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Ajalekoko76:
It could be enemies working against ur destiny thereby using ur parents especially ur dad..

E no get any enemy wey dey work against em destiny...Nawa to Nigerians ooh.
Truth is most guys are rebellious in nature at their teens and early adulthood. And very few get along with their fathers at that age. With all those sagging pants, drinking and late nights, parents fear that their sons would go astray so they fight. They just want the best for you. And like most people have rightly said, the OP seems to enjoy self-pity.

Grow up and start being busy. If you don't want to study medicine, do something else...but make sure you're making productive use of your time. C'mon my dad had to send my only brother to be a mechanic apprentice just so he doesn't laze about at home Now more than 4 years later, with him almost true with his first degree in mechanical engineering, he still goes to that mechanic workshop during vacations, of his own freewill now not because he had to. And if you see him and dad discussing now, you'll just be amazed...

kunzaar83:
Useless Igbo b!itch

And you are?

all4naija:
I wouldn't want to rule over brutes because they can reason beyond dwelling in jungles. Ptui!

Who e no reach tok say e no like am before . Like I said you'll never smell that seat!

all4naija:
If I am the president of Nigeria I will put an end to all the miserable traditional practices in the country. Primitive people! Ptui!

And that is why you'll never smell that seat! Ptui!

Timsilver:
I had to login just to respond to this. Not trying to provoke you but it's either you are ignorant or chose to be ignorant on a lot of things. Ibo women don't cheat please... And all those stuff about going crazy is trash. The rate at which Ibo women cheat is extremely on the high side. They are only smarter at covering up.

It is not trash my dear. She said some parts and I can confidently mention like 2 parts of Igbo land where it is still obtainable. The only thing is that there are clauses attached to the issue. In some parts, it is if you cheat and step foot in your village again. In some, you've to have taken part in a certain tradition before it can affect you...but if you do take part in that tradition, you in-laws will have 100% trust on you. So you see...it really depends on the particular village

porshuch:
Upon their high level of prostitution? Go to obollo afor and confirm. Nsukka girls Na eghe Oku. Espeak kwe la.

And all the people there are from Nsukka Yeye dey smell

pcguru1:
are we now comparing brides to dogs don't get it, a dog's offspring can be sold and earn more cash it's an investment can't say the same for the other (offspring).

Hian! Shebi you people said the price is outrageous so you're buying the girl So you ma give birth to many girls and sell them when the time comes. I'm sure its gonna be a lucrative business

kc007:
Most communities in Nsukka do not give list for marriage rites. OP, u didn't mention where in Nsukka. Are u sure it was Nsukka u went to with ur friend?

Finally... Maybe its not even Nsukka they went to. Or the family they went to is very very poor and the nigga went there and was forming Oga boss so they decided to get their slice of the national cake

EldaTimba:
He is definitely somewhere. Either on earth, or in the world beyond. If he is on earth, he is save. If he is in the world beyond, there are two things involved. It is either he is in heaven or in hell. If he is in heaven, he is saved, if he is in hell, there is one thing involved: He is under serious torment.

Oya clap for yourself...you don talk sense

Is it just me or do these air crafts look like those aeroplanes they use to buy us during Christmas in those days

Takim107:
are we fighting? I didn't say the car isn't important...just he should also make mine a topic too, life is simple pls don't complicate it..

Lemme school you cos it's obvious you don't know. Since you think your boyfriend not calling you is something that would be of importance to nairalanders, this is how to create a topic.

1. Go to Nairaland homepage.

2. Click on romance

3. A new page will open which will have dating and meet up, sexuality, and romance. Since this your problem is more about romance, click romance again.

4. Then click create new topic

That is how you create your own topic not asking another person with his own problems to create a topic for you.

Ooh yes...don't worry about thanking me...you're welcome

Takim107:
Plssssss am going crazy Op make this a topic pls. My boyfriend doesn't call often..let's say he calls me thrice a week, send text late in the evenings and chat up the whole day...sometimes from 8pm to 1am or thereabout...it's frustrating...morning calls r very important but he always skip that. ..but I remember a day I got angry with him he called me the next more very early...We have been together for two months now, and he gave me a reason I'll call silly. .His past relationship he was the calling type till his ex made it known to him that his calls were bothering her so after they broke up he decided to watch it...is he still living in his past or I am with the wrong person?...but I know for sure he luvs me, but if calling is been rated as a basis for measuring luv he will score 3% out of 10% sm1 help! !!!

Really? OP should leave the car they're looking for and make your silly problems a topic If it bothers you so much why don't you make it a topic? Meanwhile, if you call the supposed boyfriend will your phone explode?

