Celebrities › Re: I Revealed Olamide Helped Majek Fashek Under Pressure – Manager by ideabuilder: 8:52pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
dominique: Whose fault is it that he didn't invest in a property when he was making a lot of money? If the state government gives him a house, they should give other veteran artists houses as well. Maybe if you get sick with a terminal sickness, all properties investment you own will vanish under 3 months Please empathize with those suffering. I know he had sold all he had because I can relate with his situation A doctor once told me "nobody invested for sickness" |
Health › Re: Coronavirus: Parents Abandon Kids At China Airport by ideabuilder: 7:04pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Germandude30: I failed my driving text today.so unhappy No, you failed English test |
Career › Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ideabuilder: 11:40am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Na wa o. I rest my case DAVE5: Sexual advance is different from sexual harassment, both can lead to rape though
If what the op described is the true story (which cannot be confirmed by any of us until the girl says her own story), then I'll say she went far by saying he tried to rape her
IMO: Sexual advance becomes sexual harassment when the person being advanced upon categorically express it they don't welcome the sexual advance especially when body touching becomes involved
https://www.globalworkplaceinsider.com/2014/07/sexual-advancement-v-sexual-harassment/ |
Career › Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ideabuilder: 10:33am On Jan 18, 2020 |
But putting my hand around a lady waist does not means rape na. there's nothing in story that suggest rape. Sexual advances maybe. I really need someone to give me definition of RAPE I beg. Seems touching is now rape DAVE5: Bros there is no proving his innocence here, any body would stand on the girl's side on this case
Innocence is in the mind, action is the result
He asked her to rest, she refused
After an hour, he asked her to rest again, she refused AGAIN!!!
Then he stood up, from where HE was resting and eating while she was minding her business, then he went close to her(why), then he put his hand on her shoulder(who send am, for what reason, is she his girlfriend/wife, if she no eat how e take affect am)
Is that how you walk around putting your hands on every opposite sex's shoulder even when you are barely know each other
For crying out loud, she is a girl, they were alone, they are not friends according to his story, women are more fragile than men, he could overpower her.
What if he went beyond her shoulder, women bress no far from their should ohh
I would raise concerns against you if you came close to my daughter and put your hand on her shoulder even after she refused your advances several times
His continued intentions after "shoulder touching" are still only known to him alone while his actions has made a statement
I get at least five female workers, I dey fear to dey alone with them, when one was in my office, I purposely tried to leave the office door open so all cld see and I dey quick quick dismiss long talk |
Career › Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ideabuilder: 8:41am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Next time bros defend yourself. Don't beg. Only if you knew what begging means to lawyer. It means you admit your guilt.
If you have nothing to hide, You should have chose police station option instead of sack and pursue your case.
God knows I can go to jail to prove my innocence. |
Family › Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by ideabuilder: 9:45pm On Jan 13, 2020*. Modified: 7:38am On Jan 14, 2020 |
I don't have a good advice
But every women will pass through this phase in life. There will pain and more pains. It's take maturity and understanding of the couples to survive it.
It's called midlife marriage crisis.
Shalom |
Politics › Re: Buhari Signs 2019 Finance Bill Into Law, VAT Now 7.5% by ideabuilder: 1:16pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Good development |
Jobs/Vacancies › Dedicated Telephone Marketer Wanted. by ideabuilder(op): 5:14pm On Dec 22, 2019 |
Aggressive, Dedicated Telephone Marketer Wanted.
send CV to queenethkings@gmail.com
Skills: Good Command of English.
Location: Lagos
You will be given training, leads, script, and opportunity to make a lot of money.
Please DO NOT Apply if you can't make 150+ calls a day. |
Crime › Re: Pastor Kelvin Kwesi Kobiri Attacked By Customers (Photos, Video) by ideabuilder: 11:21am On Dec 18, 2019 |
RiyadhGoddess: Uhmmm when I am here praying to God to bless and enlarge my coast so I can buy a portable Jet for my pastor mission. I am begging God to enlarge my resources so I can place pastors on monthly salary, I am begging God to bless me so much that I pay their children school fees, take part in church building projects...
Eni ti o ri mi ri ni o mo se oluwa... I pay my tithe not just 10% but 20% and hoping God gives me the grace and resources to increase it year 2020. I see the result of it all around me. My life is a blessing. My life is a testimony. I will do more and more for God's kingdom. All contributions, donations and assignment towards the house of God or his kingdom projects will not pass me by. Even if it's my 100 naira contribution if I have none at that moment, I will put it. The kingdom of God will not suffer bankruptcy in my own time. It will not lack lailai.
