Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 5:33pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Ginalex: Breakfast  Chickwizz sandwich and hot beverage. Looks toasted to perfection |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 5:32pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
KanwuliaExtra: Time for Akara and ? Your choice. 
Akamu, custard or quick oats!  Nice! |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 5:32pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 5:31pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Desmond Elliot Thanks Tinubu, Others Again As He Sits In Lagos House Of Assembly by ibkayee(f): 5:30pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
pocohantas: He is throwing a party somewhere in Surulere. Yoruba people and owambe...
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Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Shows Off His New Car by ibkayee(f): 5:10pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
ednut1: if i gist u. U no go understand lol  By the way, you look quite solid, interesting.  |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 4:58pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
DonGtoG1: You made some points regarding what both parties could be loosing earlier, which i think there was no need going back to that as you already know and mentioned them. Cool beans x |
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Shows Off His New Car by ibkayee(f): 4:55pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
ednut1: Borrow pose. If you go to his house in BERA estate no car dey there lol pocohantas: Wetin you sef go do for im house?
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Family › Re: Love, Emotions And Health by ibkayee(f): 4:54pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
I was giggling and smiling throughout reading your post  P.s. get a health check  |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 4:51pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
DonGtoG1: You may not believe it, but the guy WILL lose his LIFE when there is no proper feeding and self care.
Or do you forget that sweet things kills too?.
What do you think is one of the reasons for "AUTO STOP"(death) on a woman while doing KEREWA?. So his loss is that the sex will be so sweet he won’t be able to function properly? If so and I’m not misunderstanding you, I am officially done. LMAO
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Celebrities › Re: Iyabo Ojo To Kemi Olunloyo: No Man Will Marry An Insane Witch Like You by ibkayee(f): 4:44pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Daylight what?  |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 4:35pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
DonGtoG1: @Ibkayee, i strongly believe that going into consensual sex just because of the pleasure is out of it, without putting into consideration the consequence(s) of what you are going into. Either positive or negative.
And this is because, if you are going into any business, there is always the thought of gain/profit, leaving behind the main obstacle, which is loss. And loss ought have been put into consideration/thought of, as it may come into play.
Another thing i think of, is the saying that one shouldn't do the crime if you can't do the time.
BOTH parties stands to gain or lose, depending on them. What’s the guy losing? As far as what society perceives as a ‘loss’? I’m not necessarily telling girls to go out and start engaging in this, I just support the ones who decide to and do. |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 4:30pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lefulefu: haha that guy"s post was really hilarious i tell u .dat ashawo thread na really werey thread   |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 4:09pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 4:01pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
sod09: why will you say you don't do the bolded but you support it. More like saying you don't steal or kill but you support the act, please stay one place so we can conclude on Nigeria ladies too  Lol I can support things I don’t necessarily indulge in as long as isn’t harmful. How can you compare getting money for sex to stealing and killing? Like I said, ideally, the two would just fvck and move on with life without trying to get anything out of one another but life isn’t like that unfortunately |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 3:44pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: 4d fact that women didn't create themselves, doesn't mean women don't have control over when, how& with whom they choose 2 have consensual sex. D question of societal rules is more straight forward than u make it look cos women are also part of d society. But whatever d case, d bottom line is that its only a woman that decides how she will use her body. Biology doesn't decide that neither does society. A woman is firmly in control of her body. Once again, u have only confirmed what I said about d cogency of ur argument Lol ok fam, I’ve heard |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 3:38pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: A woman is d sole protector of her body. If she can't do d needful 2 protect it, then she can't justify collecting money 4 sex which she will enjoy& which u called "a great recreational activity". This y I said earlier that ur reasons weren't cogent Yeah yeah yeah. We didn’t create ourselves (biologically) and we also didn’t create the societal rules that judge us differently for enjoying sex compared to men. Since we take the loss for things out of our control, we invest by charging  Lol I don’t even engage in this personally but I support women who reason this way, it is what it is *shrug* |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 3:15pm On Jun 07, 2019*. Modified: 3:39pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: Solution:
Abstain if u don't want large VJ, slut shame etc Be faithful Condomise sex 2 avoid preg, abortions &STDs Abstain? Why should they have to give up such a great recreational activity just because of other people’s ignorance?  Be faithful? So only people who cheat go through what I mentioned?  Condom? Ideally safe sex should be practiced, realistically this isn’t always the case, men push for raw sex too, it isn’t just women ‘forgetting’ or not being responsible |
Romance › Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by ibkayee(f): 3:01pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
chiboy1116: yea , lol, i wouldn't take that from my 18 year old daughter at all , but seems like her parents are okay with it , it's not wrong legally though.
