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10 THINGS SEX CAN DO

1. It makes some people religious = by saying:- Oh my God, Yes Lord.

2. It gives some people their first musical lessons = mmmm, aaaaah, ooooo, asssshhh,annnnnnnh.

3. Makes some people natural coaches = fast, fasterrrr!!!, yeah keep doing it,ure good.

4. Makes some people announce their own obituary = U are killing me, I'm dead, I'm dead, I'm finished, u will kil me ooo.

5. Makes some ladies become terrorists = Destroy it!, Don't have any mercy, Just tear it,beat it up, Let me feel it.

6. Others become respectful = Daddy I love you,I promise, okay, yes I will do anything for you.

7. Makes some people become loyal = Love U endlessly,... U own my life,... am Urs forever,... U are my world.

8. Turns some ladies to beggars = yeah Please don't stop,... continue please ,... give it to me... Please do it again.9. Some speak in tongues: mamamama hahalahalahalaaaa aaajoooooo haaahaaa.

10. Some start speaking their dialects: aiwa shumba endererai! Maita basa shumba!...shumba kani punnany...do mi pa! Fa di mi ya! Beeni! (=|

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depending on size of d warehouse and what are there form of production

Mr fayemi na rice we want, we no won hear about infrastructures or run

Am sure Daily Independent Staff will follow abuse Osun State government now let see who will distribute food for them

All in the name of CV

That good

In Lagos Nigeria nothing is impossible.

Good! But still yet that foolish man go still dey Waka for street

U just wanted us to see this? Pls Toyin for what reason and what will this add to my style of living, o ga o all this Naija celeb gan self

Everything in egg is useful I just love eating it but if I come add am am with beans all my friends go suffer for my hand with the help of Everything in egg is useful I just love eating it but if I come add am am with beans all my friends go suffer for my hand with the help of

Why EFCC no do that for saraki and others useless people

Uhummmmm na who mess? Who cares

Gbam what of if the same man come win at long run uko

JANUARY

Ambitious and serious
Loves to teach and be taught
Always looking at people's flaws and weaknesses
Likes to criticise
Hard-working and productive
Smart, neat and organised
Sensitive and has deep thoughts
Knows how to make others happy
Quiet unless excited or tensed
Rather reserved
Highly attentive
Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds
Romantic but has difficulties expressing love
Loves children
Homely person
Loyal
Needs to improve Social abilities
Easily jealous
Very Stubborn


> FEBRUARY
> Abstract thoughts
> Loves reality and abstract
> Intelligent and clever
> Changing personality
> Temperamental
> Quiet, shy and humble
> Honest and loyal
> Determined to reach goals
> Loves freedom
> Rebellious when restricted
> Loves aggressiveness
> Too sensitive and easily hurt
> Showing anger easily
> Dislike unnecessary things
> Loves making friends but rarely shows it
> Daring and stubborn
> Ambitious
> Realizing dreams and hopes
> Sharp
> Loves entertainment and leisure
> Romantic on the inside not outside
> Superstitious and ludicrous
> Spendthrift
> Learns to show emotions



> MARCH
> Attractive personality
> Affectionate
> Shy and reserved
> Secretive
> Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic
> Loves peace and serenity
> Sensitive to others
> Loves to serve others
> Easily angered
> Trustworthy
> Appreciative and returns kindness
> Observant and assesses others
> Revengeful
> Loves to dream and fantasize
> Loves traveling
> Loves attention
> Hasty decisions in choosing partners
> Loves home decors
> Musically Talented
> Loves special things
> Moody



> APRIL
> Active and dynamic
> Decisive and haste but tends to regret
> Attractive and affectionate to oneself
> Strong mentality
> Loves attention
> Diplomatic
> Consoling
> Friendly and solves people's problems
> Brave and fearless
> Adventurous
> Loving and caring
> Suave and generous
> Emotional
> Aggressive
> Hasty
> Good memory
> Moving
> Motivate oneself and the others
> Sickness usually of the head



> MAY
> Stubborn and hard-hearted
> Strong-willed and highly motivated
> Sharp thoughts
> Easily angered
> Attracts others and loves attention
> Deep feelings
> Beautiful physically and mentally
> Firm Standpoint
> Needs no motivation
> Easily consoled
> Systematic (left brain)
> Loves to dream
> Strong clairvoyance
> Understanding
> Sickness usually in the ear and neck
> Good imagination
> Good physical
> Weak breathing
> Loves literature and the arts
> Loves traveling
> Dislike being at home
> Restless
> Not having many children
> Hardworking
> High spirited
> Spendthrift



> JUNE
> Thinks far with vision
> Easily influenced by kindness
> Polite and soft-spoken
> Having lots of ideas
> Sensitive
> Active mind
> Hesitating
> Tends to delay
> Choosy and always wants the best
> Temperamental
> Funny and humorous
> Loves to joke
> Good debating skills
> Talkative
> Daydreamer
> Friendly
> Knows how to make friends
> Abiding
> Able to show character
> Easily hurt
> Prone to getting colds
> Loves to dress up
> Easily bored
> Fussy
> Seldom shows emotions
> Takes time to recover when hurt
> Brand conscious
> Executive
> Stubborn



