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Loverofpeace:
Its surprising you are all celebrating world war 3 instead of Russia to be humiliated in this war she would rather nuke Ukraine nothing will happen.

Hahaha u are delusional

Tell Russia to continue fighting, invading a neighbor that has not a you for once is something else. The expansionists tendencies of Russia to annex lands that doesn't belong to them, what consign Russia in eastern Ukraine? Do they have the powers to invade a nation to them there are ethnic Russians in Ukraine stupid logic. There are ethnic Germans in Australia and other European countries, had Germany invaded any ? Just like there are Northern tribes in Niger, did Nigeria invade Nigeria to protect the those tribes?

Putin should go and nuke Ukraine let's see how it goes.

nnatobryno:
Why is he targeting civilians. These are soft targets and amount to war crimes, what do we get? Americans control ICC

It seems you don't know what Russia has been doing in Ukraine for 30 months, it's indiscriminate bombardments on Ukraine. All the apartment housing in kyiv that went down are they military fields ? Russia should taste a little of what they have been doing in Ukraine for 30 months and counting.

shivisee:
It’s even more scary the Ibo’s are doing everything to cover it up! They first tried to gaslight people by saying she was a Yoruba woman masquerading as an Ibo person,people quickly counter them by demanding for her arrest,they become boxed to a corner! The next lies from them now is amaka was provoked!!! This Peter obi people are satan from hell that needs to be dealth with! Show us how she was provoked, they brought out a blurry images to fool themselves! Una never know anything !

You are a bigot, I may not hail from either Yoruba or Igbo extraction but could see all the loathe you have in your system.

Inst it on this forum we watched and read articles of people from the Yoruba extraction threatening to obliterate the IGBOs ? From the likes of MC oluomo and other Tinubu Loyalists, what did they do against them? What was your opinion as regarding the genocidal calls against the people from the South East region? Same thing happened with the northern folks issuing genocidal threats against the IGBOs in the last decade.

Most of you have allowed bigotry to eat deeply into your critical thinking thought process to an extent you don't know evil from good. Selective justice is no justice at all, a situation where different people from the Yoruba ethnicity committed same crime and nothing was done about it even when plethora of evidence abound is appalling.

I will never support persecution of a person by based of his ethnicity that's evil and a bad precedence for future generations.

hakeemhakeem:
She could get the man kill rather than allowing her daughter marry him not to talk of having a kid

Just the way the man killed her for training a child into adulthood that isn't his? So her crime isn't worth that but his is worth to kill? Do you know what it is to train another man's child for 20years plus thinking the child belongs to you? That 20years could be used to Mary another woman and birth children for the man but she wasted it for him , the only way she could do restitution is to allow her child birth a child for the man she denied having one from for decades.

Wawelexy:
Na true ooo, because he said for years he had been thinking he was sleeping with his daughter, which means he started having carnal knowledge with her when she was a minor... And nothing is more dangerous than a scorned woman... she will follow up with the case and make sure he ended up in jail to get back at him.... She's already a wounded Lion after the man's revelation, she will put all she has to take back the lead of the scores they are settling....

As a man, try everything possible not to get into the trap of a pained/scornful woman, if you mistakenly do, you are a goner

When some one said for years it means plural years and there isn't any where I'm the OP sentence that specifically said the number of years. It can be 2 years it can be more , assume it's 2 years or 3 years will the girl be a minor? If no then there is possibility of her starting the act as an adult.

Though even if the relationship of the girl and the man is now a step dad step daughter relationship it's still not acceptable

gbadexy:
Very distasteful. If the wife didn't inform him, he would be sleeping with his supposed biological daughter and everyone doesn't seem to see the wrong in this.

Why duel in the man's evil? Is his evil more evil than the woman's? Both were wrong and can be said to be a reciprocal clap back for the other party.

Graysons:
Neither of them, it's a win win for the man and his ex wife

If you know women you will understand it's not a win for the woman, she will soon be the mother inlaw to her ex husband and also the grand mother to her ex husband child , you aren't getting the picture clearly

CrushObituaries:
If a court tries this in Nigeria, those bitter grievingory obi people will start bickering and grieving like bereaved monkeys, calling fire and brimstone for trying to avert chaos of fake news and propaganda churning idiots, the unpatriotic elements will start their mourning

Why Una no dey get sense? Old age supposed come with sense but u say no say ur mumu na follow com. Pathetic

EreluRoz:
It's the wife. I dislike men who drag properties with their wife.

