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He who comes to equity they say must come with clean hands.
To all apc e-warriors here,sweep your house clean before casting stones.

Well Done lads...luck has limits,for the super eagles,This Is It!

yublings: dey may not ve impressed so far in d tournament bt @least give dem some credit...qualifying into d knockout round 4 d 1st time n rejecting bonuses...guy check am now.

Credit duly given,we all know greece is battling recession.

lat4real: Mikel Obi, is that you?

Nope,am sharper than that lad

So?
These Greek players are bunch of clowns,me think they should concentrate on the game instead of pulling cheap p.r. stunts. . .Costa Rica Awaits!

The french team is beatable and I see us winning if we banish complacency..
Nigeria 2-France 1.
Up Eagles!

These APC attack dogs don't know when to eat the humble pie of silence!
While not saying the election was totally free,no one can dispute the outcome,even fayemi knew before hand that he was fighting a lost cause.I mean he'll go down in history as the only governor who foolishly alienated the core of his electorates(civil servants,students etc)while still expecting maximum vote from them.
Bottom Line:- Ekiti voted Fayemi out,Fayose just happen to be the major beneficiary of that decision.

Fresh Air is back!
Seun,Please re-fortify your defence mechanism,nairaland is too big to be messed up like this.

The ban serves him right. . . Ronaldo,Ronaldinho et al too have long teeth and we don't see them biting people anyhow.

@Topic,She is not a king.
Culture&tradition demands that the first daughter of a deceased king hold forth till a new king is chosen by the king makers that is why they are refered to as ''ADELE"(He/She who holds forth-A Regent).She is to act&dress like a man hence the male regalia she also not expected to be with a man during her regency.

Good Morning People,I stumbled upon this thread while searching for something else
Glad to here,Nice Day all.

I read this,all of it and all i can say is "he who comes to equity must come with clean hands"
Obasanjo of all people should know this...
As for Iyabo,"He who sells his family for kobo.
..."
@Topic,
This won't end here,lets keep fingers crossed for more disgusting drama from The Obasanjo Clan.

R.I.P Madiba
Your life is a lesson for the living...

This is Nigeria where leaders suffer from logorrhea...

dayokanu: So what is in the OP's statement that would make a man slapped deserve to go and apologize

If a woman reported the exact same scenario, What would be the difference in your advise?

Would you tell her to go apologize to the hsband who just slapped her and she should realize her husband is hot tempered

Do we assume the woman is guilty because the husband said so? Are we saying the fella is the absolute victim here?
Marital squabbles are always difficult to meddle in because no one knows the true picture.
My advise wasnt for him to accept fault/take the insult but for him wisely put his house in order

Flygeriansteve: See this LEFULEFU already assuming the man somehow must have done sth to deserve the slap. How does one apologise after being physically abused? This ya psychology tire me o.

Re-read my post for clarity son.

dayokanu: Question if the man was the one who slapped the wife Would your advise still be the same?

Of course not,My advise is based on what the OP tendered.

OP,
Do not hit your wife back!
She is your wife&if you truly know each other,you should be wise enough to know she's in a foul mood.Take time off to reflect on how to assert yourself rightly.
Tips:-
Your wife is obviously hot tempered so avoid being suck in when it rises,calmly retreat.
There is always a calm after storm,use yours to have a frank talk with her.Tell her-in plain terms-your mind,apologise for your wrong doings that have triggered the reaction,let her know that her reaction is over the board&you will no longer condone it.
Both of you should strive to maintain a balance.(you:stop offending her&she'll stop slapping you)


You married her for better/worse,you've had better times now deal with the worse.

Hello house,its been a while..

I hope this impasse is properly addressed via the right channel(s).
By the way,The ambassador there needs to learn how to bark&act like his colleague in The US.

ayyoshert: Examples of ancient Ekiti words and translations in both standard Yoruba and English : Ideregbe (Ewure or Goat), Okeregba (Aja or Dog), Amomo (Alangba or Lizard), Usa (Ikoko or Pot), Ukere (Ago or Calabash Cup), Ogolomosi (Ibepe or Pawpaw), Oyeye (Epa or Groundnut).

Kare Omo ayiye!
Aba re a gbe o o!

SIGNED...
All is well.

bellong: 3

E dey here

Really what's fuss about this so called eclipse?

deols: Yoruba can be quite ambiguous. I get it now. It is like saying, 'what God wants prevails'.

Yea yea...

bellong: @Ifeleke,

Don't just rub the tummy, read novels and stories to the baby in there. It creates a very strong bond between father and child along with the mother's bond.

Will sure do that and more....already singing ''sleeping child'' by michael learns to rock...

dominique: Guy I remember you from nairaland of yesteryears. You were really active then. Nice to have you back sha. Regards to the Mrs

Yea yea dominique...Nairaland of old,it was fun then...but not anymore,good people now tread on borrowed times while sanity slides down the drain..
it'good to be here though&thanks for checking,Happy Sunday Good People.

mysticgal: what is the meaning of ifeoluwaleke please ifeleke

bellong: The love of God prevails

Correct....
But more like "The will of God prevails".

Chillisauce: I thought as much, not easy i must say. Wish her safe delivery. Rub her waist, and legs too. Worth it

its a duty!

pickabeau1: Welcome

Ifeleke....


Omo a so layo

Amen...thanks!

Royal Roy: Welcome here Ifeleke

Interesting profile you got there.

Na men like you dey make wife dey hungry men like us
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Lol... .wish you all the best in your tummy rubbing duties.

Wish her safe delivery.

Amen...
thanks Roy...marriage is sweet bro,come join us...
Mothers in the house,please i'll be needing tips from time to time...its our first.

Chillisauce: @ Ifekeke can you throw more light on the tummy duties .

Is it food, or you have something special in that tummy

Meanwhile, you are welcome

Oh its something special which we'll be welcoming by God's grace in march.

IFELEKE...A fusion of my first and third name.
I was born&brought up in the southwestern part of country...the best of times,the worst of times...I presently work in the financial sector...tasking but all is well.
I met my wife in church,we started out as friends while seeing other people but eventually got to a point where we could not do without each other..We against all odds got married&its been wonderful ever since..
I love my wife,her cooking,her meddlings,naggings(ife mi this,ife mi that),motherly care...i love the fact that i can always count on her as my friend,my lover&my wife..for the unmarried,marry right,marry your friend!
Oh,my wife calls!
Ife mi,rub my tummy i love rubing her tummy with its fringe benefits...
Ifeoluwaleke...that's what i want to name our daughter...a fusion of my first,second&third names
Off i go,tummy duties...BRB!

Fresh air
What Irony...

Woaw!
Stumbled upon this thread few minutes ago&mighty glad to be far away from those profanities that soil the air on NL...
RoyalRoy,
kudos!,will be back for my introductions...
***subscribing***