₦airaland Forum

Sonyboom:
Foolish fools too many for Ipobland I swear

Why is that most yorubas abuse and curse their children at will.

No wonder many of u don't know when to keep quiet.
Always abuse here and there.

If ur dad paid ur mums dowry u won't be calling people's tribe ipod.

Ask ur father this question above.

Those with the presidency how is their life.


Many of them have turned online beggars.

CloudTrees:
I have seen other people help without considering the tribes others came from.

There are people from all over Nigeria living in peace and see each other as humans

I said I wish him goodluck in begging.

Abi, did i wish him bad again?

U are the Third yoruba man I have see under 8hours on nairaland begging.

I thought u guys claimed this old man has the magic wand?

Wish u goodluck in begging.

U are the Third yoruba man I have seen under 8hours on nairaland begging.

I thought u guys claimed this old man has the magic wand?

Wish u goodluck in begging.

May be u guys didn't defined all of this when u started the relationship.

That was where the real problem started from.

Tell ur dad to talk to her...and don't forget also,that her family members cherish her just as ur family sees u,therefore,they expect more from her.

U guys should have a plan B together and find away to sort this out timeously. One man decision or ideas doesn't perfectly work despite the fact that urs look better and has some betterment in it.

EkelediliBuhari:
Let’s agree this is my story….

Pardon my long write up but I needed to get a perspective from a fresh eye/mind. I’m married for 3 years now with 2infants.

Am I overthinking or does my wife have other plans?

My dad is an established accountant with over 3 decades of experience at the highest level of his occupation in 2 multinationals. He is now retired and consults. Presently, he lives a day at a times cos he barely has plans for his firm (he is over 70 and doesn’t have anybody he’s training his my mom).

I have a good career earning almost a million monthly with side gigs that keeps me liquid (meeting all my family’s basic needs). Monthly upkeep of 200k mainly for feeding while I pay utilities and still bring out cash (no fixed amount) from time to time. Presently am setting up a firm for contracting and consultancy.

My wife is a caterer (she loves cooking and baking) whom I have supported over the years. She has gotten much better and I have invested in her business. Presently she has all the basic requirements for her work and she works from home. We live in a 4 bed and converted one to her studio (fully furnished - AC tables shelves etc).

Over the years I have encouraged her to focus on entrepreneurship. This will give her total control of her time. This way the kids get her attention while she handles business which I hope to one day retire into. I make sure she doesn’t contribute her personal funds to the home as I advise her to save for rain days. I have encouraged her to work closely with my dad to earn experience as they share same profession hopefully take over the firm in time while I groom mine for which she is the major shareholder (I’m not even a shareholder).

Overall, do not look for a 9-5 like me, let’s grow a business.

However, she applies for jobs here and there. Just this morning she woke up as early as 4:30am applying for a customer service position and had to wake me up to correct her cover note.

At this point I feel like giving up on her. I feel she just wants to have a paying Job for whatever reason. But I know know the downsides; no time for the kids, 40-80% of income goes on expenses, work stress, regrets - now you can’t quit because you have to prove you can do it.

Am I being unreasonable telling her not to work and focus on developing her business skills?

NB: I have never discouraged her in her business rather encouraged/ advised and funded.

Modified: for those insisting I let her be, how do we plan our future if we share separate visions?? When has working ever made anyone rich??

If she gets an IOC opportunity I’ll definitely support tho, but these are not the toes she’s applying for 100k -300k

Omihanifa:
But nigeria is a Gas nation nah. We have more gas than petrol.

Natural resources is a curse in this country.

Some people would soon go back to the days of abacha where people cooked with saw dust and pieces of woods.

The economy isn't smiling at all.

Peterobiisathie:
Reno omokri on X gave a jab to Obidient who want to silence him

Who will call this roforofo to come speak as what now. As an author of political science or as a founding father of Nigeria?

I just dey laugh.

He is now claiming what he is not,too terrible to behold.

U will surely not make heaven.

This is the only thing I can say.

Fearyourcreator:
You just think like the poor

Religious bigot.

MORE ON TINUBU'S CERTIFICATE,

JUDGE GILBERT SMELLS A RAT IN TINUBU’S CERTIFICATE

I saw the face of Judge Gilbert when that F (Female) inscription on Bola Tinubu’s certificate came up when he was asking the question about the SouthWest College transcript.

Tinubu’s lawyer, Carmichael, was trying to brush it aside with his usual excuse of a “mistake.” But when Atiku’s lawyer insisted there were too many errors in the certificates, such as age differences, sex, and grammatical errors, it raised the Judges eyebrows.
I am sure when the Judge took a few minutes break and went inside, he realized something wasn’t right. And now he is calling for more documents. Judge Gilbert has smelt a rat!

Some are already angry be ause they married reckless poverty stricken liabilities.

No apology to that. This nairaland wey tribalist fool. Even if u write something wey make sense,if ur name no conform to their tribe,they will start talking like drunkards and even abusing u.

