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Liliansara:
Am a fine wine. based in Owerri, 23 years young. how about you?

I need correct stew I'm tayad of wines

give me her number

#following

SoniaBillion:
I need a serious man within the age of 27 and above for a serious relationship. No jokes.

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alexialin:
Wow @ the bolded
Then my brother u need to be wary. I thought her chats mates are far from her state/region. But don't cut off the relationship .Just know your relationship is 50/50. It may work at the end, it may not. Have an open mind about her.
Long distance relationships are very dicey. Am in one myself but there is but in it
Your girl is just like my bf, he's far from me too.
And one thing about long distance coupled with when ones partner is always flirting with the opposite sexx online, is that it weakens the relationship.
She doesn't know the havoc she is causing between u too. But later, if she's not wise, she will realise on the long run, if it won't be too late by then.

For me, I didn't cut him off but one thing is certain, I didn't place all my eggs in his basket. If it works fine, if it doesn't work no wahala. Life goes on.
But have given him a time frame, if he falls short of that time frame, am moving to the next available dedicated guy, eagerly waiting for him to fucvk up and that's one thing he's not aware of. Partners trying to play smart with other people interested in them, forgets that the person, they are playing smart with also have toasters too.

I don't drive away my toasters, just incase. Any of them still standing at the end is whom I will plan life with, if this one am dating turns out to be unserious.

So please don't cut from your female friends online. Unless she cuts off from her male friends too, then u do likewise but If she doesn't? My dear, continue with your chats with your female friends. Human beings are unpredictable. Until you say I do and both of you are living together before you can minimise chatting with females.

At least chatting with them, does not mean u are sleeping with them. You simply need like minded people to chat with, and make those boring days and nights funny and interesting.

That's my take on her.

Be wary but don't cut off,just in case she realise her mistake on-time.

wow! tanx so much for yur advice I really appreciate

alexialin:
OK, how old is she?
Cause if she's younger and naive, she won't block, she might not like the message and she knows her bf will not like it too that's why she deleted it. If not? If she doesn't care how her bf will take it she would have left it there. But she cared, that's why she deleted it.

Then experience goes a long a way. I bet she's the friendly type, who will smile and chuckle when guys online say some nasty intimate stuff, thinking its just fun but in reality they are working their way into her subconscious, but she may just laugh it off and delete.
With time, she will learn to either block such guys online who chat in a sexually depraved way or become absorbed in such things.

My advice is op shouldnt breakup so fast with her.

I ask again, whats her age?

she is 27

Mup4life:
Na from CLAP dance take de START, if it is just chat why would she delete the message instead of outright block?

that's the point!!!

alexialin:
She's serious. It's just chats for Christ sakes. She spends her time with you. Not like shes going out with those guys,she chat with.
I don't see anything wrong with friends online. During my lunch break or when am. Less busy at work, I chat with guys. And that does not mean, I must date them or visit them.
I rarely have time to visit people, cos I work Monday till Saturday, close in the evening. And I don't joke with my work.
So if my man is angry that I chat inbetween lunch time or in the evening when he's not even with me? Then he really has issues. U need to trust your partner. She can't cut off chatting with people because she is in a relationship. My guy will tell me, he can't stop chatting with people when he's alone, so i shouldn't come up with such idea. We are both friendly in nature and we are not lone rangers. But we know when to draw the line with our chat buddies when it's becoming too intimate for comfort.
Today I had to block one of my chat buddies, when hes becoming too close for comfort.
So that's the way I see it.
We are both adults and we know what's right and wrong. What's ideal and what's not.

As long as she's not meeting up with any secretly, you have no issue sef. You are just working yourself up for nothing.

