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Foreign Affairs / Re: MUST SEE:french Colonial War In Cote D'ivoire Exposed By Italian RAI Tv Channel by icez: 4:07pm On Sep 23, 2012
too bad.
Politics / Re: North(kwankwaso) Kicks Against New State In The Southeast, Regionalism by icez: 1:44pm On Sep 23, 2012
hmm..
Business / Re: 5 Proven Tips To Become A Multi-millionaire In Nigeria by icez: 1:16pm On Sep 23, 2012
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Celebrities / Re: Basketmouth, 2face Others Back In The Days (Pic) by icez: 11:43am On Sep 23, 2012
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Career / Re: Doing A Phd Is Often A Waste Of Time, Says The Economist by icez: 11:43am On Sep 23, 2012
not true
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Technical & Brain Teaser Questions Asked During Job Interviews by icez: 9:40am On Sep 23, 2012
nice.
Politics / Re: I Fight My Enemies Untill They Drop Dead, Ask Musa Yar'adua- Elrufai by icez: 7:18pm On Sep 14, 2012
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Politics / Re: SHOCKER!! GEJ Is Honest And Clean He Is Not Corrupt - Mallam Elrufai by icez: 4:31pm On Sep 14, 2012
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Romance / Re: 10 Mistakes Men Make With Women (for Men Only) by icez: 3:07pm On Sep 12, 2012
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Politics / Re: 'Tinubu Never Said Obama Invited Him' by icez: 1:11pm On Sep 10, 2012
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Politics / Re: "The President And His Social Media Friends” Olusegun Adeniyi by icez: 2:18am On Sep 08, 2012
nigerian media.
Politics / Re: Flaunting Personal Paradise Within Lion's Dens by icez: 12:54am On Sep 05, 2012
hmm...
Politics / Re: Enahoro Speaking On Biafra And Making Perfect Sense. by icez: 8:05am On Aug 30, 2012
hmm...
Politics / Re: Fmr NSA's Bombshell:Yar'adua Was A Psychiatric Patient, IBB Owns Julius Berger by icez: 3:19pm On Aug 29, 2012
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Politics / Re: The Nigerian Culture Of Hypocrisy by icez: 8:30pm On Aug 27, 2012
A very interesting article.
Politics / The Nigerian Culture Of Hypocrisy by icez: 8:29pm On Aug 27, 2012
MONDAY, 27 AUGUST
BY KENNETH AMAESHI

NIGERIANS do God. It is almost impossible to find a self-professed atheist in Nigeria. mosques and churches are usually filled to the brim on Fridays and Sundays, respectively. Loud chants of God are flamboyantly rendered, literally, from rooftops, in season and out of season. Accessible social spaces are littered with sermons and God talk. The easiest and cheapest way to earn the anti-Christ badge of dishonour is to challenge these God speeches. To an outsider, Nigerians may come across as conspicuous consumers of God.

This ostentatious God consumption, unfortunately, does not bear corresponding fruits in the country. This leaves one wondering if Nigerians merely pay lip service to God and what He expects of them; or do they derive commensurate pleasure and satisfaction from God mockery? Either way, God consumption in the country is a viable industry with active actors on the supply and demand sides of the equation; and the market forces – often anchored on the dark forces of witches and wizards – do not appear to be waning. Nigerians pray for everything, and nothing escapes the clutches of prayers. To an average Nigerian, everything is dependent on God, and God depends on everything. This subtle pantheistic superstition even finds expressions in ungodly activities – e.g. armed robbers praying for success before setting out for their operations, or politicians praying before any deliberations despite the fact that the public sector, in which they are key actors, is now the engine of corruption and nepotism in the country. The private sector is not shielded from this God onslaught. Some firms say morning prayers. These prayers do not stop them from doing anything possible (even ungodly) to enhance the proverbial bottom-line!

Notwithstanding, many Nigerians would not want to be known as ungodly or anti-God, even if their actions are. It is a taboo to be ungodly or atheistic. The society expects you to consume God whether you believe God exists or not. As long as you demonstrate this God consumption, you shall be fine and free. There is no better word for this expected behaviour than hypocrisy. Many Nigerians are hypocrites – otherwise, it would be difficult to account for the level of indiscipline, corruption and class oppression characteristic of many Nigerians. Hypocrisy is in an inauthentic form of existence.

Authenticity is to say and accept that I am a criminal, when I am one. Authenticity is to be who you are irrespective of what others want you to be. It is being true to oneself irrespective of how else one wants to be. The authentic one accepts the vulnerability, and probably the discomfort, of swimming against the tide of public opinion. The biblical Zacchaeus (Luke 19:1-10), despite his sins, was authentic in his encounter with Jesus. He accepted his corrupt practices and when he repented, he made restitutions. Inauthenticity is a fake life. It is a form of concealment. It is a deceitful acceptance to present ourselves as who we are not.

The culture of inauthenticity and hypocrisy has permeated all aspects of the Nigerian society. This is particularly so amongst the emergent upper middle class who are caught up in an identity crisis. They constitute the nouveau riche. They also like to impress and be impressed. They like to give the impression that they are internationally mobile and have global tastes. They like to be in vogue and keep up with trends. Prosperity is their new religion. No one cares, as long as it translates to money. Money speaks; money works. They drive good cars; have good jobs and houses; and their children go to very good schools. Some people in this class think that living the Nigerian dream is to build personal kingdoms (e.g. people overleveraging themselves to belong) living in houses and driving luxury cars they cannot afford, putting their kids in schools where they chase them to pay fees after they have gone on summer holidays on borrowed money! They find a way to isolate themselves from the wretchedness around them. They shield themselves from the masses. They create islands in ghettos. They inadvertently become and constitute the ghetto elites.

