No One Forced U To Read It

berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

hmmn....

seedord247:

whats this?...

Food for dolts and striplings.

TREAT WOMEN LIKE TERRITORY. BUY THEM, CONQUER THEM THEN KEEP MOVING ON TO MORE INTERESTING TERRITORY.

pro01: Una no dey tire to rehash all this copy-and-paste nonsense? Boys need to grow up and focus on what's important. Wasting too much time worrying about how to please random, insignificant women is the WORST mistake men make with women. Make una go find work.

1 tanker load Ogogoro for you
I wonder how I should be wasting my life chasing after them when they have been CHASING since l was a toddler

berem: All these long tori for dis cold afternoon! Mtscheeeew!

lmao! Boys qo kill u for ths ua comment oo..ma hand no dey dia o

Serendipity: No SEVEN is fallacious and bogus.
LET me indite ferociously that money as opposed to the view expressed in No SEVEN above can increase the love a woman has or will have for you.
I'm not talking about what is written on books, things that are utopian, quixotic, chimeric and lacks feasibility.
I' talking about what is practicable and obtainable in the society.
GO and aske my uncle's wife while she refuse to leave his house after she was almost thrown down from a three storeyed building.
THE guy's containers then was landing at Onitsha Main Market with careless abandon. She saw money and vowed to leave as corpse. She later used jazz which she later said was to make the man head over heels with her, because the jazz made the man go nuts.
He was later taken to a native doctor at Nsukka. This is just an instance.

you didn't make one sense or prove that number 7 is fallacious .. you're just an ignorant boy who thinks using unnecessary big words will somehow miraculously compensate for your lack of intelligence.. Stop trying so hard bro

I am sorry to say but all these dos and donts are all a waste of time. These kind of things stop you from being yourself. You try to be an alpha male when God made you a beta male. Anyway the Kim Kardashians of this world date alpha males while the Michelle Obamas of this world date beta males.

If a woman does not appreciate you for who you are, then move on with your life. Trust me, you will get to meet the woman that appreciates who you are. You cannot just go ahead and change your personality. It doesn't work that way. What works is making yourself a better person, not changing yourself.

Only 4 men haba,what about 20 mistake women make about men. Cherenu kam nwu mmiri

@op nice write up Once a victim of #5 sha bt have made amendments.

Serendipity:
You pedagogical ignoramus, a jejune and callow fellow that lacks perspicacity.
Tell me what makes the above tripe and waffle irrefutable?

LMFAO!! Chei, your grammer worry!

onye ego:
1 tanker load Ogogoro for you
I wonder how I should be wasting my life chasing after them when they have been CHASING since l was a toddler

hahhahahahahhahaha

All these rules and regulations for relationship

the mistakes continues

THE HUGEST......taking a woman to chinese restrurant,whereas ur papa dey village dey chop cassava bread

This write up is absolute rubbish. FYI, if a girl loves you, she has loved you no matter what. The dark side of all this is that you will never find out why a girl really loves you! Know why? THEY ARE A CONFUSED SET OF BEINGS WHO DONT REALLY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. Ask my dad! Secondly, am going to give you a reason why girls date bad looking and poor guys. They like to feel secure and in charge in a relationship. They know that you will never abandon them because you are ugly. But guess what? Those ugly ones tend to frustrate them, beat them up and rubbish them. Thats when this popular saying pops up "all guys are the same". Now my final point is this thing; with money, you can really get all the above in Nigeria. Once you are rich and balling; girls will always "love" you. They will troop around you. In theory, you have found true "love". But it may not be in practice. My point in all these is that true love is natural. It just happens. If a girl Likes you, she has liked you for real whether you are rich or poor. But Before I conclude, I have some advice for the the original poster. All these thrash you wrote up there may be what is happening in your life now because if one is observant, you will notice that you just brought out points but no solutions and thats why I didnt click the link you provided because it will obviously offer me a book to buy at the end..... So that I will be a love guru...... hahahaha ...... Spammers.... My simple advice to my fellow dudes is just this; treat all girls like they are thrash cans. Deceive them, fucck them at random, promise then true love, frustrate them, be a player!!!! Thats how you find true love? You know how? The one that stays! Thats the secret. My point is; DONT MAKE ANYBODY YOUR PRIORITY WHEN YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY HER OPTION! YOU WILL DIE A HUNDRED TIMES BEFORE YOUR ACTUAL DEATH. Lolz.

Donalð Genes:
lmao! Boys qo kill u for ths ua comment oo..ma hand no dey dia o

i don hear am today! instead make dem face topic na me dem face! kai! na wa o!

Babzilla: TREAT WOMEN LIKE TERRITORY. BUY THEM, CONQUER THEM THEN KEEP MOVING ON TO MORE INTERESTING TERRITORY.

heartless being.is dis wat ur pap did 2 ur mama and u are existing. mumu,bia umunwoke a ka mmadu nukwara unu ihe

Okontami: Animals are everywhere on Nairaland. If you can not add value to a post, why write rubbish. This thread is meant to be commented on by people with common sense and intelligence. If you are so dull to comprehend, please get your filthy life out of here.

