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Here are seven ways mentally strong people handle stress effectively:
They accept that stress is part of life. ...
They keep problems in proper perspective. ...
They take care of their physical health. ...
They choose healthy coping skills. ...
They balance social activity with solitude. ...
They acknowledge their choices.

Here are seven ways mentally strong people handle stress effectively: They accept that stress is part of life. ... They keep problems in proper perspective. ... They take care of their physical health. ... They choose healthy coping skills. ... They balance social activity with solitude. ... They acknowledge their choices.

fergieboy:
Good day guys! Please I need 5 people who can work in a large event in Abuja, on the 29th, 30th and 31st of February, 2019
8 Hours per day - #80,000 naira per day.
#240,000 for the 3 days.
Anyone you know available? Qoute me please

Expensive joke.
I was already happy I'll be able to solve some things with that amount till I remembered February has no 29,30,31

Weep profusely? that's an exaggeration.

Reasons Your Wound Won’t Heal
1. Infection
Your skin is your body’s first line of defense against bacteria. When the skin breaks, bacteria can then move from the outside to inside the body. If the wound area gets infected, you may notice persistent redness, swelling, pain and an off-color or foul-smelling fluid.
2. Nutrition
Are you getting enough fruits and vegetables? The vitamins in them help your body heal faster, especially vitamins A and C.
THE IMPORTANCE OF SLEEPING WELL
Make sure you’re eating foods like oranges, spinach, sweet potatoes and bell peppers to help your body do its job. You’ll also need plenty of lean protein along the way.
3. Diabetes
Because of elevated blood sugar, diabetics have an increased risk for slow-healing wounds and infection. The high blood sugar can negatively affect your circulation and immune system.
It can also damage nerves that signal pain, leading to more wounds simply because the diabetics don’t know when something is hurting them. If you notice slow-healing wounds regularly, they could be a sign of this disease, especially recurrent wounds on the legs and feet.
4. Medication
Different medications could also identify as your culprit for slow wound-healing. Chemotherapy and radiation drugs have powerful chemicals that hamper your immune system, making the healing process harder.
BABY MILK MAKER ORDERS GLOBAL RECALL OVER SALMONELLA FEARS
Antibiotics kill off good bacteria, increasing your risk of an infected wound site. In addition, anti-inflammatory drugs might inhibit the inflammatory stage that your body goes through in healing wounds. If you suspect that your medication is causing the problem, discuss your concern with a doctor.
5. Poor circulation
When your body is healing a wound, red blood cells are the ones that carry new cells to the site. In turn, they help form the foundation for new skin with collagen.
If you have poor circulation, the blood will move to the wound site more slowly, delaying the healing process. You may have poor circulation due to diabetes, obesity, blood clots, arterial build-up or some other underlying condition.
6. Bed Sores
Bed sores (technically pressure ulcers) usually occur when a person is bedridden or immobile for long periods. For instance, a bedridden patient will have pressure on certain areas of the body that press up against the bed.
That pressure can cause varying levels of sores, eventually leading to a gaping wound and infection if not cared for properly. Mild sores should go away quickly with regular relief and movement from those pressure points, but moderate or severe sores will need medical treatment.
7. Drinking Alcohol
This bad habit gets worse when you consider all the health effects on your body, including slow-healing wounds. In one 2014 study published in the journal
Alcoholism: Clinical and Experimental Research, researchers found that binge drinking significantly increases infections while hospitalized.
Of these infections are surgical site wounds. According to the study, excessive alcohol decreases important white blood cells in the body that fend off bacteria.



