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RomanceRe: Why Is It That Guy's Alwayz Want To Go For A Lady That Is A Lil Bit Younger by ibkonekt(m): 6:30pm On Jun 30, 2020
lepasharon:
We did this in Psychology-

Mens preference for younger women is evolutionary:

A woman's youth indicates Health and fertility

while women go for older males because it indicates he has enough resources to cater for her and the offspring.
gbam....gbaga gbam
RomanceRe: I Need Pro Phylaxis by ibkonekt(m): 6:28pm On Jun 30, 2020
echefu1989:
I had sex with a new person and I used condom but it broke if you have idea or sell prophylaxis in warri Delta state please let me know
I need it tomorrow urgent and will pay for it
Thanks
hospital
RomanceRe: Lady Laments As Fine Boy Who Collected Her Number 3Months Ago Refuses To Woo Her by ibkonekt(m): 5:48pm On Jun 30, 2020
wh0re of babylon is just seeking attention
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls So Eager To Go Nude Online? What is wrong with us? by ibkonekt(m): 5:42pm On Jun 30, 2020
its true female nature open.
RomanceRe: Catching Feelings For Her by ibkonekt(m): 5:38pm On Jun 30, 2020
Perfectnumber6:
Hey guys am gonna make this real short and quick, i have been off relationship for the past 3 years now. And i really enjoyed being single,though cos i had a very nasty breakup with my Ex so ever since we broke up i felt so hurt and never wanted to date again.But of recent i met a girl she's seems so cool n lovely.she also had a bad break up some time ago and just trying to heal now. Now we are vibing well talking everyday and i kinda told her my intentions towards her, she told me that there was this guy who really helped her go through her breakup and the guy was really there for her and he never asked for anything in return. But of recent they found out that they started having feelings for each other. The guy lives in another state entirely, And me and this babe lives in same state.She said the guy smoke and she has tried to make the guy stop but all to no avail. Now here i am in the picture she has told me several times point blank that I should try and win her love and trust. She even gave me a clue that she likes novels and ice cream i could win her love through that but i have to still try harder. Mehn i truly want this babe .But this other guy who was there for her is like a stumbling block.. Please matured guys and ladies in the house your advice is needed what should i do, should i just kill the feelings i have for her or perhaps just keep trying to win her heart and love?
she wants you to simp more, maybe she will reward you with pity affection. her true affection is already towards the other guy. he is the alpha you are the beta. you are actually the cock blocker here
RomanceRe: Ok by ibkonekt(m): 10:58pm On Jun 29, 2020
omega25red:
@ poster are you a virginhuh
Why do you need a girl to be a virgin for you to appreciate who she ishuh
did you know sex is not the only important thing in a relationship


If you dont have a legit answer to any of these three questions drop the issue.
it is clearly important to him as he does not want to marry a woman that has been riding multiple dicks and has history of poor judgement for a relationship. now if you like such women that is your preference go and marry a whoore of babylon and stop telling another man what he should or should not like in HIS woman.
RomanceRe: Stop Texting Women. by ibkonekt(m): 10:46pm On Jun 29, 2020
lefulefu:
at least if na jambitos i can understand...wetin dey shock na wen i see some matured guys fooling themselves..even married men sometimes cheesy
the bluepill (ignorance) is strong. ignorance is bliss
RomanceRe: Stop Texting Women. by ibkonekt(m): 10:44pm On Jun 29, 2020
mumumugu:
SEX IS NOT A TROPHY.......
tell that to those that lived in the olden days
RomanceRe: Stop Texting Women. by ibkonekt(m): 10:43pm On Jun 29, 2020
Thesecret99:
I created this account to posts secrets that will help men in their journey to become their best selves. The secrets I post aren't moral or immoral they are just facts that work when applied and they are secrets I've tested and have yielded fruits.

I'm not trying to promote sex but I know that there are guys who their sense of manhood and even their happiness is tied to their ability to be successful with women and this thread is for them. There are also guys who have failed many times in their effort to get women and are looking for ways to improve their game. If you are in this category please pay attention to everything I'm about to say.