Toyota needs to do something about the security of their cars asap. Heard if you've a key to a make of their car, you can open all of that make....na true Meanwhile where's OP? Shebi you don hear say the car dey ninth mile?

kaycexx:
Lol weird dressing, same character and same resemblance and other things I don't know how to say.

Just saying.

Other things like?

kaycexx:
Derenle's father....
Quote me anywhere and anytime.

Okay I don quote you... Oya tell me as you take know say naa Denrele papa Abi you na Denrele mama?

kenonze:
No one ever said the lady in question isn't pretty.
Folks are just concern about the age difference.
However to me am OK with their body chemistry

Thank you for this. I don't know where he heard me say that the couple was not beautiful. Besides its quite obvious that the groom in question knows there's something fishy about the lady's looks after all nobody asked him her age before he blurted that she was 22

deramarks:
I dunno y I don't like her I just saw her pics nd automatically bcame annoyed

Hehehe...just see as people go take bash you now say naa jealousy...

PiperAlpha:
You're only reiterating my points. Anyway, you've been heard, you can now crawl back up in the hole you came out of.

Dumbass people everywhere...smh

PiperAlpha:
If I may ask: what is the truth? Aren't they beautiful couple? Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. You my friend are not in any way to tell us who's beautiful or not. You might be adjudged beautiful by someone and a mere look at you might make someone like me wanna throw up. My point is: those that live in glass house should not throw stones. If you point one finger,remember three other fingers are pointing back at you.
Everyone is created differently and uniquely. You have to respect that. There's nothing sugar coating here. The op and his fiancee are beautifully and wonderfully made.

Yes...beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. And I'm no way in a position to tell you who's beautiful or not. In the same vein, you're in no way in a position to tell me who's not beautiful and who is...it is a two way street. So start living by all those principles you outlined there and stop barking.

PunkyVeer:
Lol, girl let's go Plus the guys wear skirts, it's gonna be so easy, like taking candy from a baby

Kikikikiki....and we're sure they're gonna be good at what they do
Let's be gone already

PunkyVeer:
Lol, I just looked them up & they aren't bad looking at all. They look like Samoans. I'm relocating over there

Please book ticket for two

And that nigga is who you want your son to be Hypocrites everywhere I go... Why couldn't the topic be "people be who you want your children to be?"

Well at least they moved that shii from top to bottom of page...so I guess we've to thank the Lord for favors received

MrsChima:
Sure. Like I said not too many 22 years old women are looking to marry unless they are marrying for convenience.

Well I don't know...maybe you're right...maybe you're wrong...

octaviakrsy:
Reminds me of that super story episode

Forgotten the title self

The grass cutter


With that their one kind song

#the grass cutter Mr lecturer
One more chance to write off your wrongs
And everything will be alright
...
Everyday is for the thief but one day is for the owner of the house

octaviakrsy:
Reminds me of that super story episode
Forgotten the title self

The grass cutter
With that their one kind song #the grass cutter Mr lecturer One more chance to write off your wrongs And everything will be alright ... Everyday is for the thief but one day is for the owner of the house

sammieee:
Kelechi here, Kelechi there... Na only them waka come ni? Nigeria don produce two kelechi for football, now again Miss planet? Ahbeg watz d meaning of 'kelechi'?

It means ThankGod...a very important thing to be doing I must say

For all those saying too many kids on NL, I think one defining feature of real adults is their ability to see the truth and say it. And one of the truths of this matter is that NL ain't Facebook so stop bringing personal matters such as these here. If thou must, then know that threads are created here so people can comment...and when the thread is such like this, not all of us can sugar coat it and say "beautiful couple."

Truckpusher:
At least these ones can take care of children and not all these small boys and girls that are getting married these days only to come to sleep on NL family section and be giving bad advice to teenagers on how not to remain married.

And what makes you think they can take care of children? Their age Then sorry to burst your bubbles cos OP said he's 30 and his wife is 22 Typical age range of those small boys and girls you're talking about

MrsChima:
Most 22 years old women are in school unless they are escaping poverty through marriage.

I don't think so...most are even done with serving their father land (NYSC) these days. Gone are the days of waiting for you hand to touch your ear before you can start school

kenonze:
Hmm, I don't wanna say what's in my mind

I'm with you on that decision brother...

All I know is that "o teh ife dibalu njo, o diba mma." For any leader to make a meaningful change, he has to take decisions that majority are going to criticize in the beginning. At this point it looks like we can't succeed without those noisy pollutants called generators...but I'm sure we will...and we'll emerge better off. So my people calm down...baba is working...sai baba