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Carmira:
unfortunately No

Thanks

finson:
Good day all,

I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.

I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.

On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.

When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.

Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.

She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.

When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.

I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.

I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.

To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.

If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome.
Please don't judge me.

It can only be true or false, either way. She feels you can be her helper to relocate her to a developed country with your baby or not.

Decide in your mind that you will help her relocate abroad, cos she believe you can afford it. I think so too.

Relocate her to Canada or US or Australia or New Zealand. But not the UK where you and your family reside.

She just want you to help her get a better life.

I see no big deal in that, if you can her attractive enough to f...u...c...k her, you should be able to pity her enough to help her.

You may feel you don't owe her that kind of help, but you should consider doing it to help her future children, which one may be yours or none.

saheedbadmus:
Nope ..they are fit..its a sign of hierarchy ..the top military and police boss use the walking stick

Almost all uniform services top men uses it. In Correctional Service, its called Swagger Cane or stick.
A swagger stick is a short stick or riding crop usually carried by top uniformed services men as a symbol of authority. A swagger stick is shorter than a staff or cane, which means the cane or staff will be a bit longer, and is usually made from rattan. Its use derives from the vine staff carried by Roman centurions as an emblem of office.

Thank you

chatinent:
Why is the law respecting this hardened criminal?

Not even one single picture of him in handcuffs or being properly arraigned. Instead we see him in starched Senator clothes with his rumpled criminal face!

Show us proof! Show him in the prison! That guy needs to be kept where he kept others like him make dem lynch am. Or possibly tear tear en yansh. Pastard! I just hope he isn't cooling off in a luxurious apartment, and they are calling it prison.

If possible, the Nigerian police should be disbanded. We can opt to hire the Ghanaian police as replacements because there is no difference between the NPF and hardened armed robbers!

- They carry rifles and steal from all motorists on the highway.
- They kill without recourse to.
- They are poorly trained.
- They lack manners of approach...of course, they don't know the law.
- they steal from anyone they can take advantage of!
- they do every other sorts of atrocities!


Nigeria and ingredients.

Calm down, no be Una go dey talk say people in prison are innocent and unjustly remanded. Pls, say same about Kyari.

If prison punish, Una go say the authorities are wicked because the criminal did no direct wrong to you or his or her crimes does not make the news. But if its a criminal who did you direct evil or his act of crime made the news, you will all be shouting kill kill kill like a hungry lions looking for blood.

Let the criminal justice system do their work

Ever8090:
That's good...it's always good to help those in need of you can.
Last month I received a help for my son's school fees from someone here on Nairaland "Alfajohn". It was a big relief for me and I remain greateful to him and pray he never lacks

Amen oo oo.


May help locate me soon too.

Mooh247:



Nothing will happen you can also threaten them back that your Lawyers would contact them or drag them to court if they continue harrasing you for what you never consented to

As for your friend, quickly dissociate with him, and keep issuing out disclaimers whenever the loan company contacts you

When will Nigerians stop blaming loan companies and start blaming chronic loan defualters and debtors... It seems it is now cool to borrow funds without paying and simply blame the lending party

UK and US citizens enjoy Credit system and it makes their lives easier

*You need a new iPhone, you get it on credit contract... When you are tired of the device you sell to Africa

*You need a Car you get car loan, pay back monthly and sell off to Africa when you need a new one

*You have an Idea to moneytise or Cormercialise you get a start-up loan and begin a business.. you pay back and get more to expand your business

*You want to get educated, you get Students loan, get certified and qualified then start paying back

Nigerians and African Credit system

*You want to host a party (Marriage , Naming. Ceremony, Funeral) you tell lies to get a Loan and hope people spray you money to pay back

*You are jobless and want to pay bills you take loan

*You want to fvck Olosho you take loan



.

The loan companies should go into hire purchase business for vehicles, the risk there with what they are doing presently is still same . so why not? It will even be a more productive loans than the 30- 20k they are giving h..o...r...n...y he goats that they are using to f.....u....c.....k holoshos

Carmira:
Thank you @Idaytes

Available on Hire Purchase?

Sold?

Romanoff:
Social media has made humans become unkind.

Exactly what is going on.

234GT:
Whether or not I continue his bloodline, he is not aware once he is dead.

And what happens if the male children can't father kids.

He will bear the lineage for his own lifetime at least.

amdman:
Thank you for your feedback.

As the prices dey do you, na so e dey do us.

Car prices here have gone through the roof due to low inventory and inflation. Then the least cost of shipping in 2022 is $1450 = N826,500. Then add clearing cost of N500k - N800k for a car of 2009 and below. The numbers just do not make sense.

Nevertheless we will keep trying different strategies to ensure that we are able to deliver at prices that give the common man hope.

Men! Just love your maturity.

How much will make me a proud owner of a 2008 Sienna 3.5L V6?

samobaba4u:
Don't mind him. Maybe he's into higher purchase.

Even at that, only Camry of 2004 or there about goes for that price on HP

lalasticlala:
My wife and I welcomed our second child this morning, a baby boy. We thank God for safe delivery.

