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theButterfly:
I like this gif.

I'm loving your excellent contributions on Nairaland these days. You used to only post songs in the Music section before I see you participating in threads now. Thumbs up.

Nova15:
Kimetsu no Yaiba is the best anime I have seen in a long time. It's easily the best of 2019.

GoTV:
Reply my email

chic2pimp:

GoTV:
I'm serious. Not trolling

GoTV:
What region of the UK are you? I'm coming to Scotland for an event and we could meet if you want

sod09:
lmao I don't know why this is funny

sod09:
but you already condemned the man

czarina:
You and this your gif boyfriend ehn.

light4life:
lol, I actually tried that once...two bites and I was filled with regret

Mbakuthegreat:
Again polygamy and cheating is not the same thing, if he actually believed in polygamy himself and thought that it was the way to live then why was he keeping it a secret that he was sleeping with another women? That was an random excuse spewed out for his bad behaviour and its such a bad excuse that i cant imagine any man using it which is why i have my suspisions that OP may be here to batch african men and their way of life... What is she implying then saying that african men need to know that women have feelings, are we emotioneless unlike european men? That is basically what she is saying. She shouldn’t try to use her bad husband that she choose as the representation of african men. Did i say that polygamy is not practised in africa? And polygamy is not the problem here, cheating is. And OP has not responded to any of the comments, if she doesn’t after a day it probably nothing more than a fake person here to spew shit and not genuine.

imitateMe:
You need to encourage her to pray and love her husband unconditionally. It may be difficult to tolerate the abuse, but there is no other way than praying for him, looking the best you can for him, preparing the best dishes for him, be willing to even die for him!
Women must be submissive totally.

I nevertheless admire your willingness to help solve her problem.

sod09:
this is a one sided story what if the husband come with a different one, why do we judge so easily

light4life:
lol...same boat...I love my sandwiches with some protein, this was an "out of the books" thing for me and it worked!

aww, sorry about your dislike for these foods, I could eat raw onions any day... lol

Mbakuthegreat:
Maybe so but call it what it is then, cheating, and not polygami. And polygami is not practised in all african cultures and instead of making a posts to batch african men and saying we are cold hearted who will cheat on our women without thinking about their feelings she should batch her own husband whom she choose. But OP may be fake and is just here to batch african men.

Mbakuthegreat:
Polygamy may be a part of african culturr but cheating and polygamy is not the same thing, the man cheated and there is nothing justifiable about that. I have suspisions against OP, i don’t believe any african man is going around cheating and then claiming that polygamy is a part of african culture and then OP goes on saying african men are cold hearted who dont know that their women have feelings too unlike european and other men. This may be a post to spew hate against african men and nothing more.

light4life:
Lol, I know it sounds odd but kai! it just melts me every time I eat it

you could try it, with mayonnaise spread tho. thank me later

light4life:
breakfast and lunch today...
I wonder how some people hate onions! this onion and tomato sandwich was just right. (mayo spread too )
Egusi plus semo for lunch )

9jaBloke:
Yes, it works. No health hazard, no extra cost. You just have to know how to use them and where to place them.

Chiefochiefo:
[s]I won't mind you, just because you are a woman. Women are always happy seeing their fellow woman suffer marriage. You're of them[/s]

Fuqman:
It's not African to maltreat or cheat on your spouse. However, a cheat is a cheat irrespective of the continent or whatsoever. African women, wake your damn lazy a*sses up and become independent. Get a life or something.. I've come to realize that, men hardly mess up with independent women.

Chiefochiefo:
[s]The only problem am seeing here is you. Yes YOU!
It is you because you are porknosing, it is you because you are not minding your business, it is you because you left a four month old baby looking for a proof that is worthless, it is you because you have left your former life as a beautiful woman to a full time mama, and it is you because you fail to understand that a man whose wife just gave birth will have to leave her for sex for sometimes.
My advise is this, since he has told you your faults, try and make up, pretend like you don't mind his mess again, give yourself time, build up your morales, be jovial, focus on making yourself beautiful like when he first met you. Remember, women has the gift of beauty. Do this, your hubby will come back to you magically. It's an advise.[/s]

kennygee:
I don't believe he is irredeemable. No one is irredeemable. If you ask @OP now, she will tell you he wasn't always that way.

kennygee:
You people who always stress on infidelity, isn't there room for forgiveness?

I use to say "if my husband cheats on me, I'll leave". But wisdom has taught me better.

The mess in her home might just be the devil's way of pushing her out of her home for a strange woman to enter.

It is not a battle she can fight with force and quarrels.

olril17:
see advice oo..
by their posts,we shall know the married and unmarried ones..
very stupid And thoroughly foolish advice.

nwanneni:
I'm having issues with my mail.
You know what,I appreciate your time.
Thanks a lot.ive troubled you too much over "That case"
Doing so again will not be nice,thank you dear friend.

CHoccolaTE:
I have even heard of worse cases than OPs.
There was one married man that told his wife to call his side chic and apologise to her after the wife warned the side chic to leave her husband.

My former neighbour beat his wife till her nose broke and was bleeding all over her dress because the stupid man wanted to invite the girlfriend to the house and his wife locked the door and hid the key.


These are just few, I know many other horrifying cases of married men acting like beasts to their wives because in Africa nobody cautions them.
Funny thing is that the baby you bore is for his family and bears his name and will carry on his lineage. But he is body shaming you for losing your beauty after having the child.

Madam OP, if you are open to using diabolical means against Jim please do so. Or get people to severely beat him up and wound him seriously.
Or just ignore him and bear. If na me I will put little quantities of me and my babies piss and shit in his every meal I prepare for him along with using diabolical means against him.
I love revenge, I don't joke with it.

nwanneni:
I'm having issues with my mail.
You know what,I appreciate your time.
Thanks a lot.

nwanneni:
please can you resend it to me?