if it doesn't heal after a month its time to seek professional help

Reasons Your Wound Won’t Heal
1. Infection
Your skin is your body’s first line of defense against bacteria. When the skin breaks, bacteria can then move from the outside to inside the body. If the wound area gets infected, you may notice persistent redness, swelling, pain and an off-color or foul-smelling fluid.
2. Nutrition
Are you getting enough fruits and vegetables? The vitamins in them help your body heal faster, especially vitamins A and C.
THE IMPORTANCE OF SLEEPING WELL
Make sure you’re eating foods like oranges, spinach, sweet potatoes and bell peppers to help your body do its job. You’ll also need plenty of lean protein along the way.
3. Diabetes
Because of elevated blood sugar, diabetics have an increased risk for slow-healing wounds and infection. The high blood sugar can negatively affect your circulation and immune system.
It can also damage nerves that signal pain, leading to more wounds simply because the diabetics don’t know when something is hurting them. If you notice slow-healing wounds regularly, they could be a sign of this disease, especially recurrent wounds on the legs and feet.
4. Medication
Different medications could also identify as your culprit for slow wound-healing. Chemotherapy and radiation drugs have powerful chemicals that hamper your immune system, making the healing process harder.
BABY MILK MAKER ORDERS GLOBAL RECALL OVER SALMONELLA FEARS
Antibiotics kill off good bacteria, increasing your risk of an infected wound site. In addition, anti-inflammatory drugs might inhibit the inflammatory stage that your body goes through in healing wounds. If you suspect that your medication is causing the problem, discuss your concern with a doctor.
5. Poor circulation
When your body is healing a wound, red blood cells are the ones that carry new cells to the site. In turn, they help form the foundation for new skin with collagen.
If you have poor circulation, the blood will move to the wound site more slowly, delaying the healing process. You may have poor circulation due to diabetes, obesity, blood clots, arterial build-up or some other underlying condition.
6. Bed Sores
Bed sores (technically pressure ulcers) usually occur when a person is bedridden or immobile for long periods. For instance, a bedridden patient will have pressure on certain areas of the body that press up against the bed.
That pressure can cause varying levels of sores, eventually leading to a gaping wound and infection if not cared for properly. Mild sores should go away quickly with regular relief and movement from those pressure points, but moderate or severe sores will need medical treatment.
7. Drinking Alcohol
This bad habit gets worse when you consider all the health effects on your body, including slow-healing wounds. In one 2014 study published in the journal
Alcoholism: Clinical and Experimental Research, researchers found that binge drinking significantly increases infections while hospitalized.
Of these infections are surgical site wounds. According to the study, excessive alcohol decreases important white blood cells in the body that fend off bacteria.

