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DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

tightpussy156:
@op very good question.99% of ladies do this they believe they can't make wealth without a man.Even the few that make wealth without a man still find it difficult to spend the money.man is everything to their bills.they think they are offering him a service which he must pay.they turn marriage to business.like one of my cousins wife if the husband does not bring money due to financial problem of his business the wife will say no sex for you.The lazy women has given men notion that sex is the only thing they can provide in marriage.what is usefulness of a woman who can't stand by his husband interms of financial problem.when something like this happens they run to the next available man who will provide their needs instead of bringing ideas an always be there for her husband in time of problem.All ladies that possess this are easy prey to men for sexual satisfaction.you jump from one man to another when ur husband is in financial difficulties, Even get pregnant for them an the cycle keep on continue.A big hailing to all hard-working women out there who never depends on man's money for survival.who are ready to stand by there husband in terms of financial difficulties.it is only a prostitute that leaves her husband interms of financial difficulties an run after men.if you can't keep.the one you have then be ready to be sex slave to men for sexual satisfaction.i hope women will.open there ears wide an pick point from my write up.That is the real truth who.quote me hug transformer.

kokomilala:
This warped sense of entitlement is making them unconscionable, near useless and easy preys for ritualists.
This is a warped culture! Women have morphed into parasites.

Toks2008:
The reason is very simple dearie.

1.People will never see sense in what they don't want to see sense in.

2.Most if not all ladies are emotional and they will never ever comprehend matters that have to do with them logically without being emotional.

3.You just might not be mature enough psychologically or mentally to comprehend mature articles... The list goes on but lemme stop here.

Happy Sunday.

vickydevoka:
90% of women are the same my mother n some of my sisters inclusively. They always support themselves and their actions all de tym. Jst learn how to live lyk dat with Dem, or better still become a baby papa lyk flavor n timaya. Buh to be honest if u want to Marry is good you marry from your place, so wen problem comes it can be resolved easily.i knw wat my guy pass Tru after using 1million to secure job for his wife. De woman wan use am clean nyash buh my guy na man him be. Him call all de villagers come him house make de settle Mata. Na so de guy blow everything for Dem de wife begin de cry na so de Mata settle o. Imagine Dem no be same place how de wan take settle. Women wicked naturally.

There is nothing u can do about it even after making 1000 threads on women issue it won't change anything.

vickydevoka:
I don't Bleep my galfriend she gives me money wen I'm broke. All she wants is happiness n protection. Wat I observed lately is dat human beings are different. I don't even want to spoil de relationship with sex.
Sex n money kill relationship faster than anything. If u need a serious relationship find a way to have meaningful conversation all de tym, it could be business or educating stuff. Buh I can to find out dat gals lyk bad n immoral conversation. If u talk about politics or business she will feel bored. Buh wen u talk about fashion BB9ja, or beauty show she will feel alright.

Toks2008:
Since you are so obsessed with virginity, can I introduce one nairaland babe to you? She is a virgin and not just that... She is very resourceful.

21cents:
pure BS!

and the Bible said stay chaste and leave the bed undefiled but no, all of una don dey open legs from teenage years.

if you ain't a virgin (which is one of those stuff the Bible commands the female to maintain till marriage), then your defense with the Bible is shiit and men can now dictate how they want things for themselves..

imagine your hymen being poked by someone else and not to mention the countless fvcking spree you've done that I didn't know of, you're not submissive, and you'd expect me to love you and treat you like a queen?

well we have simps in multitudes all over who don't know how to measure a woman's value that will fall for you guys.

good luck finding a man that will marry a retired whøre and work to take care of her children like a horse.

vickydevoka:
N de always exercise it. Dats de painful aspect. Since 5 years I finish skul I Never get work, buh I have spent over 200k ontop my gal jst to maintain de relationship. Wen de send money to me I will send for her. Buh de truth is dat a lady will hardly spend on you

HeavenlyCherub:
My dear let me teach you something. It shows he doesn’t respect women. No need for him to say all those things he said to you as anyone can pass their point across without cursing someone. Next time someone insults you if they want to over sabi just say “ Ok” not everything warrants a response. Some people are just miserable

sharone21:
U must be a shameless....bitter soul...idle....ten kobo boy who drags talk with women.... Upon your oversabi women still show u, that is y you're bitter to women even when u can choose who u marry easily as a man..... Run along bastard son of a thousand fathers....at least ned honourably married Regina..... Get off my mention boy

sharone21:
This is wrong number......sorry I'm not like your family members that cherish sleeping around with entitlement mentality...... Not that you are half as rich as ned nwoko to truly deserve a priceless virgin.

