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PoliticsRe: Canadian PM Justin Trudeau Attends The Flavours Of Nigeria Festival (pics/video) by idahme(m): 8:05am On Aug 12, 2024
Lifestone:
Guy, it seems abusing Nigeria even for no just cause makes you high and feel good
Do you know what abuse is? He is correlating what happens in the two climes that's not abuse. Why Una dey like this? Person no fit express himself before trying to shut him down?
CrimeRe: Men Harass A Curvy Zambian Lady With Big Backside (Photos) by idahme(m): 8:02am On Aug 12, 2024
EreluRoz:
Perverts.

She did her body. Natural still the best
When u go get sense as old as u are?
FamilyRe: My Marriage Of 6 Months Is Almost Finally Coming To An End, Details Inside : by idahme(m): 7:51am On Aug 12, 2024
NaBanga:
"I'm a broke guys she's just managing." That is the root of your problem. Leave now and make money, because the insults will never stop. You won't get any sweetness from a woman, if you are poor and not trying. Never let anyone woman pay the majority of the bills, because she will resent you and eventually hate you.
Didn't you hear him say he coughed out 4m for his wedding meaning he isn't broke as portrayed by the lady in the presence of her friend. The dude saw this as a big red flag and how she slept with another man and still went ahead, that's where he was wrong.

She really showed she didn't respect him for her to condescending in her remarks about him to her friend.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Of 6 Months Is Almost Finally Coming To An End, Details Inside : by idahme(m): 7:47am On Aug 12, 2024
Ebigwei007:
You just wasted her time with you, something that you would have avoided but you just ignored it, well sha its nt too late to come back to her, just tell her am sorry, fall in love with her again like before.
They wasted their time not he alone. You all should stop making issues between a man and a woman only the responsibility of a man.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Of 6 Months Is Almost Finally Coming To An End, Details Inside : by idahme(m): 7:43am On Aug 12, 2024
BlindAngel:
Yes I married her because she got pregnant, immediately she got pregnant she started pressuring me for marriage. My greatest shock until date was her reaction on the very first day she popped up the question to me, she said and I quote "when we go marry" I told her I wasn't ready the that night was total hell for me, she started crying endlessly, calling me all sorts of names that I'm wicked, heartless, and have no conscience. That same night she drank hypo with her pregnancy, drank tiles wash, used rope to tie her neck and lastly went to the kitchen to get a knife that she want to kill herself. I was surprised by her reaction because it was the very first day she asked me the question and I never imagined I'd witness such a reaction on just the very first day she asked me such.

She continued popping up the question on a daily basis and her reaction was always same whenever I told her that I wasn't ready, it got to a point that I told her that I don't have money and her response "na lie na lie na lie, u get money, u get money, na lie"

She kept on threatening me with suicide and popping up the question until I couldn't take it any longer and had to agree to marry her.

I got the greatest shock of my life this morning when I reminded her of what she did back then, her response. "she warned me not to ever say such again that I'm a man and I was the one that made the decision in getting married to her" this response nearly moved me to tears, because I remembered when she was pressuring me endlessly, threatening me with suicide, begging me on a daily basis to marry her and remove shame from her eyes. I was really so pained by her response.
As painful as this sounds I smiled and shook my head as regards to the response to her answers clearly showing that you need to learn more about female manipulations and how to put it in check during decision making.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Of 6 Months Is Almost Finally Coming To An End, Details Inside : by idahme(m): 7:33am On Aug 12, 2024
saintopus:
I've been in marriage for more than 20 years, most of what you stated here can all be settled with 2 attitudes.

1. Patience

2. Forgiveness

You see, no marriage on earth is without problems.

Let me ask you, assuming you got married to a chubby lady, do you think none of what you mentioned here would happen?

Or would you because of the lady's chubby nature and stay?

Lets say she was a virgin. Does that mean that she wouldn't have exhibited these attitudes?

