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PoliticsRe: Bandits Kill Councillor, Samaila Buhari Mairago, In Funtua Town by id4sho(m): 8:35am On Oct 03, 2023
Serious shocked. Funtua town not far from Zaria, ABU students stay safe. SBRS students funtua undecided
PoliticsRe: I Remain Governor Until Supreme Court Says Otherwise - Gov Sule by id4sho(m): 9:08pm On Oct 02, 2023
PDP, sorrytongue
PoliticsRe: Atiku's Lawyers Receive Tinubu's Academic Records From Chicago State University by id4sho(m): 8:53pm On Oct 02, 2023
Nazgul:
What if Tinubu buys Atiku's lawyers, and they publish something different from what the university gave to them. I've been thinking about this since yesterday.

Tinubu is a very desperate man, he can offer them any amount to manipulate what the received...
Atiku will be smart too, lawyers do give client fake/altered documents/judgement and they get bursted.
PoliticsRe: Atiku's Lawyers Receive Tinubu's Academic Records From Chicago State University by id4sho(m): 8:44pm On Oct 02, 2023
I have a feeling that nothing is going to come out of this undecided
PoliticsRe: Okada Rider Seen Carrying BUA Cement In Abeokuta (see Photo) by id4sho(m): 6:08pm On Oct 02, 2023
Yobabad:
Monopoly is never good in business, the license of Ibeto cement should be restored back to him
Ibeto wey dey import cement
PoliticsRe: Seyi Tinubu Stops A Street Fight In Abuja (Photos) by id4sho(m): 5:55pm On Oct 02, 2023
Dem go soon forget knife for him body undecided
PoliticsRe: Planned strike: NLC, TUC leaders arrive State House by id4sho(m): 5:50pm On Oct 02, 2023
Strike wey Dem go cancel undecided
PoliticsRe: Nasarawa: Ombugadu's Reaction On Being Declared Winner by id4sho(m): 5:29pm On Oct 02, 2023
Inyaky:
Hmmm what will abdulai Adamu do now, I heard he said as long as he is alive no Christian will rule nasarawa state.
Man no b God wink
PoliticsRe: How Uzodinma Jumped From 4th To 1st Place Via Supreme Court (Throwback) by id4sho(m):
I fear for PDP Davematics E Ombugadu of Nasarawa State
PoliticsRe: Wide Jubilation On The Street Of Lafia As Tribunal Declared David The Winner(vid by id4sho(m): 4:47pm On Oct 02, 2023
embarassed tongue
PoliticsRe: Ali Gana Alhaji: ISWAP Guns Down Boko Haram Commander In Sambisa by id4sho(m): 4:36pm On Oct 02, 2023
Islamabad tongue
PoliticsRe: TUC Concludes NEC Meeting, To Meet FG Shortly by id4sho(m): 4:35pm On Oct 02, 2023
Hotfreezing:
No strike
TUC will back out and strike will fail
PoliticsRe: At 63, Nigeria Is A Failed Country, Has Nothing To Celebrate - Nwanguma by id4sho(m): 6:20pm On Oct 01, 2023
tongue
PoliticsRe: Soludo Renames Anambra Airport To Chinua Achebe Airport by id4sho(m): 6:19pm On Oct 01, 2023
slivertongue:
The biggest name till date from Anambra State.
More than Ojukwu wink
PoliticsRe: LASEPA Shuts Down Lennox Mall, Sailor Lounge, Etc For Environmental Pollution by id4sho(m): 6:11pm On Oct 01, 2023
tongue
PoliticsRe: Again, FG Invites NLC To Another Meeting Today by id4sho(m):
Only NUPENG can shut down this country and make the executive respond tongue

