₦airaland Forum

Amatarasha:
Cxrse you iamplato

It Seems You Are Crushin on Me... Its Okay Dear, You Can Join The Queue.

tiffanyfan:
Uncle why naaa

Just Leave That Girl. She Is A Lower Credit Witch.

Lalasticlala come And See Something

Dangote and Crush Are Like 5&6. Can You Imagine When I Saw Crush I Quickly Opened thinking That Dangote trailer Has Crushed A Model. SMH.



BTW... Dangote please Do Not Miss This Opportunity... That Breast Must Be Sucked

May I Never Be This Type Of Hustling Man

And What If She Died During Abortion

Amatarasha:
Ssshut up pls

So Nobody Had The Boldness To Tell You That You Look Like that Devil's Meal

Where Is That Village Girl Nikkypearl sef... E Don Tey since We See

Omnibus:
You all just write for the sake of writing, to have that feel good feeling of a great writer nothing about impact and you know it .I know it too and I know your kind well.

So You Are Saying There Is No Meaning From This Write Up.


I Pray That Envy Does Not Kill You. Good bye

Omnibus:
You have time for all these foolish writers ?

what Is The Purpose Of This Statement?

rigarmortis:
How much do you have in the bank?

Hope You Know This Is An Unreasonable Question... And Quite Rude

Amatarasha:
Tell him ,i warned him about being childish and stupid since then ,he has being fighting me

iamplato acts lyk a downsyndrome patient

SHUT UP PLEASE

Grupo:
You have no answer

Bye

phelonrays:
Aunty Amara.......... am just a week plus 1 old here and I need people with good brains to follow........

Would your follow me back if I follow you??

so You Think She Has Good Brain? Lol. I Pity Your Brain

Grupo:
What is the meaning of smart work. Can you give practical real life examples that are appliable to the Nigerian scene?

Its Creativity... People Want A Lot Of Things That They Do Not know They Want Until They See It... If You Wish To Be A Problem Solver Then You Have To Think Out Of The Box, work Out Of The Box

Uyi168:
.. These laws hardly apply... The Nigeria factor being the biggest set back..

Pick To Two Or Three And Explain How They DonT Apply In Nigeria

Grupo:
How to be successful, written by a hungry blogger.

Then he tells you to not work hard but smart. But if you ask him what smart work means, he will start blabbing.

Sorry I Am Not A Blogger

DukeofNZ:
@Iamplato

Na you write dis article? Answer me so dat I can tell you something important

Yes I Wrote It Sir

darkelf:
You guys peddling this fallacy of hard work not being indispensable.

It takes hard work to think innovatively. It takes hard work to figure out ways to work smart. Ask the discoverer of electricity how many times it took him to fail before he succeeded.

Do you know many of such bricklayers have multiple houses and cars lowkey? They don't have to flaunt it. That's the mentality of a poor man.

You bring up a woman that doesn't know how to sew. I've lived long enough to know that the more you look, the keas you see. She may have slept with one rich Alhaji who opened that business for her. And u can tell you for a fact, if she doesn't learn the basics of sewing at least, her employees will defraud her a lot of times without knowing.

You are Plato......really.....you done even sound like one bro. No offence.

Honestly I Have No Reply For You. Believe What You Want

UyaiIncomparabl:
The first paragraph got me laughing hard.
You can't always generalize till you get to know people holistically. Can I as well add you into the group of 'Nairaland guys' then?

As for the course. It's nothing serious. I'm just learning pattern drafting (Fashion Designing). I need to amass moreee skills!

You Know I Am One Of The Rare Sweet Guys here

Acedave1:
u can never make if you follow dos rules in nigeria

What Rules

[quote author=Twoclans post=78170404][/quote]lol. Funny

Kingpee2:
Did Dangote and Femi Otedola follow these rules ,Abeg Op needs to understand that succes is very wide o,no be that small girl dey blow pidgin ,it is easily said than practiced.

what Exactly Are You Saying?

Did You Even Read What Was Up There? Those Are Not Rules But Facts you Must Understand In Your Journey Of Success...

Twoclans:
LOL at bolded

You want to use that excuse to avoid me,I won't kill you I will only blow your money .

So Whats The Difference Between You Killing Me And Blowing my Money


I Trek Back To Lagos?


Nigerian Girls! Always Trying To Use Smartness To Kill Young Boys With Promising Future


I Bid You...


Good Night and Good Morning

HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE

This is not like every other success write up you use to know; its high time we spit the truth...

What do you understand success to be?

Success for me could be havin a billion dollars in my account, success for you could be your achievements in changing lives of people every step of the way, success for others could be the number of awards they achieved...

Our definition for success differs greatly, just as our strategies of achieving it differs


The very first step in getting the spirit of success is to first define your own success. What do you want to achieve? Is it money, awards, changing lives, women or estates? Define it... with a definition you have a road map on which you plan on.


You must also understand that you must first succeed with little things before you can succeed with bigger things...


Now lets be very plain here...