why haven't they arrested these ones

Barcelona10:
Make she no go adopt pikin way go take her pant buy Benz

not funny

If you resonate with any of this, here are 10 actions you can take to stop struggling and start thriving:
1. Quit searching for someone or something to fix you.
Sensitivity is a temperament trait, not a medical disorder. So nothing is inherently wrong with you. Sadly, though, many certified health practitioners don’t understand this because sensory processing sensitivity is a recent area of health research.
Sure, highly sensitive people are more likely to have allergies or sensitivities to food, chemicals, medication, and so forth. And they’re more prone to overstimulation, thus quicker to feel stress — which can lead to other health issues. But sensitivity in itself is not something that needs fixing.
Successful sensitive types realize that they’re not “broken.” If your mind is exhausted from busily researching yet another solution to take away your “flaws,” know that the answers to living in harmony with your sensitive nature lie inside you.
2. Tell yourself, as often as necessary, that you are not a fraud.
Impostor syndrome isn’t exclusive to highly sensitive people. Many conscientious and high achieving people fall victim to this nagging fear. But the simmering discomfort about being found out is often constant for a sensitive person.
Why wouldn’t it be, considering you’ve spent a lifetime of feeling different from others and trying to fit in? Maybe you blame your tears on dust in your eye during that cheesy TV commercial; or you sign up for the company fun run, even though you hate running and you know you’ll feel ashamed of how long your body takes to recover. But even if you grew up displaying your sensitivity with pride, it’s unlikely you escaped the cultural pressure motivating you to disguise your real self to fit the norms.
Successful sensitive types respect that their nervous systems are wired differently from 80-85% of people. If you’re constantly thinking about who you should be but aren’t, and what you should be doing but can’t, understand that valuing your achievements and signature strengths allows you to show yourself as you truly are, more comfortably — even when you’re the odd one out.
3. Seek out kindred spirits (and know that you are NOT alone).
You probably feel different and alone. But the truth is, you’re not. Many have experienced confusion in isolation before discovering that hordes of people have some idea of what it’s like to be you. They’ve felt the surge of power that comes from being supported by like-minded souls. And they want to pay it forward.
The key whenever possible is to hang out with sensitive people who are already flourishing, or at least open to those possibilities. They understand not only how to manage their sensitivity, but also how to wield its superpowers. They know what it’s like for you to feel endlessly under siege, and they can offer firsthand experience and wisdom to help you make your sensitivities work in your favor.
Successful sensitive types appreciate and relish the strengths of sensitivity, in themselves and others. If you’re feeling unsupported or misunderstood, find a sensitively knowledgeable coach, mentor, or community who gets you … and nurture that connection.
4. Look for the hidden positivity in every situation and soak it up.
The brain is a powerful filter that molds experiences and perceptions of reality. If you think the world is a dangerous place, your brain is wired to hunt for evidence of danger. If you believe it’s a loving place, you spot more loving opportunities. What you focus on, you get more of.
As a highly sensitive person, the more negative the environment, the more you suffer. But the opposite is also true — the more positive, the more you thrive (even compared to others).
Thoughts are stimuli for your nervous system. One of the most important things a sensitive person can do is acknowledge the negative (not ignore it — because what you resist, persists), but then let it go… immerse yourself in positive thoughts and situations that make you feel good, or at least give you a soothing sense of relief.
Successful sensitive types decide to see the world brimming with opportunities to feel grateful for, and to marinate in that positive vibe. If you’re feeling at the mercy of your emotions and circumstances, understand that your thoughts (and the emotional charges they trigger) are always within your control
.
5. Find new spins on old flaws.
Your gifts of sensitivity include deep reflection and an instinct to see all angles and consequences. But by being so deeply tuned in to details, you’re easily overwhelmed and exhausted by unyielding stimulation. And when you don’t understand why you feel and behave in the ways you do, it’s easy to frame these as flaws.
In truth, these “weaknesses” are simply your unmet needs and unique gifts to nourish. In reframing your past and nurturing your present, you set yourself up for success in your future.
Successful sensitive types rethink old perceptions in light of their deeper understandings of sensitivity. If you’re weighed down by the hypersensitive and neglected (even, despised) parts of yourself, seek to discover the other side of the coin … where you’ll find some of your greatest strengths: intuition, vision, conscientiousness — and the list goes on.
6. Treat yourself with compassion.
As a highly sensitive person you are deeply compassionate. So much so that putting others’ comfort and needs before your own is second nature. On top of that, you’re often your own biggest critic. You push yourself hard, and then you beat up on yourself when you miss the mark. You criticize yourself in ways you’d never dream of judging others.