I don't need Nairaland or Twitter or one freeze or social media to validate what I do for God's kingdom. If all you do is to sit and wait for social media validation on what you do for God, then my friend, I put it to you that you do not know God!
Don't come and ask me where it is written in the new testament bla bla bla because I will not answer you. We don't read only new testament in Dominion city, We read both Old and New Testament. We read the whole books of the bible not some parts as some of you want in order to justify your excesses. The book of Malachi 3 verse 10 says, bring all your tithes to the store house that there may be meat in my house. Look at that word Meat in my house. What is that meat? You come into the church, you seat comfortably inside the AC, well furnished and sophisticated building, the sounds and musical instruments on point, the toilet facilities on point, the power supply, diesel or fuel on point, welfare services on point, mission trips and works on point, among many other projects in the house of God. Is it Paper or leaf that they are spending or using to acquire these things? Can any body go to the market and buy diesel or musical instruments or building materials and say I represent this church or I am the pastor or general overseer of this church or it is for God's kingdom give them to us free? Are these things free in the market?
If you have ever had the opportunity to work deeply in the house of God before, to see how the administration of a church is being run or facilitated, then you will know that no be paper or leaf them they spend! Some of you go to the church admin office to submit your business proposals for contracts to supply one thing one thing, did you give it to the church free? When you got the contract to supply or render your services in the church was it free? NO!!! And you sit to type on your phones or systems don't pay tithe don't pay tithe yen yen yen whereas na church dey pay your bills... What of the instrumentalist, it is so hard these days to find someone who will play instruments for free. I know churches even smaller churches who pays their instrumentalist monthly or every Sunday. Why una no say NO I'm not collecting a dime, I am doing it for God. No be money these churches dey pay, Na Paper abi na leaf dem they pay?
What of the welfare? Feeding, clothing and shelter of the needy amongst us in church? Is it not money we use to put these things I'm place?
Because you pay your tithes to the wrong place, you pay your tithe to occultic churches, you pay your tithe to pastors who live lavish reckless lifestyle doesn't mean there are no genuine pastors out there who stands on the word of God only!
Those of us who pay our tithes and see the reward of Malachi 3 verse 10 knows the importance of Tithe in our lives. I am addicted to tithe paying! I pay it everyday. Even when someone gives me 200 naira, I pay tithe from it. I am not ashamed of tithe paying!!!
Malachi 3 verse 10, And prove me now if I will not open the windows of heaven!!! It is not about going out to drop your tithe, No with your tithe in your hand, Prove God First!!!
Malachi 3 verse 10, And this is my favorite part, I will open my window of heavens, I will pour out my blessing that even the room will not be enough to receive it JESUS! God said prove me and see if I will not open my window of heavens and pour out my blessings so much that even that our small cubicle room will be too small to receive his blessings on us.
Do I have a witness here? I am number ONE!!! Why should I allow somebody beliefs or opinion on tithe ruin or stop God's Blessings on my life? Why should I?
The blessings received from tithe paying are numerous aside financial blessings. What of the blessings of protection from evil of all kinds, what of the blessings of great jobs, contracts, fruit of the wombs, education, unmerited favour, shelter, feeding, Mercy, Grace etc? Are they all by your powers or doings? Do you know your tithes are being recorded in heaven oh ye faithfully stewards?
Pay your tithe at the right place and enjoy the blessings of Malachi 3 verse 10. Do not confuse giving charity as tithe paying. Do not let Satan fool you on that. They are two different things. I give to charity and I pay my tithe. Charity is charity (welfare), Tithe is tithe! No be the same. Don't get it twisted!
Are you the owner of the money? Did you come to this earth with money? Will you leave the earth with money? Every time my money my money my money WHO GAVE YOU THE MONEY MEHN? If people own money why don't they carry their money with them when leaving the earth?
Since the devil launched a social media campaign on tithe paying, has the church closed? Lols instead it keeps moving on day by day. Sincerely, I am amazed by the numbers of people who pays their tithe in the church despite all the satanic campaigns. It only shows where the devil belongs. He's always on the loosing side. He's a looser!!!
God bless everyone who pays their tithe in their various local churches. Thank you for paying your tithe. The Church Is Marching On...
In Dominion City, We pay our tithe. I pay my tithe, Pay your tithe!!!
