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I wouldn't encourage anyone to be financially dependent on anyone, women especially. But it's a personal choice

I don't know you personally so I wouldn't know if you're a part of this category, but generally, the same men who notoriously use money to get women turn around to complain about women using and being dependent on them for money. These men encourage the system they supposedly hate...when it's convenient

I also don't think the average Nigerian man even has the money to be 'funding' these females we keep hearing about them supposedly cashing out on, and these very average men get married every day to average women, who hustle and contribute their fair share

Guys who don't care about marriage (allegedly), always obsessed with women getting married, it's a weird phenomenon

SaintBishop:
Who encouraged these guys to do fraud?

https://www.nairaland.com/5823059/she-said-she-cant-marry

So the ideal husbands and 'heads of households' of tomorrow were coerced into a life of crime because a babe rejected him

Weakminded and no accountability too?

Stop embarrassing yourself and the other alfa males

cococandy:

The name is the obvious giveaway. Same thing I thought

Lol so obvious

"Beauty kate" ko lmao

chic2pimp:
Also please make sure your personal details are well guarded on this forum. Not saying you shouldn't give it out. Simply be extra cautious

Most definitely

supercase1:
[s]In Nigeria, when you think u have seen it all it's then you start seeing new things.96% of Nigerian girls are golddiggers and thieves,yes they are she-barawos.how can a lady be happy dating a Yahoo boy(internet fraudster),a heartless and evilminded creature hell bent on destroying others,himself and the already battered image of Nigeria at large.its shameful women we know a guy as a Yahoo guy and still follows him like a headless chicken,that's why I don't feel pity for them. getting a good wife in Nigeria now is a very tough battle.[/s]

And these "heartless, evil minded creatures hell bent on destroying others, himself and the already battered image of Nigeria at large" (in your own words) are ideal husband material isn't it

Don't forget the ideal ritualists too

This story sounds fake...even the username looks like something a non female carefully thought of to sound as 'female' as possible lol

I don't see anything wrong with what the girl has done, I'm sure you also have your own 'spec' (or anti spec sha lol) that you aren't willing to compromise on

And if you're planning on doing yahoo work, at least have a 'better' reason to be going down such a risky path other than for babes

chic2pimp:
OUR GIRL

Quality series. You should have a good look at it Ibkayee.

Thanks boo, googling it right now

Belafonte:
I’m a man of principles, I assure you I harbour no intentions of stealing you from your boo.

But if you were a stripper, I’d first need to inspect your tools of your trade. Professionally, of course, just to be thorough and all

Lol have a nice night this guy

And stay safe x

Belafonte:
Ko matter nau. I’m very sure I can give you actionable tips. You’ll probably be VP of your organization by year’s end . A trial shall convince you. See opportunity slipping away fa

Ok I’m a stripper, do you have a framework that caters to such line of work?

Lol jokes aside, I’m genuinely not single.

Belafonte:
How will I know if you don’t ell me? And I doubt you want to expose yourself to the entire NL .

Mail me jor. Ko fi story si le

Lmao bye, so you don’t even know the field I work in and you’re adamant on giving me career tips

You’re funny

Belafonte:
A trial, as they say, will convince you.

Hmu: belafonte864@gmail.com

It’s time to take your career to the next level

Give me a clue of what career tips you want to talk about, do you even know what I do?

Belafonte:
I’m particular about whom I share them with jor. These are decades’ old secrets

Lol I don’t believe you

Belafonte:
Hmm. Why do I get the feeling you’re just trying to shoo me off?

I’ll tell you what, I’ll be very professional about it. Just want to share a few career tips is all

Lol I’m not sha. Why do I get the feeling it won’t just be about career tips?

Say it here then

Belafonte:
I really would like to have a chat with you though.

GMail?

I’m actually not single so I don’t think that would be appropriate

Belafonte:
. Can’t send pms. I thought this would be private. Obviously not

Yeah it isn’t lol

karli4nia:
Ibk, You hurting me by responding to him..please stop..
I can not stand this anymore..

Lol both of you are jokers

Belafonte:
Hello Ibkayee, how’s it going?

You again, fine thank you lol

Belafonte:
We’ll revisit this.

Lol smh

Belafonte:
Lai lai o. You must prove it before I free you

Lol ok, I 'promise' I'm not

Belafonte:
I don’t believe you, Ibk. Prove it

Lol bye this guy

Belafonte:
Lol. Okay. What about you? Are you single? Remember all liars will go to hell.

No I'm not

Belafonte:
I’m being serious here

Haha she's not single

Belafonte:
If she’s single, I gotta friend for her

Lol joker

Belafonte:
Hello Ibk, what happened to that scary friend of yours whose picture you used?

Lol she's on a break I guess

I find it weird that you find it unreasonable for her to want a court marriage? Isn't the court marriage actually the official/recognized thing? What's the point of getting married if not for the court marriage unless you just want to hoodwink her with the shallow 'idea' of marriage without the actual full responsibilities. I dunno, maybe it's a Nigerian thing.

If you just want to cohabitate as a couple, better let her know that's your intention

I think the average person has these qualities, it's just amplified with Nigerians given the country's average living circumstances and the fact that you're probably around them more

karli4nia:
They are a mental body of too many yesterdays.
As a corolarry, being an adult does not always amount to one being truly wise..

Lol

Plead:
I’ve finished it. The ending was trash.

It didn’t end well.

I’d have rated it 8/10 if not for that ending,lemme maintain the initial rating of 6.5/10.

Lol fair enough, I recall not watching the last 2-3 episodes but I heard what happened at the end

Adults aren't 'mature' by default. Mentally, a lot of them aren't any different from the child version of themselves, just taller, older looking obviously, but forced into 'responsibilit-ing' (literally), but a lot of it is just optics

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