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Sorry guys I haven’t been able to come online to give feedback because things are not looking good at the moment , my sister came to found the truth like I sent her on WhatsApp , she sent me a long voice message she was very angry crying and cursing me even myself I was in tears by the time I wanted to reply her , telling her how sorry I was from my heart she blocked me and I tried calling her number it wasn’t going through, just next minutes my brother from Lagos called cursing me he didn’t even give me the chance of explaining or to ask for forgiveness , he ended the call and my other brother called to same thing with curse that nothing will be well with and when mum called that was when I knew my life ended my mum said lots of thinks to me that she even regrets given birth to me and she told me not to step my footsteps in the house or I will regret, I cried begging my mum to please forgive me I didn’t not mean but she didn’t listen and told me my daughter will be staying with them. My whole family disown me, I haven’t been able to go home yesterday , I know i deserve all this but it broke my heart I won’t see my daughter , I can’t bear to live without my child I’m just no myself , my heart is bleeding I’m crying . I know they all have the right to hate me because I deserve to be hated but why are they keeping my daughter with them? My daughter won’t be in peace in that house because they will make her pay for my sins and my child doesn’t deserve this . Please someone help me to atleast get my daughter back from them

Ok thanks very much

SlimBrawnie:
It's a good thing you've done. Please don't delete them. You are a strong lady and will definitely withstand whatever result will come out of it. Just remember to also pray for God to touch her heart also so that things don't escalate. All the best.

Ok thanks very much

ffo:
Don't delete it, let her see it, also be praying about it, you should have still make an attempt to see her fiancee

No I didn’t go to his office again because He won’t even want to see me and That would be a waste of time and transport. But before I left the house this morning , I did recorded some voices videos narrating what I did and sent them to my sister WhatsApp, so far she hasn’t seen it yet because it’s only showing one tick and her last seen on WhatsApp was yesterday 8.19pm so I’m just here waiting to see what will happen when she listen to those voices I sent her. I’m scared and my mind is telling me because she hasn’t seen them yet I should deleted but I don’t know if I should or not

SlimBrawnie:
Ifyjos, where you able to meet with your sister's ex fiancee? What is the situation of things now?

March 28

God forbid, but if It happens I will not kill her , I will encourage her and take care of her and after one year she will go back to school

She is doing prostitution

Same to you

benjijosh:
You are a deranged person. You need help.

Ok no problem if he have no money for he school fee is not a problem, she will stay at home and wait until money come

benjijosh:
Some day, your daughter will have to pay her school fees again, your so called guy will have no money and your sister won't be able to help. Only then you will realise you single handedly destroyed your own life.

You took someone's joy and not just someone, your sister's. What kind of person are you?? Wicked is not okay to qualify you. All for some guy that possibly has no plan for you. Even though he doesn't cheat/beat you, it's a matter of time as he will soon get frustrated and depressed.

It's okay your sister doesn't like your guy. It's not like she's bad. It's what the society has made up realise and no lies, being with a man that can't provide for his own daughter is a waste of time.

Your sister will be back to okay very soon but I doubt if you will ever be okay. You will live everyday regretting how you met that demon you call boyfriend/baby daddy.

Bad girl.

Where in my comment did I threaten you? Only a killer knows her fellow killer maybe we did committed the murder together then?

Ehibiggirl:
she is even threatening me o. She may have killed before to have that kind of audacity.

I was 14 and very matured , i almost 21 in March . It’s not a pedophile because age it’s just a number, if it was a pedophile why he is not in prison then? You can say whatever you like about him , am not bothered because I still love him and your words is making me loving even more. I can sense jealousy because u don’t even have a guy in your life and konji and ulcer has been killing you that’s why you are talking rubbish

CHoccolaTE:
So he started sleeping with you when you were 13?

Egbelegbele

And this irresponsible pedophile is the person you place over your family and let him beat your sister?
That your sister has really suffered in your hand.

yes thank God u are not my sister because u cannot be one too or else I would have ............. long time ago , I know your type u talk rubbish behind the screen but in my presence I know u wouldn’t even dare say a thing , I pity u .

Ehibiggirl:
the next thing want to do now is to tell that you agbero to come and fight me sad thing I’m not your sister.i know it’s your small work to gang and destroy people.
You will soon snap again please don’t take it out in your sister at home o she has suffered enough you hear unwa jezebel

She doesn’t need your stupid wish and keep it to yourself , I have never live a wayward life , I have been with my guy ( my crown) for almost 7 years now and he is the only man in my life and by God grace we will grow old together. So I don’t care about what you think because it doesn’t affect me at all

Ehibiggirl:
for her sake I wish her the very best that I know you can never provide. I pray God helps her out of your waywardness so that she can see clearly and make the right decisions for herself as you have failed to do and are stil failing so that she can achieve her dreams and goals. But if it were left for you you know nothing to teach her that sex and puppy love with meat sellers and carwashers
Ewu Hausa.

