Nonso23:
This guy na otondo.
She pointed out her fiance to you amongst the gentlemen deliberating upon her marriage rites and you couldn't even walk up to the man to narrate your story with juicier and raunchier contents.
I'm sure the fiance would have ended the engagement there and then if you did (ego trips) and you too would have been satisfied.
It will be 1 - 1
She wastes your 2 years, you scatter her engagement.
No cheating.

jeje123:
Laughing waiting concer mom and dad again.

kendrick9:
u have been fooled.. next time shine ur eyes.. u should as a guy to be the one fooling girls not the other way round.. Wise up

ammyluv2002:
We chics can pretend even the devil won't even notice

Maamin:
[size=19pt]Otapyapya[/size]

mimiejacobz:



Lol,don't just xpect too much dts the only way to avoid being in same situation lyk the op,but this love ehh even if u try to be careful it still manages to play tricks on our heart

emperorchedda:
I wish I were in your shoes. I just want a girl I'll be sharing with her man, when marriage pops up in her list I'll gladly step aside for her fiance to walk into the eternal bondage then I'll look for her type and continue

seunoni34:
one of the reasons why you must s.ex any girl you're dating. You wouldn't really feel that much like a loser when shits like this happens .

kriscamdi:
http://www.kriscamdi.com/2014/12/i-dated-my-girlfriend-not-knowing-she.html

This may sound crazy but i am seriously not myself right now. If i mention my name, you might be shocked because i am a bit popular, i stay in ajah lagos state and i am just 24years. i dont know where to start right now and i wouldnt want to bore you with my problem but i believe it is or has happened to alot of guys out there.

Ok, i met this girl back then in school and when she got a direct entry into my department, Gosh she was too pretty to be single but when we got talking she mentioned that she had no boyfriend. Although i was glad but still scared if i could manage and also maintain such a girl. You guys would agree with me that most boys oo, guys oo, men oo are maintainers when it comes to having a girl friend or even a wife, (if na lie oya prove me wrong).
Now as time went on, we got fond of each other and i believe the love started growing, but it was official that we where dating in our final year and seriously i felt i had found my soul-mate not knowing it was my soulmate hair cream i just found...lol. But nevertheless we where really good till we left school and went four our NYSC in lagos, we worked it sha..
While in camp, i noticed some strange behaviours and some strange atitude which she pulled up but i felt it was just one of those girly stuff. One day wen we went to maami market to eat, i noticed a ring on her hand and asked her when she got the ring, but she said it was jus a ring she saw at home and liked it. i wondered how a girl would just like an engagement ring. But in my usual way i ignored it and we continued gisting, but believe me that its not something you should just ignore, because i remember i once saw that ring back then in school when i went to visit her and asked her also and she said a friend of hers forgot it in her room. Now this was what got me thinking.
When i confronted her she started their usual cry and lectures of how it seems i don't trust her and how i was doubting her love for me. It really got to me though but as a guy, there are some precautions which we all need to take.
Now long story short, i went to visit her one day and saw some men in her house, it was obvious that the came to seek her hands in marriage, i called her aside and asked and to my greatest surprice she said to me and i quot "that man sitting by that end is my fiance".. For the first time in my life i fainted and woke up and still fainted again because it was like i was dreaming.
i was taken to a room where i had cold compress and when i regained, i asked her the Big question...WHY ME?
And then she told me that she was engaged to this guy like 6months before she got into my school but he traveled out for his professional course and he is ready to marry her now, and above all she Loves him alot.
But i wondered what we where doing all the while.

My problem now is, i have told my parents about her and my mum loves her so much and my dad can't wait to be a father inlaw and above all I LOVE HER like mad...
am so confused right now...what do i do?

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skimmy39:

mate this is a good thing. you own a kitten not tied down to you. use it wisely

1one:
Even though uploading topics on the front page has become something akin to shells on the sea shore, please you moderators should TRY to ensure that the story is credible and true and not just some cooked up fairy tales to steer us to a blog site.


Nairaland Moderators really need to get a grip!!!

Edusouls:
kai,kai, see what i always warn guys about, these girls re impending timed bombs, when their timer is up they explode and cause maximum damage..well sorry my guy, hold heart, return to life,but it wont be easy and this snake in girl you met just caused a max damage to ur heart and with a deep wound that will take you years to heal, you may never be able to luv again,this is the hard truth about the inevitable effects..some girls are more wicked and deadly more than lucifer himself, jeezebel self no reach them self..but i place a curse on her on your behalf, she would die a horrible death after ruining the lives of her husband..this is how it goes..it's bounded on earth and so it is in heaven..she will reap her wrath full without mercy...

debo07:
Wot a nice cooked up story.you no try at all.you went to ur gal frnd house and discorvered dat pple r der to ask her parents her hand in marriage and she excused them just to see you and she told u exactly wots happening.no gal will evr do such becos she also risks losing her fiance.becos the gal will knw u mite do sometin to spoil d whole tin and her fiance and family will knw she's bin cheating all this while.no gal will risk such.she would have broken up wit u long b4 dat day or even tell u dat she's travellin just to make sure u don't come dat day.so OP I don't believe you.girls are smarter dan dat.

Suzyky4u:
Hahahahaha take heart dear. Mine was five years. He got married in the fifth year and yes... I wasn't aware until my mum called and told me. I didn't still believe it until I saw baby things in his new apartment. And guess what? He said they belong to his late friend's wife who came to Ph from Aba for a text. My advice for young guys is: once you find that true love, marry her off. Don't wait until u gather millions. You both can make it together. Besides, no woman will wait for eternity all in the name of love cos you may likely betray her when age is no longer on her side. Be wise.