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'Check what is wrong and fix it' indeed.

A bit simplistic, naturally most humans profile each other based on appearance and how we carry ourselves, but if this is supposed to be blanket justification for cases of inappropriate behaviour towards women, plenty of women are still asked for sex and/or harassed regardless of the clothes they have on and how 'decently' they behave.

What exactly is 'the good guy'? Otherwise, you're just going to have a bunch of comments based on different personal definitions

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KWR9kZa9aHo

Usorohtheman:
Okay. Thanks for the clarity

Cool beans

Usorohtheman:
whether one is filling a form, the technicality should not be applied. The first child will always be the adopted child.

I said where the technicality is significant e.g. a medical form requiring information about biological relations or wherever else the detail would be of particular significance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_r-nPqWGG6c

https://tryimg.com/u/2020/05/03/tumblr_n11bficx7s1rw6zb8o1_400.gif

Usorohtheman:
see how you are shooting yourself in the legs? so if you filling a form, you still can't say the adopted child is still the first?

What are you on about?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OWl9p3oFKgg

Travis is prob one of my fav artists of the past 5 years

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcgT-7dXZ20

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAkY5m00rpY

It's very simple

Please don't adopt a child if you know you can't 100% treat them as your own, don't add to their trauma

Adopted child is still the first child

If you want to talk technicalities, the second child is obviously your first biological child. But that shouldn't change the way you view or treat them.

It shouldn't matter to the point of struggling to know what to call them, unless you're filling out some kind of form where the technicality is significant etc

Heiterkeit:
How can a woman regulate it?

Don't tone down exhibiting your self-worth just because of a guy. So basically don't 'regulate' it essentially

This is common with the ones with fragile egos, and we know that's a good portion of them

I don't think they hate it per se, I think they just prefer it to be regulated in a way that doesn't threaten them

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djV11Xbc914

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTqFdaVGRew

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3adFWKE9JE

I'm both disappointed and sympathetic at the same time. Frustrate someone enough and they'll act out, right?

I don't know anything about these 'Ikorodu' people sha, from the comments, they seem to have a reputation? Is this behaviour peculiar to them?

Sounds like your wife dislikes her niece for whatever reason and is exaggerating this situation as an excuse. There are probably more appropriate /less awkward ways to get the underwear for her but I don't think it's as big a deal as she's making it

By the way, accusing you of sleeping with her is also a very sick and serious accusation, you don't sound as 'outraged' about that particular point as I'd expect...maybe I'm not reading your tone correctly, if so, that's my bad

I dunno, there's either something she knows about the two of you that we don't know...or there's nothing going on and she's just being weird and difficult

She definitely doesn't like the niece and is singling her out though

Mariangeles:
I trust you but the rest, I doubt....especially Ibkupkakes

I love spicy food

Greedy parent using guilt trip tactics to squeeze out money beyond his son's capacity, this one is beyond 'honouring' your parent

And it was his job to pay for his son's school fees, he wants to be paid back for taking care of HIS responsibilities? Don't want to be responsible for children? Don't have them

cococandy:
So the three of us shall remain unadopted.

Maybe mariangeles is looking for old grown children. Let me go and apply

fieryy:
That's amazing! One day sha, we too must get our degree by fire by force

Amen o

fieryy:
Nooooooo! Don't break my heart like this

Ibkayee will now be enjoying all the food, while I will just be liking the pictures. That's wicked

I'm perfectly fine with this arrangement

janettee:
Java for now .

Nice to come across other black female coders

cococandy:
I hereby withdraw my application.

Maybe ibkayee is better.

No thank you please

cococandy:
It’s not that. In fact if you ladies adopt me, I’ll be cooking for you. Just hide me for now.

My child can talk

The girl was use talk and story finish me. I wonder if I used to talk like this when I was little. Her mouth only rests when she’s sleeping. Moms need peace and quiet too.

Awww, I love children I swear

fieryy:
Girl, you code too?!

And it's mostly java for now

Lol yeah I do it for my job

Cool, I've been practicing java during this downtime actually

fieryy:
Ibkayee, I think cococandy just stylishly rejected us o

I have chosen not to interpret it as a rejection, therefore it isn't as fas as I'm concerned

cococandy:
Me that’s looking for who will adopt me too

I know how to do chores

Buahaha