No sensible woman will contribute to her husband's building, the wisest thing to do is to relieve him off some budden so that he can be financially ok to buy a land and build himself. She should have simply sell the land to him and get another land in her name.

A man can come tomorrow with kids from other women who will start dragging space with your children and insist they also have right to their father's property but what is yours as a woman solely belong to your children, nobody can drag it with them.

My deal breaker in marriage is having kids outside our union, no apologies on earth will ever make me stay and I'll never speak a word with you again till we go back to our creator, this is one thing I'll warn my future husband about. As tolerant and forgiving as I can be but don't ever dare that with me.

Your deal breaker should be been a liability as an adult to another adult

JovialJune:
Lol so Nigerian men don't mind being simps to other African women and spending lavishly on them, but cry blue murder when it's their own women calling Nigerian women all sorts of names, it's the hypocrisy and stupidity for me 😂😂😂

Home and abroad Nigerian men are not known for anything worthy to emulate, only negativities, a shame, A VERY BIG SHAME.

Go and work, you are an adult take charge of yourself and leave Nigerian men alone. Keep yourself busy and remove your mind from Nollywood fantasies, there is no saviour anywhere. The loathe in you exudes like sun.

Psychopatheko:
I borrowed her the phone and I told her she should use it for the main time

You should have collected it back when she formatted what doesn't belong to her but you refused acting thinking romance will go on. That's a big red flag

Badmashiii:
Being selfish can't be helped bro. As long as you're a living thing,you have no choice but to selfish otherwise your survival will be in danger.

We can only make effort to appear "selfless" so as to build necessary friendship and also function ultimately in this civilized world.

I understand you but one can't be selfish to another who is selfless to her that's a no no for me.

PerfectStranger:
You're right but he should have known the bolded rarely works. Majority of them don't like to share bills.

Pathetic situation we find ourselves, common sense should always prevail but common sense isn't common. We just have bunch of entitled irresponsible humans everywhere, adults wanting to remain as children forever.

muykem:
I want an expert to investigate this account. I am 100% sure that this account belongs to Igbo masquerading as Yoruba to cause confusion.

You are not different from the tweeter, this is appalling. How do you investigate when you already knew the outcome of the investigation 100% ? Only fools do this. You are giving credence to the poster that Yoruba indeed have deep loathe for those that come from the Igbo extraction, you are a big shame as one of these bigots parading themselves on social media. Shame

NCC fear God oooo, 100k lines

Them want show themselves say them dey work but this one too much

Shimran:
@ bold: Poor homes never wanted to be poor and the world can't afford to have all rich/wealthy homes .

Then why will someone from a poor home want to rub others? What he referred to as poor homes are those who are from poor homes but won't be responsible and content with the little they have but expect another to take on their responsibility. A poor home with responsible people don't behave like that

frazee:
I want to believe this man is not from her village nkporo that why they fired him that kind of list..
My friend from this same nkporo village got married to a lady from nkporo too... na mineral I see everywhere the list no much like this....
I have noticed once its outsider they will fire him bill but once na insider na small thing...

You are right, na that day relationship go end. Reapers everywhere. They don't care wether you eat stone or not after the wedding it's about their selfish interest only

boxypane:
Too much attachment to worldly things. Even if the man is capable, it sometimes diminish the value of the wife or family...

These are the reasons why most people are becoming irresponsible in the society. They now look everything using the lense of what they saw others doing to rate theirs .why won't guys just impregnate ladies than go through this stress? How many percentage of Nigerians have 500k in their account? 5% ,. Meaning only give percent of adults can contemplate doing this in today's Nigeria.

Karleb:
You go explain explain, no evidence!

T[b]o some women, vagina is a natural resources[/b].

Onyi22:
Clear road!!!!
Men dey
Men dey
Na Men dy run things

In ur small mind men dey, no go find job do

tuoyoojo:
Someone said such custom is our ancestors giving us "peer pressure" vibes

These things are what would make some men unable to marry

This very long list make it seem as though they are "selling" their daughter

But who am I to complain, If the man can pay, no wahala

Which ancestors?if you ask men in their 70s how they did in their time they will certainly tell you this wasn't the norm. These things keep changing with time

CyrusVI:
All these for a lady that looks like a cursed Lesotho deity from 130BCE

One of her laps be like wetin dem dey use flog mad woman for midnight


Its 2024 for godsake. People should stop marrying ugly women. The faces of the next generation of Nigerians shouldnt look like this

On her wedding day, they shouldnt refer to her as "The Bride", that will be too posh for her

She is already married, she is no longer a bride.

