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Kapilta:
who cares about your primitive backward thinking elders?

This long epistle, to what end

You see...this same thing you said here is what put Nigeria into the mess it is currently in at the moment. Young people of these days don't study their history....that's why they make same mistakes of the past over and over again.

If you don't know where you're coming from....you'd not know where you're headed to

Kapilta:
which musical carreer are you refering to deluded fellow? Mr P has performed in countries Paul can only dream of ever since p square separated.

Try and update yourself, you seems outdated.

Bros..is it by performing in countries? If na by that one...it means that speed Darlington has performed in countries many of our Nigerian legendary musicians can't think of. Look at the projections of their career...and life as a whole.

Deep down within you...you know who is doing better amongst the two.

Kapilta:
calabar is in cross rivers and the people there doesn't have anything to do with the ibos of the yeast last i checked. All this una attache by force.

Anyway, it's a confirmed and known fact that your girls down there won't settle for their primitive men hence search for civilized yoruba men to marry them. Even the ss men now don't settle for their primitive women anymore too, they are all over our lands searching for civilized omoluabi to marry.

The last person our girls will ever think of dating not to talk of marry is those very primitive cannibal from the land of the sun set called yeast. Even in their dead body they can never marry some okoro savage who still practise osu in 2019 and will still give people sacred water(used in washing deadbody) to drink.

That's why omoluabi always avoid all the primitive okoro savages.

There is a reason why water doesn't mix with red oil. Not because water is transparent and red oil is red....no
Water mixes perfectly with red wine even though their physical colours are different.

The reason why water doesn't mix with red oil is because of their grossly different chemical composition. The chemical composition also determines the physical appearance.

If you judge only by the physical composition (endowment, sexyness, riches, sexual prowess, beauty, tribe location) There may be a possibility of a massive failure but when you dig deeper into more congruent yardsticks such as family recurring history, bloodline traits and action tendencies e.t.c there the truth lies

Kennyswagzz:
just like the way peter okoye, emeka anyaoku, and former mr nigeria married from the west.. ode

I don't know about the marriage of the others you quoted...but that of Peter has brought a great misfortune upon his family and his musical career. He didn't heed to the advise of his parents nor elders because they saw something he couldn't see. COMPATIBILITY of bloodline.

Those other guys you mentioned may probably be enjoying the fruits that their marriage brought forth because they were COMPATIBLE.... incompatibility of bloodline always brings about family issues out of no where. It's not about tribe...an Igbo family may not be compatible with another from the same village even.

Kapilta:
calabar is in cross rivers and the people there doesn't have anything to do with the ibos of the yeast last i checked. All this una attache by force.

Anyway, it's a confirmed and known fact that your girls down there won't settle for their primitive men hence search for civilized yoruba men to marry them. Even the ss men now don't settle for their primitive women anymore too, they are all over our lands searching for civilized omoluabi to marry.

The last person our girls will ever think of dating not to talk of marry is those very primitive cannibal from the land of the sun set called yeast. Even in their dead body they can never marry some okoro savage who still practise osu in 2019 and will still give people sacred water(used in washing deadbody) to drink.

That's why omoluabi always avoid all the primitive okoro savages.

I think I'm either talking to a child who knows nothing about life. Do you think marriage is something you just jump into...in other to prove a point or to spite someone else?

It's much deeper than that... marriage is a blood convenant, do you know what a blood convenant is? Do you have an idea how strong the power of blood is?

Now let me explain with the human body; when a man with an O+ blood type is given a mismatching blood type during blood transfusion, his whole body revolts against it, a war is made against the new "imposter" blood type in the body...this war goes on until the patient eventually dies. This is the same problem Nigeria is going through...putting misfits together.

Now, having a blood convenant with a girl whom is a misfit in character/ ancestral recurring tendencies/ things embedded in her blood which are waay beyond your control is tantamount to the failure of not only the man who is marrying, his extended family and if not checked in time, his clan/ Generation.

It's not about all these nonsense petty "awa girls, awa men blah...blah" no!. These are things that can make or entirely destroy a man....these are things that should be carefully thought about before veering into.

Now the Adelekes marry mostly from Igbos, Edo, and some SS/SE states....not because they want to spite Yoruba girls, No. It's because they have found out that they are highly compatible with those they are getting married to (in character traits, recurring ancestral traits, and every other thing that needs be considered) that's why they are successful.

You may not be as lucky as they are if you eventually get married to a SE/SS. Not because God hates you nor because the girl isn't good in the bed e.t.c the reason is that "COMPATIBILITY" with your bloodline traits.

I'd talk more about this later....this is the reason why in the old years, elders in Igbo land do a background check on suitors before sending their wards out in marriage.