Bros no b fight na. Match brake small abeg

Dont be deceived

[quote author=Okontami]Animals are everywhere on Nairaland. If you can not add value to a post, why write rubbish. This thread is meant to be commented on by people with common sense and intelligence. If you are so dull to comprehend, please get your filthy life out of here.[/quote


I'm not sure you have that common sense and intelligence you talk about cos if you do, you won't open and close mouth like uncontrollable brake the way u just did

Evrybdy here has phd in English...una 4 open una own nairaland.

nyameke: you didn't make one sense or prove that number 7 is fallacious .. you're just an ignorant boy who thinks using unnecessary big words will somehow miraculously compensate for your lack of intelligence.. Stop trying so hard bro

I don't have confab with juveniles. But
let me educate you, in Law for instance, it is trite that HE WHO ASSERTS, PROVES.
You tried to rebut the irrefutable and only succeeded in making yourself a simpleton. You have nothing substantial with which to back up your ill informed rejoinder.

pro01: Una no dey tire to rehash all this copy-and-paste nonsense? Boys need to grow up and focus on what's important. Wasting too much time worrying about how to please random, insignificant women is the WORST mistake men make with women. Make una go find work.

Well said, women run around a busy man.

Euroclydon: Hey, if you aint patient enough to read thru this bulk,then there is no point starting in the first place...Cheers!

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A Nice Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date jerks but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how nice a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that powerful attraction.
And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept... but you need to get over it if you want to change how women respond to you.


MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever!
You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with logic and reasoning.
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being reasonable with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women, which we mistakenly think will make them like us, us guys are always doing things to get a woman's approval or permission.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... ever.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women badly for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things," think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen A LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only natural when this happens...
That's right, I said natural.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection."
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as manipulation.


MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge, and unfortunate, mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they feel too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have experience.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, really like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to attraction.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over ten full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things other than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young woman.
But it's not an accident.
You have to learn how to do this.
But the great news is...
ANY guy can learn to do it.
If you'd like a FAST, SUCCESS-GUARANTEED lesson on making women start paying attention to you (without YOU ever having to say a word, or the woman even REALIZING why she's suddenly feeling it for you)



MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, confident young woman.


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is giving away their power to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten times!
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is vitally important that you know exactly how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About ten years ago, I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


-David DeAngelo
http://www.doubleyourdating.ca/articles/0011-ten-mistakes-guys-make-with-women.htm

10 this 5 dat 8 dis 3 dat ... ..blah blah blah blah ... na wetin sef una be expert? olodos

most peeps making irrelevant antagonizing comment did not even read thru the article...they just browse thru the points and post comments...too bad! No wonder we are recording high rate of failures in examinations!

Isale_eko: I am sorry to say but all these dos and donts are all a waste of time. These kind of things stop you from being yourself. You try to be an alpha male when God made you a beta male. Anyway the Kim Kardashians of this world date alpha males while the Michelle Obamas of this world date beta males.

If a woman does not appreciate you for who you are, then move on with your life. Trust me, you will get to meet the woman that appreciates who you are. You cannot just go ahead and change your personality. It doesn't work that way. What works is making yourself a better person, not changing yourself.

I don't think you understand what beimg an alpha male is.. God didn't make others beta and alpha. That's fallacy of the highest order.. being alpha is a way of life to put it simply...

you re contradicting yourself son..
Dude if a woman doesn't appreciate you for who you are and you disregard it and move on with your life guess what? That's alpha. That's what any normal sane alpha guy would do or any guy should do.. But a beta guy would rather stick around hoping to convince or be even more nicer for eons hoping for a different outcome. Now that's beta and stupid ..

Btw to insinuate Obama as beta shows your lack of understanding of alpha and beta qualities in males ..

Women are weird and emotional creatures...

But they LOVE Dictators. Because I and I keeps them in check.

wia r d men? nd who among yah all is a victim of this write-up? chei my bro i pity u oo if na u

Euroclydon: most peeps making irrelevant antagonizing comment did not even read thru the article...they just browse thru the points and post comments...too bad! No wonder we are recording high rate of failures in examinations!

How about "Waka" for a quick post?

Euroclydon: Hey, if you aint patient enough to read thru this bulk,then there is no point starting in the first place...Cheers!

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A Nice Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to nice guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date jerks but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how nice a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman feel that powerful attraction.
And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept... but you need to get over it if you want to change how women respond to you.


MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, ever!
You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you with logic and reasoning.
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being reasonable with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.


MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women, which we mistakenly think will make them like us, us guys are always doing things to get a woman's approval or permission.
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... ever.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women badly for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things," think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...


MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn't treat her even half as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen A LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only natural when this happens...
That's right, I said natural.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection."
Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as manipulation.


MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge, and unfortunate, mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they feel too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another all the time by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have experience.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, really like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...


MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to attraction.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over ten full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things other than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young woman.
But it's not an accident.
You have to learn how to do this.
But the great news is...
ANY guy can learn to do it.
If you'd like a FAST, SUCCESS-GUARANTEED lesson on making women start paying attention to you (without YOU ever having to say a word, or the woman even REALIZING why she's suddenly feeling it for you)



MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, confident young woman.


MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is giving away their power to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing Exactly What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten times!
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is vitally important that you know exactly how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting Help
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About ten years ago, I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.


-David DeAngelo
http://www.doubleyourdating.ca/articles/0011-ten-mistakes-guys-make-with-women.htm

The above from david Angelo meant for 'babies' who are yet to connect to the WORD ! Let's seek the kingdom of God and it's righteousness we won't be in need of any of the above.

Serendipity:
I don't have confab with juveniles. But
let me educate you, in Law for instance, it is trite that HE WHO ASSERTS, PROVES.
You tried to rebut the irrefutable and only succeeded in making yourself a simpleton. You have nothing substantial with which to back up your ill informed rejoinder.

My lord, i bow o! This ya grammer go cause earthquake o. Chei! Abeg wey dat helmet sef.