Go back again and read those 2 words above. Then think again.
One of his pains is knowing that the lady had sex with another man while dating, this marriage shouldn't have taken place but as u said if he doesn't forgive her of her past he can't move forward in the marriage. But this act will be symbiotic else nothing fruitful will come out
FamilyRe: My Marriage Of 6 Months Is Almost Finally Coming To An End, Details Inside : by idahme(m): 7:30am On Aug 12, 2024
securitywatch50:
Hmmm, all this long epistle without substance and you call yourself a man.
What a shame in the name of marriage, why not allow someone's daughter to stay and meet someone that will love her for whom she is and not you that is frustrating her life for nothing with you.

I pray someone will also do same to your sister.
When u see this I know the kind of mind you possess, people like you cannot adjudicate matters without bringing your emotionally ladened thought process along grin

The dude asserted he was wrong as well as his wife also but something in you that always doesn't accept accountability and responsibility for your actions always give you reasons why a woman is niece guilty and should never accept accountability for their actions which is very bad. You better learn to accept accountability and so that it will transform into issues you adjudicate on grin.

If you look at this issues keenly you will understand that irrespective of the OP having preferences for chubby dark girls he loved his woman regardless but that love dwindled the day he knew the woman wasn't representing him in the presence of her friends and also had sex with another man while they where still dating. The only problem I had with OP is he would have called it quit after making her take responsibility of that act with consequences and not to reward a wayward partner with a contract of marriage. I guess you didn't read all of these part grin keep reading what gladens your mind grin

This marriage shouldn't have taken place considering what has transpired between the couples in the past. How on earth will you both live with a third party and still expect to resolve your issues? Its pathetic the situation ha spiralled to this point of almost no return but before you quit why don't you both talk about this for the last time. What I see is more of fighting rather than talking with each other, talk and see what pans out.

Both of you are clearly guilty of this and should be accountable and responsible for the actions you have taken previously, you need to walk past the hurt she did to you in order to forgive her and accept her as a partner,if you don't their is no way any discussion can take place. Wish you guys the best
CrimeRe: Police Officer And Keke Driver Strangle Each Other On Busy Road (Photos) by idahme(m): 11:59pm On Aug 11, 2024
TRAPLORD13:
That still doesn't give you the right to initiate any type of unwelcomed physical contact with a security personnel.
Thief
RomanceRe: Saidaboj Was Right :Men are cheap by idahme(m): 5:50pm On Aug 10, 2024
When you know that men aren't cheap id when you want to marry your spec of a man boom your delusional mindset will be crushed with speed of light grin

You will understand commitment from your spec of a man is one of the most difficult things you will experience as a lady grin, in your mind DM means that you are valuable? Them want nack you that's all grin
RomanceRe: Iraq Proposes Lowering Legal Age Of Marriage For Girls To NINE by idahme(m): 5:47pm On Aug 10, 2024
They want to take it to Mohamed's specifications.
PhonesRe: Does Buying A 5G Phone Really Worth It since the coverage isn't available? by idahme(m): 5:39pm On Aug 10, 2024
When it comes to video calls, meetings you will understand it's importance. Go with the latest available even if it's not everywhere
PoliticsRe: Tony Elumelu Speaks On Contesting For Presidency 2027 by idahme(m): 5:33pm On Aug 10, 2024
CrushObituaries:
Presidency? joke taking too far.
What's joke ? Is she not a Nigerian? How many of those guys in power than have accomplishments half those he has done?
CrimeRe: Police Officer And Keke Driver Strangle Each Other On Busy Road (Photos) by idahme(m): 5:29pm On Aug 10, 2024
Lifestone:
No mater the level of provocation, it's fatally wrong to lay your hands on Policemen or any other Law enforcement agencies.
These are not police officers they are thieves and armed robbers, if you ply NIGERIAN roads you won't agree less.
Christianity EtcRe: Verydarkman Takes Pastor Jeremiah's Healing Products To NAFDAC To File Petition. by idahme(m): 12:31pm On Aug 10, 2024
sreamsense:
To him now, he is doing guy not knowing he is working curses upon himself and unborn generation thinking he is mocking him. He wants to use the man of God to get public star. No respect for elders, no fear of God and no respect for any authority. What do you want to get by spoiling and bringing someone else down? If he is not of God, leave him for God to weigh His work and reward him himself. Judgement is of God, he will reward everybody one day according to their deeds
That man no be man of God ooo, does he do anything that is in line with the principles of his mentor Jesus if no how then is he a man of God?
Foreign AffairsRe: Iran Showcase Undetectable Cruise Missiles by idahme(m):
motayoayinde:
Look at this pathetic dolt!

