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[color=#9900ff]Last Name ~ Carrie Underwood[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Am i the only one who didn't have a crush in primary school? With voltron and Spiderman. . .who had time?

Seriously though. . .i don't think she's as stuck as you are. . .still in mental primary school.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]A successful one is one that has mutual respect, appreciation for the differences, and understanding.[/color]

vivaladiva:
i used to lov dating the so called tough guys, dey always break in the end, which was always fun 4 me a bit like breaking a wild horse, u get this sense of achievment

[color=#9900ff]looooool I call them the sheep in wolf clothings. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Keep holding on ~ Avril Lavigne[/color]

[color=#9900ff]looooooooooool @ topic.
Gotta love the system [/color]

teeluv:
why not??

[color=#9900ff]stereotypical and indulgent [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Talk about dense[/color]

[color=#9900ff]So bloody sleepy is not even funny. . .worse this useless keyboard has started misbehaving [/color]

[color=#9900ff]^^ I stay away from black movies[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Oh Sookie ~ D.o.g.g. . .Snoop that is Man don kolo [/color]

topup:
Hmmmm interesting

(The tiger/leopard being yourself).

[color=#9900ff]Yes. . .stripes can't turn into spots


@GL well said
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topup:
Why do you think that is?

[color=#9900ff]The best i can come up with is. . .i have this thing that inspires protective instincts That, and the challenge of changing a tiger into a leopard [/color]

9jaganja:
Cause of the way theirs sucks. Instead of learning from you, they imitate you. Try to suffer what you suffered, not cause they have to but cause they think since it made you who you are, they have to suffer same to be like you. Like rich kid pretending to come from a broke family because he or she loves the struggle of the poor. That is fake.

[color=#9900ff]That's human nature. People want to be like others. People want acceptance. . .people struggle with self image and self esteem, not everyone is mentally, emotionally and physically able to deal with life and all it throws at us. So if they have to fake it to get it, they will.[/color]

topup:
Your first Nairaland posts were so optimistic and it seemed as if you cared about how your responses reached people, but what's happened iice??

[color=#9900ff]Nothing happened. LOL at how my responses reached people. . .not really i only sought to see it from the whole angles. After a while of dense reasonings, tunnel vision and what not, it's gets old. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Well isn't it cute. . .the child came to roost about his ability to 'give it'. Please keep 'give it'. . .you'll have a ball[/color]

[color=#9900ff]@Topic. . .isn't it nice a guy is complaining like this thread? Welcome to womenfolk. . .i'm sure you'll make a good partner for a male since your complaints are minimal

People like to complain period. Plus they don't like to take responsibility for their actions. Some of you males fuel this complaining ish and come back to complain that women complain. Cause and effect.[/color]

9jaganja:
But it's taking a different shape. In a manner you can't really blame them for being fake. If you are a little liberal, you will blame your own life skills for being better than theirs

[color=#9900ff]Why do you have to blame your own life skills for being better?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yea people think if you seem ok after a short time, it means you never loved. By short i don't mean 3 days coz that 3 min love is all the rage

Doesn't take me long either. I'm mental about most things anyway [/color]

mukina2:

[color=#9900ff]Hey darl
No be true? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]There's nothing new about them. People have always been deceitful since the dawn of ages. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]If you're just realizing people are fake, then welcome to the millenia.
Yes i am cynical. . .i was born so [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I'm am who i am. . .not mood swings. i just don't like people and don't really care to deal with all their wahala.  I like my space.  Yes i've been called rude for not telling someone to take a hike in the way like i'm talking to a baby.  Goo goo, gah gah. . .abeg carry go jor. . .there are many people for you to disturb jare. [/color]

Faher:
Any guy who has been in this situation will naturally learn his lesson and toughen up
But unlike what some ladies have said here; it's not a facade, neither does it mean that we just try to act tough.
What happens is that you become naturally tough over time because of your experiences.

Btw, a tough guy in this case is not a necessarily the tough-looking type.
It's simply a guy who has good control over his emotions and can be in control of his relationship.

I should also add; We feel emotions (pain, fear, etc) but control is necessary in most cases.

[color=#9900ff]Thank you jare. [/color]

thweraja10:
But its more common to the ladies world i wonder why, this guy was forming for me

[color=#9900ff]It's not uncommon in the male world as you think. My brothers get it all the time. [/color]

candylips:
but how is True blood in a different league. its the same old vampire vs human story. the only other element to true blood is that you have shape shifters ,werewolves etc.

[color=#9900ff]Children of the Night don't glitter in the sun   The characters?  Tara's venom, Jason's dumbness, Lafayette's entrepreneurship, the bond between maker and child, Bill's chivalry (ok Edward has that considering he's from the 1900s or so), Eric's awesomeness Sam's sadness.

You don't really know much about the characters in Twilight.  Just Bella, Edward and Jacob.  The Cullen clan except maybe for Alice has some character built but the rest are bland. . .TB is much more than just Sookie.  Twilight is Bella. VD is slightly better. . .the show that is not the books It's more than just Stefan, Damon and Elena. [/color]

vivaladiva:
i tend to attract guys who r seriously emotionally constipated and i think my personality doesnt help much
they mis interprete my independence and being opinionated as a high propensity to want to dominate a man if given the chance, the fact that i have dated mostly nigerian men doesnt help much

nigerian men on the other hand think they need a soft agreeable g/f or wife, but in reality they get bored of this kind of women real quick and off cos take the piss with this kind of woman

nigerian men need and want a  strong independent intelligent woman, at first they will act like they r hard as nails when in actaual fact they r inlove but r afraid to show it.  the only down side, is strong  women like me cant wait around all day waiting for u to and make your feelings known, so pls dont leave it too fcking late

[color=#9900ff]I'm kinda like you when it comes to the independence and being opinionated.  But i don't attract the emotionally constipated ones (I wouldn't mind ).  I get the emotional wrecks.  [/color]

[color=#9900ff]lol. . .sorry to burst your bubble, but she's the only one i really talk to from this place[/color]

Outstrip:
Considering the whole world has seen her have intimacy she really is in no position to say what bodily part should be exposed. As for the lady changing her child's diaper on the table I will personally walk up to her and point out the bathroom to her.

[color=#9900ff]No mind the yeye girl.[/color]

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Is 'Uniqueness' a replacement for d word ugly/wowo? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I tire ooo

@Topic
I associate uniqueness with character not looks. I've always been a character person. Yes sometimes they are cute but that's just a bonus and not really necessarily. Nothing like a cute face with a wasteland behind the eyes. [/color]

fubiluv:
You need to hear from your girl friend what exactly happened.
Make her understand that she is more important than your friend so that she can open up.
If she still refuses to open up,then something else is going n.Open your eyes very well.

[color=#9900ff]Concur[/color]

[color=#9900ff]True. [/color]