The road to success is very bleeped up; not a smooth ride... they tell you success is like climbing up a ladder... sorry bro you have been lied to... the road to success is scary, full of traps and bombs, water and fire, enemies upon enemies, trust and betrayals, jumping and diving, running and hiding...
There are certain things you must understand so you don’t get frustrated in your pursuit of success
1. No one is going to fix you, you got to fix yourself
2. You must accept yourself the way you are
3. Life will never be perfect
4. Those who complain must achieve less
5. No one has it all figured out
6. Enemies will accumulate
7. You are not special
8. Being too kind is a weakness
9. Success is not achieved by hard work




1. NO ONE IS GOING TO FIX YOU, YOU GOT TO FIX YOURSELF
Not one person will fix you, you alone will build your success tower as you encounter increasing challenges. No one will fix you because everyone is busy fighting their own battle, they don’t care how difficult your life is because they have theirs to worry about.
For success to be reached you must kill the entitlement mentality, no one owes you anything, you are not entitled to any share/part of anybody’s wealth, not even your parents




2. YOU MUST ACCEPT YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE
They say we are all beautifully and fearfully made... yes some persons are unattractive or scary to look at and they owe you no apology about it. Reason is because the real you doesn't start from your face but your mind. Do you have a problem with your looks? You are feeling unattractive? Well then feel free to have a facial surgery, change your skin colour but I promuise you that every time you look in the mirror, the first thing your mind tells you is “this can never be you”... you can change your face but not who you are.
Low self esteem is a curse that needs to be fought out of one’s mind if you wish to be successful because of you do nothing about it, it will breed and reproduce in your mind and get you tied to your comfort zone




3. LIFE WILL NEVER BE PERFECT
As a film director, one of the lessons you learn is that you can not always have what you want. I know many of us picture a perfect success, maybe a full luxurious house, expensive cars, super gadgets... success is step by step until the end, you can not always have it all, what you picture may not be exactly what you will get. Even if you get it all, from luxury house to expensive fast cars to super gadgets, you surely wouldn’t have time for some of these things which will end up lying hardly used or touched; life will never be perfect but it can always be better




4. THOSE WHO COMPLAIN MOST ACHIEVE LESS
Same thing applies to those who boast most... actions are better appreciated than words.
Since when has complaining solved problems, the best complains can do for you is advance into lamentations and attract sympathy for you because that all you deserve. Stop complaining and do something about your problems because if you don’t, no one will




5. NO ONE HAS IT ALL FIGURED OUT
In the road map of success there are lots of puzzles to be solved, some you would solve, some will take a while, but there are some you will never figure out; at this point do not waste much time on this part of life because if you do, you would prolong your success time and still wouldn’t figure them out
How do I end corruption?
How do I deal with evil?
How do I eradicate poverty?
How do I make the world love me?
How can I be the best?
How do I succeed without offending others?
Save yourself the trouble and move on with your life...




6. ENEMIES WILL ACCUMULATE#
Either you believe it or not, your success will become a thorn to some other persons. In life there is the ongoing competition of greatness, this is a struggle that will never end; just as you can’t walk through the bushes without stepping on the grasses, you can’t walk through success without stepping on toes or getting in other people’s way... the higher you climb, the more your enemies...




7. YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL
You could be intelligent, smart, you could be lucky with opportunities but never proclaim yourself special in mind or in words. There are thousands who are better than you, you are only priveledged and not special. The same cancer that killed that guy can also kill you, the same accident that killed that girl can also kill you, you fall from the 5th floor you get broken to pieces, you get bitten by a venomous snake you die.
You are nothing but just a man working to enjoy life just like others




8. BEING TO KIND IS A WEAKNESS
“Bro please can I borrow you laptop?”
“I’m sorry you can’t”
“Please bro... I need to get this project done”
“I don’t give out my office... this is where I do my business”
“So you can’t help a brother”
“Sorry I can’t... go to a cyber cafe”...
What if you give out your laptop and it gets stolen, what would you do?
Too much of everything is bad... if you give women too muc h attention, you will begin to look like shit to them.
If you do not know how to say “No” you become used by others who would take advantage of your kindness
You must learn to say “NO” when its necessary and it must be confidently and firmly...
Saying yes to every Tom, Dick and Harry can lead to your own detriment and get you off success track




9. SUCCESS IS NOT ACHIEVED BY HARD WORK
The truth is, not every one will make it in life, this is because many are busy working hard not smart

You want to be a CEO? You want to be the boss? Then you must quit working hard and start working smart.
If hard work is the road to success, brick layers, conductors, street hawkers will all be rich because these people are hard workers
I knew of a woman who owned a large fashion firm with over 20 employees but funny enough she doesn't know how to pedal a sewing machine... hard workers will forever remain employees and not employers.

You cannot be a CEO if you are not smart




I pity slothful people; if hard workers are still struggling to get out of poverty I wonder what would be the fate of the lazy man


For every success you define, there are techniques and strategies to achieving them but you must also understand the essence of PATIENCE...



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Twoclans:
Naahhhhhhh
My boobs ain't large .I am a complete ukwu babe .
Alex can testify

But You Friend Zoned His Ass abi.

Twoclans:
Come down to Abuja let's meet at Bolton White .The only problem is that when I blow your twenty years income in one night ,you will come and create thread on nairaland on how twoclans is a bitch and gold digger

One Night


You Be Winch? Or You Be Winchcraft...

Inside Which Belle You Won Blow My 30 billion Put, you Be Whale? Abi Na Your Promise Land Juju you Won Use



I Have Fear For Abuja.

Woman Don Kill My Friend There Before...

EmpressT:
You started it. So, make I laugh abeg

You Dont Know What Hymen Is. Okay

Twoclans:
Naahhhhhhh
My boobs ain't large .I am a complete ukwu babe .
Alex can testify

Chai! It Is Finished!

I Need To Use That Ynash as A Pillow...

Lets Meet At Eko Hotel. My Head Needs To Feel That Ynash.

Dont Worry Nothing Will Happen. I Will Only Put The Tip

EmpressT:
Thank God o

Be Lying