“All NUPENG members, including the Petroleum Tanker Drivers (PTD), Petrol Stations Workers (PSW), Liquefied Petroleum Gas Retailers (LPGAR) and all other allied workers in the value chain of petroleum products''
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What I Am Going Through Now.. Advice Needed by id4sho(m): 12:33pm On Oct 01, 2023
Chicken in disguise
PoliticsRe: Reports Of A N50billion plea Bargain deal with Emefiele Is False - AGF Fagbemi by id4sho(m): 12:18pm On Oct 01, 2023
Denial, na their way
PoliticsRe: Can These Police Officers Stop A Robbery(pics) by id4sho(m): 12:59am On Oct 01, 2023
abdulhakim3:
Can they stop a robbery Attack?
Abbatior House
CelebritiesRe: Meet Jowizaza The Young Billionaire Who Inherited Mad Wealth From His Father by id4sho(m): 8:01pm On Sep 30, 2023
IconicR:
I don't like him for one minute

There's something about him that I dislike but I don't know what it is.
Vagina wahala
PoliticsRe: DSP Victoria David's ₦1M Samsung Phone, Luxury Watch Got People Talking (Pix by id4sho(m): 7:46pm On Sep 30, 2023
Taylor92:
Police women and bleaching


See finger
Olosho work join grin
CareerRe: How Much Is A 'good' Salary In Nigerian Private Sector Employment by id4sho(m): 7:03pm On Sep 30, 2023
Igbo business place 10k
EducationRe: UK Female Student Kicks Out Male Nigerian Flatmate For Asking If She's A Virgin by id4sho(m): 6:47pm On Sep 30, 2023
Na all this upper iweka boyz cheesy
FamilyRe: My Sister Married An Efulefu. What Should She Do? by id4sho(m): 6:30pm On Sep 30, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
Right now she needs advice on what to do and I'm also going to be sharing what I have advised her so far.

This man has used his foolishness to implicate my sister and their lovely kids. Before I go into details of what happened recently, I'll like to give a quick backstory of how all these came to be and how she even got herself into this mess

Backtrack to 2014 when she broke the news that someone was coming to see the family for her hand, I asked her who the person was but she refused to tell me saying I'll meet him when he comes. I was now like ha... This one you're hiding it. I never knew it was one useless guy that was living in our former area in the early 2000s that all he does then was stand at junctions disturbing girls. He also disturbed me one period like that and I so much dislike him because of his behavior plus he's fair and I dont fancy fair guys.

The day came and we started cooking. Already I had gotten a hint from my eldest sister that it's the guy and I said was that why she was hiding it? What's my own there. We move. As the day was approaching, my idowus husband called and told me to warn my sister that that guy she's pulling with is not it. That if she's trying to have something serious with him she'll be making a big mistake. I said, she's an adult and can make choices for herself.


He came with his people and we did everything and she moved in with him. Now, this guy doesn't do anything. He claims he's a lawyer but never goes to work. Most times he'll go for early morning training by 6am and after everyone has gone to work, he'll come home and be sleeping. initially my sister was covering him up that he's doing something but anytime I visit after school, I'll always meet him at home sleeping. I knew my sis was just covering him.

Before they married my sister owned a school that was doing well. After her first child the school was still doing well but they started having issues because she was the one bearing most of the financial burden in the house. Sometimes she would come to school with bruises on her face. Since she refused to talk, me I didn't bother asking because if I do she'll bark at me.it continue like that until she could no longer bear it and started opening up to me that the guy doesn't do anything. Just goes about from one junction to the other.

She took in for her second child and fell sick. The school suffered management and folded up. That was when the guy showed her his true color. They fought to the extent she left her kids and went to my sister's house. My elder sisters husband settled them and she went back.

She had her third child and the guy started his madness again. This time he would leave them and go for hours without food. When he's coming at night he'll buy food and call his children to come eat and leave my sister hungry. So anytime I go there I'll just find her something to eat. Sometimes not always.
The day I said enough is enough and decided pull her out of that nonsense was the day she called me, I was in bus and she said for two days now she has not eaten anything and she's having headache. That the guy said he'll deal with her. I told her to hold on and sent her the little I could that I'll come and see her.