Thank you and God Bless You... By now you should be richer than Dangote |
Romance › Re: I May Ruin My Girlfriend's Life, If I Make A Mistake by ideabuilder: 2:24pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
I will advise you to read Efuru by Flora Nwapa
The answer lies therein
I rest my case |
Education › Re: Queen's College Student Fixed Eyelashes "For School Play" by ideabuilder: 9:31am On Nov 22, 2019 |
kenir: Wetin concern me?
how do i make 1cup of rice swell like 8cups?
Pls advice coz i dnt have money to buy 8cups of rice but na 8cup hunger dey worry me nw measure 1 cup + 7 cups of sand too much sense will not kill me |
Career › Re: How Do I Deal With Office Politics? by ideabuilder: 8:27am On Nov 20, 2019 |
ideabuilder: Summary
1. Don’t take sides. 2. Don’t gossip. 3. Stay neutral. 4. Don’t lose it. 5. Be fair. 6. Keep your cool. 7. Zip it. 8. Be respectful. 9. Forgive even if you can’t forget. 10. Avoid unnecessary conflict. 11. Compromise within reason. 12. Don’t play the favourites game.
Don’t sink to their level!
If it becomes unbearable, search for another job, but do NOT quit until you have a new contract to sign. |
Business › Platinum Alliance Limited - Billboards, Rail, Transit Advertising by ideabuilder(op): 2:57pm On Sep 30, 2019 |
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Travel › Re: The Irony Of Lagos Lesser Known Toll Gate: An Exposé Into Mushin Toll Gate by ideabuilder: 9:16pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
An amala joint is in front of dat toll gate. Make sense die those years. I don't know if they are still selling it's being long |
Nairaland General › Want To Know How To Deal With OFFICE POLITICS? by ideabuilder(op): 11:43am On Sep 12, 2019 |
Like this...
1. Don’t take sides. 2. Don’t gossip. 3. Stay neutral. 4. Don’t lose it. 5. Be fair. 6. Keep your cool. 7. Zip it. 8. Be respectful. 9. Forgive even if you can’t forget. 10. Avoid unnecessary conflict. 11. Compromise within reason. 12. Don’t play the favourites game.
Don’t sink to their level!
If it becomes unbearable, search for another job, but do NOT quit until you have a new contract to sign.
- Kirsty Bonner |
Crime › Re: Man Commits Suicide As Wife Refuses To Have Sex With Him In Delta (Photos) by ideabuilder: 5:24pm On Aug 27, 2019 |
Hey |
Family › Re: I'm Worried About My Son's Behaviour. Is He Normal? by ideabuilder: 9:16am On Aug 21, 2019 |
Lefty500: Madam, the world is changing please help this boy, you said he is very athletic, why not help him on that path? Just make sure he can read and write, and you instil some words of God into his life. A doctor told you he is 18 months ahead of his level, that's an indication that the boy is special, and he has to be treated specially. He might be deliberately acting that way because he's doing what he doesn't love, to me it looks like you're forcing school on him, because everything you've said revolved round school. Reduce the time he spends on school gibberish, and let him spend more time on those things he loves, like that athleticism, and you turn on him like, if he doesn't brush his teeth or keep his room clean, no basketball game or no swimming for him, and you will see how he will change. He's trying to be forgetful when it comes to school because he has no passion for it. Sports is bringing a lot of money now, and that doesn't stop him from schooling, you're evening in a better environment that allows one to combine education and sport. Phil foden of Manchester City was still a college boy when he broke through Manchester City senior team, and he was being paid £90k per week, I'm sure a fresh medical or engineering graduate can't earn up to that. Love this boy, and pray for him, and support him at this early stage, because if you force your way on him, and kill his passion, he might hate you forever. I pray to God to give me smart kids and also help you train this boy.
OMG at that young age, the boy is also setting and breaking records.