Kapilta:
Everyone wants Yoruba as their inlaws, they all want to associate with people that first came in contact with civilization in Nigeria. Their girls will not have peace of mind if their is no Yoruba man in it.

No wonder this ph girls been begging me to come marry them and take them to yorubaland all these while. Well sorry, i'm marrying our ever blessed glowing beautiful best thing God ever created women. I can't live a seconds without Yoruba women.

God bless your home jare omoluabi.

Bros, why not rephrase it this other way, why does every successful Yoruba boy want to marry away from Yoruba land. Destination so far has been SE/SS (both are still the same tho...if you take out the divide and rule shii Gowon did) It is always said that behind a successful man is a virteous woman. There must be a reason why the entire lineage of Adelekes have always opted to either marry from the SE/SS from 3-4 generations beyond. (I have proofs if you need so). Could it be that this is the hidden secret to their age long success?

NB. I'm just replying the poster in his own words. Sometimes, you should reply a foolish man's words using the exact folly and see how he reacts.

Tsunami10:
It's Even worse at least abacha smart

Are you sure he isn't a better thief than Abacha? Dude covers his trails very well. In fact Abacha wouldn't have been able to steal so much without Buhari's help.

Analyse critically, all the wealth stolen by Abacha was gotten from oil. For him to divert/steal oil money he would need the petroleum minister to help him arrange things. Who was the petroleum minister in abacha's regime? Buhari. Why do you think Buhari hurriedly ran to grab that post when he was made president in his first and second term?

Think wisely

rexwalters:
No vex, at least you Hypocrites mocking bubu on cyber space, no say una no go school reach em children, jealousy will kill you people.

Shut up there! Can you just take a nasty look at the rubbish you typed up there? "Yen yen yen yen yen" low self esteem would not kill you there.

Someone is aggressively guzzling and stealing your money, money that should have been used to improve our dying medical and educational infrastructure, repair our roads, make life better for you and me, that same money is used to enrich his family, send them to the best schools in the world, have the best medical health care in the best hospitas the world can offer, they lavish it on luxury lifestyle and show it to your face .

And you... yes YOU being an ignoramus hails your oppressor saying

rexwalters:
No vex, at least you Hypocrites mocking bubu on cyber space, no say una no go school reach em children, jealousy will kill you people.

You should be ASHAMED of yourself. Tueeh!!

But if it was anything concerning an Igbo person being assaulted by the police they would report it this way;

IPOB camera man assaults policemen, seize their guns, burn their trucks and left them half dead.

Always reporting falsehood and twisting the truth. They shouldn't be lamenting it's just the fringes of the hem of their cloth that got burnt by the evil flames they've been fanning for long now. If they're lamenting this much over this negligible issue what then happens when the fire begins to burn their clothes, talkless of when it gets to their body.

Never support evil, it always has a way if coming back to you.

fk001:
What a foolish assertion the police are not that stewpid and inhumane to set their own ablaze just because they want to set the pot-bellied lawyer up.


IPOB should grow some balls and face what they did.

Did you even read the write-up or you read it, but you did not fully comprehend?
NO POLICEMAN WAS KILLED. The policemen killed civilians and put them at the back of their truck to be whisked away....in other to conceal evidence and then...turned the whole story around to look like it was policemen that were killed.

If truly they were policemen, what were their names? Didn't they have pictures? No families to back their claims? Why didn't the media report about this event?

Think my brother think....

I thought twas ambode that built that stadium and comissioned it before he was forced out of office. Now sanwoolu is here renaming and recommissioning a stadium that was built by the person he's been insulting as "ineffective" for months now. Whereas he doesn't have any tangible project of his own.....look at the irony

kestolove95:
Look at dix useless pastor, idiot igbo pastor insulting and cursing innocent girl, if she open toto for u now u go run Bleep

Is there a meaning for emir in Igbo?
Emiaso, Emir, Oke aren't Igbo names

Oke is the only one that has a very awkward meaning in Igbo....it means Rat. Would you name your son rat?

Please stop all these tribalism it won't help you

Nairaland never used to be this bad. I used to come here to laugh but it's like a whole army of bigots invaded nairaland from 2013-2015

Patrioticman007:
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I keep wondering the level of ignorance Igbo's display on social media. During the colonial era military rank and file were appointed based on merit .we all believed competent people from all the regions of Nigeria were recruited. We all know the inglorious bastards that executed the first coup de'tat that planted the seeds of ethnic bigotry in Nigeria in 1966 and the resultant effects of it, that ended in many needless deaths, if not for envy & greed.

We all know the people that own miracle examination centers in Nigeria.
Quota system essence is to end marginization of minorities by majorities. Today we have 36 States as against 3 regions, which the 3 major tribes dominated. Let's think as humans before any tribe or religion .