I got there and told her she can't continue like this . I told her to start following me to school to learn how to do what I'm doing and I'll be giving her small small daily pay any day she goes with me and later she can start sourcing for her own schools and be making her own money. I put her through and took her to a school immediately and assigned her to some classes after watching me for a few mins.

We did that for a few weeks and I was giving her the small thing I could after each day. She started going out to look for schools and two schools called her. She now said she can't be following me again , I said no problem. God helped her, She now got more schools and started selling books too and making money.
When this guy saw it, he left feeding and only buys food for the children once in a while. Meanwhile their fighting continued.

Fast-forward to last year, the landlord called my sister that he has given the husband quit notice, not because he was owing but because he was always disrespecting the landlord. My sister tried to plead but he said it's not because of my sister but the husband. Now this guy's is so troublesome and brags a lot. He quarrels with the landlord a lot and always goes against the rules of the compound. I on the other hand have been telling my twin now that she has the money to get her own apartment and leave the lazy thing but she remained there.


Last two weeks Tuesday. during that heavy downpour, the landlord came with some police men and threw their things out in the rain as she was preparing her children for school. It was one of the police men that now had pity on her and said they should leave the things in the compound instead of throwing outside in the rain and helped my sister to bring then inside the gate. The husband ran away. After everything he called my sister to bring the children somewhere. When she got there it was a friend's house. He begged them to let his family stay the night and till now he's still there. I told my sister, shey I've been warning you about this guy. Bett look for a place and move in before this one's change their mind. Could you believe this man continued his laziness there? When everyone has gone out he'll go there and start sleeping till they come back from work and meet him. My sister said he has started quarrelling the man's wife . Someone who's squatting you you're challenging them.

he's talking about moving them to Mowe but my sister is not buying the idea and says she wants to get an apartment here on the mainland because of her job and move with only her children but I'm of the opinion that she should leave the children with him because if she goes with the children he'll run from his responsibility and never pay their school fees again.

What should she do because the guy travelled for his brothers burial now and the owner of the house was heard asking the wife why the guy and my sister are still in their house and said let him come back first . Meaning they are tired.

I've told her to get an apartment now o.
One chance
RomanceRe: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by id4sho(m): 6:07pm On Sep 30, 2023
Samantha124:
Yet you'll be doing push-ups on top of one tonight... grin grin grin
Bedmatics 101 wink
PoliticsRe: ''You Come from a Country of Forgers & Scammers''. American Tells Nig-American by id4sho(m): 5:02pm On Sep 30, 2023
FSU:
I am an American citizen of Nigerian origin. At a retirement party yesterday evening, a colleague just blurted in my face that I come originally from a country of forgers, scammers and corrupt elements. I asked why, and he said to me barefacedly, ''who is your president? You couldn't be too far from him, could you?''. I have been seriously traumatized since then.

Should I sue for slander and mental trauma, or should I quietly acknowledge the fact of his claim and move on?
Sue the white head
RomanceRe: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by id4sho(m): 4:38pm On Sep 30, 2023
Samantha124:
99.9% of ladies pretend a lot on their first meeting with their boyfriends parents just so they could score some points.

As the boyfriend's mother, you can't just conclude that she has a good home training just because she asked to help in the kitchen... We just fake it so that we can please them and then enjoy our boyfriends... grin grin grin
This gender, I don't take them serious
Forum GamesRe: Between The Two, Who Is A Good Leader And Why by id4sho(m): 1:20pm On Sep 30, 2023
Nonexisting1:
Please write a clear explanation to back your choice.
Abobi, follow who know road. Duck all the way
PoliticsRe: David Hundeyin: Nigèrien Airforce Threatened To Shoot Down Tinubu’s Plane by id4sho(m): 2:15am On Sep 30, 2023
I thought Nigeria declared a no fly zone over Niger republic
RomanceRe: Ladies, How Much Does He Give You ? by id4sho(m): 12:31am On Sep 30, 2023
Orphans everywhere, hunger bad oOoOO

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