Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Forces Woman To Use Her Suv To Sow Seed by ibkayee(f): 7:20pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Piiko: Ibkayee I want to hear your opinion on this Sounds like another corrupt pastor just doing his thaang, story sounds weird sha |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by ibkayee(f): 7:15pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Download Badoo App But Dont Want To Have Sex by ibkayee(f): 12:17pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
Thegamingorca: Omoh...u can catch atleast 5 fishes every day in badoo waters oh... nah olosho full dere Not saying they aren't but it's not 'officially' a sex app |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by ibkayee(f): 12:14pm On Sep 08, 2017 |
Bojack Horseman season 4 just dropped, my body is ready |
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Download Badoo App But Dont Want To Have Sex by ibkayee(f): 11:58am On Sep 08, 2017 |
It's used for hookups but officially it's a 'dating focused social network' and not necessarily for sex
If she isn't providing what you're looking then leave her and keep it pushing on to the next |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 9:53am On Sep 08, 2017 |
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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 11:08pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Dear Nigerian Women: Not All Men Cheat – Please Believe It. by ibkayee(f): 8:03pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: I think Nigerian women already know that not all men cheat. It's actually some men that would have you believe that cheating is germane to all Nigerian men, to lower your expectations and subsequently your standards. Lol exactly, they're the main pushers of the whole 'it's in their nature' rhetoric |
Politics › Re: Yorubas Are The Most Industrious,Richest & Educated Tribe in Nigeria & Africa by ibkayee(f): 7:38pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
okway: Na wa o. Maybe na totit. Who keeps dragging these trash in here? Lol success attracts everyone and even the trash aren't excluded |
Politics › Re: Yorubas Are The Most Industrious,Richest & Educated Tribe in Nigeria & Africa by ibkayee(f): 7:22pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
okway: I wonder who asked you. Totit and Ibkaye, did you ask him? I didn't o |
Politics › Re: Yorubas Are The Most Industrious,Richest & Educated Tribe in Nigeria & Africa by ibkayee(f): 6:28pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
shervydman: good....what I mean is that , after scrolling through d thread....if u wanna make a comment on it as I asked earlier...tell me ur view on this thread and not that thread.
thanks. Nothing to do with this thread, I'll just tag you in another if I have anything to say |
Politics › Re: Yorubas Are The Most Industrious,Richest & Educated Tribe in Nigeria & Africa by ibkayee(f): 6:21pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
shervydman: ibkayee.....pls, if u'll say something negative, come and say it here o.. but if it's positive; u can say it there.
click LIKE if u get this message. Huh? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kenya Is Ahead of Nigeria In All Aspect (Facts Don't Lie) by ibkayee(f): 3:48pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
shervydman: good for u.....u're observant, what can u say about d thread? Just started, I can summarise when I've read more |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kenya Is Ahead of Nigeria In All Aspect (Facts Don't Lie) by ibkayee(f): 3:41pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
shervydman: the thread is something else, I tell u..... very stupid thread it is.
u may scroll through it sha, I doubt if u'll find something that makes sense in it. Lol a lot of disagreements but still informative to an extent |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kenya Is Ahead of Nigeria In All Aspect (Facts Don't Lie) by ibkayee(f): 3:36pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
shervydman: ibkayee.....Aw are u and what are u doing on this ridiculous thread? just asking. I'm fine thanks, hope you're well Just reading, I usually see it in passing but never looked through, interesting/hilarious thread  |
Car Talk › Re: The New Honda N-box Is Indeed A Box, But It’s Beautiful (photos) by ibkayee(f): 2:12pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
That's an ugly car |
Romance › Re: Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last? She's Scared Of My Attitude. by ibkayee(f): 2:07pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
BuddhaPalm: Women don't want cruel.
They respond better to firmness - applied with love.
The same way you'd treat your daughter.
I'll recommend you read these:
1. The Way of The Superior Man and 2. Wild Nights.
Both written by the same guy.
Oh, and "No More Mr Nice Guy". Nice way to put it  |
Romance › Re: Happy Birthday by ibkayee(f): 11:58am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Happy birthday Victor |
Family › Re: What Happened On My Way To Work This Morning by ibkayee(f): 11:54am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Danhumprey: Really? Nigerian men alone? Not alone/only |
Politics › Re: The 2017 Constituency Projects Allocation For 36 States by ibkayee(f): 11:14am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Pocket* Allocation |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Shows Off Her Fiance (Photos) by ibkayee(f): 10:40am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Knew it would be Ronke  |
Family › Re: What Happened On My Way To Work This Morning by ibkayee(f): 10:39am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Lack of self control is a big problem with a lot of Nigerian men |
Romance › Re: Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last? She's Scared Of My Attitude. by ibkayee(f): 10:32am On Sep 07, 2017*. Modified: 10:34am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Hmm, were the two guys she left you for actually 'bad' as per being jerks or just confident, 'dominant', 'firm', charismatic etc? Because I find that these terms are often conflated, though a bad guy can definitely possess these traits, not all guys that are like this are necessarily 'bad'.
