₦airaland Forum

chinchonglee:
Men are the most stupid set of human beings.

Despite all theses things we see online, weddings are still happening every Saturdays and those same set of men are stilll the one footing the wedding cost, the bride price, the marriage expenses like house rent et al.

I dnt pity men like this. You shuld continue suffering yourselves

Exactly!!!!

And if they run into any problem, health or financial, the woman is goneeeee!

bunto:
See all the comments above. Totally SMH!
The black man is yet to allow his brain to advance. The police needed to separate the couple before one kills the other and the woman is the more endangered specie as well as her children, so it's the man that must leave the house as he can fend for himself.

However, in Nigeria, we believe the house belongs to the man, so the wife must leave for the man.

Doesn't that say that black people are closer to animals than cerebral humans.

How is it beneficial to your race to protect the strong and expose the weak to danger?

You are crazy. Where in the video did you see violence or anything to suggest the guy is a threat or violent with the woman?
This is pure power play. Women power will last another generation at the most cause women have shown that they are just as bad and autocratic and selfish as men.

Weak mumu men, keep marrying your early grave. Shebi you can’t live without a woman abi?

Nonexisting:
Use women for what they are meant for. Fucck them and go. If you want children, marry a woman and treat her like cock treats mother hen. If you live abroad, on no account should you marry and take your wife with you . Marry her and leave her in your village if possible or rent a self contain for her in a small city. Take your kids with you to school abroad when they are of age. Do this and live long like Methuselah. I move.

Best advise EVER!!!

Learn to live without them, it’s hard but the western world will TEACH you!!!

RedChiefPriest:
The only woman I can spend money to bring across the other side of the world over to myself is my mother.
When I travel out, it is in that country I will find my wife.
I will not and never bring a woman over in this era that betraying people is the order of the day.
If you will come then pay for everything.






I'm not talking about messing up and I can't be kicked out of my house except I have a problem with the law not with a woman.

Many tales of men bringing their woman over and she started changing and some even go to the extent of leaving the dude that brought them over to follow another man.
I can't use my money to bring trouble over or bring frustration into my life.


I understand my good man
But evil women are all over,good women are all over,evil men are all over and good men are all over also.
Marrying a citizen can go wrong or right and marrying a Nigerian lady can go either wrong or right also.
No manual on how to live life,we just take risk and hope it turns out right.

I like how western world is teaching Nigerian men to use their brain!

NwaNimo1:
But the mugu suppose only put his name for the tenancy....... if he was paying the rent

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SHUT UP!!!

Are you in the UK? Do you know the basic domestic law here? Love as much as you like but in the western world never sign a slaveowner document called marriage certificate. It’ll turn you to your wife’s slave!

Miracle1991:
#ipobarecriminals!

Real criminals ooo!

Ibo land don penme!

Dodger8:
This is what happens when you come from a pedigree of poverty, you are a in prison of your mind. Sell family house to buy ticket and relocate? Na so e bad for you? If you are suffering ask for help. We are talking job benefits you are here thinking of leeching off the system... What kind of yeye gig are you doing that doesn't offer health insurance , education reimbursements , stock options and 401k or pension after 90 days for starters? If God forbid you start as a cleaner after 10 or however many years you remain a cleaner the problem is not the system its YOU. School don close abi? Your mates wey dey live well no go find wetin dem dey read or do to improve themselves stay on the internet spewing insults .. Las las you'll end up doing wire wire in your old age.. Ekuke like you. Oh and list where youve travelled to shebi na you dey here forming know it all..

Ode! Check my last post!!!

CYPRIANJUNGLE:
Go and brain wash ur mum and not me you ain't in any UK u dey for under one bridge dey yarn nonsense

Google any street of your choice in Barking IG11, UK and I will go and paste CYPRIANJUNGLE on the street sign, take a phone picture, upload and send it back to you in my reply. Mumu, go and join your mates under the bridge!
And for your information I love Lagos pass London or New York or Los Angeles or Paris or Dubai or Istanbul or Rome or Casablanca or Brussels or Zurich or Frankfurt or Amsterdam (Kai!!! I don travel for this world ooo). Infact like Lagos I love Accra, Banjul, Dakar, Conakry or Abidjan or Nairobi .......
Try me I am in London right now!!!! And I will return to Lagos city on Sunday, June 7 and I can show you my street in Lekki and my beloved Amala joint in Ajao Estate!!!
Ode!

