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Thank goodness she's covered up, one less excuse for the sexual deviant apologists to use

You sound like the confused one here. So a 'shapp guy' like you ran to nairaland and created a whole topic to ask this basic question lol

Stole my mum's wedding ring to flex with at school, when she was scrambling up and down looking for it I lied that I didn't know where it was. I ended up dropping it down a window onto some roof thing by accident, I was freaking out about how I would get it back without getting caught for a few days, then I decided to climb down to get it myself without anyone seeing me and raising alarm (imagine an adult seeing a little kid casually on a roof). I managed to get it without anyone seeing me, then I placed it somehwere for her to 'find' lol

sisisioge:
At least, he's not being bullied as a midnight paper. I'm sorry...I couldn't help noting his double wahala. Broke and marriedless in his 40s! Dang....there is wickedness in the land. Let him find a church to be going, if he gets on the right side of the pastors, they will festoon a wife on him like lillies

Lmao

Atteraino:
Really where will i get it.

I usually get mine from amazon, does amazon ship to Nigeria?

Try Jamaican castor oil

Leave the rich guys to go after what they want, whether it's a fine girl who just stands there and looks pretty, a smart and productive girl who 'addresses his board members', or even a virgin. When you're bringing something desirable to the table, your options are larger

These pretty girls with nothing to offer but their 'bruised' holes are obviously bringing something to the table that the rich guy wants, it's about choice. He has plenty of options and he went with her. If broke guys with community penis can demand virgins, 'dumb' girls who can't speak at their rich partner's 'board meetings' (lool) can look for wealthy men if they're bringing something else that he wants to the table.

It's just that fortunately for these girls, they can use their beauty and 'womanly wiles' to get these wealthy men, and it just so happens that a lot of these rich men not only don't mind it but are also only looking for arm candy. The broke guys with community penis don't get to benefit the way they want off this double standard unfortunately, ah well (because they'll still end up settling down with someone on their 'social' level, but not with the 'slay queens' they desire). But I bet they wouldn't be so angry if they could benefit off of it the same way

That saying, the standards that society holds different people to can be...'unbalanced', and if you happen to find that you benefit from these standards, that's good for you. Realistically however, 'average' or below-average people can't really be demanding extreme things from people that they themselves don't bring in any way (bear in mind that males and females are valued for different things, so a female without money will fare better than a broke male)

Outside of all of this, average/broke people get married to each other every day, they aren't left out as long as they don't shoot above their bar

helinues:
Then one needs to ask, what are those people doing on your list in the first place?

Not directly questioning you, just still not confusing enough...

I always asked friends that have thousands of people on their social media list to ask ordinary N10k help from all of them and see how many will respond.

It's not always that deep for me, I acknowledge that some people can be rude, but sometimes it could be a case of genuinely being busy and forgetting or needing time to think over the response you're going to send, so to cover all bases I just remove the receipts.

Asking people on your list for 'ordinary' N10k as some kind of experiment seems a bit entitled to me lol, no matter how small it is. You'll probably find that it's actually people with this mindset that push people to disable their receipts in the first place lol

Acidosis:
Send me your WhatsApp number

Lool sure

helinues:
What's the logic behind that?

In the event that I've read something and didn’t instantly respond for whatever reason (reasonable or unreasonable), it's effort to justify it every time.

If they don't know, they can't get upset because of it and I can't feel bad, everyone wins

I'm not saying I'm in the wrong or right, situations will vary. But this method just takes care of everything for me personally

Money is important, you don't have to be a millionaire, but earn enough to sustain a family (whether you're satisfied with a very modest quality of life, 'comfortable' enough or affluent etc, it can be subjective)

A man in his 40s will be less pardoned for his financial status/lack of stable income than someone younger than him, since he's technically had more time to develop himself (I acknowledge that not everyone starts on a level playing field, some people are just afforded more opportunities than others), but generally, this is how most people think.

He may be in this predicament for a number of reasons (whether it's down to his own personal irresponsibilities or he's genuinely just had really bad luck), at the end of the day, it sucks being pressured into something based on things that may be out of your control right?

Lol I prefer not to have my read receipts on

Why do you think it's a sign of inferiority?

MrBrownJay1:
you will be surprised to know that even a person who has been on IOS for years would feel the same way...

If this is this supposed to be shade, buahaa. If not, nevermind lol

Irresponsible

Can you tell us what both your heights are?

I'm trying to visualise what this means:

PrecioussB:
A friend of mine needs your help
"I've got a lady with virtues i always look out for.

She has got high percentage of what i want in a woman, but her height is of average, and it has been a serious concern for me.

I've not been able to propose to her because of this. Please advise me. I'm not a short man neither a tall man yet she is not up to my height."

Height is a big thing for me, I love tall men. I've heard guys avoid girls who are taller than them, the way girls avoid guys who are shorter. But I never really hear about guys who are of average height (which apparently you are) being concerned that a girl who isn't tall or short isn't up to his height

Lmao I know what you're doing, I think

Justbehave:
What you typed there.You all hypocrites have gone into hiding just because it's a woman that twitted that abomination.Assming it was a man that made such comments on your gender,by now this whole forum would have been buzzing.You even got the nerves to compare her twitts with an outdated culture. Shame on you all that indirectly supported her.

I didn't support her and it's still practiced in some parts of the world

truthsayer009:
Few extremist? There are many who support this type of move. Ozzy Etomi a Nigerian on Twitter once made a nasty comment about her son on twitter and that post got over 3k likes by other women.

Other people including some women started attacking her for such comment and she had to delete it. So please oh, it's not few. Don't downplay it.

Those cultures where they kill female babies obviously are living in stone age, maybe they live in the Amazon forest.

I don’t doubt that there are more than 'just' a handful of people who support this type of move, misandry isn't new

I just worded it that way to highlight the differences between silly/troll opinions online and real life practices, since the OP was going to use it as ‘proof’ of some kind of murderous revolt against males and exaggerate it’s gained traction.

xrayj:
This is not true

What's not true?

Arthur2021:
I wonder how some ladies deal with hypocrisy...they almost lynched buka for a pro-marriage stance and called it infringing on their choices yet they celebrate this OP for his/her subtly anti-marriage stance

You are just committed to misunderstanding things lol

Acidosis:
Loool, doesn't make sense to you?

At all

Acidosis:
Why should I celebrate women who avoid marriage but actually have more sex without commitment? It's like telling me to celebrate pro. stitutes just because they're unmarried as a result of booming business.

Lool are you making these terrible correlations on purpose?

Mariangeles:
I doubt
I prefer it to American

Lol I prefer it to American too actually, they sound too cheerful for me

Mariangeles:
It is cute though...
I could listen to them talk all day

You'll get sick of it after a while

Mariangeles:
Exactly!

Haha I said it intentionally, that's not how I communicate on a normal day lol unless I'm playing around/being sarcastic

Mariangeles:
Elizabeth Bennet, You and your British English

I can almost hear it...

I was wondering what you meant then I realized how British 'if I ever did see one' sounded