The thing women value the most from men is attention. They value attention more than money because unlike attention they can get money for themselves if they work hard enough. But they can only get attention from men. However, what men value most from women is sex. Women need attention the way men need sex.

Now guys, imagine there is a lady that gives you sex all the time for free. Every hour of the day, her panties are always pulled down, legs spread wide apart, inviting you to Bleep her, even though you are not paying her for her services. Despite the fact that we guys love sex and we are receiving sex from this lady for free, such a lady would soon begin to irritate us. Even if at first sex with her was incredible, we would quickly grow tired and our attraction towards her will drop precipitously. That's one side to this. The other side to this is that we would never respect or value such a lady.

This is the same case for girls. When a guy gives his attention freely to a girl with nothing tangible in return, her attraction towards such a guy will continuously drop, that's if she was even attracted to him in the first place. Just like in the first scenario she would begin to think lesser and lesser of him till she begins to hold him in the lowest regard. Bear in mind that as far as male & female interaction is concerned, the only equal payment for a man's attention is sex.

Now how does all this apply to texting? Texting is the easiest way a girl can get her most valuable need from guys without offering anything in return. With texting, she can easily receive validation and attention from 50 different guys all within the same time frame. She doesn't even have to be in the same vicinity with them.

Guys, I know there might be a girl you like and you feel the urge to text her all the time. Maybe you just want to know how she is doing. Maybe you've been texting her everyday and you feel your texts are making her laugh and she is becoming more attracted to you. You are simply just being stupid. By texting her all the time, you are just putting yourself in the same category as the other droves of men who are giving her their attention for free. You are giving her your attention and she isn't giving you anything in return.

Never text a girl except in these scenarios:

• When you want to plan a meet up or a date.

• When you text in response to a nude picture she sent you.

• If she is a business partner and you need to deliver business related information to her or you need to ask important business related information from her.

• Or if she is your mother or sister or daughter.

If your reason for texting a girl doesn't fall into the above then you shouldn't text her.

And in the first two cases, your texts should be brief. Two sentences is enough.

Whatever you want to text a woman, say it to her in person. Attraction is never developed through texting. Attraction however reduces through texting. A woman will never lose attraction towards you when you don't text her. In fact the opposite is usually the case.

Even if a girl texts you first, you do not have to respond. Most times a girl will text you just to confirm that you are still among her legion of fans who feed her their attention for free. Most guys always fall for this and see this as an indication that she likes them and likes talking to them and they readily respond to her text and continue exchanging texts with her.

Stop commenting on her status updates. Stop commenting on her new profile. Just stop texting her and you will begin to see positive improvements in your relationship with her. I know this sounds counterintuitive but it's the truth.

Looking back at the girls I have had sex with in the past, there has never been one that I texted more than 5 sentences in total. Some of them see me in person and ask why I don't reply their texts and I simply say I'm busy. But when I think back to all the girls I've spent hours texting hardly has there been one I even kissed, much less saw her ñakedness.

Resist the urge to text her and invest that time in self development and making money.
nice redpill truths, simps and women will avoid the post like a plague. however i think the desire for sex in men is too strong plus we have too many simps in the society, in old age the strong usually kill the weak in wars. this reduced the numbers of simps in society, a sort of balance from nature. in essence what i mean to say is a Simp will always offer his attention away freely because they are not willing to make the effort required to be the best version of themselves which requires introspection (they are too lazy) but will conjure the matrix and live in ignorance. eitherway i love your write up, its 100% redpill truth, but dont even hope to change ppl or get them to understand. those that resonate with the message will find and implement it and ladies wont be able to resist them no matter how hard they try
FamilyRe: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by ibkonekt(m): 2:37pm On Jun 29, 2020
Biodun1929:
I won't say all, but like 90%. I have a lot of married friends and 90% of them cheat cos their wives deprive them of sex for months on end. I don't even know why married women do this. Man and woman don't have the same type of wiring for sex, but women just judge things from their own point of view (how they feel), but understanding that man's sexual urge is 10 times that of woman. Anyway, there are some women out there who understand this...but just like 10%
yeah i agree with you, when i said all women it was a generalization but they are the few exceptions to the rule which you have put numbers to . however to answer your second paragraph i think women even have more sex drive than men but women lie alot, the same woman (married or single) that we all claim has lower sex drive(old ladies or fat ladies or mothers) is busy sleeping with very attractive, six packs men. its all about who she wants to sleep with against who she is actually sleeping with
RomanceRe: Nairaland Guys Should Stop Being Fools, Just Look At What You Guys Did by ibkonekt(m): 11:36pm On Jun 28, 2020
IamPlato:
Why Is It That When A Girl Posts AnyThing you All Run In Like Hornyy dogs To Comment but When You Fellow Guy Posts Something Educative And Reasonable you Just Ignore?