CYPRIANJUNGLE:
Go tell ur papa

If I was given the opportunity I can't be sharing the same country with a cow like you

Given the opportunity? By whom?
You and your fada will die in that zoo!

Ninokingz1:
I’m in Nigeria.

You wish to see me?

No wonder you are living in abroad fantasy.

Dodger8:
Mumu check my bio before you come on here and display your foolishness ... I'm sure your family has realized it wasted money on your education but you don't need to expose it to everyone. If you don't have facts to counter my arguments please shut up... I blame Netflix for letting people like you think they understand how things work in the Civilized world. Some concepts will remain strange to you till you leave that jungle.

Tell us where you have travelled to or lived. Impoverished idiot talking about social security benefits like its a something to be proud of. Social security is mainly for people at the bottom of the ladder. Ode!
Come to the UK and be a cleaner nau,.. see if your wife or children will be proud of you. Oya go and sell your family house and jaapa! After 20 years you will cry en.......and your destiny will be spent in a cold single box room in London. Ode!

CYPRIANJUNGLE:
Go tell ur papa

If I was given the opportunity I can't be sharing the same country with a cow like you

I am in that same UK your papa and multiple generations are dreaming of coming, though you will never get here. You will never get a visa. Kee yaself!

Dodger8:
But what's his quality of life? Is he afraid of getting kidnapped in Uk? What about healthcare and benefits for him and his kids(assuming he has any) as well as standard of education. We act as if money is the be all and end all. Did the man complain to you that he wants to go back to the bank? Im sure he knows what to do to relocate back if he wants to.

You’ve never travelled anywhere! See him talking about benefits and kids.

Michaelota:
The best choice is for him to move to UK abeg. Naija is bleeped country

Lack of exposure dey worry una!

Ninokingz1:
A cleaner doing a full time job in UK is paid better than a Director in Federal Civil Service.

But if his reasons for leaving Nigeria is because all his friends are in UK then it’s not a good one. On the aspect of being lonely might be true depending on the part of UK he’s planning to stay. (But don’t forget white babes the rush Nigerians o, lol).

For there’s nothing special in UK might also be true but don’t forget that nothing too special is in Nigeria too. At least, you will see usefulness of being a human in UK.

For career wise, as an IT personal that guy will get a better Job that will pay him nothing less than £60k p|a all he has to do is doing a little upgrade courses here.

Finally even if he ends up as an Care Assistant, at the end of every month, he goes home with nothing less than a million naira after Tax and 500k savings after monthly expenses.

So, how many Jobs in Nigeria can guarantee you that?

Are you in Nigeria or the Uk?
You are surely not in the UK.

rita25:
are u sure they are his real parents? omo he should JAPA the future is too unknown in NAIJA

Speak for yourself! It’s your own future that is uncertain.

CYPRIANJUNGLE:
This question is just mocking us in disgust

No normal person would think twice before leaving this zoo

Local monkey in the zoo, travel first!

Amuochicha:
I hate Men

I hate women pass

LoudLord:
Any opportunity for me to japa for this country,omo I dey grab am once

Go and get a visa nau!

lexoft:
if you cant japa just let me help u japa,

y asking stupid question

Go Uk and enjoy better governance

Local boy who has never travelled talking nonsense. Do you know what living in the UK means?

danngnews:
When this issue came up, once u open whatsapp you would see this warning to either accept their new terms or lose ur account with a certain time.

That decision was very unpopular and whatsapp lost some members while rivals like telegram and signal gained more members.

Facebook had to do a lot damage control and tacitly withdrew the threat of anyone losing their account for not accepting such terms.

