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dre11:
* I never had sex with Fani-Kayode for six years, says ‘ex-wife’

*Ex-wife Chikwendu seeks custody of three kids




https://thenationonlineng.net/i-never-had-sex-with-fani-kayode-for-six-years-says-ex-wife/

birds of the same feather flock together....both are fivensix

Brika:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BU_Y0qHBlKw

he can cook that is all.

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/Presidency-Its-too-late-to-kneel-and-beg-Shettima-replies-Ezeife

we don't know this ones, don't scatter the southern part of Nigeria we know how to handle our self, a igbo president is as good as a yoruba president.

God1000:
I just came across a story on Facebook today, a man was lamenting and seeking for advice on what to do, he's at his wit's end.
Here's the story, the man lost his wife at child's birth and after awhile he met another lady that assisted him in raising the child, he eventually had a soft spot for her and sent her to university with the hope of marrying the girl the moment she finishes from school.

The problem now is that the lady doesn't pick his calls like before, she hardly calls him and the man is nonplussed.

Why are ladies giving guys every justifiable reason not to help them
again?
Is this smartness or turpitude?

this article sometime look like pouring water inside basket.

AllahIsSatan:
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2021/12/06/why-ffk-hates-igbos-precious-chikwendu-video/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

medicine after death .. yorubas n igbos are one.... Swallow ur private life alone

Jayzel:
I've been dating my beautiful damsel for over 6 years now (2015), she has been financially supportive to me when things were so rough for me untill now things are a bit balance, since when our relationship kickoff we have never fought for once, we do argue most~times and later in the day we settle it inside our bedroom at night, she's so respectful and honest to both me and my family members.

There's a pretty damsel working in a UBA bank close to my residencial area here in Oniru Lekki, when I do return every~day from my working place I do branch at the bank to save some money in my account, the lady is my favourite cashier so I do give her the money and take my leave, so later in the day she will transfer the money into my account without no delay at all. But yesterday she called me on phone that she wanted us to hang out together (today being sunday) that all bills & expenses on her. I'm seriously confused now.

I still love my current girlfriend and i don't wanna hurt her feeling's, plz help out peers.

you don't need anybody advice here. You are not discipline that is all.... But note, yoruba says the devil you know is better than the angel you just met.

bolaayenimo:
By Temidayo Akinsuyi


https://independent.ng/2023-apc-governors-split-over-tinubus-presidential-ambition/

how do you expect thief's to accept a higher thief as their leader. Tinubu will run down this country than buhari..... Igbo president is all we want either from enugu or anambra

LILTJAY:
Yoruba man helping the life of miserable anambra

must you abuse anybody, our love for each other should start from here. To me know igbo, no yoruba, no hausa we are all one.

joinnow:
We were strand for some hours as the bandits took their time to operate. At the end of the operation, some number of persons were kidnapped. The development was so pathetic, as we all watched helplessly.

“We were all afraid because, there was nothing we could do. No security operative was around to help us. Even members of the communities all went into hiding. We are praying to God to help Niger and Nigeria to bring this situation to an end,” the source lamented.

They are not around BECAUSe
They are busy mounting roadblock every junctions and helping themselves by collecting N 100 from motorist in the east

May God help us.

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

funny post... Women are 4 ever selfish

[quote author=dre11 post=108196347]*As Osinbajo’s supporters meet Northern Elders



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/12/kano-political-mishap-threatens-tinubu/[/apc........ abortion party congresss, they have aborted all the good pregnancy have finish.

onthehill:
https://igberetvnews.com/1407887/bbnaijas-whitemoney-performs-song-selense-stage-photos-video/

em talent na to cook,make himgo develop am biko, song no be em way jare

Authority1o1:
Okay...


Dowen College has released a rebuttal to the claim sponsored by the deceased's relative. Now it's very hard to draw a conclusion, rather a hypothesis is all I can afford now:

If Sylvester had died from injury or consequent injury sustained while playing a game as claimed by Dowen College, why was there ever a need for the brutal post made by the obviously apoplectic relative pointing fingers at abuse? If it had happened as claimed, unless his uncle feeds his veins with heroin, there isn't any rationale to such a post. It was prompted by what he may have been told by the dead, which still holds water at this juncture.

And how he got those names in a very short but sensitive while is very baffling as well.