1st girl - she was honest with you about not wanting a relationship and owes you nothing. Though she shouldn't have left you like that when that guy approached her as a 'friend'
2nd - I've found that 'nice' guys can come across as a bit servile which is why some girls only see you as 'friend' material. Were you in an actual romantic relationship or just very 'close' (it isn't clear). If not, she doesn't owe you anything either though she was wrong for lying to you. If you were in a relationship she was wrong for lying to you AND seeing someone else.
Are you mixing 'nice' with being servile/subservient?
As for Hadiza, no need to be a jerk and at the same time, you don't have to let her walk all over you, try to find a balance |
Romance › Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by ibkayee(f): 10:03am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa: Hey guys,
I'm in my mid 20's and i've been working for a few years now, my current salary is very decent and i'm striving to earn more. Obviously at my age, i'm thinking of the long term which obviously includes my career but i'm also looking forward to and marriage and kids. However, the vast majority of guys i've met are either not ready for the long term, or they're still in their 'struggling' phase.
Is it bad that I want someone who is at least on the same level as me, or maybe even slightly below? Am I a 'gold-digger' because i don't really want to 'eat garri' with a guy before he blows? I've dated these guys before but even till now their level hasn't changed much despite all their talk about potential.
I don't mind having to split the bill once in a while or even contribute but i'm a lady that's used to certain tastes. My family isn't Dangote rich but we're doing quite well, and i'd like to continue living that life or at least not drop too far below. What do you guys think? Do I keep looking for these 'almost/made guys'(can anyone tell me where to find them? lol) or do I settle for a struggler. Since you actually bring something to the table I see nothing wrong with you having set this particular standard for yourself If you find someone you like who may not be where he wants to be career/finance wise currently but is ambitious and has the qualifications to get there at some point realistically, cases like this tend to be temporary, an already made man of course is more preferable but realistically most people have to start somewhere and success isn't an overnight thing so men like this are definitely types I also would also consider. Anyone else is a no and other than the scenario above, don't settle for 'less' if you don't want to, especially if it's because people are trying to guilt, 'scare' etc you into it. Don't drop your standards just because you want to get married |
Family › Re: Our Wives Beat Us - 55 Lagos Husbands Cries For Help by ibkayee(f): 9:24pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
ShyCypher: Like Chris Rock said, "Ain't nobody above an ass whoopin'!"
Let's get d law straight - it's wrong to hit a woman - but when someone hits you -whether male, female or even child - you are entitled by law to defend yourself.
I've never hit a woman, but the day a woman will hit me & think I'll form gentleman, no amount of foundation will hide the bruises I'll leave on her face.
It's called "self defence".
Simple. I'm not telling you how you should handle it, I'm just stating that there are guys out there who still don't hit back |
Family › Re: Our Wives Beat Us - 55 Lagos Husbands Cries For Help by ibkayee(f): 9:16pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
Piiko:
:Dhumour me, women stronger than which men, its a case of a man exercising restraint coz he knows he's stronger joor Rare, but there can be exceptions |
Family › Re: Our Wives Beat Us - 55 Lagos Husbands Cries For Help by ibkayee(f): 9:02pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
ShyCypher: So this is the gender equality they've been yappin' about for years now?
Btw, what sort of weaklin' gets beat up by a woman?
Even Bobrisky defends & will defend himherself from hisher numerous haters includin' me.
Shioor moorevic: Are those weak-ass of men okay. Sometimes it's a case of men having been taught not to be physical against women, even in self-defence so he doesn't hit back because of conditioning, she may also be using a weapon etc. Also, it's not common, but some women can be stronger than men (the man in question sha). It's these kinds of comments that discourage men from speaking up |
Fashion › Re: Miss Ambassador For Peace 2017 Contestants (Photos) by ibkayee(f): 6:36pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
They did NOT have to do Miss Niger like that  |
Romance › Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by ibkayee(f): 2:05pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
sunshineG: yeah most times that is the case
Even if the girl likes the guy, the guy will still be able to see some traces in the girl. In the case of that brother, it is very obvious the lady is telling him to leave her nicely.
He is lucky he did not meet a sharp girl that will use his head Lool  |
Romance › Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by ibkayee(f): 1:53pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
sunshineG:
I am just telling that bro the bitter truth If he persist, he is going to become a maga I swear half the time when these guys complain about girls forming it's actually just that the girl isn't interested lol |
Romance › Re: Ladies Is Playing Hard To Get Now Obsolete? by ibkayee(f): 1:43pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
ibrocool: Stop that, girls are still in the act. I've been chasing a girl now for a month. When she finally answered me, she gave me a fake name and number. When I called the number the number she gave, I heard the voice of an Ibo guy.
I was so annoyed. Anyway, I will keep on trying. There is nothing to loose by trying. sunshineG: the girl doesn't like you bro https://s4.postimg.org/z3vsn9v5p/mjlol.png |
Travel › Re: Burial Pictures : Adamu Gabriel Ochai: Airforce Officer Who Died In Kaduna Crash by ibkayee(f): 1:02pm On Sep 06, 2017 |
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