Controlling your nagging inner critic is essential to self-compassion. But contrary to popular belief, you shouldn’t do so by relentlessly ignoring it. Deep thinking is one of your gifts, so why not embrace that power? Take control by hearing your thoughts without judgment (after all, there might be gems of wisdom hidden deep) and then pivoting to thoughts that trigger kinder and more loving emotions in your body. From that better-feeling place, you’re better able to choose actions to care for yourself and others.
Successful sensitive types show themselves the same loving compassion that they’re naturally good at giving others. It may feel selfish or vain at first, but it’s not. If your critical inner voice is devaluing who you are, answer back with self-kindness … this is the antidote.
7. Create healthy boundaries, not rigid emotional walls.
We live in a culture that values “take a painkiller and push on” far more than it values sensitivity. We grow up hearing: “no pain, no gain; survival of the fittest; life isn’t fair — get used to it.” We admire those who show grit to prevail over their terrible plights.
As a highly sensitive person your reflex reaction may be to freeze up or struggle to toughen up. You build walls to shield yourself from hurt … Emotional walls, such as suppressing feelings or creating dramatic turmoil to distract from the real causes of pain. Physical walls, such as piling on layers of weight to hide behind. Mental walls, such as tuning out with alcohol or drugs.
Or, you may let all your boundaries collapse at once, thereby unconsciously absorbing others’ energies and feeling devoured by unpredictable events and emotions. You try to escape the feelings by getting caught up in overthinking everything: endlessly planning and searching and analyzing, while completely losing touch with your intuition. And in the process you confuse conscientiousness with overwork, empathy with over-identification, compassion with over-tolerance. So you beat yourself up about how you know you should have better boundaries. It’s a vicious cycle.
Successful sensitive types embody gentle but firm personal boundaries. If you struggle to put your own needs first (which doesn’t come naturally to a highly sensitive person), make a conscious choice to practice the skill of saying “no” with love and grace, or carving out alone time to recharge … and decide to feel good about that.
8. Tune in to your body (to avoid seesawing between emotional extremes).
Many highly sensitive people learn to ignore the messages their bodies are sending them. They switch it off to avoid overwhelm or they tune in to others’ needs instead of their own to meet what’s expected of them. Does this sound familiar?
Doing so leaves you swinging like a pendulum. Too much, too little. Too fast, too slow. Too in, too out. Back and forth between being over-stimulated and mind-numbingly bored, dieting and then bingeing, or exercising hard and then needing several days to recover. And so on and so forth.
Successful sensitive types tune in to the physical sensations in their bodies; they accept that it’s not always comfortable, but they trust their bodies to guide them. If you have a habit of hiding from feelings or passing the point of overwhelm, learn to recognize your body’s subtle signs of overstimulation. You’ll spend less time being thrown out of balance, and more time swaying gently within your nervous system’s range of optimal arousal.
9. Design healthy habits that fit your unique needs.
Eventually, it all catches up with you. Grueling hours at work, followed by hard sweat at the gym and keeping on top of chaos around home — all fueled by crappy diets and minimal sleep or downtime. It’s an easy trap to fall into because you’re simply living the way you see most people get by on.
What’s more, some seemingly healthy habits hit hard on a sensitive nervous system — like “health” foods that are heavily processed and pumped with sugar and artificial additives, or intense exercise that’s not balanced with ample recovery time.
If you allow too much stimulation and too lousy replenishment, you run the risk of chronic illnesses (as many sensitive types have learned the hard way). At the same time, if you overprotect yourself, your genius goes unexpressed, and that also can lead to stress and ill health.
Successful sensitive types practice habits that truly nourish them. If you struggle with energy or well-being issues, prioritize habits that nurture these areas of your life (such as more sleep and alone time), and limit those that over-stimulate or drain you (such as too many high pressures activities — even if they are so-called healthy).
10. Stop smothering your sensitivity.
After a lifetime of being bombarded by stimuli, it becomes second nature to push sensitivity out of the conscious awareness. Tuning out from relentless sensations, for example, so you can pretend you don’t give a darn. Toning down intense feelings (good and bad) so you aren’t on a roller coaster. Suppressing emotions to get a break from feeling anything at all.
This self-protective mechanism might fool your conscious mind, but it doesn’t fool your sensitive body. This oozes into your health, your relationships, your career, every aspect of your life … or, it builds tension inside until something has to give.
Successful sensitive types let go of the grasp for control. When you free the energy used to hold yourself tight, you free the gifts of sensitivity that have been lost to you: empathy, creativity, and heightened joy, to name a few. And you allow your true potential to blossom.
Closing Thoughts
As you’re working through the tips above, keep in mind that the key to thriving as a highly sensitive person, more than anything else, is to recognize that it’s perfectly OK to be sensitive — with its challenges and strengths.
Use your deep-thinking mind to recognize hidden understandings, and deliberately refocus on positivity and possibilities.
Use your deep-feeling body to tune in your emotions and sensations, and stay within your optimal range of arousal as often as possible.
Use your heightened awareness to dance to whatever beat you darn well please, even if that seems odd to a lot of people.