All these happened very openly online and offline and everyone knows it, in fact it has actually almost been forgotten , then four months after our ever vigilant government started warning Nigerians about the consequences of Facebook latest terms, what does that say about the seriousness of such government?

Don't u think this is the way they been handling the affairs of this country that we are in such a mess.

A reasonable government when criticized, look into such criticism and make amends.

Thank you so much for this fantastic response. Well appreciated.

However I am really tired of Nigerians pointing fingers at the ‘government’. And there is this “them” and “us” divide. It is high time for Nigerian people to understand that we are the government and the government are Nigerians. The government of the country displays the character of the people. If you say the government is stupid, slow, lazy, indolent, unresponsive, irresponsible, looting thieves, corrupt, disorderly, lawless etc etc, these are the character of the average Nigerian citizen. Invariably when the find themselves in position of authority and governance, all of those character comes into display.

Instead of building lasting public infrastructure across the country, our officials are stealing public funds not to set up businesses, factories or large scale farming but to buy cars, travel, girlfriends, clubbing etc demonstrating the show off, low mentality of the average stupid Nigerians.

So Nigerians should stop finger pointing and change their own character. Until then there will be no solution to our national and society problems. Poverty and backwardness will persist - shame!

Omodua:
It is not hidden. Find out from other sources. Are you not in Nigeria??

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danngnews:
In that 4 months it took them to "warn" Nigerians, who protected us?

The question is WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST THEY DO?

Don’t be just a critic, offer suggestions and solutions.

yomicbobo:
Something they couldn't try in the EU they brought it here and all our government is saying is we should look for alternatives

What do you suggest they do?

Divinehealer:
She died a Mrs. That is VEEERY important in Nigerian society.

So so SAD!!!!

imagrg:
Hard Lesson for ladies: Never marry a broke or jobless man if you are a financially viable lady.

They will not listen. Our women are emotional and senseless and that is the reason the country is full of children we cannot feed or give a proper future!

Kayw4re:
Very correct. The psychological responsibilities of being a man of the house is driving most men nuts.

Getting married is attached to a whole lot of bills paying. You pay bills till you die.

Till you die oooo!

I refuse sex to avoid making babies and i don’t treat her body as my property.

Tzar:
I keep telling folks that marriage is not by force. Marriage is not meant to be endured but managed and enjoyed.

Don't let any idiot murder you or turn you into a murderer. Stay alive for your kids and leave an abusive marriage ASAP.

Generally speaking, immediately he or she tells you there is no need to work, run away from that person. They want to handicap you financially and enslave you. Resist the lazy tendency to depend on another person for resources. Also, resist the African madness that demonizes divorce.

I love this!

Yusufisraelj:
This is one way to go.



Amen. Equally you have a point. But truth be told, to a large extent a man determines the general dynamics of any relationship as far as he looks for a lady willing to commit at his level.

It's only a man that has no plan for his life or never strategic in life that will be depressed or angry over a proud woman who earns more than him, there's always a way to whatever one is looking for.

Men should learn to work on themselves to overcome life's challenges and look for those who will support them to the latter, it starts during courtship.

You marry for beauty alone or ass or pussy, one will end up in disaster.

Whether a man/lady succeeds or fails it's their fault, making excuses is the fastest way to the ground.

Whatever limitations we face is as a result of three things;
1. Our mindset

2. Our relationships

3. The God factor (the supernatural advantages in our lives)

Good but drop No.3

sultry69:
The writer might be biased,but there was no justification for killing fellow being talk less of his wife,no matter what transpired between both .

Of course no justification.

His wife or his nightmare?

MuyiBinary:
Most men i have seen this happened to,were gainfully employed before and after marriage but, things turn around and the men suddenly become dependent on their wives. The wives turns the home upside down...it only takes different length of time.

If you lose your job as a husband today, NEVER expect the peace in your home will be sustained. It's just a matter of time...depending on the tolerance threshold of your wive, the cookie will crumble sooner than expected.

Women want to marry but they don’t want to be a wife!