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[color=#9900ff]Miley Cyrus can't sing. Just watching the Stand up to Cancer performance gives me shivers. She ruined the song. I don't pay that much attention to the Jonas Brothers. Kanye cannot sing
Rihanna sings better with studio adjustments but live is terrible. Britney oh lawd.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Ola he means this thread[/color]

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-212369.0.html

[color=#9900ff]I was only referring to your no/yes comment.  One in a billion is too wide a margin even by Nigerian standards (and i mean in Nigeria), much less the world where there are many Nigerians scattered around. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]And you decided that all the girls in this international city save maybe one must mean her No is Yes?
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Cayon:
calm down darling.

Ok, time for me to get out of this section

Peace

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[color=#9900ff]esilove, just read olanajim's post. It makes sense.


Kayowalemi, it's not possible and let's leave it at that.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Una no dey pity us? Just dey cause brain aneurysms anyhow [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Depends on how good a friend he/she is. [/color]

kayowalemi:
But are u for hire  

[color=#9900ff]Not for a hundred lifetimes [/color]

JJYOU:
insanity they say is doing same thing and expecting different results.  they like the playing. they can't work out why it is not favouring them all the time.

[color=#9900ff] well said [/color]

ifyalways:
This Gurasa thing looks like Masa
Suya and Masa @West of mines

[color=#9900ff]Lawd have mercy. . .that's my joint. That and the Plateau hotel zone [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I loved it I fit chew bones now

I nor wan throw them away na I go just put them for box first

Yeah, i like the new zones. . .hopefully mama will have recovered from her groove to move with us [/color]

esilove:
will serve as the back up? post ur number

[color=#9900ff]I am not for sale.[/color]

JJYOU:
they are used to that my dear.

[color=#9900ff]Then there shouldn't be lamentations of this and that.  If one truly enjoys the game, winning and losing is part of the thrill.[/color]

kayowalemi:
@iice
i still wonder what u mean by that

heartbreak indeed

u don't want him to have other ladies eyeing him?

[color=#9900ff]Would you want someone who has been heartbroken and not yet healed to come a-knocking?
To eye is different from committing and commencing a relationship. [/color]

JJYOU:
we are talking naija peeps here. there are always plan A and B. both sexes fight to out do each other in these kind of things

[color=#9900ff]And often end up with nothing.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yeah i've seen a quite a few. They like the fro.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]So there is a back up
Heartbreak indeedy[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Hin no go kill me

Are we going gardening?

I agree, new year, new ones

But make we no totally throwaway the old ones na

Dem get redeeming qualities hehehehehe[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Buffering something. . .playing something. . .drinking something. . .reading something. . .watching something[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Something on scarification. . .

And the replay of Forrest and Rashand's fight. . .i hope forrest wins it back [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Vortex [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Beach Bum [/color]

[color=#9900ff]^*sighs*[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Hehehehe tell am make hin nor worry, we go go slowly on am

I sure she go try stock the garden again

I nefa go ooo, new items don come? We gas grab them fast fast before money finish

But no puppies please [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Finding a movie to watch [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Tell Dw, i go marry him.  Hin go be my 100th husband
Laydee looking smashing as always

Nor mind twinny. . .na to enjoy the goodies [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Summon me? I don turn to spirit?

Watch it again for what? More brain leakage?
Regardless of what accomplishment those actresses made in their lifetime, there was nothing inspiring about their acting except for maybe Annette Benning. She try small, but i KNOW she can do better than that.
Eva whatsherface was a total bore. Seriously as the other woman, i would think she could do more than just sashay up and down the screen. Meg ryan's character, gawd help her. I'll jump in the lake myself if i ever become that clueless.
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topup:
[color=#cc0066]There have been a lot of interesting replies especially from DUDUSPACE**, HOLLASLYD, BLUESPICE and OUTLAWS. Well, I agree with Hollaslyd's point about immaturity, and willingness. Yes, I agree with others that it is possible to decide to back out of love, however, there are several teenagers I know and speak with who are always talking about being madly in love with someone and that they are so involved that they are unable to make rational decision, so I believe though it is typical of youths to back out and love block, I actually believe it's more likely for older people, who have serious consequences to think of, work, life, family & other responsibilities. For example let's say the teenagers have just found out that their parents are going to prevent them from being together, or they found out that one has a disease that would affect their future together or one is to move away, I have heard a lot of teenagers attempt these hard relationships, but heard a lot less adults do the same thing. In the case of the teenagers finding it easier to back out, I would say the majority of cases would prove opposite. I think teenagers have a lesser ability to love block, after all they are still mostly naive about love, and it is through the experiences in life that we begin to become harder and more rational about everything.

I believe you can view when decisions have to be made as maturity, that a mature and rational person can easily withdraw from the sensations of love and make a rational and logical decisons, which benefit them, but jeopardises the relationship or the 'love' between the two people. But I also think you can view it as immaturity, in the sense that the person seems to be unable to attach to anyone significantly, (which contradicts the fact that we are able to make more rational decisions, the older we get), surely if you don't have enough feelings for someone enough to want to compromise any part of your life, you may not have been seriously involved, it seems like selfishness at times even, especially when a decision about where a relationship is going is based solely upon what's the easiest way for you and you only.

I have seen many couples break up because they were going to travel, and they didn't think long distance (LD) relationships work, so instead of trying, they broke it up, I have also seen other couples, who also had the opinion that they didn't work, but because of the love they had were unable to break off the relationship, and worked hard at it. The obvious difference between the two couples is their committment to one another, their ability to distance themselves from their emotions, or love block as I have called it.

I believe older couples have more to lose/risk so of course, they make more rational decisions, I believe older people (not saying they are old, but >20 years) have been conditioned from life's experiences to make rational decisions, to focus on themselves, they may have been taught these lessons the hard way, through heartbreak or failed relationships, but I think the older we get, the easier it is to love block, and then maybe when we reach the age of desperation (where most singles, just want somebody!) then our ability to love block greatly decreases again.

Opinions?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Hmmmm yes older couples have more experience with love blocking, but i wouldn't say younger people don't. I depends on the 'thinking' of the person. I am one of those who don't do long distance. But it's more complicated for me than just love. I am too mental about things. People are too in love with the notion of love. Madly in love for one day, one week, one month. If that was madly in love, i hope to never experience it.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]My loff
I missed you too!


Eyah twinny. . .pele [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Drink very cold water before sleeping [/color]

[color=#9900ff]@IGWE.  .  .

I guess you're shaded spectacles blinded you from the posts about Hausa girls and whores.  .  .
And its IICE - blindness and all taken into account


Seriously, you shouldn't attribute your characteristics to me.
So what if am ugly?  Did the world end? rofl.  Na Beans?
The things that bother people sef [/color]