I took a careful look at Sylvester. He was very broken. His lips were so gone that it can take a sandpaper to replicate the injury on them. What kind of fall, or jump, or collision or whatever could have resulted to such? His limbs were not responsive as well.

Sylvester's mother, whom Dowen College calimed to have contacted beforehand wouldn't be so mad to call for such a shameful, ignoble protest unless it was prompted. If it had happened as asserted by the school, the typical response of a mother would be a solemn candle night or funeral, accompanied by dissociation and mourning.

say know to bad parenting, up till now know one was able define the excert home of the devil ontill i realize that his home is in our mind and it all depend on how we make use of it.

crossfm:
Guys we really need to be careful this season,because snakes can be found almost everywhere.

This one was found inside a bus,thank God no one was harmed.

snake kingdom, everywhere snake snake, may GOD save us and our family.

IdreamOfUnicorn:
After four years of being with her you don't have intention to marry her and you expected her to stay put? You want to turn her to lord of the rings

na so the country easy abi
You people should stop fooling your selves.

Moreign001:
Hello Guys, Good Morning and a Happy Sunday to you all.

I don't know how concise i can be, but I will try.

I just graduated last 3 months, with my girlfriend who's now my ex, and she's 26yrs of age while I'm 28yr.

We started dating from our 200level till yesterday, (that's approximately 4yrs and counting...).
We were ideal together, we were well known in school, to an extent where her friends and mine kept asking how? And wishing theirs was like ours..

She promised never to leave, and she please everyday that I should never hurt her. At times we jokingly talked about our future kids which is now a never happening fable.

So after we graduated, she travelled to stay with her aunt, we do check on each other everyday.

Last month.. She called, and said her friend needs an advice, that she and her date just graduated, and that another man is asking her out, and she's thinking of dumping her guy since he's not ready, and that the newly known man is ready to pay for her marriage rites.
Immediately I knew she was the one in the story, because I already had several dreams were she left me. I pretended, I told her to tell her friend to "Follow Her Heart".

Last night she called, and said there's something she wants to tell me, I responded, "Is it what I already know?", she asked what? I told her she's getting married soon, and she said yes! I was speechless. I asked her for how long has this been going on, she said it started when she came to stay with her Aunt. We spoke, and I congratulated her, she started crying, I ended the call, sent her a good luck text.

This morning, she called and said she couldn't sleep last night. I asked her why she did it, why she decided to get married, she said she doesn't know. I asked if she likes the guy, she said yes. She couldn't stop crying and was saying I shouldn't leave her, while she's the one leaving me. I was totally down, but I have crazy friends. I WhatsApp a friend, told him what just happened, his words boosted me up. He said, " Support her, we move, no be God leave you". That was enough, but it's hard, really hard to move on without her, and she said the same thing and kept pleading I shouldn't leave her.
Now I'm asking, if I was the one who had left, what would have been the story? That I used her and dumped her, because this has always been used against the guys.
Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria.

no let nigeria girls give you high blood fa
Na only few of them get better vission.

Hashabiah:
PDP is just dreaming.

tell us apart from pdp and who else?

Muyiwaipere:
Trust not a woman.... They would finish you and act innocent

u're right

fergie0o1:
Dr. Rahmat Zakariya, a lecturer at the Department of Microbiology, University of Ilorin, made national and international headlines this week when her story went viral after a student, Waliyullah Salaudeen, attacked her following alleged disagreement over SIWES programme. In this exclusive interview with Daily Trust, she narrated her side of the story which has been missing from the dominant narrative out there about the incident. She also clarified what she termed misconceptions about the whole issue. Excerpts:-




Previous thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6848909/400l-unilorin-microbiology-student-beat#107591745

muric abi watin the dey call their name wont see this one since na muslim and muslim .... Wahala dey for the future of this country.

backbencher:
It is obvious that the student was completely at fault

Also he told the lecturer that he was ill. And did not produce a medical report. Okay.

Finally the fact is he also had carryover..

Student was at fault. He should have just repeated the SIWES.

what if the medication he took was local herbs nko
All fingers are not equal

abhosts:
The next presidential general election is just 15 months away. Who are your First and Second Choice for President?