Shitrael is still on lockdown after its cowardly assassination awaiting some pummelling from its master. What independent country does that?

The idiots you're boasting about are in hiding underground somewhere in Tel Aviv deceiving nincompoops like you about a pre-emptive strike. Who does that?

Iran is not on lockdown and the Ayatollah and president are walking freely in their country.

In spite of begging all the western countries and Arabs for defense and sending people to appeal to Iran not to respond, they're still in bunkers.
It's apparent who's the boss.
U call going to your enemies doorsteps to assasinate a terrorist cowardice? This guy u must be high on something. grin Go and enlist for Iran and see your 72 virgins the next day
Foreign AffairsRe: Iran Showcase Undetectable Cruise Missiles by idahme(m): 9:13am On Aug 10, 2024
motayoayinde:
Israel has been on near lockdown for almost 2 weeks now awaiting missiles from Israel and begging every western country to help defend it.

Netanyahu is currently hiding in an underground bunker.

If they had such powers as you described they'd have used it long ago. They're waiting for the US to help fight Iran.

Una go just dey talk pure rubbish.
You know a little about what you talk about

How many times have you heard Iran do anything inside Israel? Then I ask how many times have you heard Israelis murdering commanders, Nuclear scientist, Foreign terrorists inside of Iran? It's uncountable.

A country that would cause havoc to Iran and move out without Iran having any trace is who you compare to Iran? Iran may have plenty of human resources due to their millions of people available to them while Israeli is just 10% of Iranian population but have the same defense budget, same GDP amd more than 6times the GDP per capital.

When it comes to weaponry Israel is miles ahead of Iran. Check out the last strike Iran had in Israel and the retaliation that followed. Israel has multi layered protection spanning from the Arrow head, David slings, Iron dome and the newest which may come online sooner than later Iron beam. The Israelis are on war mode go and do rubbish and find out the best way to get your 72 virgins I trust the Israelis they will ensure the virgins go round grin.

Go out body, you can even go to the Frontlines and see what is happening and what would happen grin
RomanceRe: The Weird Family My Ex Girlfriend Came From by idahme(m): 8:50am On Aug 10, 2024
Bennatalks:
BE A MAN and stop crying she dumped your sorry ass,i know your type.
Madam go breastfeed your baby after that go meet your husband to nack you so that your hormonal imbalance can be kept in check. If you no get one I don't know what to say to you
RomanceRe: The Weird Family My Ex Girlfriend Came From by idahme(m): 8:45am On Aug 10, 2024
Bennatalks:
You carry your ex and her entire family come discuss,you are a very bitter soul.oga move on and stop crying obori!
Make nobody quote me with nonsense o my head dey shake.
U are quoting someone and don't want others quote you, I want to ask you a question. Why do ladies hate been held accountable for their actions including you?

The way you are vibrating like a tiger generator is as if you are the lady or you have found yourself in similar situations before.
RomanceRe: The Weird Family My Ex Girlfriend Came From by idahme(m): 8:42am On Aug 10, 2024
Ikea81:
You think this is weird? I am knacking a mother and daughter currently, and they both know about it.
Omo I hail oooo grin

This is the peak of weid grin
RomanceRe: The Weird Family My Ex Girlfriend Came From by idahme(m): 8:38am On Aug 10, 2024
Watcharena:
did you see the number of girls in the house and their ages who is going to feed them, who is going to cloth them who is going to pay their rent, who is going to pay their medal bills ,who is going to pay water bills ,who is going to pay light bills and much more, They are only being sincere to themselves
What sort of question are asking? Does Been a woman negates you from taking accountability and responsibility for your life? That means they can't take care of themselves because they are women? This is why women do what they do in the society because most men don't hold women accountable for their actions.

