I nearly three up. He still dressed dressed to kill but his belly has become so big and put of shape. Someone who used to have six packs in 2016 here o. Both men and women lose shape.

redddingtonblack is right. I am sure even you donot believe what you just typed. It’s a just a feeble attempt to rewrite the narrative. Also, the fact that you fall in love with the ability of men to provide is on you and says alot about your person. It’s not same for everyone else especially foreign women.

1. A woman past 25 slowly begins to become invisible to men, let alone one in her 30’s.
2. I hope you donot confuse the words “attract and retain” with “attract just for bang sake”.
3. An elderly man can still marry a hot young lady in her prime whereas a woman can’t do this.
4. When a man goes out of shape, it is largely due to his lifestyle and choices and he can easily regain form by being disciplined. However, when time withers a woman, there is nothing she can do about it and i am not talking about surgery that makes them look unnatural and gross.
5. Most men i know look more handsome as they age. That’s when they even begin grow a beard, etc.
6. A not soo attractive man can still be attractive with money but when a woman’s prime which is usually short lived is past, nothing can bring it back. Infact the more money a woman has, the more she repels men and it’s not because of low self esteem but because it makes them masculine and proud. Masculine women irritate men.
6. An average man is usually far more attractive than an average woman. Remember, we donot use make up, cream, etc. Imagine if we did? I cant even remember the last time i used a lotion.

1 Like 1 Share

Business / Re: I Just Lost 400k by Iamblessed85: 10:49am On Nov 04, 2023
Athena6:


Do you think it will even get to 1100 because I don't want to lose anymore money.

I am just feeling like a failure 😞

Why bet against your own country for your selfish reasons? You know that devaluation comes with inflation right? If you live in Nigeria, be rest assured that whatever “gains” you get from dollar increase will be wiped by inflation. Even if you don’t live in Nigeria, why not pity your family and friends that live here?

2 Likes

Romance / Where Is Badboibipo by Iamblessed85: 11:33pm On Nov 01, 2023
To Badboibipo, if you can see this, i really miss you and i really loved your posts. It literally feels like you are another me. I do hope you are keeping well wherever you are.
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 7:29am On Oct 30, 2023
Still available
Romance / Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Iamblessed85: 12:15am On Oct 29, 2023
Kipaji:
Lust and degeneracy are overwhelming me.

I am in a very sad place mentally


I don't know if I can ever get out. This addiction is so strong.


Please, help. I don't want to live like this. I don't want to regret wasting my essence sand my time later in life. I don't want to end up being as a degenerate. I don't want to be weak. I don't want to go through these humiliations.


I have all the logical reasons to stop it. Yet, I'm still
doing it.


Looking back, my 5 months streak was a miracle
How did I even pull that off? I can't even go 4 days without relapsing. A month seems like a dream, 5 months like a utopia, and a year unimaginable.


Hey man. How are you holding out? I hope you donot listen to the guys telling you it’s pointless. The scales are yet to fall out of their eyes and they are obsessed with a normal to average existence. SR raises mere men to the ranks of the immortals. Imagine being alive yet having all the privileges of a god?

Yes you fell but get back up ASAP. Only through SR can we leave our mark on the sands of time because it pushes you to do great things that can only be conceived/assessed by a pure mind. Even better, your body will have all the strenght it needs to pursue the revelation that will come to you. While mere men slumberout of tiredness due to expended seed, you will lay awake and scheme. Then you will challenge kings and they will cower.
Health / Re: Why Do Women Have Better Dentition Than Men? by Iamblessed85: 5:48am On Oct 25, 2023
Samantha124:
Not all women, I wore braces for two years and half to have my teeth fixed.

Oh wow what’s it looking like now? Did it work?
Health / Re: Why Do Women Have Better Dentition Than Men? by Iamblessed85: 4:07am On Oct 25, 2023
TheManofTomorrow:


Used to be like you, till I got braces.

You'll be shocked at how perfect your dentition can get once you get one.

And your confidence will be up to the heavens after.


Wow how long did it take before you saw results?

3 Likes

Health / Why Do Women Have Better Dentition Than Men? by Iamblessed85: 5:51pm On Oct 24, 2023
My teeth is nothing to write home about especially the two front one. I noticed most women i have come across have flawless dentition and gum. I cant even laugh normally. Why is this?

File Photo Used for illustration

7 Likes 1 Share

Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 5:48pm On Oct 24, 2023
dawnomike:
Can I pay 20k for both?

Okay hit my dm
Travel / Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by Iamblessed85: 3:57pm On Oct 18, 2023
Bassman14:
Good day Everyone, I recently got my ITA about 6 days ago, in order to complete my proof of funds I sold my land today for about 6million naira. I have the proof of sale, hope this would not raise eyebrows during the inspection by the officers? Thank you.

How long did it take you to get to this stage?
Family / Re: Why There Is A Direct Connection Between Jeans Trousers & Crimes. by Iamblessed85: 3:26pm On Oct 18, 2023
Coming125:
This thing I'm saying may look strange and odd, hmmm, but I'm saying the truth. I don talk my own.

Wow what you said touched me and i think you’re on to something. Lets drill down and see what jeans is made of? Then we can establish the characteristics of where it came from.

What you’re saying is true because i know we as humans also behave like what we eat. For instance, certain diet can make you more spiritual, more aggressive, etc.
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 1:16pm On Oct 18, 2023
Still available
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 5:17am On Oct 17, 2023
amSTARboy:
Please can i get the mouse

Dm
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 8:21pm On Oct 16, 2023
dawnomike:
Can I pay 20k for both?

Still interested?
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 6:46pm On Oct 15, 2023
Still available
Technology Market / Re: Learn texh by Iamblessed85: 5:30pm On Oct 14, 2023
nani667:
Where in Lagos are you...? I am interested in the mouse 🖱

Cool mail replied

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (of 7 pages)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 69
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.