Yes, we know the people that executed the first coup d'etat and we all also know the gross misconduct on the part of the leaders back then that led to the coup d'etat. Please if I may ask, who are the people that own miracle examination centres in Nigeria?

jahsharon:
And it is the fastest developing nation in the world. Shouldn't we copy them? Our President too is a Soldier and definitely not a democrat. So he has something in common with the Chinese leader.

China hangs it's corrupt politicians, while Nigeria makes theirs celebrities.
China practices communism while Nigeria practices the so called "Democracy"

Two separate ways of governance, if you want to copy their way of governance copy all, don't copy only the bad part that suits your interest.

Kingv:
On which road?

In as much as this is a welcome development, sir, the deplorable state of the roads in Anambra state requires state of emergency.

In Anambra state, you choose which pothole is safer because it is impossible to avoid them

First thing first, The roads in Anambra state are death traps and we have never had it this bad

Look at the person saying "we have never had it this bad, he stays in Abuja and is talking like he knows the road to Anambra" He talks about using KJV Bible but is a liar and a tribalist all in one....so much for being a Christian. Practice what you preach. You are the kind of people that are described as HYPOCRITES by Jesus himself in the Bible.

I'm wondering how people read that whole write-up and commented up to 3 pages and didn't spot the fact that the bill is limited only to the south.

Which means Male and female paedophiles in the north can and would still continue raping young infant boys.

Unbelievable!!!

GistWorld:
Na’allah said, “The criminal code that sought to be amended is only applicable to the southern states. “The intent of this Bill is to make it on general application in Nigeria, and that is why we must commend Senator Tinubu for this.

https://punchng.com/senate-bill-recognising-males-as-rape-victims-passes-second-reading/amp/

Zoharariel:
Reverse Psychology. Indirectly calling on all the bald-headed money-bags to join the queue.

God fearing man? Is there any Nigerian entertainment Olosho who desires a Satan fearing man?

Last Last, you will still end up with an Occultic man noooni. Abi no be for this Nigeria wey we dey so?

Looool....this cracked me up

pocohantas:
Trash. I wish you typed this to one of your own. Supporting themselves in bad behavious. Fet da fck out of here with your epistles. Admit you goofed and bounce!

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There she goes again....avoiding and dodging the main topic by digressing to baseless things. Always using uncouth words. from all observations you actually have the characteristics that young man talked about.

Gotta go now, try to live a better life tho....that sort of life only ends in unhappiness, bitterness and regrets. It's never too late to make amends, shalom

TheMan3:
you started the insults and I don't insult you. It's what has been stated in the topic. The question now is; are you?

Bros...please help me ask oh, a very simple question with a very simple answer (yes/no). I really don't understand the need for all her rants

pocohantas:
But you said it isn't an insult?
Why do you think suggesting you say it to your mother is uncouth? Why do you think I have to be angry to bring her in? Was he angry to being me in?

You should just ignore na, same way yoi expected me to. Abi is she a prostitute? What brought your mother inside? Did you ask him what brought me into the talk, before you decided to play voltron?

Can you now see how silly your analogy sounds. Smh

Did I say it was an insult? I only asked a question which is, "Lol....what brought my mother into this talk, or did I call your mother?" I expected that you give a simple Boolean answer to the question which is (yes/no).

Well if you want to toe that school of thought I'd tell you why.
If probably as you said "My mom fits into the said criteria, " she would have actually been visibly upset by what you have typed but ironically she is one of the people that replied to your rant with a smiley. We actually are together ATM (she's also a nairalander even though she's a grandma ) and she's been having a good laugh from this particular thread.

But in the first place...the Genesis of my mom, your mom or anyone's mom in this convo is quite baseless and flimsy if I must say. You just popped it out of vacuum space while ignoring the main topic of discussion.

I'm sorry to say this but you sounded like a street urchin ( for it's only those kind of people that say things like "dem no born your mama well", or "you for ask you mama" or "I beta pass your papa" e.t.c) and for your info...those actually are uncouth words to say to anybody in a good civilized environment. It's only accepted in slums, motor park garages and amongst people of dregadatory background.

Try to manage your utterances in an emotionally unstable environment okay. Build up on your emotional intelligence.

pocohantas:
"So in this case, it is safe to say that you are a prostitute with a different orientation and background."

Why don't you repeat it to your mama na. As you get selective blindness. Person go just dey type nonsense defense to sound smart. Toor!

Lool...you're even proving them right by your uncouth utterances what brought my mother into this topic? Or did I say anything about your mother?

You already seem angry from the way you type . If you knew you were not what they said you were, then it's very wise to ignore. But for the fact that you are provoked by what they said, and want to prove them wrong at all costs prove that you probably fall into one of the categories of people they talked about.