Emotional Intensity is not a pathology. For someone who is emotionally intense, however, the pain that comes with a pervasive sense of being ‘too much’ is not to be taken lightly – a person can be made to feel ‘wrong’ for the most part of his or her life, and internalising this sense of shame can lead to depression, low self-esteem, inability to self-regulate, and inner emptiness.
The good news is, with the right information and support, liberation from the pain of ‘being too much’ is possible. Once you have discovered the origin of your differences, you may begin a journey of retrieving long lost gifts.
Suddenly, your whole life history makes sense. You realize that a lot of the shame and depression they bear come from ill-informed and uninvited commentary about your unique qualities, and people’s fear of what is unfamiliar. In fact, your high level of awareness of subtleties is not only unusual but also extremely precious.
As you step into embracing your unique qualities, you learn to trust your unique ways of relating to the world and can connect to what you have to offer.

Keep your skin silky smooth with these tips:
1. Exfoliate daily.
I keep exfoliating gloves in the shower, and use them with my cleansing gel to slough off dead skin and encourage cell turnover. It's invigorating, too!
2. Finish your shower with oil.
While still in the shower, rub some good oil all over your body. It will seal in moisture with the added benefit of calming all of the nerve endings on your skin. I use an oil blend called Heritage, which you can find at any health food store, but coconut oil, olive oil, and sesame oil are all good options.
3. Take warm, not hot showers.
Super hot water can pull moisture out of your skin. Try reducing the heat or reducing the length of your shower.
4. Hydrate.
Make sure you're getting your daily recommended dose of H2O. It's also nice to sip on herbal teas when it gets a bit chilly.
5. Be aware of perfumes and other chemicals on your clothing.
In the winter, most of your body is covered by clothing. If your detergent irrirates your skin, it will dry out. If you discover that your skin gets itchy soon after you put on your clothes, this could be a problem - try switching to a dye-free, natural detergent and see if that helps.
6. Increase your fat intake.
It's Wintertime! It's time for richer foods, root vegetables, and fat. Your body needs it to insulate and run smoothly in the harsher weather. If you are a person who counts out your daily 1 tablespoon of olive oil, you're going to want to up your fat intake. It will do wonders for your skin and the rest of your bodily functions! Try blending coconut butter or oil into your
coffee ; roasting root veggies with some coconut oil , adding real butter from grass-fed cows to veggies or eggs, etc.
7. Get a humidifier.
A humidifier can be a great Wintertime addition to keep the air in your house at a good moisture level.
I hope these tips help you to stay soft

Keep your skin silky smooth with these tips:
1. Exfoliate daily.
I keep exfoliating gloves in the shower, and use them with my cleansing gel to slough off dead skin and encourage cell turnover. It's invigorating, too!
2. Finish your shower with oil.
While still in the shower, rub some good oil all over your body. It will seal in moisture with the added benefit of calming all of the nerve endings on your skin. I use an oil blend called Heritage, which you can find at any health food store, but coconut oil, olive oil, and sesame oil are all good options.
3. Take warm, not hot showers.
Super hot water can pull moisture out of your skin. Try reducing the heat or reducing the length of your shower.
4. Hydrate.
Make sure you're getting your daily recommended dose of H2O. It's also nice to sip on herbal teas when it gets a bit chilly.
5. Be aware of perfumes and other chemicals on your clothing.
In the winter, most of your body is covered by clothing. If your detergent irrirates your skin, it will dry out. If you discover that your skin gets itchy soon after you put on your clothes, this could be a problem - try switching to a dye-free, natural detergent and see if that helps.
6. Increase your fat intake.
It's Wintertime! It's time for richer foods, root vegetables, and fat. Your body needs it to insulate and run smoothly in the harsher weather. If you are a person who counts out your daily 1 tablespoon of olive oil, you're going to want to up your fat intake. It will do wonders for your skin and the rest of your bodily functions! Try blending coconut butter or oil into your
coffee ; roasting root veggies with some coconut oil , adding real butter from grass-fed cows to veggies or eggs, etc.
7. Get a humidifier.
A humidifier can be a great Wintertime addition to keep the air in your house at a good moisture level.
I hope these tips help you to stay soft

ABCthings:
Don't understand what you mean by 'shrink' anyway Since you quite comfortable with your life all you need is some self improvement tips first I would say there's a difference in being an ¿d£? extrovert and relating with people. £j$l;k?h#n^
.

Shrink is the informal word you can use to talk about a therapist. Talking about your problems with her can hopefully help you shrink them, or make them smaller

ABCthings:
Don't understand what you mean by 'shrink' anyway Since you quite comfortable with your life all you need is some self improvement tips first I would say there's a difference in being an ¿d£? extrovert and relating with people. £j$l;k?h#n^
.

Shrink is the informal word you can use to talk about a therapist. Talking about your problems with her can hopefully help you shrink them, or make them smaller

so where did she breakdown

My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind
l[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, oh oh
[Bridge:]
Give me all of you
Cards on the table, we're both showing hearts
Risking it all, though it's hard

see fresh people wish I had money

abuhusna1:
Is that what you call your father

that's what I call your father

so what should we do

GBOKASINCHA:
very soon nairaland go make this idiot popular...they be like...davido's jacket boy releases fresh photos...davido's jacket boy poses inside car...

lmaaaoo

I am not understanding your hairstyle

idiota.

blessed child. that baby would be great one day

jamaicabakare:
Nina kor, Maltina ni

Auntie better go and see a eye doctor immediately, you are suffering from glaucoma

Take off that shades you wearing and look again

She looks like nina