I guess you erroneously refferering to church wedding? This r who wed in churches are already married why are they referred to as bride and groom? We ain't ready for this discussion.

Creamypie:
When her own brother wan marry, na her husband go still finance am. I dislike girls from poor home

Its pathetic

DuttyChuks:
Did Hamas kidnapped half of Israel, them no dey finish nii!

Them distribute hostages to different locations around Palestine, homes, underground, hospitals, UN facilities etc. Very difficult to track everyone

[quote author=advanceDNA post=131733841]U are right...he shouldn't expect wifey duties

but it's okay for her to expect wifey privileges. eating free in this economy, keeping her money, not being kind enough to help her host, bills free, still expect him to pay her rent....

There's nothing wrong in both parties expecting some advantage in staying togeda ....why u think e should expect nothing from her staying there is absurd ......but hey! I'm sure we will soon get to the "she ddnt force him" part....[/quote]

Na wicked , selfish, ungrateful, self centered people go fit make that line. This is why I no dey kpai myself for women my slogan is I do for u , u do for me once I notice you ain't doing for me I'm off.

Sirqt5:
lady in question was a virgin, na him disvirgined ha . where in Nigeria u for see working lady virgin . Same op opened thread last year abt his difficulty disvirgining ha . who knows the kain lies he told ha to disvirgin ha ? after sleeping with ha finish , na to find excuse

You still can't get it that both of them enjoy sex? How do you want to be explained?

What has virginity have to do with been responsible as an adult? I tite for una , so because he disvirgined her she shouldn't be responsible and accountable as an adult?

Afodot0022:
She is naturally lazy to the core. Despite her being around, I do my laundry myself, I clean and sweep, I cook attimes , wash dishes. All she does is lie on bed and sleep at day. What surprised me was when she just picked her cloth alone about of our both dirty cloths and left mine. That was when I knew she doesn't worth the sacrifices I rendered her. She hate spending her money and expect me to sort all bills including feeding on top say I be her boyfriend. What she say is that am her boyfriend so I should handle all of it. Anytime I bring the discussion of her getting her place, she will start crying and saying all emotional blackmailing words. Some girls can just be so irresponsible, you work and earn and don't want to spend your money. I told her, did she realize that if she got her apartment, she will start paying bills and feeding herself, so why is it difficult to do such now you live with me. I see it as been stingy, selfish and self centered, reason I want to kick her ass out. She doesn't worth the sacrifice

You see this bolded , that's how you know a lady who cares about you. Leave any eye love bullshit talk that comes out of there mouth, watch the actions and not what they say.

Anyone wether male or female that doesn't sacrifice her finances for his or her partner is the biggest test of knowing they can't be a permanent partner in the long run. Irresponsible, selfish and self centered humans should never be in a relationship.

I discussed responsibility and finances with my ex in the first 3 months of our relationship and I got I shocker , shw is the type that will spend 100% of her finances on her house but when she gets married will never spend a dime to assist the man. I missed this part pre-relationship stage and was lucky to have it in the first 3 months into the relationship that was it to me I withdraw every privileges and that was it.

Now I put forward finance discussion before relationship, if I don't like your view there is no need entering into one.

RealityKings:
Let's put the situation in perspective. Let's assume you were the one kicked out by your friend, would she take you in? If she took you in, would you contribute to the house ?

It's good to help others most especially when you are lovers but keep in mind not to let anyone USE you and move on to another dude. She's actually not interested in you(i knowyou sense this already sha). Don't assume the "father role".
Be hard hearted. Make it expressly clear you want her to contribute to the home expenses

You ain't far from the truth, it's nice to always reverse the scenario and see if the reactions will be the same if it's not then something is wrong definitely.

That lady can't host a man who is working and lost his accommodations for 1 day without him contributing to the house. The way I loathe selfish people is unimaginable.

PerfectStranger:
You wanted to eat free kpekus at anytime you wish now u don tire you want her to leave

He said he thought it will be beneficial to both parties but it's now a parasitic relationship and he is right to sell her away.

Don't get this mindset of some women z they are fine if they are the ones spending all the money in their sown house but once they stop Paying rent still find it difficult to plough back that rent money in form of assisting themselves in the new house they live by investing it in food and other home expenses that they majorly consume.

At this time and age no man should ever be with a woman that will become burdensome to him both in finances and otherwise. Irresponsible and zero accountability ladies should have zero place in relationships but dumb men won't agree.

Tightpussy2024:
Off point

Comprehension is difficult these days