Very Funny sets of people...they always fall right into the same trap over and over again.

Hehehehehe

Penisman:
Lol...... Don't take it personally. My motive was to provoke laughter which I have successfully achieved.

I don't throw insult at people anyhow....

I hardly ever draw the first blood......

But seriously I see nothing wrong there, if she doesn't fit into the descriptive criteria which you, kemi and the other guy doled out then she simply isn't a prostitute. It's only if she fits into one of the criteria and she inwardly knows but doesn't want to admit, that's when she'd feel insulted and say "You're calling me a prostitute". Simple

Just like saying....Everyone that has forcefully taken another's property/belongings is a thief. And a politician accuses you of calling him a thief. You didn't but the politician did call himself a thief by indirectly admitting that he's forcefully taken people's belongings

Reverse psychology

pocohantas:
Lol. No be NL guys again. Incapable of holding their end of an argument without insults. That is what unintelligent and irrational people do. Very easy way out if you ask me.

But I didn't see any insults in the words of the two people you quoted. One was highlighting different classes of prostitutes in Nigeria and the other simply put out the description of kemi. It's just like me going out to the street and shouting "Hey you Mad man come here!" If anyone, turns back, comes towards me and then starts insulting me I'd rebuff him/her and say. There are over 500 people walking on the street, I shouted "Mad man" is your name mad man? It's only if you truly are a mad man that you'd get offended.

So...you see the point they are driving at?

TheSkyIsBlue:
My Sister Is About To Commit A Serious Taboo All In The Name Of Marriage

Hello Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just want to pour it out the way it is in my heart.

I am seriously confused and worried about what is happening in my family and I will appreciate your candid advice.

There is this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he actually asked her hand in marriage and decided to come see my parents for introduction, about some months ago. My family decided to take their time to find out more about the guys family background as is required in Igbo tradition.

After several questions asked, my family came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, everybody in my family told my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the relationship because it is a big taboo to get married to an Osu in my place . If you do, no family member or friend will attend your wedding or even have anything to do with you again.

But my sister refused to listen to anybody claiming she really loves the guy, that they have been together for a very long time and that she is not getting younger anymore (mind you, she is in her early thirties). Everybody (my parents and extended family members) tried to talk her out of it but she still didn't listen.

After much pressure and her continues insistence, my dad decided to give them his blessings, although against his wish (my dad is actually not really deep into tradition). Now the guy has done all the traditional rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is coming up soon.

But the problem now is, according to tradition and from what I heard, if she was allowed to go with the guy without my dad giving them his blessings, the stigma would have just been on her and she alone would have been considered Osu, since she insisted to continue with the marriage. But now that my dad has given them his blessings, it is considered that all of us (her siblings) will also have that link of Osu too. Except if she decide to put an end to the relationship and discontinue with the wedding, which I don't think my sister is ready to do.

I am really worried and depressed about it, cause I don't want anything that will affect me tomorrow when I want to get married just because of my sister's mistakes.

I will really like to get opinions and sincere advice especially from those that are familiar with tradition, cause I'm seriously bothered. Thanks!

We have been authorised to report any family, community or village in Igbo land that still practices the osu caste system which has been abolished throughout the entire igboland since 2017.
You surely would have yourself to blame when we eventually find out your community

helinues:
More than average of us are slaves to gadgets.

So Microsoft Windows phone stop supporting whatsapp on my phone ( their expiry should be Dec 31st)

Since Sunday, I have really added weight for not visiting whatsapp

Saw the same message thankfully, I had enough money to buy another Nokia phone. Nokia X6, and till date I don't regret doing so. Since when I started using phones till now it has always been Nokia

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I'm here wondering why most people in the first and second page are saying all men want is sex from their partners.

Really? A man can get sex anywhere for even as cheap as N500 in some places.

A humble woman who actually can use the brain that God gave her is the pride of every man. She doesn't nag, doest bitch around, she is the life support of her husband and the pride of her children. she knows how to manage a home and make life worth living.

Beauty, sexual prowess, physical endowment et al would fade away, but the wisdom & virteousness of a good woman never fades away it is passed on to her children and enables her husband to become a better man, she forms a happy family. A happy family is a blessing to it's community, a group of happy communities makes a happy state/ province. A group of happy states makes a blessed country that is desired by all.

sanusi44z:
Lola is bad egg? How do you know? Davido mom is Igbo?

Sense is far from you, may sense find you.

Sorry my guy, I meant to write his paternal grandmother is igbo, his mom is Edo, his uncles married Igbo. The Adeleke family have a thing for Igbo and Edo women.
Check here https://www.nairaland.com/4498874/adeleke-ancestral-lineage-always-been