I’m not disgusting but I’m only responding to you because you are very judgemental and u have pride and ego , so u think because your sisters / brothers are under your feet so u can treat them anyhow and do u think me I will tolerate your rubbish talk? Hell no , go and preach it to your younger ones and not me because I’m thinking about how to resolve this my problem and you are here insulting me? I don’t even care about the insult and please don’t be tired , continue

Ehibiggirl:
having sex at 14, ganging up to beat your sister with an illiterate idiotic troll and plotting to destroy her life and executing it in a heartbeat is easy to do na.
You think you are doing your sister a favor by making amends and fixing this mess you have created, you don’t know it’s for your own good that of your child.
If you were remorseful you won’t have that disgusting tone you have in all your responses.

Why don’t u go and tell her then? What r u waiting for ?

Ehibiggirl:
having sex at 14, ganging up to beat your sister with an illiterate idiotic troll and plotting to destroy her life and executing it in a heartbeat is easy to do na.
You think you are doing your sister a favor by making amends and fixing this mess you have created, you don’t know it’s for your own good that of your child.
If you were remorseful you won’t have that disgusting tone you have in all your responses.

Yes I can see that you are barren and looking for a child to steal , I’m sorry my child is not for sale, u can go to a motherless home and adopt one while u are waiting for a widower that will pity and marry u

Ehibiggirl:
and you think it’s your headache? That dustbin you have for a head that is not useful?
I wonder how you would raise that you innocent child with this you level of dullness you would probably teach her how to start having sex from childhood from age 10 since you’re so daft and maybe you would also want to take pride in becoming a grand ma by 26 as sense is far from you
That child should be taken from you because you have no moral standards to raise her.

Yes me too I don’t need such judgmental people like you in my life and not even in my dream.

Daisy17:
Most people would not be in your shoes because they would not even think of doing the stuff you did to your sister. You are an ungrateful, entitled t-w-a-t and the sad part is you do not show any remorse. I do not think I have ever been as shocked by any story on Nairaland as I have been by yours. I had to pause and pray that such an evil being like you does not exist in my family.

Hahahahha do you know what ? My daughter will be greater than me , everywhere that I have failed she will succeed in her life , she is a future doctor so don’t mess with my child and everything that u have said about her will go back to your children . It’s your children that will be useless in life and nobody will favour them

Ehibiggirl:
and you think it’s your headache? That dustbin you have for a head that is not useful?
I wonder how you would raise that you innocent child with this you level of dullness you would probably teach her how to start having sex from childhood from age 10 since you’re so daft and maybe you would also want to take pride in becoming a grand ma by 26 as sense is far from you
That child should be taken from you because you have no moral standards to raise her.

Why take pandol for someone else headache ?

Ehibiggirl:
most people posting here have told her exactly that and more but is she sensible enough to use any good advice? She even said she hasn’t seen any advice to pick from in this entire 33 pages of her evil story ,This one that sex and dirty puppy love has clouded her reasoning abi is it that her head that is full of coconut water and sawdust only good for plotting evil and bringing shame to her family?
This type of people should be in mental institutions she is a danger to her family as it is already.

So do u think confessing is something easy to do right ? I don’t know even have the strength to face her And narrate everything We did to her , don’t even know where to start from and u are talking like that because u are not in my shoes because if you were in my shoes then you would know how it feels. I did it out of anger and that time I had no remorse but now I feel remorse and regret it but don’t know how to go about it, I said I will do it this evening but anytime I want to open up my heart is beating faster and I’m thinking how the whole family will gang up and beat me then throw me out of the house. It’s not easy for me

midnighter:
With the kind of psychotic derangement she has posted here in the name of "reply", she should never ever in her life think of revealing her location to anybody here.

She is not smart enough to differentiate dishonest persons from genuine ones, which is even why she is in her current mess.

Anyway, meeting with her will be an utter waste of time; she will only succeed in dragging you into her agbero lifestyle and maybe get you beaten up join.

I predicted that by the time the thread reached 32 pages she would still be here repeating the same insanity from 10 pages ago...now look at it

I will confess this evening, I will confess tomorrow morning, I will confess yesterday night, until the day of Judgement hahaha

How?

ffo:
but you know you have FAILED God.

