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somanywishes:
Good day my nairaland family. Please I created a new account for this because I decided to cry for help before I commit suicide. I am so down and frustrated. Please my people dont mind my English or writing because my burden is so big.
Please I just need help of loan of 2.5millon. I guaranteed my younger brother for loan from a loan shark and when it time to pay he relocated without telling me. The loan was just one million and I have been paying 100k monthly for the past one year now and yet the loan shark said we are still owing 2.5million including accumulated interest because its 25% interest monthly. Please my salary is just 130k and for the past one year has been hell because my husband does not have a job and we have 3kids. My people I will be grateful if God will use anybody to help me pay the woman and I will be paying the person 100k monthly. My brother does not pick or call me again, and i dont know where to look for him but his friends told me they saw him sometime ago in Abuja. My heart is broken for his treatment to me but I leave him to God to touch his heart because I helped him as a brother. He promised me then that he will pay back in just one month that was why i agreed to guarantee him
Please help me because I believe God Almighty can change my story through somebody on nairaland. I have reached out to close friends for help but one friend bluntly told me to follow her to the west while another said she will introduce me to a man who will give me the money so far I am ready to sleep with the man. My people I am married and I dont want to commit adultery.
Pls Lala have compassion on me and help move it to front page.
God bless u all

You must be very pretty. A man wants to dash you 2.5 M in exchange for pomo in this dry Nigeria when you are not a slay queen? (even slay Queens don't get that much easily)

Ngwanu, Good luck. May God help u.

Perhaps you should broker a deal with one slay queen, no? You introduce her to the man, she collects 2.5M and settle you with 1M. This is an offer I'm sure they won't resist.

Anything lined up for Christmas @ Tehn?

Diso60090:
Wait till them use you do suya i go see the hand you go use abuse the prophet

Back to sender in tenfolds

@Tatacherie, I sent you two emails since morning. No reply.

Obviously you don't want to sale to me so I'm. Moving on. Cheers

MoyosBlog123:
Jumia mamas where art thou....
I just hope say I no go chop ban on top this my freebie..... Any which way issokay!.
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I want oo

Anugod:
Good morning mamas. So glad to officially port from preggy thread here.

Abeg mamas help a ftm. My dd is 11 days old, and she strains and strains when she wants to poo, even though the poop comes out egusi-like. If you see the way she strains ehn, you wee think she wants to poop Giddyperson's historic rocky mass yet the poop comes out normal. Sometimes when she tries and tries and the poop is yet to come out, it makes her kinda cranky. Abeg what's the matter and what can I do to help?

Please don't pass me by.

This is normal, they (babies) even strain to fart and pee. They do so because they don't know which muscle and body part to use yet.
Relax and do nothing. She will soon figure it all out.

Mr Jerry Jerry.

Na so life Don push you? You no get imaginary Toyota Camry for 300K again abi mugu no just dey fall again?

Hehehe. See your tear tear couch

CakezbyMarie:
Yes! He denied her, right now he has no right whatsoever another man has paid for the total package..

This is fallacy. DNA overrides this...

This only works if the biological dad doesn't know his rights and/or is not financially capable.

elninosanz:
Legally, if the biological father can prove via DNA test that the boy is his, then he is the Legal Father. However, if the step-father had legally adopted the boy then he biological father had no claim to him. The mistake people make is not going through the legal adoption process. When the biological father comes for their children, they almost always win in court

The step father cannot legally adopt the child unless there's a written, signed and stamped document proving the biological father is dead or/and does not want the child.

rigor14:
Culture, the man who paid the bride price owns the child, if they are all Igbos, then he should know that the child belongs to the new man (husband).

Does this culture override the law?

Biological dad remains the dad until he writes, signs on paper that he's not.

Rejecting a pregnancy/child verbatim and going awol does not erase his DNA from the child. (reason girls should be careful of who they open their legs for)

The step dad can only be the child's guardian.

Sagamite:


Where are EfemenaXY, cococandy, bukatyne, NotyourB1tch, Ifyalways, armyofone etc. for me to turn them on.

They would need to move to Iceland by the time I finish with them.

Sagalulu

The one and only omonile for fvctards and cretins, oni Ikoyi of Sagamu and baba debe debe for the girls.

raumdeuter:
I dey o. how's jennykadry
All the babes left me here. Even that amala guzzling ori eja called ifyalways go waka pass and do as if she no sabi me

Hohoho

Ori eja of life I think say u Don abandon me and nld. E ma binu

Oya come let's go and dance one corner

What do I do when I'm told my mom is a witch?

ANS: I will abuse the prophet/seer thoroughly, dust my shoes and leave.

olasmith10:
She needs to visit a doctor as the opening in the tear could give room for infection. Let her understand that OTC treatment isn't the best for her..OTC more or less means self medication (Over the counter)

Well said but will he adhere. He's already lamenting about money but God forbid anything goes wrong he will rush online to blog/write about how a certain hospital /doctor killed a woman with their incompetence.

Shegzy8:
Thanks cause considering the fact about the money she would have to spend seeing a gynaecologist...

May God help us in this country

Honestly.