Many Of You Will Be Claiming To Have Been Red Pilled But Your Foolishness Is Still Very Visible.


I Just Saw A Post By Preshiben where She Said Something like "what Is That Thing You Have Never Done"... All Of Una Run Enter Like Dog With Erect Dicks to Comment but I Am Very Sure If That Post Was Created by A Guy You All Would Ignore.

Girls Ignore Lots Of Guys Posts Here But You Cannot ignore Theirs, you Be Fool


If Una Just See Girl With Fine Profile, una brain Go Just Go Faulty instantly... Redpill Vanish...

Make Una TRY Get Sense, world Go Soon End
learn the difference between a simp and a high quality man, a beta male and Alpha male...if you do this then you will know the persons that comment on used up thots threads recklessly
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls From Poor Homes So Senseless, Ungrateful & Badbelle?! by ibkonekt(m): 4:42pm On Jun 28, 2020
after doing it raw.
RomanceRe: Guys! Why Get Married, When You Can Do This Instead.. by ibkonekt(m): 4:40pm On Jun 28, 2020
a lot of commenters are just ignoring the "strike a deal" part. if they strike a deal that means there is an agreement. so its fine.
the idea is not a bad one given the options of the available wenches we call ladies in today's society
RomanceRe: Broke Girl - My Experience With One. by ibkonekt(m): 2:53pm On Jun 28, 2020
op the girl still has child mentality. she is 22 and still in her w.hore phase (maybe no sexually) but she wants attention and is willing to use manipulation. you could have done more to mold her to a high quality woman. one thing i have come to know is that most women are dumb and cannot really grow without a man that they perceive as high value. but its ultimately your choosing, so all is good.
RomanceRe: Once A Fine Girl Shows These 3 Signs – Just Shoot Your Shot! No Waste Time. by ibkonekt(m): 2:46pm On Jun 28, 2020
another scam tactics....just ignore this troll
RomanceRe: Who Is Having Issues Trying to Withdraw and She Said This... [Pictures] by ibkonekt(m): 2:43pm On Jun 28, 2020
nice one
RomanceRe: Women are Evil (picture) by ibkonekt(m): 12:02pm On Jun 28, 2020
Scientists:
It is more demonic to fuc.k a possessed lady. Which we all know that 65 percent of Ladies you see has at least 4000 demons.

Health wise, masturbation will never give you Syiphilis, gonorrhea and Aids.
this dude is smart. you wont get many response because once you make this much sense women and simps know that they cannot shame you again, they will just run away. say not to STD abeg.
RomanceRe: Sexual Mistakes Women Make In Bed by ibkonekt(m): 11:58am On Jun 28, 2020
most women wont do this ever...entitlement is out of control
Christianity EtcRe: 'It Is About Microchips' – Chris Oyakhilome On Black Lives Matter Protests by ibkonekt(m): 11:41am On Jun 28, 2020
JojoAbeka:
BLACK LIVES MATTER PROTESTS NOT ABOUT RACISM BUT IMPLANTING MICROCHIPS – PASTOR CHRIS OYAKHILOME

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome of Christ Embassy Church has come out with a shocking allegation regarding the current protests which have rocked the world in the aftermath of the killing of George Floyd by police officers in USA.

Oyakhilome, who was in the news recently for falsely claiming the installation of 5G technology was connected to the coronavirus outbreak, stated that the ‘Black Lives Matter’ protests in USA were not about racism but a subtle ploy to implant “microchips” into citizens as a means of controlling them.