Ok thanks , I live in port harcourt

kingphilip:
you can start by stating your location and all those in that axis who wants to join you to go and plead can meet your up so they can plead on your behalf

Its you that’s wicked see for the fact that you have been insulting me since I started my thread , it show that you are heartless evil soul and U have no peace and go and take your frustration somewhere else , u r taking as if u have a man in ur life and who will want to marry a heartless thing like u? Well all I know is my guy loves me a lot and we will get married . U old cargo keep waiting for a widower to marry you and that will be your sisters portion too not mine. I have a big God he can never failed me

Ehibiggirl:
your heart is wicked for saying this there is no peace for the wicked. That your stupid boyfriend will not marry you In fact you will wait till you are 60 before you see a shoeshiner widower that will pity you and marry you then you will know that the seed you sow can germinate and you must reap.
Imagine saying she can still marry even at 50
I felt like cursing you when I saw that but you have cursed your self already.

I have never competed with her , all I know is I will be greater than her and I won’t look down on people who don’t have anything , when I get rich I will p people who don’t have and I won’t remind them of their past.

Gloriagee:
Your goal should not be to be greater than your sister. Don't be in competition with her. It never ends well. Everyone has their own destiny.

Yes u are right butconfessing to her will make everyone hating me , and they will all forget all the bad things she has done to me and I know for sure my parents will throw me out of the house which it is not fair on me and my child. Anyway I will try this evening but am scared , don’t even know how to start

Vanzcharles:
Repentance is not complete without restitution. When you commit evil against your fellow go and apologize to him/ her because you have sinned before God and Man. Who am I to judge, just amend your ways before it is too late and cause a lifetime damage to anyone please.

Yes I want to confess to him but am scared of the outcome .

ffo:
this your thread is 32 pages and you claim you have not seen any good advise, lots of people have been telling you to make amends, confess to your sister fiancee. You will need to go to another planet to seek for advise. or maybe you want somebody to tell you to kill her, then it will be good enough for you.

Yes I do believe in God because am nothing without God and I asked God for forgiveness with all my heart and God forgave me .

ffo:
have you seek for the mercy? have you make amends? have you apologize? Read your bible very well madam, you just keep mentioning God as if you believe in God.

Galatians 6:7
Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

Proverbs 11:21
Though they join forces, the wicked will not go unpunished; But the posterity of the righteous will be delivered.

Isaiah 3:11
Woe to the wicked! Disaster is upon them! They will be paid back for what their hands have done.

2 Chronicles 7:14
If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.

Nothing because I haven’t seen any good advice so far apart from the insults . I don’t need people to justify me because it won’t make me rich , all
I need right now is to reunite my sister back with her fiancé

prettyangel10:
So what have you done with all the advises that had been typed here since you created this thread? You r still looking for someone to justify your action right? Continue

Well it is not the end of the world because everything is possible with God she can still get married even at 50 and that’s not a problem. I wasn’t jealous of her because I’m only 20 soon to be 21 I can still achieved my goals and be greater than her.

Vanzcharles:
I shouldn't have replied you but seeing this your comment makes me wonder the kind of person you are. You are happy that she is infertile which only you know what you are saying here. Your word speaks jealousy. You are jealous that you didnt achieve anything while she has achieved more.
Now, you have succeeded in making her marriage to be destroyed that is a life term event. You have succeeded in making her lose a job that is another loss. You have succeeded in making her suicidal. Sending her to hospital every now and then. I thank God you've gotten your so much wanted revenge on her. Your excuse was that she told you words that broke your self confidence never motivated you.
Now, in addition yo what you have done you have seen her emotionally broken just like what you passed through that even make her to loose her job. You Nd your guy in ally beat her up. Your guy that she seniors. You held her hand down while a male stranger comes in to slap your sister for you. You don't give a Bleep because you hate her. You are rude to everyone that points out your problem. Now you've repaid Her in full coin.
Do you know that you can still achieve marriage because you are still young, get a job and move on. But your sister is getting old evening newspaper like some will call her a lady not married yet in her 30s.

We didn’t beat her but it was self defence

CHoccolaTE:
I see that op has dropped another series of bombs.

1. Her sister is 32 years old, in Nigeria women like that are mocked for not being married at her age but madam op went ahead to end her long term engagement

2. Her sister is probably having infertility issues according to op and these things worsen with age only God knows when the poor lady will be able to get married and start trying for kids.

3. Her and her jobless at 29 boyfriend beat up the same sister that has been financially supporting them

Nawa o
I fear who no fear this op.

Please I’m not mad at all , I know what I did to her was bad and I created this thread for people to lead me in the right way to apologise and get them back together but all the people here are insulting so u are expecting me to be quiet ? No karma won’t visit us because God is full of mercy and he won’t allow anything bad to happen to us

prettyangel10:
This ifyjos girl, you are madly mad, you hear. I believe you created this thread for people to help justify your attitude. Can you just imagine her responses? And people are advising her again and again, she keeps having this stone mind.

Karma will visit you and that your nuisance boyfriend.