I doesnt make sense to me though , but according to him the girl loves him and the parents are aware of this . It’s not wrong legally, it’s just weird. Plus we’ve heard this same story all too many times before. Pensioner Mature man about to leave bachelor life or is ready settle down looks for a young, poor naive pretty virgin in the village to raise take as his wife Since they’re poor the parents and girl will look to him as their chance ‘out’ and go along with it, most people in their situation would. Lol the girl has a lot of years and experience ahead of her though so her eye will clear soon enough and watch her be swept away by a better candidate once she’s been ‘cleaned’ up  Best of luck to all of them  |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 2:46pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Deepfeel: And men will continue to treat you like sex slaves Mo ti gbo |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by ibkayee(f): 2:43pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
mariga: Lunching!
Hot oha soup ✅ Yellow Eba ✅ Mariga husband material how many yards? |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 2:38pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: Mark my words: "cogent justification". I can't accept something that isn't cogent Lol ok bros |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 2:36pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
DonGtoG1: Please, who among the two parties in a consensual sex between two adults do you think potentially lose more?. Female. Why? Slut shamed, health risks like pregnancy and abortions. Oh and lest I forget, wide ‘borehole’ vagina (according to nland lol), can’t leave it too wide because that will be unfair to our husbands  And sometimes even safety. Men tend to have fewer ‘anxieties’ about sex than women |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 2:31pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: We have agreed that both parties enjoy sex. That is a fact& because they both enjoy sex, then there's no basis 4 payment 2 one of d parties. What u haven't been able 2do is 2 establish a cogent justification 4 women collecting money 4 what they enjoy doing cos there's no justification. Cheers I’ve put forth my justification(s). You just don’t want to accept it lol and that’s ok |
Politics › Re: FCT Natives, AOIYEO To President Buhari: We Are Necessary But Not Evil by ibkayee(f): 2:30pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Lol he couldn’t even style it out, where’s his media training?  Don’t allow your sectionalism to show when you’re leading a country as diverse as Nigeria. |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 2:20pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: I didn't ask u about "potential" loss. But since u used d word "potential", that means it isn't actually a loss. D important thing is that both parties enjoy d act& if they both do, then one party shouldn't get remunerated 4 an act that is enjoyed by both parties Ok we aren’t going to agree on this thing, no worries. Have a blessed day |
Romance › Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by ibkayee(f): 2:19pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
chiboy1116: how many years your papa take senior your mama ?
Just a question oh. An 18 year old dating a 30 year old is different to a 26 year old dating a 38 year old Key difference is mental development and experiences. I won’t call him a pervert per se, she’s technically an adult, but if you heard your 18 year old sister was dating a 30 year old man most people would do a double take  |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 2:07pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: I didn't ask 4d reason y women collect money 4 sex. D question I asked is this, is sex by 2 consenting adults not enjoyed by both parties? Are both parties not satisfying their sexual urges by giving themselves 2 each other 4 sex? And I’m telling you even though they both enjoyed it, one party is potentially losing more than the other in the long run |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 1:54pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: U are talking from both sides of ur mouth. Was d sexual act enjoyed by both parties? Whether it's ur husband or not. As long as it is consensual, do both parties enjoy themselves? Whether she was slut shamed or not or whether there's health risk involved, is not d issue. Do 2 consenting adults enjoy d act of sex? Yes or no? When a man fvcks u, are u both not satisfying each others sexual urges? This mindset is why women will continue to charge, to men it’s a non issue. Lol no problem, get your money baby gehl  |
Romance › Re: ''stop Depending On A Man's Money'' - Lady Blasts Her Fellow Ladies by ibkayee(f): 1:39pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
lexy2014: If a man fvcks u, is he d only one enjoying d sex? Are u doing him a favour by letting him fvck u or u are satisfying ur sexual urge? You’re most definitely doing him a favour, unless he’s your husband  Ideally two consenting adults will fvck, enjoy themselves and move on, but that’s not what happens. A guy will pretend he and the girl he slept with are on the same boat because they ‘both enjoyed it’ and then turn around to slut shame another woman (or sometimes even the same woman) who is free with her sexuality, ontop of health risks. They both enjoyed it physically but the girl loses from it as far as society is concerned, so why not get that schmoney  |
Romance › Re: You Casting Stones From A Comfort Zone; Love And Suicide Killings by ibkayee(f): 12:58pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Heartbreaks can be rough, don’t try to rush the process though, it takes time. Try to keep yourself occupied and surround yourself with friends, stay strong |
Celebrities › Re: OAP Toolz Drops Shade For Wizkid, Nigerians react by ibkayee(f): 12:50pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Don’t think it was for Wizkid |