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mide2:
What sounds like moaning now was once sweet to your ears. The bitchy wife was once the best girl in town. Two wrongs never make a right. Why not take time to listen and show you care. The little time spent listening and talking to your wife can make a whole lot of difference in the home.

Perhaps you don't understand. The man has spent years talking and listening to his wife. All he hears is bitching and moaning. So, he stops listening and talking. Tell me why he should start again? I would call him crazy. What does he gain? Nothing.

you know. . . you're pretty cute

hey, same to you (about your location) !

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hahahaha, I defeated the auto lowercase function of this forum

umm,

he brings a girl home and asks you to sleep in the guest room.

He tells you that he'll be f***ing his secretary later that night, so don't stay up.

i did, i didn't see anything

why don't you copy and paste the post where the person said it?

mide2:
Ther's no doubt about it, men and women are different. By nature men are ' fixers' - fix the TV, fix the leaky tap, e.t.c. So it comes as a shock to most men when it seems like their wives would rather talk about the situation than fix it. Indeed, just having him sit and listen attentively to how she feels about it often changes her entire outlook. Has the situation being resolved ? Not necessarily. But an important need has been met. The man who used to hang on her evry word when they were dating has suddenly returned showing that her feelings, thoughts and struggles really don't matter to him. The man who learns this sooner rather than later, finds himself with a happy lady.

Often our prayers do not seem to change the circumstances, yet we feel much better when we have prayed. Why ? because we have shared it with One Who is able, and cares enough to listan; so we walk away with a changed outlook.

Isn't it amazing how many men can soar in their careers, yet be clueless about this!

Perhaps in their careers, they are given a task to complete, and when they do so, they are rewarded. They are not asked to do something, then spend the next 6 months hearing their boss bitch and moan about it. I'm sure you can imagine, if a person hangs on your every word, and your every word is bitching and moaning. . . he may soon stop his hanging.

You forget, men are not God. They don't have infinite patience. God can listen to ppl cry about how they failed a class but never have time to study because they need to party to fit in, and not care. You give me that stuff. . . and i'll take you to take your problems elsewhere. When you are required to solve problems for other people, and you must do that every day, you find it hard to take when someone comes to your with something, and they not only have no clue how to fix it, they are not even going to try.

hmm. . easy

seeing that my lover is part of the nation, I'd save them all

my advice, confront the man with information about his wife - blackmail him for some money. Meanwhile, start looking for another target. Be careful, this being Nigeria, he may start looking for ways to take care of you. . . permanently, rather than part with his money.

who said you laughed?

angelu:
The fact is that God cannot be mocked. if your not punished now theres always judgement day. its beta to believe in God and die to find out he doesn't exist than to live without God and die to find out he is real, '

This doesn't quite make sense. Its like if some person told me that if I kill myself today, I will be resurrected and live forever.

wow, glad to know this.

I will now stay away from any female who has the yahoo info next to their name in a post!

I suppose I should stay away from you too.

you are friends with the wife.

perhaps it is time that the three of you got together.

i would save the nation.

Then once i've saved the nation, I can find another lover.

its not like there is only one person you could fall in love with.

An engagement ring is not a gift.

In case you don't know, gifts are things given out of love, w/o any expectation of anything in return.

An engagement ring is "required" by most women, and is given in expectation of getting married.

It is definitely not a gift.

Zahymaka:
The man might have misbehaved before they broke up -- thus although she still loves him the momentoes are there to serve as a reminder, both of the sweet time they shared and of the fact that after giving so many gifts, he misbehaved.

If they're very precious things like gold or diamonds do you expect her to get rid of them?

An engagement ring is not a memento or reminder, it is a representation of the promise to get married. No matter whose fault the engagement ends, it should be returned.

Even barring that, engagement rings tend to costs thousands of dollars. If women make a habit of keeping them even after they've decided to end the engagement, then men should NOT buy any such things till after the marriage. It doesn't make sense to me to throw money away in that manner.