“It’s not about the guy that died; it’s not about ‘Black Lives Matter’,” Oyakhilome said in a program broadcast on LoveWorld titled ‘Global Day Of Prayer’.

“It’s part of the game. They want to come in with the alternative method for security – total control with microchips. That’s what it’s about,” he claimed, adding that police would be ‘disbanded’ and everyone would be forced to have a ‘microchip’ implanted into them.

“Look at the people rampaging on the streets – they are not black people… It is not about racism,” he asserted without any corroborating evidence.

Oyakhilome made several other disturbing allegations, insisting that the guidelines given by the government to reopen the church were not guided by science but rather an attack on the church.

“Wearing facemasks is dangerous for your health. How can we know this and prescribe it? I have told you of the dangers of social distancing. It’s inhuman… There is no science behind it,” he stated in the broadcast.

Oyakhilome described the ‘lockdown’ as illegal and said it was actually citizens getting ‘locked up’.

“The lockdown was wrong and, in most instances, illegal,” he continued. “The truth of the matter is around the world, we were imprisoned… It was house imprisonment.”

“This fraud must be judged by God,” the controversial pastor continued, claiming that many pastors were actually getting paid to advocate for the closure of churches to the governments.

“Go ahead. Build the concentration camps and call them isolation centres. Pay for them or get paid – because now you have a contract,” he said, warning that no Christian pastor should “profit” from the situation.

Pastor Chris further insisted that 'virtual prayer' could not replace physical laying on of hands, reiterating his recent statement that pastors should not be restricted from 'laying hands' on congregants when services resume.

Oyakhilome’s rhetoric in the aftermath of the coronavirus outbreak has become increasingly divisive and erratic, with many labelling him a ‘conspiracy theorist’.

The broadcast in which he made the allegations on Friday 26th June 2020 has since been removed from Oyakhilome's YouTube channel although other versions of it can still be viewed online.

SOURCE:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPbE-PMuVvU
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GWRYDxgM4Fs
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8K8pnzYzx4M
this is the only pastor that is speaking the truth right now. he is very correct. the indoctrinated will not understand. the road to destruction is wide
RomanceRe: I Feel So Alone. by ibkonekt(m): 2:07am On Jun 28, 2020
wailer.com
FamilyRe: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by ibkonekt(m): 2:36pm On Jun 27, 2020
all women are like that
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Likes Sex A Lot And I Want To Start An Opened Relationship by ibkonekt(m): 2:07pm On Jun 27, 2020
rubbish low value wench
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Relationships In Today's Society? by ibkonekt(m): 7:24am On Jun 27, 2020
emmaodet:
Really really mess bro.
Also, the person being paid to drink alcohol will far drink more than the person that need to buy alcohol before drinking on average.
Ladies get paid, eat, drink and enjoy for getting straffed but men on average will need to work their asses out to straff a lady.
true that
RomanceRe: . by ibkonekt(m): 4:07am On Jun 27, 2020
i dont think it will happen, we have too many SIMPS and captain save a hoe
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Relationships In Today's Society? by ibkonekt(m): 3:02am On Jun 27, 2020
emmaodet:
Your number 5 is the reason why i believe we have more women/ladies fornicating than men on average.
People always scream a lot of men sleep around - No, i don't believe it. I believe 80% of women are regularly getting screwed by 35-40% of guys.
they are not loyal. you only see women for who they are at their base form when you are at the top of society. its a mess honestly
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Relationships In Today's Society? by ibkonekt(m): 2:55am On Jun 27, 2020
Ayoifedolapo:
Actually, what i picture in relationships in this age and time is that both parties are desperate. Majority of the guys are after good and more sex and if their partner isn't willing to give that out when need arises, they feel that's enough reason to walk away to another. While majority of ladies are after material things. They don't care what they have to offer in exchange. They just want a latest things, nice wears and an upgraded lifestyles so they give out sex to whoever needs it and ready to give them what they want. So sex is so cheap nowadays and relationships is more like a business where profits is their only priority.
true
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Relationships In Today's Society? by ibkonekt(m): 3:07pm On Jun 26, 2020
pansophist:
One word, "need".