Ginaruby:
It's normal for some persons after child birth,

She should stop having sex for at least 2 months

She should seat ontop of a bucket of hot water with a little dettol so the steam can be felt

She should also use towel in hot water to damp it morning and night it will heal and close up

NO SEX. But after two months and there is no improvement see a doctor.

Please stop!

It's not all stitches that require sitz bath, in fact, sitz bath opens up and tears some stitches. I just don't understand how you can comfortably offer solutions to something as delicate as this without knowing her history.

OP, please disregard this especially the hot water thing.

Shegzy8:
Sorry enlighten me better on the health implications so i will know how to put it all to her

I'm not a doctor but number one risk is infection : she can and will easily get all sorts of infection from there if it's truly torn and open.

Take her to the hospital to see a gyn/Obs

Sansa143:
He was in his right frame of mind,i don't blame him,i blame myself for going all out to do something for him and I won't try it again,never.I hate bin hurt!

Don't blame yourself sweetie and don't be too hard on him either. Shyte happens, nobody likes being broke and men especially don't know how to handle it. They feel they've disappointed not just themselves but their dependants, wife and kids.

And you will be hurt and loved up all over again, that's the school of marriage so brace up. Good thing is that someday in future, perhaps by his next birthday sef, you both will remember today and smile at your yeye

Smile. Better days ahead and happy birthday to your isi okpukpu darling. May a big fat sweet cake fall on you.

Shegzy8:
To the doctors in the house or those that know about this, am writing this on behalf of someone that isn't well educated but confided in me thinking i know about it. i then promise to ask people that knows much about it and get back to her...Well she gave birth last year and had tears, she got stitched and it seemed all fine not until some days later when she tried using the toilet, the stitched part got loosed and didnt get to heal much till now.She feels pain during sex sometime from the part that got loosed and air gets into her vagina when she bends abruptly been naked,she needs to know things to be done to stop the pain and if anything can be done also to avoid air getting into her vagina when she bends naked.She surely does not want to go for another stitch because the last she had isnt healed completely till now and she wants to avoid the pain.

She has to go back to the hospital,either the one she used before or a new one.

Besides the pain, the health risks are numerous.

The masses really mean business. No joking

Nigeria and information. I knew something was fishy when the first news said he dived into a river during shoot out and another news claimed his body was in some secretariat.

TSAT:
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Still as it were when I initially opened the tread. NOTHING YET Sir

Hmmn

Even the offline intervention ain't working? Chai

rawpadgin:


35years?

This babe & our own osaze odemwengie have a lot in common.

They are both interracial, they both look younger than their age whilst their respective colleagues of same age bracket be looking like ancestors


Happy Birthday to u my dear

Have you seen her in person? Don't be deceieved by fair skin, she looks her age.

Microsoft10:
Well, I am credible. Believe me

How far with your Zizaboni handle?

Mr Credible my Nyash. Keep manufacturing lies and spinning tales by moonlight.

Mr lie lie OP.

Professional nld beggar. No be today you start.

You rushed to clean your Nyash with your other handles BA? I have quoted you o for future reference.

Hediot!

Zizaboni:
It's a pity that nairalanders are just viewing through this thread, no one is ready to help me, well I stil believe..

Am sorry to bother you, I know the state of the economy but nevertheless, I need to reach out to people to kindly request for help.. Am in final year hnd programme and I really need cash to pay my tuition fee b4 January 14. I have parents but even with them, I stil hustle things myself. I know what they are facing at home too. The people I had hope in are not responding, that's y I had to bring it here online.. The amount I just need for my fee is 30400. I shud have said 30k but some people wunt believe it. That's y I had to put the real amount I have to pay, 30400. I believe that even in this recession, some people are willing to help. I wud appreciate it very much, I'm open to any amount. Thanks. 66

From being a 200 level accounts student of bayero university to doing HND and now your latest family scam.

https://www.nairaland.com/4187234/nairalanders-just-hope-wunt-die#62576414

Zizaboni:
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I see

NiklausAkins:
Well irrespective of if the story is true or false. There are situations like that in Nigeria.. and if you can't help but criticise I think it's best you overlook it..

Is this an alternate handle? Don't make me find out. . .

Aboa, I'm out of your yeye thread.

NiklausAkins:
Well that's your headache, the mum should return the children back to someone who will not take care of the child, so that the children too will live a miserable life right?? I wonder how a lady will be talking like this, well I never said the story is real, but irrespective of that you can give advise that makes sense.. not just behaving like a.....

Your migraine and eventual death actually.

sisisioge:
I saw your comment and ran in thinking you would have gotten to the root of the matter...whew, the guy left us hanging. I guess he got scared. The matter is seriously serious.

Either that or it was all lies

I see the OP have edited his first post to include emotional blackmail.

Typical. . .

First son, gone awol. Baby mother and her family don't care about baby's welfare.
Second daughter, her baby daddy and family, abandoned their child.
Second son, baby mama and her whole family too abandoned their babies.
Grandpa is alive, he too don't care that his wife sleeps in a shop, has four grandkids in her hands and he too hasn't made any effort to contact all the families involved to either contribute to the children's welfare or send them back to them.

Very interesting story.