How do an adult expect me to foot her lifestyle because I am a man and she is a woman and expect me to be with her, he education and training is a waste , such kinds of humans should never come to my precinct.
RomanceRe: The Weird Family My Ex Girlfriend Came From by idahme(m): 8:34am On Aug 10, 2024
Tightpussy2024:
Since she is an ex why bother about it to the point of creating a thread?
The girl has moved on and may be in another relationship plus enjoying money and gbola and you are creating thread about her...


Who else believes this is another fictitious tale to claim most women are into hookup in naija
Even if he has moved on what is wrong in talking about it, this is why most ladies and accountability is like oil and water they never mix.
RomanceRe: The Weird Family My Ex Girlfriend Came From by idahme(m): 8:27am On Aug 10, 2024
scoobyblogspot:
So you brought this to nairaland unto wetin. wa u just born. How can this be new to you or strangehuh?
It can be a learning point to others who are experiencing same , guy shift Mr old man. Why Una dey talk too much as if Una dey hold critical thinking on behalf of God
SportsRe: 5 Former Super Eagles Players Who Became Pastors by idahme(m): 9:30pm On Aug 09, 2024
GanagiBitrus:
Idah is the most prominent of the lot.
Because of his pundit job but taribo is the biggest amount them all . Taribo is a legend
Foreign AffairsRe: Samer al-Hajj: Israeli Strike Kills Senior Hamas Figure In South Lebanon(photos) by idahme(m): 9:12pm On Aug 09, 2024
LadyExcellency:
They shot 30 missiles at Israel today
I'm talking of missiles that killed kids playing on the field The ones intercepted by iron dome won't really hurt is real that much but once deaths are recorded then Gaza 2.0 will be activated
Foreign AffairsRe: Samer al-Hajj: Israeli Strike Kills Senior Hamas Figure In South Lebanon(photos) by idahme(m): 8:04pm On Aug 09, 2024
humberjade:
Israel's intelligence gathering is outta this world. But what still baffles me is how they allowed Hamas attack them on October 10 despite intelligence to that effect. Perhaps they did so as to have the moral ground to go all out against Hamas. Though I doubt they knew how big it was going to be.
Probably yes, they took Hamas back to 10 years
Foreign AffairsRe: Samer al-Hajj: Israeli Strike Kills Senior Hamas Figure In South Lebanon(photos) by idahme(m): 7:55pm On Aug 09, 2024
straighttalk:
As they are celebrating death harvest, they should remember that the pendulum will at one point swing the other way around and they found themselves on the other side of the narrative,

RIP to the dead.
Didn't you see Hezbollah attack last week on Israel? This is a retaliatory strike
Christianity EtcRe: Verydarkman Storms Disability Home, Tests Prophet Jeremiah’s Miracle Water by idahme(m): 10:09am On Aug 09, 2024
Hecziggz:
this is where you got me wrong.. I don't support the sale of anything but the way vdm is going about it is equally wrong
If VDM is a vessel to tame these scammers then I support it.

I showed you that you don't necessarily have to have faith for healing to occur just as you asserted. Your assertion is one of the way in which healing can occur but not only the way, 2 other scenarios exist which VDM's case can be attributed to.

The sale of those items I coined it in order to drive home my general point but wasn't was I first addressed, my first assertion was based solely on faith and healing which you brought up.
Christianity EtcRe: Verydarkman Storms Disability Home, Tests Prophet Jeremiah’s Miracle Water by idahme(m): 10:05am On Aug 09, 2024
Hecziggz:
this is where you got me wrong.. I don't support the sale of anything but the way vdm is going about it is equally wrong
If VDM is a vessel to tame these scammers then I support it.
EducationRe: FUTO Didn't Allow Verified FG Loan Applicants Write Exam by idahme(m): 10:03am On Aug 09, 2024
clockwisereport:
You did not pay your school fees neither did you register your courses and you want to write exam. DEY PLAY
These schools already have partnership with the Government why are they doing this? These schools are also owned by the government .

