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When Does A Woman Become Desperate?

sugar pp:
yep u r right sleep they catch u i didn't say all men i said alot

Alright sweetie, could this highlighted portion be changed to ''some guys''. . plsssssssss?

sugar pp:
why do guys do this? Jealousy? Insecurity? They don’t appreciate the ladies they have? Or they have another woman outside that is better? Wouldn’t it be better for them to encourage and show love to their ladies?
maybe nairalanders can clue me in?

sugar pp:
My ex in an episode of unwarranted barrage of insults decided to state my age and mention that in all those years I had achieved nothing. In a situation like that what a girl to do? Whip out her c.v., declaration of her investments and statement of her bank account? Anyhoo need I say I broke up with dude immediately.

This incident got me thinking and I noticed that a lot of Nigerian guys especially those that are insecure and afraid to lose a good girl use this tactic a lot. I have several examples of this, for example I know of a married couple where the husband would constantly talk down to his wife when they are in public (with friends) and in any argument he would always carry on like her opinion did not matter and she had no sense at all. But it is this same wife that practically runs their business and is always coming up with fresh ideas. So back to my question, why do guys do this? Jealousy? Insecurity? They don’t appreciate the ladies they have? Or they have another woman outside that is better? Wouldn’t it be better for them to encourage and show love to their ladies?
maybe nairalanders can clue me in?

Cristalz:
O'boy, na who wan go siddon inside wet stadium with serious cold and equally serious mosquitoes dey watch team wey dey equally unserious?

MrPrsdent:
na waa for you oooo

the world has moved on.this is 2009. In many countries,kids born to single parents are almost 50%,so i dont understand what you mean.

MrPrsdent:
my kids will be there innit? and don't forget there are widowers amongst us,so whats the difference?

MrPrsdent:
U can still have kids without getting married.there is nothing chaotic about it.

lol. . you wanna eat your cake and have it? what becomes your fate when you get old?

MrPrsdent:
I noticed a lot of women feel you have to be married and have kids to be "Responsible".Why?

I personally feel as long as you have a job,a vehicle and a home then you are responsible.Also help and protect your family and friends at all costs and act civil in society.Other than that you have no responsibilities to NO ONE.If you choose to have a wife and kids then YES you should take care of them.

But "Settling Down" is optional,not mandatory.Its just not for everyone for so many reasons.As long as your not intentionaly hurting anyone.Whether you've been in relationships with no positives or you simply choose not to be serious.Of course you have the right not to deal with this person if you choose so,right?

I work HARD and make good money to support myself and I enjoy my freedom and if I want to come home and play video games (for example)or watch a football game,why shouldn't I?Whos to say I should "Grow Up"?

Opinions?

You 're right brov, but wait, how on earth would one wished not to settle down according to yo?
Ooh! you wanna continue living a chaotic life? . . . . .

newdeal:
@Tboy;
If it is absolute rubbish to you, why do you still ask 'how'?

I think he was referring to my post.

24volts:
please some one should help here I dont know why I love my babe more than my wife.
i feel more happy with my babe than with my wife. I dont have issues with my wife.
i dont know if some one else is feeling the same

24volts had earlier found a man on top his wife and we all were trying to console him now comes another tale by moonlight.  
Ok, ok, now tell me, are we talking about another wife or the same one you had issues with last time?
Maybe the feeling is gone with her infidelity if it ever happened in the first place.

tboy1:
Im sorry but this is Absolute Rubbish - from start to finish

mchuxx:
Hi guys, am in this same very situation. I've been in r/p with this gurl 4 over 7years since early university days and plans to wed next year, we both are SS and we are going ahead with it.

We can always check the genotype of the feotus anddecide on what to do, THANKS FOR MEDICAL BREAKTHROUGH

hmm! run scan to determine if the foetus' genotype is SS, and then commits murder afterward, nawaoooooooo, that one na big mess.

Coco29:
maybe where you are from woman are scared, but where i am from if he is hot and available i will ask that king out with out any problems confidence is a B*tch king lol