Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by IamforGod: 11:37am On Feb 24, 2015 |
mutter: A man cater for the family with the help of the woman.
It is wrong to think that the man ha to carry all the financial burden and responsibilities. In some cases the women earn nearly a much or even more than the men.
Men have huge responsibilities. Their parent and extended family, investing and so much more.
Why should it be an issue for the woman to have paid a rent? Since I am also self employed apart from my job my husband never really knows how much I earn. But I always let him know and even give him most of the money for the home. He was and still is very reluctant but I insist.
I love that man so much I could not bear to let him struggle through all the responsibilities alone. Because my husband is really mostly focused on the home and the family back home, it does not bother me at all. If you love a man, then you want to support him as much as you can. It has been that way since we married and it works for us. However I must admit that it was not very easy. At a stage my husband was shouldering too many responsibilities at the expense of the kid`S. We solved it like we sole all serious issues. Written contact between us. We reach a compromise and put it in writing. It really works. 
I just make sure I keep enough money back to be able to indulge my kid`s once in a while . Lol men av responsibilities: pls are u an orphan or were u dropped from the sky? Like women dnt av responsibilities too? Dnt u also av family to tend to? Anyway that's what works for u. A man is the heaad of the home but u are willing to take his position gracefully. |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by IamforGod: 11:24am On Feb 24, 2015 |
CrazyMan: Read the topic
You don't know some men, they'll just come up and lie about one invisible business they're into. And the poor woman would have no choice than to believe him. he might be building a surprise house. |
Family › Re: Will You Allow Your Wife Use intimacy gadgets When You Are Away? by IamforGod: 11:15am On Feb 24, 2015 |
simplemach: If she like make she use firewood self. oloshi  |
Crime › Re: Pictures Of One Of The Armed Robber Caught This. Morning(viewer Decretion) by IamforGod: 2:06pm On Feb 21, 2015 |
bebe2: Both the thief and the torturers are all the same.
If u can do this to a fellow specie only god knows wat u will do if u get a gone.
There is a reason for the judicial system, or shud we scrap it and just beat each other up wen things go wrong. Hmmm I guess ur in Yankee or jd where there are multiple choppers and vehicles from the police. But here in naija it doesn't happen that. Way. You expect them to catch him and free him and see him bac on the street th next day? I dnt support killing but I support beating the he'll out of them. |
Family › Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by IamforGod: 2:48pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Misogynist2014: IF YOU ARE A MAN, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. why can't a woman cheat? And men get to cheat! Oga no vex me for here o! |
Politics › Re: Igbos Are Refused PVC Card In Lagos. (my Personal Experince.) by IamforGod: 5:57pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
Op no get sense. Me wey I be yoruba me and my family self never register talkless of collecting PVCM tribalistic fool. |
Celebrities › Re: PHOTOS: So Linda Ikeji Has Such Good Looking Boobs? Display Her Lovely Dresses. by IamforGod: 1:20am On Feb 10, 2015 |
This lady wears expensive and we'll designed clothes but she doesn't know ow to combine them. |
Education › Re: Types Of Punishments You Received When You Were In Primary And Secondary School. by IamforGod: 9:31pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Worse punishment standing in the sun for more than 6 hours. I rep FGGC sagamu |
Politics › Re: Check Out The Crowd At INEC Media Center by IamforGod: 10:29pm On Feb 07, 2015 |
GreenWhiteGreen: **waiting endlessly at the INEC media centre** Unprofessional journalism. See dem as they carry camera for head like pure water sellers.  it's very professional! It's done every where. |
Celebrities › Re: M.I Reveals 5 Nigerian Women He's Crushing On by IamforGod: 7:55pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
davdandam:
I'll say this once only. ....I'm crazy about Eva alordiah I know her if u want to meet her let me know. |
Politics › Re: T-72 Tanks Used By The Military To Destroy Boko Haram (Photos) by IamforGod: 1:05pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Suddenly election comes close and GEJ starts working! Only if he had started since we wud not loose so many people from the NORTH. If you vote for him come febuhari and he wins get ready for more cluelesness and deaths cos this man doesn't have your interest at heart he only has his position as a corrupt president at heart. |
Romance › Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by IamforGod: 4:23pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
jemimaa01: I don't even want to read the post...there is no excuse for dating a married man,except of cos u want to ruin your future...imagine a wife who is faithful to her hisband and does everything possible to make her husband happy,then you and the useless husband wld now be causing the woman heartbreak and misery....well God punish all the ladies chasing after married men knowingly. even if a man marries a virgin he will still cheat |
