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Hmmmn

ogamba:
bia ify ihem na ekwu obughi eziokwu kedu nke buna onye bata onako tuuuu , onweghi onye na ekwu ihe bara uru karisia nke anakpo agaba ,si kpo ihe ojoo ihe ojoo ka kuziere ndi ozo gabata ihe oma ka ha we so nzo ukwu anyi ofu ubochi ofu onye gabata kwue otu ihe ga ebute nsogbu nebea obulu maka ihe ojo omutara nonu ndi bu uzo , onye ozo sim na ebea bu nzuko onye kwue uche ya (freedom of speech) ka m jua unu onwere onye ga akuziri nwa ya ihe ojoo ndia unu nekwu ebea, achorom ka onye obula zam nkea

BLESSED CHIDON

bia,onye ime obodo a akpozinam afa biko
ole udi akuko i na ako ihea?
ihe owu i feelri di nkpa,kwukwanu ya,for where . . . i noro hia ako june 12,dikwa kiaful
o nwere onye i na enye nri ebea?ihe anyi na eme ebe a bu ikparita onwe anyi ochi,o nweghi onye na azu ibe ya nri.
ochonganoko dika gi
ole ime ohia i siri puta sef? notice me

grafikdon:
Police and 'NEPA' on strike. . . nothing can be more hilarious than that. . .

lmao
what are their grievances?

Psalm 139v12
"Even the darkness will not be dark to you;the night will shine like the day,for the darkness is as light to you."

Yet,in the maddening maze of things,
And tossed by storm and flood,
To one fixed trust my spirit clings;
I know that God is good !

Our beliefs are based on either our awareness or our ignorance.

rotflmao
na hia di thing finally end
talk is truly cheap
@Jenny,gini mere i jiri bulite okwua ozo?oku di over !
@agaba,hehe hoho.iwe na ewe Nwa-uwa enyi gi nwoke.

hmmn
isi agbakalam na threadia.Nid prof ole ka anyi nwere hia?
unu nile emela.N'ezie ,a nwuko amiri onu o gba ofufu
there is great strenght in unity

@snazzy really
***hugs hugs ma sister****

Has it turned to name -calling?
ooh choochi.next,it would be stabbing this is just how it starts
Something that can be easily dealt with in maturity turns to name calling,una try.
[quote author=nwa-uwa link=topic=160981.msg2683223#msg2683223 date=1219245313]i wont even try arguing with you at all.Its pure waste of time and space.Try to get a husband first,then we can converse.Like you did not know he was a broke ass before you jumped into matrimony with him.agadi ekwe nka dika gi [/quote]rotflmao
una wicked sha.

KarmaMod:
First off it was the wife's father's burial and the husband had problems with her spending money on the funeral. How does that make any sense? Was she not supposed to do anything for bthe burial. It's possible she was the first born which is why she was left to spend the money for it. when my grandfather died, the monetary responsibilities for his funeral was placed completely on my mom's shoulders. Being the first born she had to pay and cater for everything. It's not like she married a non-Nigerian who doesnt understand the customs. Obviously pained him that she had the money to spend for it while he didnt.

Bunch of bitter egotistical monsters.

i know perfectly well that it was the ladys dad burial.My question still remains untouched?who knows for sure when this problem started?was it b4 the mans death or just after the mans death?was there some unresolved monetary issues on ground b4 the death or
shes an igbo lady according to the story.Women from that part of the world play very little role during burials.Even if she was the first child,shes not under any obligation to spend so much.Her brothers and dads family can deal with the bulk expenses.It boils down to what i said,some ppl just get this money throw away decordum and reason and talk money like its the ONLY language known.abeg,each man to his own.
[quote author=dudu-bobo link=topic=160981.msg2683029#msg2683029 date=1219243069]As much as your post made a lot of sense, I have to disagree with you on the Nigerian men point. There are very few men ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD who can handle or deal with their wives being the bread winners in the home. I think I may be one of them
lol
Ok guy.correction noted.[/quote]

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Ify, kiss back of the ears? yes!!! your spine will tingle [/color]

lol
dont even remind me. howdy?

@Topic,i heard Asian men do that often esp the buddist the feet,nose back of ears,everywhere.
My feet are well kept and neat but i find it replusive,kissing my feet,hell NO,kiss my ass.

zignor:
I will join them

Yeah
what abt "our" wife?

henrydan:
Sometimes i ask myself,do i really embark on this trip?I've being raised by my mum my whole life and i just want to embark on this "identity Search" because i'm gradually becoming a man and you need a man to teach you how to be a man.I really need to,and most of all i need someone to talk to, that's why i'm doing it online.

First off,You dont need a man to teach you to be a man.Many have done well in life with just their mum around them.
If you feel deep within you that u want to see your dad,you have the longing to meet him then i wud advice u to go look for him.happy searching.

@Topic,under what circumstance should you reason and know its time to wave goodbye and keep walking?
I refuse to be a murderer no matter what !,divorce is not a taboo anymore.

bridget007:
How do I find out the address of someone in Nigeria. My BF has split up with me and we have a son and I want to contact his mama who I have a good relationship with.

