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OgwuEgo:I am thanks, you too x |
OgwuEgo:Lol you crossed my mind a few days ago because I realised I hadn't seen you in a while |
OgwuEgo:Are you Pi..o? |
RaphaellaDD:Lool oh I am, but I’m more familiar with the 2nd gen kpop artists (Big Bang, After School, Girl’s Gen, 2PM etc) and a few ‘less mainstream’ groups (Epik High, Red Roc etc). I haven’t really checked out the 3rd gens as much, but I’ve heard of the popular ones and know a few songs or two ![]() |
RaphaellaDD:Haha I recognise their group name more than the group as individuals, so I wouldn’t be able to pick any of them out of a line up even in the flesh lol, but I guess the outfits are the attempts to distinguish them |
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I think I mentioned that I’d come across BTS dolls here before, but seeing them on my casual supermarket stroll tickled me so much lol (before Rona)
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RaphaellaDD:Thank you |
About to start watching The World of The Married I heard it's goodttt |
kangminhyuksho:Funnily enough, I randomly saw a headline about him going clubbing in Itaewon today or something (after weeks of not coming across any kpop/kdrama related things) and when I popped into this thread and saw someone ask why someone was being called an olodo, he instantly came to mind, low and behold you were talking about him haha |
kangminhyuksho:1. My ID is Gangnam beauty Lol that's all I know about him sha |
Snaagg:I believe that same thread used an example of a father who kept using the fact that he raised his own son as a bargaining chip to guilt and justify asking him for things that were clearly outside of the son's budget. People were not saying that children shouldn't keep their parents in mind or take care of them, the point was that some parents use manipulation to get what they want out of their children. Anywho I don't believe either or them are entitled to each others' wealth by default, BUT I think it is important to still have gratitude and keep your parents in mind when you're in a position to help them. And leaving your child a portion of wealth (whilst not 'deserved' just like that) is just 'one of those' standard acts of taking care of your child. Assuming there isn't an estranged, dysfunctional etc relationship in both situations |
Lol sounds like a white person thing if it isn't fake |
I don't think children are inherently deserving of their parents' wealth 'just because', but I would find it peculiar if a parent actively went out of their way to not give them anything (since by law if there were no will in place, a portion would automatically go to them anyway (I think)). I'd also find it peculiar if the parent went out of their way to give a specifically low portion |
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Just4test:Stop supporting them, they're not supposed to be your problem |
Lean on me no be press me die, give some people an inch and they will take the entire state. Your sister is a huge financial and mental burden, stop supporting her...I want to suggest the possibility of even cutting her off but that's up to you to decide. I see nothing wrong with helping out where possible, but they are not supposed to be your responsibility. What does she do for a living? What's her husband been doing in all of this? Your fiance is either really good at biting her tongue or really patient, you should be focusing on your own goals, particularly your up-coming marriage. What the heck is the husband doing? Lol |
Onyi22:Really? Had no idea |
It can be learned, I don't think it's as much of a deal-breaker to the average man as some make out, I can't see them throwing away a good quality woman in every other aspect because she can't cook, he doesn't have enough 'leverage' to easily snap his fingers and find another just like that... I also don't think many women have an issue with cooking in the first place or learning if they can't. It's a basic life skill, both of them should know how to cook, to be honest. And as far as how the responsibility is shared (or not shared) in the house primarily, it should not be the wife's duty by default, it should depend on how they're pulling their weight in the other areas overall...like a fair partnership where two people in a union just help each other out to make life easier, whether it be finances, domestic chores, caregiving etc |
When you're mentally and financially ready...I don't think there's a set age, however, it comes to a point where you'll need to look within and ask yourself if you're actually taking steps to being ready because I also think it's possible to get too comfortable in your family home. It could be for marriage, or living on your own/with roommates etc |
He isn't getting the kidney to be honest, if I ask him to change the will he can change it back once he's back on his feet |
ElasticStone:Lool I love when people say this |
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, hope you are staying safe and doing good? My best wishes.
For now, my main and alternate are out. 