God please I want smart kids, and shine your light on them, and help me see what's best for them. best best answer so far the mother is the problem, forcing etiquette and school on a child that have other interests I was just like the boy. in my own case, its my father. i ended up not following his dream and he made sure i didnt achieve mine. the mother definitely has the child best interest but the mother needs to understand how the boy interprets such gestures. believe me those are early signs and it about to get worse. i also support boarding school but not in 9ja. anything that separate the child and the mother. |
Health › Re: No Exercise Or Drug Can Grow The Penis- Dr Olufunmilayo by ideabuilder: 8:42pm On Aug 09, 2019 |
I hope they listen. |
Politics › Re: Akpabio's Counsel Reveals High Conspiracy In Favour Of Ekpenyong!!! by ideabuilder: 12:43pm On Aug 09, 2019 |
MobilityExpress: Akpabios lawyer has done a far better job than the 350 SAN legal team chopping Atiku's money  This is how to argue an election case than a baseless server results submission. Atiku is still cumming |
Politics › Re: Court Sacks Emeka Nwajiuba From House Of Reps Declares Chike Okafor As Winner by ideabuilder: 6:26pm On Aug 07, 2019 |
What kind of political arithmetic is this |
Education › Re: WAEC Result: Meaning Of Held, Witheld, Outstanding And Others by ideabuilder: 4:27pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
I remembered that year. It started with WITHHELD. Dem later released it with ..... A1 |
Crime › Re: African Soldier With Powerful Black Magic Bulletproof (Video) by ideabuilder: 5:06pm On Jul 24, 2019 |
Na lie. He for give another person make dem target his head |
Travel › Re: The Moment Air Niugini Plane Crashed Into Sea In Micronesia, Papua New Guinea by ideabuilder: 11:03am On Jul 24, 2019 |
The person that died must have tried to fly out through the window.
It remembered a near accident I had way back. As the driver was struggling to control the bus, some people were jumping through the window. Those people end up injured. |
Romance › Re: Help! I Can't Last Long In Bed [PICTURE] by ideabuilder: 6:35am On Jul 18, 2019 |
iLegendd: Wow! Thank you very much for this. I truly appreciate. I'm a typical novice in anything about sex. I'll bookmark this. Please don't feel embarrassed or let any girl look down on you concerning quick ejaculation. All men do quick ejaculation first round especially if you have not have sex for long time. The second round and third round will not be quick. I also understand that you might not get the second chance to prove yourself. That's why you need to maturbate to release the first ejaculation before sex. The penis must not be idle for long time. On a daily basis have sex or maturbate to keep your sex drive active. Don't use pills or alcohol. You can take bitters or cleanser or local herbs for pile. You will soon realised that one girl is not enough. They are the lazy ones during sex. Unless if you happen to meet a sex àddict but they are rare. I am not a sex expert, I was once like you. I don't drink, I watch my sugar intake and I don't take drugs for sex. I don't cheat, my wife is more than enough to withstand my sex drive. And I maturbate when she not ready. |
Romance › Re: Help! I Can't Last Long In Bed [PICTURE] by ideabuilder: 8:49pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
iLegendd: Thank you very much. Though, I want one that doesn't require masturbation. Any help? Get a fuckmate, start each intercourse by giving each Mouth Gig. Let her do you first, after cumming, give her head till she cums. The next round will be explosive. Do this regularly for 3 months and dominate any girl you meet. I believe in natural way of treatment. If you are looking for a drug, they will give you quick fix but they will not treat you. That maturation idea is okay. Try it and be master of erection and ejaculation. I control my ejaculation myself. I can Bleep for 3 hours non-stop, if I find a willing partner. Forget the hype most girls can't go beyond 15mins |
Romance › Re: Help! I Can't Last Long In Bed [PICTURE] by ideabuilder: 7:33pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
joeeee240: What will overdoing it cause? You will lost urge to have sex |
Romance › Re: Help! I Can't Last Long In Bed [PICTURE] by ideabuilder: 5:13pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
Masturbate once daily. Its helps. But don't overdo it.
And find a understanding girl to bang regularly, or better still patronise ashawo N500. Just to measure your performance.
But note give like 3 -10 hours after masturbation before having sex.
Try this and thank me later. I was once like you |
Health › Re: Suicide: NAFDAC Bans Sale Of Sniper, Others In The Open Market by ideabuilder: 11:47am On Jul 11, 2019 |
Now there no sniper will hypo bleach work?
Anybody with experience |
Family › Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ideabuilder: 11:45pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Thank bro. Just that I don't like cheating on my wife because she is not the cheating type too, maybe because she was circumcised that is why she has low sex drive. Just come home unannounced during the week. Come back and thank me after. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Re-appoints Boss Mustapha and Abba Kyari. by ideabuilder: 6:04pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Earthquake3: You mean Abbal Kyari and Boss Mustapha reappoint themselves? Your head dey there |
Family › Re: Lady Who Felt She Is Too Pretty Recalls How It Almost Destroyed Her Marriage by ideabuilder: 4:25pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
No picture. Let's see the pretty something |
Politics › Re: Court Orders Temporary Forfeiture Of Diezani’s $40m Jewelery, Gold Iphone by ideabuilder: 3:50pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Tolexander: in Naira;
$40million = #14,420,000,000 = #14.42billion Just for IPhone and jewelry, How much will the rest now be?
Uncle Jonah!!! Not counting houses and cars |