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Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by ideabuilder: 9:45pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
I don't have a good advice But every women will pass through this phase in life. There will pain and more pains. It's take maturity and understanding of the couples to survive it. It's called midlife marriage crisis. Shalom |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by realstars: 9:46pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Go and master your marriage |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by starbuck(f): 9:46pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
From your write up, you are trying to seek validation from us to either LovePeddler about, abort the innocent kid or leave your 11 year old marriage... Stick dịa joor |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by idonhammer: 9:47pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Ok |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Decolonel(m): 9:47pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Get yourself treated and be in optimal state of health. Get your hubby laid hardcore and he will run back to you |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Olukat(m): 9:48pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Just take care of yourself and baby! You will be normal to have sex after delivery |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by PerseDew(f): 9:48pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Pls focus on your health and baby. Always try to vosit the hospital regularly to ensure you are not in a life threatening situation. I have to ask why men don't just go for vasectomy when they know they are done with child bearing? Wives should demand this because birth control methods for women are usually accompanied with lots of complications that are life threatening in some situations. I guess in marriage one would have to be sexually disciplined with their spouse when they want children but can't at the moment because the birth control methods could be dangerous and the man can't get a vasectomy. 3 Likes |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Onyi22(f): 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
H |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
You are married - check You have kids - check You are pregnant - check You still feel you should be fuccking your husband even though you are pregnant - madness You still feel insecure even when the man is pitying your condition and pains and wants a side chic to satisfy his urges, so you can rest - madness. You want my advise? You have all that you need, the side chic will not take the dickk away, focus on your preggy and the home and the man will always come back to you after safe delivery. Your husband will cheat, always understand that, but he will not abandon you. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by jaxxy(m): 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Ure pregnant and worrying about ur husband getting distracted while u are unable to function as u used to, I think u just need to work on ur communication and having a safe delivery. Also when u removed the implant why didn’t I use other forms of contraceptives to avoid getting pregnant? Anyways relax and take care of urself, ur husband shud also be mature and stick by ur side rather than chatting strange women up. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Emilokoiyawon: 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
This one pass my power. Op I hope you get clarity for your situation. |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by OgThanos: 9:50pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Hmmm |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 9:50pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
4 kids! Kukuma just kill me. As e don happen, just use your husband for money rituals and use proceeds to take care of the kids since he is no longer useful. |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by OgThanos: 9:52pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Vortex369: I can't believe someone typed this..chai. Speak for ur self, not all men cheat .. 7 Likes |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by otokx(m): 9:55pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Is this occuring in Nigeria |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Frankyboy1(m): 9:55pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Ok |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Onyi22(f): 9:56pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
OgThanos:Sharrrap there, what's the difference between u and the husband we are taking about? Men are polygamous in Nature 5 Likes |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Stanzar7: 9:56pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Bola146: Op pls take this simple and clear advice |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by AscentSolutions: 9:56pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Timson01: I hardly comment, but madam. Personally, I do not even think it's a good option keeping that child for the sake of your own life. A woman must be strong to be able to give birth and so if you are unhealthy now, you should reconsider. Please for the sake of your life and those if the kids already birthed, seek an experienced doctors counsel on if you should keep the child. Please o |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by GamalNasser: 9:57pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Clowns |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Smellingrillmea: 9:58pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Marriage is not do or die.....walk away |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by wink2015(m): 9:58pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Timson01: Just following! |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Stanzar7: 9:59pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Onyi22: See somebody wife. Tomorrow u will come and tel us how ur husband did beat u to stupor. But u won't tel us u have a mouth issue 7 Likes |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by kay29000(m): 10:00pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Hmm |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by Mryacks: 10:00pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
A lot of people still don't understand this "for better or for worse" vow they go and swear to.. 2 Likes |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by TheRedpillguy: 10:07pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
What happened to the initial agreement, I wonder. Its amazing how women think everything is about sex. Everything is not perfect cus am nt giving sex. I lie down all day, he works and dose everything in the house and he is very bored, going through emotional baggage cus sombody is sick and need caring. Let me ignore all that and think its all about sex. Before I continue why do married women come post things online self? Who heard d b4 I was pregnant thing. Anyways marriage is not a prison according to feminist let the man fly 2 Likes |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by CHoccolaTE: 10:11pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Nigerian women are really suffering in marriages o. Just imagine if a man fell sick and couldn't provide or sexually satisfy his wife and she decided to flirt around because she needs attention. Nobody will ever advice the man to ignore her and focus on his health instead Irony is that adultery is forbidden to both men and women but men are hypocrites that think cheating is their birthright. Why the hell must he flirt with another woman when he has a wife? Instead of being there for her and helping to nurse her back to health he is looking for love elsewhere. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by saajus: 10:13pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Focus on your health. If your Doctor recommends abortion because the pregnancy could cost your life, then go ahead. Let your husband truly know that you would like to satisfy him sexually but your health is not allowing you. Has he just picked up the porn habit or it's being there before this pregnancy? If it's a new habit, he could get addicted and cause more damage in the long run. Encourage him to stop and try to help his urge in some other ways aside intercourse which could aggravate your pain. |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by ezugegere(m): 10:14pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
You're pregnant and sick and all that matters to you is your husband calling someone babe? Na wa for women sha |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by ezugegere(m): 10:16pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Didn't you read where she said her husband does all the work at home? How else do you want him to be there for her? 1 Like |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by cococandy(f): 10:22pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Look at all the posts telling her it’s okay for her husband to mess with her feelings by flirting with someone else. 7 Likes |
Re: Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! by MzTunechi(f): 10:22pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Your health should come first. Try to talk to your husband, let him know how his actions and in actions is affecting your marriage and health. All the best |
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