Ghetto elitism in itself could be an outcome of hard work – even if it comes across as selfishness. After all, self-interest, which often manifests as selfishness is the bedrock of contemporary capitalism. One of the hallmarks of capitalism, as an ideological force, is its ability to mutate and adapt to its context. This ability allows capitalism to be all things for all people. It grants some legitimacy to selfishness, and often masks rogue entrepreneurship as heroism. This mask of heroism is sustained and energised by the complementary practice of reputation and brand management. Reputation and brand management experts are also known for their dexterity in the manufacture and creation of inauthenticity. For instance, most luxury brands are mere empty names packaged and sold to a gullible audience through the market for inauthenticity. In the process, these brands afford us the opportunity to be who we are not – that is, a mask we hide under to see the world and to be seen. This inauthenticity conceals the fatality of the unbridled pursuit of self-interests, which often culminates in selfishness. Nonetheless, capitalism can be a veritable force for good when tamed and domesticated. Undomesticated and wild capitalism often gives rise to rogue entrepreneurs, ghetto capitalism and elitism. Nigeria, unfortunately, is not short of ghetto capitalists and elites.

Ghetto elitism and the culture of hypocrisy are inseparable twins and dangerous. A society built on such foundations is bound to collapse with time. I see a Nigerian society sleep-walking onto this deadly precipice. The tipping point is not far from us. We all know it. We all feel it; but who will bell the cat? Grandiose God consumption will not save the country. Those who claim to be of God should, at least, be seen to be godly in their everydayness – for by their fruits, they shall be known. God consumption without the corresponding good works is sheer hypocrisy and mockery of God.

The worst thing one can do to oneself is to live an inauthentic life. At the end, the truth shall be known; and whatever is concealed shall be uncovered. Then, the finger of derision shall point the inauthentic and the hypocrite to scorn. Be authentic; be yourself!

• Dr. Amaeshi is a member of the Thought Leadership Forum (TLF), Nigeria.

http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=96830:amaeshi-the-nigerian-culture-of-hypocrisy-&catid=38:columnists&Itemid=615
Phones / Re: Ten Hidden Controls Of iPhone Headphones by icez: 12:12pm On Aug 21, 2012
nice.
Religion / Re: Picture Of Pastor Adeboye And Tunde Bakare Back In The Days by icez: 11:32am On Aug 21, 2012
na wa!! cheesy
Religion / Re: If Heaven Is Real Why Are Christians Afraid To Die?? by icez: 11:09am On Aug 21, 2012
Interesting topic. cool
Education / Re: Causes Of Mass-Failure In Public Examinations In Nigeria -By Tayo Demola by icez: 9:48am On Aug 19, 2012
hmmm.....
Celebrities / Re: Picture Of I-Go-Save, Maleke And I-Go-Die Back In The Days by icez: 4:12pm On Aug 16, 2012
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Politics / Re: 17 Gunmen Arrested, 35 IEDs Recovered In Kogi by icez: 6:37pm On Aug 07, 2012
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Politics / Re: It Is Time To Get Rid Of Goodluck Jonathan by icez: 6:41pm On Aug 06, 2012
Abagworo:

I just don't get why you people seem to tribalise everything. You could have written bias instead of Yoruba. Damn you tribalists!

Shut up.
Religion / Re: Pastor Bakare Attacks Patience Jonathan by icez: 6:34pm On Aug 06, 2012
Why is he insulting Niger Delta people?
He wants oil money. cool
Religion / Re: Pastor Bakare Attacks Patience Jonathan by icez: 3:59pm On Aug 06, 2012
inquisitiv: I'm going to comment again in Nairaland, something I hardly do. I can see some people playing the Niger-Delta ethnic card here to wipe up ethnic sentiments...stupid and absolutely stupid. I can see some playing d religion card viz-a-viz a pastor speaking out against evil government...more stupid and I can see some playing d gender card cos a rightly annoyed man spoke up against a greedy, indolent & insanely corrupt woman....and I agree with him dat paupers, poor men steal without conscience when given access to wealth and power. Its a mentality disease that exists among the poor. Its a fact.

shut up.

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Religion / Re: Pastor Bakare Attacks Patience Jonathan by icez: 1:03pm On Aug 06, 2012
pictures: The system that says Niger Delta have no right to rule Nigeria ,
the same system produced Boko Haram that are now bombing indiscriminately
has taught Niger Deltans that they are not accepted to rule but their resources are fit
to use and misuse. How do you now expect these people to behave when they now
have the power to rule knowing that the system has been unfair to them ?
The Constitution has to be re written to favor all the tribes ,give equal
right to all to rule and should be the guideline for all political party.
Party System is very bad in Nigeria , it breeds corruption ,division and violence.
People should be elected based on their past performance and credentials. Not on party
and ethnic basis. Look at how Oshiomole was voted for because of his person
and credentials : not because of party. If the constitution is to be reviewed,
please let all parties be abolished . A system should be developed that will stop
godfatherism ,money politics and give equal right to all. Until this is done , same old story.
This is what Bakare should be talking about. If Northerners come back again to rule , what do
you think will happen ? The old circle will continue.

+10000
Religion / Re: Pastor Bakare Attacks Patience Jonathan by icez: 11:56am On Aug 06, 2012
Why does he attack the Niger Delta people? angry angry
Religion / Re: What's Your Favourite Bible Scripture Verse? by icez: 5:22pm On Aug 05, 2012
cool

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