Celebrities › Re: Caroline Danjuma Returns To Nollywood (photos) by IamforGod: 11:41am On Jan 26, 2015 |
This nse and her veins. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Should He Take A "Pay Cut" Or "Resign" Honourably by IamforGod: 1:39pm On Jan 13, 2015 |
You deserve a pay cut for using formal instead of former. |
Nairaland General › Re: My Experience With An Unarmed Robber In A Banking Hall by IamforGod: 7:45pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
ayodijex: cooperate robber...his liver is very strong i must admit. liver abi jarz! |
Family › Re: Help.. My 4 Years Old Marriage Is Gradually Crashing Out. by IamforGod: 3:18pm On Jan 09, 2015 |
My dear that man is cheating. Those kind of men have deeper secrets than you think. Pls becareful and dnt divorce or self service. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Matthew Ajibade Dies In US Police Custody (Photo) by IamforGod: 10:53am On Jan 09, 2015 |
PerfumeRepublik: If he was about to be booked by cops in Nigeria and he became combative ; what do you think would have happened to him ? RIP YoungBlood if he was in naija am sure he wouldn't even have a mental problem cause I dnt know what thay eat over there that gives some of them mental probs.. I av a friend that went to Yankee for about 10 yrs and when he got back he has serious mental issues. God help us all. |
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Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Makes Grand Entry Into The New Year With These Glam Photos by IamforGod: 6:28pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
All this actresses be living fake life. Na wa o |
Celebrities › Re: Graphic Photos: Miss Bumbum Brazil Damages Her Butt.... (see Photo) by IamforGod: 6:15pm On Jan 06, 2015 |
I trust naija babes they wud rather wear fake stuffs than do surgery.  |
Politics › Re: My Life In Danger… Rev Fr Mbaka Cries Out by IamforGod: 1:16pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
kokoA: Abeg o, they should leave him alone o for their own good.. Trust me, you don't wanna mess with a catholic priest, ask former governor Ikedi Ohakim. Catholics value a local village priest even morethan Obama. An attempt to fight a Rev. Father is a very risky one.. # justcurious what did catholics do when they were bombing catholic churches in the north? |
Travel › Re: Hilarious Transport System In Lagos (Photo) by IamforGod: 3:22pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
breakingnews234: It cannot be possible nah. You're not serious.. Just by taking a harmless pics? stay there. |
Politics › Re: Cameroon Launches First Air Strikes On Boko Haram by IamforGod: 2:12pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Cameron is doing more job on this boko issue. Even more than Nigeria. Smh |
Nairaland General › Re: My Housewarming And Birthday Celebration (pictures) by IamforGod: 1:53pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
When some people were popping champagne in clubs you were busy building your house, you were busy thinking of your future. Hmmm by this time next year more houses shall be warmed IJN. Bless you bro. #highlyimpressed |
Jokes Etc › Re: See What Julius Agwu Tweeted About 2015 Election. by IamforGod: 1:31pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
APC - LIARS, PDP- Thieves, # bringbackthe whites. Nigeria is not ready to be on her own. |
Music/Radio › Re: Nairalanders: Do You Still Listen To Radio Programs? by IamforGod: 12:24am On Dec 13, 2014 |
tyson99: love programs in the midnight see your mouth like love programs |
Romance › Re: He Dropped Them In A Dustbin by IamforGod: 12:56pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
Allureoftheseas: you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to. I don't blame you I blame thee fools that allow you play them like football. Make your point known to the op and stop insulting ladies. That's probably how they are playing your sister. |
Romance › Re: I Dated My Girlfriend For 2yrs Not Knowing She Was Already Engaged To....... by IamforGod: 12:05pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
kendrick9: u have been fooled.. next time shine ur eyes.. u should as a guy to be the one fooling girls not the other way round.. Wise up so it's ok for a guy to fool a girl and not the other way round? Smh |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid Delves Into Business! Starts Manufacturing Of Snapbacks(photos) by IamforGod: 11:53am On Dec 11, 2014 |
This face cap is of a very poor quality!!!  |
Politics › Re: Check Out A Lawmaker Resting After Jump The Fence Yesterday +pics Lol by IamforGod: 4:25pm On Nov 22, 2014 |
PDP and APC members are thieves |
Education › Re: Unbelievable Pictures Of Awori college Ojo Lagos by IamforGod: 12:23pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Oga can't you see that its poor management? Is pdp any better? Considering worse things they've done. NOTE: I am neither for pdp nor apc they are both thieves. |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson Releases Family Pics With Husband, Daughter & New Born Son by IamforGod: 10:26am On Nov 15, 2014 |
Mercy Johnson !!! Forever. Scruffy |