EYAAH
how did u establish and have good relationship with the woman?phone?mail?letters?
get her same way.and goodluck.

@Topic,na wao
did all these men become jerks overnight or they had these traits in them ever before their marriages?
@Queenisha,i was in a nursing school in nigeria,its not just the guys that rush madly to marry these young fair nurses,some student nurses back home too do have the mentality that they just have to finish school and head straight oversees to make money,they don't date guys living in nigeria,all they need is a guy from UK or the states
The result of such mariages is a situation where two strangers are living togeda,each with a different view and goal for the marriage.The guy is seeking for financial rescue,the babe is looking for her own dough,now whos going to stoop for who esp when one party tries to outsmart the other?
The first lady in the story sha i wonder what marriages these days are all about.where they having problems before the dads burial or the problem arose just after the dads death?i can't imagine going for my OWN dads burial and my hubby is not there.its simply outrageous. Maybe,she felt that shes got all the money hence she can just fly home and bury her dad as she wants afterall who plays the pipe dictates the tune still maybe,am wrong
Sadly,its still very few Nigeria men that can deal with their wives making more money then them.Women shouldnt be in haste to forget that.
bottomline:
Nigeria nurses shouldnt just rush into marriages all in the bid to get oversees to make money.They are only making themselves an easy prey to the jerks and losers out there.
Whatever be the case,personally speaking now,women should sometimes stoop to conquer.Yeah,you make the whole money but please show a little respect.There are lots of ways to deal with men and their ego without appearing too bossy or totally stupid.
Lastly,for all the sisters that lost their lives to the jerks out there,RIP.

Nnam a nam ekele gi.lekwa ihe oma i jiri goziem Jisos.Onye kam bu,i ji e cherem?onu e juwom onu.Nyem ike na amara i ji were gara ozi.nyekwam mmuo i gozi ndi ozo dika i siri gozie m.dalu onye olu ebube.

lmao
Biko gwa Ogamba okwu.
Mgbe o bula o batara ebea o na aguru anyi iwu.amaghim ihe o na eche na o bu sef
o gaghi ekwutekwanu ihe ahu o chere na o di nkpa,nani iyopu na ikocha ndi ozo
O choro ka anyi gbalala ha na threadia sef?a maghim uche dat boi infact.
@agaba,o bu gi directly ka ogamba na agwa indirectly
i just had to peep in.ihea dikwa serious ooo.i never bargained for all these.sadly sweet
@Mortiple,a hurum gi na anya too.i ga alu m?
@rubi,mami,a nam e missi gi .Ya gaziere gi na ndi ulo gi
@umu igbo nile,ekeresimsei erutewela oooooooooooooo
otu rove

cheeei,
umunne m ooooo.a nam e missicha onye o bula.a dikwala addicted to ebea not NL
Ya gaziere onye o bula.
Youngies,Echelon,rubi,Mortiple na Kashiff biko unu ekwela ebea juo oyi.
@Topic,nwa akwo na azu amaghi na ije di anya
[color=#990000]a child on the mothers back does not know/understand how far the journey is

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@Echelon,i bu preoff na asusu igbo.jide ka i ji.

Queenisha:
Olabowole you said, you are now taking on your 3rd wife, another Igbo woman for that matter.
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Does he have one already?i mean one "igbo" woman already?
i tot "we" dont share
Maybe Maykelly wud suffice.Infact he just have to have Maykelly.sealed,stamped and delivered.

Goodnite Sam.
we are all entitled to our opinions just like my girlfriend is to hers.whatever,as long as at the end of the day,we don't get hurt.Thats where d real koko lies.sacrificing alot for something/someone whos not worth it at ones expense too.

Lol
this thread is damn too fuuny
Oya,rampant go change your name lmao
we need alot of growing up to do.

LOL
She said the guy has spent so much on her.Actually,the guy it was that brought her from her place in asia.The mum is an Ivorien,was separated from the dad b4 but somehow they are getting along well and the BF played a vital role there too.
Te guy might be bad but honestly,hes been influential to ma girlfriends life.
Her choice does not seem to be the best to me,but well its her life.shes got her reasons too
@Sam your reasons are ridiculous?i dont believe men still think like dat in this century.i hope it works dat way for you.

@Ndubu,really?
i wud have to ask around.My first time of hearing this too.Basically its like aria=oke or ihe nketa

More on the loose.
anyway, i did

Ndi CIV agbalala before,mana today anyi ejidele ha na siki 6.Obi oma a kpagbuolam
@Topic,anu gbala taa,echi bu nta
If the game escapes today,morrow is another hunting day.

Okaka,Isi mbido na Isi njedebe,onye kere ihe niile,o gbaiji igwe kpo ya nku,o no na elu ogodo ya a na akpu na ala,amama amasi amasi,dike na dimkpa,i zuru ka eme.deme .

Psalm 27v14
wait on the Lord,be of good courage,he shall strenghten thine heart.

Psalm 23v 1
The lord is my shephard,I shall NOT want.

Circumstances are the weather that passes over our lifescape.Just as the earth needs both sun and rain,winter and springtime,so our character requires hardship and reprieve,struggle and joy bUt in every thing,Give Thanks to God.