Congratulations Lalasticala, God bless and uphold your home.

Nice ride @Carmira

blackborn7:
No Sir, I do outright sale.

Incase you have the 2007 - 2008 model for HP, pls don't hesitate to contact me. I am into transport business. Thanks.

blackborn7:
No Sir, I do outright sale.

Okay, thanks for replying

westlius:
Thanks

pls do well to contact me if there is opportunity for part time engagement in your exploration company, the 2 weeks off, 2 weeks on thingy. I will appreciate that.

Kobojunkie:
What I stated here are not born if any personal delusions I hold to but are instead based on facts established outside of my mind.

9 becomes 6 when its viewed from another angle.

westlius:
I want to use this medium to thank the administrator of this platform @seun, got a job last month on the job section in south south Nigeria.
Others seeking for job placement, continue your search, never give up, God has time for Everyone, thank you Nairaland for this platform. Grascis

Congrats. Stay blessed!

Kobojunkie:
You don't get to impose your [/s]personal delusions[s] on the world at all. The reality of living is the same responsibilities belong to all irrespective of gender.

But you get to impose your junkie personal delusions on the world cos you own the world.

Kobojunkie:
Again.... stop [/s]deluding[s] yourselves with these [/s]meaningless[s] drivers.. the same responsibilities lie on both male and females [s][/s]except those born of your delusions ofcourse.[s][/s]

Each mallam with him kettle. 6 can be 9 when its viewed from another angle.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying abeg! The same so-called responsibilities also rest on the female child.

Not as much as the male. Let's be truthful.

If not, where does the popular saying " you are a man" comes from?

234GT:
When you are dead, you don't remember anything again. You don't even remember your own first name, not to talk of family name.

Life lost meaning to me the day I saw my grandfather's corpse.

But you were his legacy and you will continue his bloodline if you are a male child.

Personally used or used for transport business?

Is the car good for transport business

blackborn7:
Hello Guys,

I got some tokunbo cars that just arrived last week from the USA. Toyota Sienna 2011 for 7.2 million naira and Ford Edge 2008 Edition for 4.2 million naira. Anyone interested should contact this number for details.
08088696873.

Respect!!

blackborn7

Can the Sienna go for HP? Say for 8.7m?

dayo23:
Pls my Peugeot 206 usually goes off while am in a traffic, or at any point in time, it just goes off and I have to restart it again, also I notice it kind of seize atimes while driving and it would later move again. Have met like 3 to 4 mechanics still they couldn't solve the problem. Am base in Abuja any solid PAN mechanic?

My guess is your Motorized Throttle Body or they check your fuel pump for you.

I need a 2007-2009 Sienna HP for transport business. Agreed remittance will be timely paid. 08038848764

uncleck:
IVM is doing 36 months car financing for most of their rides. I think you deposit 12% of the value of the ride. Just walk into any access Bank and make your enquiry.


How to Access Innoson Auto Finance
Choose your preferred vehicle
Walk into any Access Bank nationwide to open an account for auto finance processing. Hotline: Access Bank: 07003000000
Contact us for the proforma invoice of your preferred vehicle after Access Bank account opening confirmation. Hotline: – Innoson Vehicles: 08037222939, 08122202053
Pay the required % down payment at Access Bank and wait for your vehicle to be delivered to you wherever you are in Nigeria.

Pls don't find this offensive, just my own opinion. I consider IVM products not rugged or strong enough for business.

Dijita:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders.
I am in Diaspora and decided to run transportation business remotely in Lagos. I am starting with a 2003 Sienna. If it work out, I will add more vehicles. if it failed, I will sell the car and move on.

This cost of the van, transportation and clearance amounted to approximately $5,000 which is about #2.5Million.
I am in the process of registration and obtaining insurance. I was told the cost of commercial registration is #65000 in Lagos. I am still waiting for the cost of insurance.

You can contribute to the tread if you have good and bitter experience to share.
Thanks

Good day Dijita, Did you eventually invest in the business? How is your transport business going?

I already sent you a mail. Kindly respond. Or do you prefer WhatsApp?

obembet:
If you ask some mad Putin followers on nairaland to choose where to relocate btw America or Russia.. 99.999% will not think twice before they choose America.

This crisis is about relocation for you. Thats the only objectivity you have been able to take out if it.

Carparts888:
yes of course, its better to register at multiple parks so u can load more often.

No driver can be trusted. Even the sincere ones can be tempted to misbehave ones in a while.

To track the drivers better and monitor them, liase nd get contacts of the park managers as they will let you know how many passengers loaded and the price for each passengers. Also choose for the park manager to pay your money direct to your account and give the driver just fuel and commission money if its payment by commission.
If its for the driver to pay you weekly, you just can also monitor his movement through the park manager to notify each time he loads so he wont give excuses that he didn't load and there was no money to remit you that period.

The most important way to monitor them apart from through the park manager or workers is to install a vehicle tracker. It will show when wherever he goes. you can also set it to send u sms when the vehicle starts or its switched off or its running above 120km.

Hmm Thanks a lot with this.