I understand yur point but the problem is that, since she is serving with these people in the same local govt and I'm far from wia she is. secondly, I had cut down on my female friends on social media because of her complaints

pat1612:
She is not serious about you
Change your mind about marriage and let her be you to start chatting on social media with girls

will try it too

Dannyyoung26:
Just play your role as her bf, buh if it seems u can't manage her, � for ur life...

tnx so much I will do jz that

RadicallyBlunt:
You're not d cause of d break up. She already is

thanks bro, I really appreciate. she has seen her mistakes and ready to amend so let's see had w it goes

gudafternun people, pls I hve a girlfriend who we hve been dating for a year now. I hve intentions of marrying her but my problem is that she has been chatting with different men on social media....I've caught her on so many occasions but she denies having an affair with these men. Recently, there is these 2guys she chats late at night and d guys calls her frequently. She even deleted some chats this morng unknown to her that i saw the messages the guy sent to her this morng. please advice me cos I'm going nuts and I really luv this girl. I don't want it to seem as if I'm the cause of the breakup......I am devastated as I'm typing this

continue crying don't worry very soon a smart girl out there will snatch yur husband from u.......jz wait and see.


#proudly Akwa Ibom

Archangel15:
For this Nigeria?? go out with #500 and come back with two girls.

abeg for wich part of nigeria

devilmaycry:
i was on my own jejely strolling along a street close to mine when this brother walked up to me,the way him the waka sef na case,he was like
"hello,i have been watching you for some mins now and i like you,you look handsome blah blah blah,can we be friends"him hand demonstration sef..
naso cold catch me,fear wan faint me,so werin i dey watch for movie na true.Toh i gave him a positive reply "no pee"
Next thing wey comot from him mouth na "wer do you live so i can visit you" i confuse,for my mind na holy ghost fire jst the ring...the way i take start formulate house address na only God knw,and as i dey talk naso i dey waka fast asif my run sef....no laff me o jare.Share your experience biko

I hard such experience earlier in my life..
I had this guy that studied pharmacy in my skul and I didn't know he was also a gay. He promised to take me out a day before I left for service, after d outing he wanted me to sleep over at his place for him to Bleep me but I declined....fast forward to my service year. I met this my account officer who was also a gay, he invited me to his huz. Wen I got there, he played mojo for us to watch. After some time I told him I wanted to use his convenience so wen I stood up, he asked why my dick was nt erecting. I asked him y I shud hve erecrion wen dere is no girl in the huz.....fastforward to wen we were sleeping, this guy had to b keeping his legs and hands on me. Each time he tried that rubbish I had to bring them down.....chei! I didn't sleep till morng and since den I didn't visit him again till I passes out
#those guys r something else

BentiBenti:
Maximum age is 22 abeg.
I'm 24..
I live alone..
400 level undergraduate (engr)
I'm not broke and I'm not rich
I talk and laugh alot...
I'm too romantic
I kiss alot.. Don't apply if u don't brush ur teeth
I'm not short and I'm not tall
Mbok can't type much..
Just send me a pm

go to eddyson hotel @ibb, trust me u will find true love
#thank me later. wat r friends for

vchykp:
YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED as am going crazy now, i met this very pretty girl 2 weeks ago and the relationship is growing very fast, she really loves me and i do too, within the space of this 2 weeks, she has visited me 3 times, no sex yet as she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us.

To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed, my instinct told me to check the money i kept close to the wardrobe draw, i scatter money a lot actually, but no matter how scattered i keep my money, i know howmuch i keep everywhere in the house, the money was supposed to be 32k, on getting thier i discovered 5k was missing.

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice

lols!
try her again, if she does that again. Bro dump her asap

[quote author=YamLegs post=62374201]Most of them look like what the cat dragged in from the trash can and they have the gust to be insulting lomance land girls??! Hian!
A lot of profiles I clicked and I always feel like washing my eyes with holy water and acid afterwards
And it's the ugliest ones that feel like they have an opinion on how people look when they should be begging their father the devil to at least improve their looks small( those gruesome looking things ain't definitely from God )
Very hideous, smelly, poor looking things
And before you attack, look at the mirror. I'm sure you're very fugly [/qu

u that yur moniker tels it all....
#yamlegs
#go and work on yur legs

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eve wia is yur location

jz Bleep her and pay her.....that's her office