In the past, alll humans relationships are formed due to needing the other to alleviate the suffering of life, and companionship. The more technological advanced we become as a species, the less useful relationship will be. A man needed the woman to look after the kids and home, while the woman needed the man to go hunt, protect the tribe and provide sustenance.

Right now, you can literally live off independently without needing someone. Society within the past centuries have radically changed to a point where we have collectively developed measures to propagate our existence without much burden on the individual.

Police will assure safety, supermarket assure groceries, shopping mall providing what you'll ever need and if you work for your money, you can buy services that otherwise, you'll need a partner for. You even do not need a woman for kids even, you can pay a surrogate mother instead.

Contraception (condoms, abortion etc) for example was the biggest invention that reduced sex to mere pleasure, and peel off the commitment layer that was needed before engaging in the act. Furthermore, the most integral part of relationship (sex and procreation) can be gotten outside a union.

Thanks to condoms technologies, and dwindling global morality. With these, relationships will be plug and play, and reduce to thrill of hedonism, which is likw sugar, its fun for a while, but with bitter consequences that comes with it such as, but not limited to feeling like a disposable meat, ghosting, lack of commitment, and only useful for sexual gratification.
sound logic
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Relationships In Today's Society? by ibkonekt(m): 2:38pm On Jun 26, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
I understand you perfectly. In fact, it's one of the reasons why I left twitter for nairaland, the indoctrination is mind-blowing. But here, redpillers/MGTOW abound. One extremism births another.
The best you can do is educate those who have fallen into such extremism, not fall into another yourself.
true talk bros...i agree with you 100%
RomanceRe: 10 Things A Woman Will Notice About You At First Sight by ibkonekt(m): 2:34pm On Jun 26, 2020
Oluromantic:
They can smell the strength of ur pocket from 12 miles away
this comment should be in gold
RomanceRe: Are Romantic Relationships Really Useful? I Find Them Useless by ibkonekt(m): 2:32pm On Jun 26, 2020
JayCynic:
I'm not gay bro, I'm not heartbroken either. Matter of fact I'm happy and living my best life, I'm having sex without needing to commit to anything. I'm not trying to stop you from enjoying, I'm just curious why YOU enjoy relationships.Apart from having an orgasm, what do you enjoy about your relationship?
ignore the blue pilled simp...their first line of defense is the shaming tactics. do your thing
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Relationships In Today's Society? by ibkonekt(m): 2:24pm On Jun 26, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
While feminism might be wrong, do not think for a second that MTGOW is the way.

The thing about statistics is that they are factual after surveys have been carried out. So if you say 80% of women just from a few of your experiences, you are not very different from the men-a-scum group, same ideology, different implementation.
If truly a large bulk of women are as you have described them, quite a lot of us wouldn't exist.
what would need is fairness as per LAWS or patriachy (one or the other).
but women will never accept true equality because as the saying goes "for the privilege, equality feels like oppression"

RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With Relationships In Today's Society? by ibkonekt(m): 2:18pm On Jun 26, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
While feminism might be wrong, do not think for a second that MTGOW is the way.

The thing about statistics is that they are factual after surveys have been carried out. So if you say 80% of women just from a few of your experiences, you are not very different from the men-a-scum group, same ideology, different implementation.
If truly a large bulk of women are as you have described them, quite a lot of us wouldn't exist.
i am redpill though and still engage with women, so i am not really mgtow but i agree with a lot of what they say.
the thing about stats is that they can be skewed to spin a narrative. take for example the wage gap myth that feminism pushes and equal representation that feminism pushes. even with the stats when the stats are challenged they always fall apart and end up crying misogyny or patriarchy.
so for me, my stand is that men and women have their nature, this is part of evolutionary biology. i dont think men or women are scum, but we are not good either like society or media paints it. its just that for century men have been called evil and women good. now men are starting to expose female hypocrisy and holding them up to some standards at the expense of marriage and companionship which is what all women desire the most, even more than money.
trust me only 20men are enough to populate 5 billion women. if you do a dna research you may find that we might have a common relation somewhere in the near past. read the story of ghengis khan and see that one man can father a nation...literarily

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