sharone21:
When men keep raping babies,ladies and animals for where dem wan see virgin catch, apart from Deceiving dem like satan to sleep with dem.....oga are you and the female members of your family virgins or you are insanely looking for one in another family when you aren't one

HeavenlyCherub:
Ok

HeavenlyCherub:
Only one thing stood out to me. This virgin requirement. Is the guy also a virgin?

Alexaonfleek:
Oga,you're the one defending wh0redom here.
Same Bible admonishes that you shouldn't have sex before marriage,so you're not entirely pure too.
And seriously 'nonvirgins should not be provided for?'
I'm done with this back and forth with you.
Goodnight.

Alexaonfleek:
oga,you sef no even dey read wetin you dey post!!!
If you've disvirgined any girl,you better start looking for her and start gathering money for bride price.

Anyways,since virginity is your criteria for a good woman,your choice.
It doesn't change the fact that you'll have to provide for your family.
I don't even know why you got triggered by my initial post

blinkz4real:
All of you re agreeing to this because you re all poor or if you re not poor then you have a poor mindset jst priviledge to have it. if you can't pay her bills pls free this girls for other guys to date and don't go about complaining about girls just go and hustle more or better still find your spec.

I wonder the type of men society is raising up this days just shying away from taking care of the women they claim 2 love in d name of its just a relationship.

Pls stop all this bashing of women its poverty that is disturbing you but you don't want 2 accept it. Women re suppose 2 be well treated and pampered because the re not wired to suffer. Have you checked out how the were first created? From a mans Rib(what does that mean 2 you?)


If you can shadow her responsibility pls do but if its beyond you go and work harder so that you won't be complaining she has entitlement mentality. You can call me a simp but real men handle their woman's needs.

Lilymatty:
What is wrong with this poster sef, so u mean if we get a financially buoyant man, we shouldn't go for it because it's selfish of us? . Haven't ladies suffered enough from the hands of men! No ladies are bound to be with broke guys. Yeye

Alexaonfleek:
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LMAO!!!!
You didn't even read the whole chapter to know it was only PRIESTS the Bible was referring to!When you're ready to open your mushroom church,come and tell me so that I will find virgin wife for you.
A virgin that has never kissed or hugged any guy in her entire life

Alexaonfleek:
Lie

The Bible clearly states that a man who cannot provide for his family is the one who is worse than an infidel,not a lady who desires a man to take care of her.

WHITELIGHTER:
These days they all have such mentality...and it annoys me

HeavenlyCherub:
This is what I have said a million times. But the fact you desire a successful man is a problem to a lot of broke men. What’s the problem, I’m successful I can do it on my own. Why is it a problem for me to desire a successful man. Automatically you are labeled a leech and a gold digger by the men on Nairaland

Ariza:
Enough said......Let's get this topic done.

davien:
Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan.

Goalnaldo:
you too much. May you marry a good woman.

Ariza:
This would have been a fair point but I don't see women claim what they are not as guys do here. So...? It's still kind of unbalanced... Lol

Goalnaldo:
I mean the other one he said something about courtesy.

Ariza:
Yeah right All guys are Alpha on Nl.

Toks2008:
I actually wrote this first.

Ariza:
On Nairaland....

Toks: Dear Guys, avoid ladies with entitlement mentality

Guys: "You made sense" avoid them! " If only they will listen" "Nigerians girls have entitlement issues" "I can't date an entitled girl" "I dump her once I see the sign" .......

Off Nairaland..

Guy: Hi babe.
Girl: No answer
Guy: babe what have I done wrong? What's up
Girl: Aren't you suppose to sub for me?
Guy: Oh babe ,! I'm sorry, I've forgotten your sub will end soon. Lemme do that now
Girl: Do it quick
Guy: Done, seen it... I'm so sorry.
Girl: I've seen it, Thanks
Guy: Now that you are happy, when will I see you?
Girl:


Upon your rants here, that's the reality of many Nigerian guys...