Whether they like it or not, there is no gain in marrying a liability.
It is simply a drawback.

Kingzjayzee:
Blessing Karami Moses, a young woman, has been declared missing in Abuja.

Blessing was last seen on Monday 11th September 2023 after closing from work.

According to her family, she boarded a vehicle from Area 3 junction in Abuja to Lugbe, where she stays but never got home.

Anyone with useful information on her whereabouts should please call any of these numbers: 08188706849, 08137881415, 07038452857.


https://www.tori.ng/amp/247972/woman-goes-missing-after-boarding-a-taxi-in-abuja.html

The most dangerous junction in Abuja.

Area 3,area1 and apo Bridge. These are criminal hideouts.

May God help her to be seen alive.

concho:
Thanks bro, but I think they have changed the address because it's my address displaying in the offer letter they sent my mum two days ago

But I'm sure they can't access our company receipt since it's a plaza and paid by the management and kept by them

Will another branch have access to the utility bills ?

Very possible cos they are scanned and uploaded.

Very apt and clear for all to see that Nigeria is irredeemable.

Judge Nigeria based on what is happening in your life economically. Forget about tribalism or religion look at your lives before u start saying Nigeria is great.

U graduate and nothing for u yet u carry tribalism as a badge of honour looking for 30k job up and down.

U will know how far.

Why won't they run mad...all of them don't sound normal down to the guy who just died.

From the way they talk,shout and smoke u will know they aren't normal.

Kukutente23:

67 to 40
Which kind lie be dis

He was the first president before Jonathan that reduced the pump price of fuel.

U can fact check it,may be u were not born then...

I pity those following these men...they will continue to be poor in their millions.

Popular men of god in advanced nations aren't as rich as these men in Nigeria yet the poor keep sowing and reaping multidimensional poverty.

God has bless me not because of the prayers of these men but because I work hard and pray occasionally help the poor and I don't give tithe and the only time I did,it was a mistake!

To be honest with u guys,u can never be what u want to be if u listen to this men ...hard works pays. They are criminals in the house of God. Prosperity preachers my foot.

Simeonjoe1:
Yatadua was a failure
GEJ better economically

That mean u never experienced Yar'adua. That was the only govt that changed the price of fuel from 67naira to 40naira.

In fact both were better than Buhari and this present disaster in power.

As an ex banker,I have told u that u guys will win this case perfectly well even without bribing anybody. I said this in my first reply to u.

Now,tell ur mum to reprint her utility bill address and give it out to ur lawyer.

Find away to get someone that works with Sterlin bank to help u out with these details...what it means is that ur mum would have to go to another branch of the bank to get these details as quick as possible.

And for u,ur prepared metre bills should also be protected so as to avoid them getting it from any source.

Thanks and goodluck.

They want to silenced the people for saying it as it is.

oyebanji44:
Nigerians know wella that people from divided camp will not like this good news.....

If u are smart and sensible...u will know that such visit isn't just visit it comes with consequences.

A business man can say this but he won't tell u that federal govt would also reduce the tax burden on them.

U guys just come up here and shout as if u have one project u have ever done with cement.

Same way u guys were shouting he secured 14billion dollars,he has cleared way for Nigerians to start travelling to Dubai. These propaganda talks made many radio and TV stations to retract and apologise for this misrepresentations that u guys are aiding in this country.


Talk like an educated person and stop shouting instead reason before talking...ask if this is workable after all,he is not the only biggest cement seller in Nigeria

PrinceOfLagos:
No loud am 😂

Anytime I see them asking for help here,immediately I see that Yoruba name...I just start wondering how some people would be suffering and still supporting what is killing them.

Iamanoited:
NIGERIA IS NOT UKRAINE. THERE'S NO PUTIN TO TAKE OVER. NIGERIA HAS THE SW, THE SE AND THE AREWA. AND SO IT IS TIME FOR THE AREWAS AND THE SE TO CRY FOR THE ADOPTION OF FAPRES FOTCS AND CTC FOCS TRFG. TINUBU IS WISE.

If Tinubu is wise why is it that most Yorubas have turned online beggars?

And most land landlords in Lagos are now begging their tenants for money to be deducted from rents.

I mean why are guys suffering and faking the smiles?

Most of u lots can not eat normal meal anymore.

I really donnot understand this news.

Is it that it contains mercury or that u want them to start production in Nigeria...I really do not get this matter.

I remembered when Dora used to tell us then that colgate toothpaste was poisonous not until colgate started production in Nigeria,hence stopped being poisonous.


Added note: someone here said I was stupid because I mentioned how Dora told us how colgate was bad and today,the same colgate is producing in Nigeria. At that time,the only people that disputed Dora was Sahara reporters and the same trend might be rolling out.

Below is the evidence at that time.

From the name alone u are supposed to know that there isn't any future in this company.

emee701:
Even Igbos hate themselves

May be ur family members.