Here are my Picks:

First Choice: Akinwumi Adesina

Second Choice: Udom Emmanuel

obi
Dr. Okonjo

ImmaculateJOE:
1st choice Peter Obi
2nd chioce Osinbanjo

we get thesame vision but second i for prefer dr. Okonjo iweala.... I want igbo to be president... Only them can fix nigeria at the moment

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

na only woman know how this thing call love and feelings they do them.

Chuky7:
A neighbor of mine not married stayed single has children out of wedlock I once asked him why he said his family believe that as far as you can take care of them no problem. he believes in going the unconventional way as marriage no too dey favor man. you pay bride price all bills are on you. you take care of your new family. but as a non married man his only concern are the kids and the baby mama.

What do you think of this lifestyle. I dey reason am.

It's not a death sentence for a child born out of wedlock nothing really changes just traditions you are conditioned to for no reason.

bad idea, distance marriage is kind of better.... Don't add salt to the injuries in the society. Let mk this place a better place for i and you n for all of us

money121:
Hello Nairalanders,
Few weeks ago, a single father posted his twins here on nairaland (https://www.nairaland.com/6519966/twins-plus1-today-im-happy) and I was so moved, I reached out to him that i wish to assist him with some little token monthly if he don't mind, I dropped my contact, he contacted me and i assisted him with the token as promised.

But i noticed a lot of members on nairaland started contacting me for assistance, some even thought i run a charity foundation, so this prompted me to Start this weekly GiveAway.

The beneficiary will either be a Widow, Widower, Single parent and i will also consider Students because i know it is not easy here in Nigeria.
This will serve as my little contribution and pay back to Nairaland because this forum has really helped my Roofing Business thus far.

So, we will pick winners randomly every week with proof that you are really in need of that money.
I believe 5k will go a long way to attend to some basic things.

Note: If I give you the money, it's not because you scoped me to achieve that, you're just unintelligent/unwise if you're among those taking advantage of kind people around you and calling such kind hearted people maga.
My believe is that givers never lack.

Moreover, i'm also aware of the economic challenges/recession in the country, so helping people when I can is right to me.

TO APPLY:
Drop a comment here and tell us how this 5k would go a long way to helping you.
You can send proof to my DM to support your reason.
I will randomly pick one (1) person each week.


Impart Of Nairaland Forum In My Life & My Roofing Business (True Life Stories)

>> https://www.nairaland.com/5913335/impart-nairaland-forum-life-roofing

5k will really help me alot to buy food into the house

FIFApresident1:
What is holly gram for Goodness sake? Why are you trying to be like that damn nigga boy?

Can't you be yourself?

tell him ooo

SultanOfPuna:
If this is what is called Beauty in 1957
Then I must say I'm HIGHLY disappointed
Make una dey talk true for once
The woman no fine at all

My grandma from Enugu who is 86 was very far more beautiful and sexy than this woman during 1957..

She is the beautiful LoLo in the middle
That pic is 1962

you for enroll your grand ma then for the program now. I beg mk we hear word jare

Blackman101:
Obasanjo, One of the great president Africa has ever produced. well know in Africa( ECOWA,AU) and the United Nation. My worry is that Nigeria are not making the best use of the man.

true

TMKsouth:
On Monday, two Nigerian presidents were in Durban, South Africa for the 2nd Intra-African Trade Fair (IATF).

President Muhammadu Buhari received a special invitation from SA's President Cyril Ramaphosa, together with a handful of other leaders from the continent. Former President Olusegon Obasanjo came in his capacity as IATF's chairman of the advisory council.

obj is just like messi and ronaldo.... Very influential. They are very special breed from God.... @ 84 he is still building africa.... Over 40 years of active politics..... you be baba to buhari jare

NwekeUG:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/its-nobodys-business-what-i-do-with-my-boobs-bbnaija-star-angel/

daughter of Lucifer

NwekeUG:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/its-nobodys-business-what-i-do-with-my-boobs-bbnaija-star-angel/

daughter of Lucifer..... Endtime lady

YorubaNiBaba:
https://www.thecable.ng/nigerian-born-dapo-akande-elected-into-un-law-commission/

am still wondering who are those that almagamate this country self?, Nigeria suppose to be yoruba n igbos alone. 85% of Nigerians in diaspora are from this great tribes.
Alway making us proud.