I had a funding but air didn't come so quickly but my educational institution had to allow me continue because they already agreed with the funders that they will pay when the fees are ten times more than the self sponsored students why won't they agree. That's how FG universities should behave.
FashionRe: See Miss South Africa Winners From 2000 To 2018 by idahme(m): 9:58am On Aug 09, 2024
Horus:
Who voted for them to be elected Miss South Africa?
They are citizens just like the blacks.
Christianity EtcRe: Verydarkman Storms Disability Home, Tests Prophet Jeremiah’s Miracle Water by idahme(m): 9:49am On Aug 09, 2024
Hecziggz:
are u a believer.. If yes then you know the answer to the question.. But if you are not.. Before you can receive any miracle.. U will be asked do u believe.. If u say yes den u can expect a miracle but if you say no then d reverse is the case.. Do u lock your door and expect people to gain entrance to it without opening it or giving them the 🔑
Is this your thoughts supported by the scriptures?

The Bible provides various perspectives on faith and healing. While there are instances where belief precedes healing, there are also examples where healing occurs regardless of the recipient's faith. Here are a few key points:

1.Faith Preceding Healing
In several instances, Jesus emphasized the importance of faith in receiving healing. For example, in Matthew 9:22, Jesus tells the woman with the issue of blood, "Your faith has made you well." Similarly, in Mark 10:52, Jesus says to the blind man Bartimaeus, "Go; your faith has healed you."
- In Mark 6:5-6, it is noted that Jesus could do only a few miracles in His hometown because of the people's lack of faith. This suggests that belief plays a significant role in the manifestation of healing.

2. Healing Without Explicit Faith
- There are also instances where Jesus healed people without them explicitly expressing faith. In John 5:1-15, Jesus heals a man at the pool of Bethesda who didn't initially express faith or even know who Jesus was.
- In Luke 7:11-17, Jesus raises a widow's son from the dead without any mention of the widow’s or the son's faith.

3. Faith of Others
- The Bible also highlights the role of the faith of others in the healing process. For instance, in Mark 2:1-12, the faith of the friends who brought the paralyzed man to Jesus led to his healing.
- In Matthew 15:21-28, the faith of the Canaanite woman results in the healing of her demon-possessed daughter.

while the Bible teaches that faith can play a crucial role in receiving healing, it also shows that God's grace and power to heal are not limited by the presence or absence of belief. The VDM case can be attributes to case 3 .


The Bible does not support or encourage the practice of selling holy water, or any other items, as a means of obtaining God's blessings, healing, or favor.

Key Points from the Bible:

1. Condemnation of Commercializing Faith
- In the New Testament, Jesus strongly opposes the commercialization of religious practices. For example, in Matthew 21:12-13, Jesus drives out the money changers and those selling doves from the temple, declaring, "My house will be called a house of prayer, but you are making it a den of robbers." This passage underscores that religious practices should not be used for financial gain.

2. Freely Given, Freely Give
- Jesus instructed His disciples in Matthew 10:8, saying, "Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse those who have leprosy, drive out demons. Freely you have received; freely give." This suggests that spiritual gifts and blessings, including healing, should be given freely without charge.

3. Warning Against Exploitation
- The Bible also warns against false teachers and those who exploit others for financial gain. In 2 Peter 2:3, it says, "In their greed these teachers will exploit you with fabricated stories." The selling of holy water or other items for profit could fall under such exploitation if done with improper motives.

The Bible does not support the sale of holy water or any similar practices. Instead, it emphasizes that God's blessings and grace are freely given and should not be commercialized. If a pastor or religious leader engages in such practices, it would not align with biblical teachings and that prophet or pastor is doesn't portray Jesus.
Christianity EtcRe: Verydarkman Storms Disability Home, Tests Prophet Jeremiah’s Miracle Water by idahme(m): 9:39am On Aug 09, 2024
SIRmanjar:
Doesn't work that way

I am not in support of fake pastors.The person applying it and the one he is applying it on must use it with faith for it to work
If you use it for mockery it won't work.Even if it's juju.You must believe in it
Who sells water in church? That prophet na scammer, is it what Jesus preached?

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