> JULY
> Fun to be with
> Secretive
> Difficult to fathom and to be understood
> Quiet unless excited or tensed
> Takes pride in oneself Has reputation
> Easily consoled
> Honest
> Concerned about people's feelings
> Tactful
> Friendly
> Approachable
> Emotional
> Temperamental and unpredictable
> Moody and easily hurt
> Witty and sparkly
> Not revengeful
> Forgiving but never forgets
> Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things
> Guides others physically and mentally
> Sensitive and forms impressions carefully
> Caring and loving
> Treats others equally
> Strong sense of sympathy
> Wary and sharp
> Judges people through observations
> Hardworking
> No difficulties in studying
> Loves to be alone
> Always broods about the past and the old friends
> Likes to be quiet
> Homely person
> Waits for friends
> Never looks for friends
> Not aggressive unless provoked
> Prone to having stomach and dieting problems
> Loves to be loved
> Easily hurt but takes long to recover



> AUGUST
> Loves to joke
> Attractive
> Suave and caring
> Brave and fearless
> Firm and has leadership qualities
> Knows how to console others
> Too generous and egotistic
> Takes high pride of oneself
> Thirsty for praises
> Extraordinary spirit
> Easily angered
> Angry when provoked
> Easily jealous
> Observant
> Careful and cautious
> Thinks quickly
> Independent thoughts
> Loves to lead and to be led
> Loves to dream
> Talented in the arts, music and defense
> Sensitive but not petty
> Poor resistance against illnesses
> Learns to relax
> Hasty and rusty
> Romantic
> Loving and caring
> Loves to make friends



> SEPTEMBER
> Suave and compromising
> Careful, cautious and organized
> Likes to point out people's mistakes
> Likes to criticize
> Quiet but able to talk well
> Calm and cool
> Kind and sympathetic
> Concerned and detailed
> Trustworthy, loyal and honest
> Does work well
> Very confident
> Sensitive
> Thinking
> generous
> Good memory
> Clever and knowledgeable
> Loves to look for information
> Must control oneself when criticizing
> Able to motivate oneself
> Understanding
> Fun to be around
> Secretive
> Loves sports, leisure and traveling
> Hardly shows emotions
> Tends to bottle up feelings
> Choosy especially in relationships
> Loves wide things
> Systematic


> OCTOBER
> Loves to chat
> Loves those who loves him
> Loves to takes things at the centre
> Attractive and suave
> Inner and physical beauty
> Does not lie or pretend
> Sympathetic
> Treats friends importantly
> Always making friends
> Easily hurt but recovers easily
> Daydreamer
> Opinionated
> Does not care of what others think
> Emotional
> Decisive
> Strong clairvoyance
> Loves to travel, the arts and literature
> Soft-spoken, loving and caring
> Romantic !!!
> Touchy and easily jealous
> Concerned
> Loves outdoors
> Just and fair
> Spendthrift and easily influenced
> Easily lose confidence
> Loves children


> NOVEMBER
> Has a lot of ideas
> Difficult to fathom
> Thinks forward
> Unique and brilliant
> Extraordinary ideas
> Sharp thinking
> Fine and strong clairvoyance
> Can become good doctors
> Dynamic in personality
> Secretive
> Inquisitive
> Knows how to dig secrets
> Always thinking
> Less talkative but amiable
> Brave and generous
> Patient
> Stubborn and hard-hearted
> If there is a will, there is a way
> Determined
> Never give up
> Hardly becomes angry unless provoked
> Loves to be alone
> Thinks differently from others
> Sharp-minded
> Motivates oneself
> Does not appreciates praises
> High-spirited
> Well-built and tough
> Deep love and emotions
> Romantic
> Uncertain in relationships
> Homely
> Hardworking
> High abilities
> Trustworthy
> Honest and keeps secrets
> Not able to control emotions
> Unpredictable


> DECEMBER
> Loyal and generous
> Patriotic
> Active in games and interactions
> Impatient and hasty
> Ambitious
> Influential in organizations
> Fun to be with
> Loves to socialize
> Loves praises
> Loves attention
> Loves to be loved
> Honest and trustworthy
> Not pretending
> Short tempered
> Changing personality
> Not egoistic
> Take high pride in oneself
> Hates restrictions
> Loves to joke
> Good sense of humor
> Logical


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All you igbos hating yorubas and you yorubas hating igbos, I hope you've heard of the Fajuyi Ironsi story(A yoruba man who gave his life to protect his ibo guest). Tribalism ain't the answer my people. live, laugh, love.

#STATE_OF_THE_NATION
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Nigeria Followership....
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What can take us out of this generational and monumental mess, debt and seemingly unending servitude is that the general populace and those within the voting age need to be adequately informed on issues and the right mentality put up at every point in time as situation arises.
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Saddening and disheartening, Nigeria is parading and celebrating unrepentant rogues, corporate thieves, animals in human clothing as leaders.
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We need to be liberated mentally.
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Enough of this slavery mentality.
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Let's save our nation ourselves.
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I submit....
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ILERIOLUWA ayodele

slash it once and for all them dey enjoy too much

How to prevent your vagina from smelling like fish

Many women and girls feel paranoid about how they smell "down there" — you are not alone!


The truth is, every female has her own signature scent, and if you have a sexual partner, your partner probably doesn't mind it a bit.


At the same time, if you're feeling a little insecure, then it won't hurt to make sure that you're covering all of the bases when you wash your vagina. You deserve to feel clean and confident.

Read the following tips:

Method 1 of 2: Daily Washing Routine

1. Lather up a wash cloth with some mild natural soap and water. Avoid using soaps with heavy perfumes, which may irritate the sensitive skin around your vagina.


2. Clean the folds around your clitoris. Use your fingers to pull your labia away from your clitoris. Gently scrub the skin on both sides of your clitoris with the washcloth.


3. Wash your vulva and your vaginal opening. Also, scrub around your bikini line.


4. Scrub your perineum. The perineum is the area between your vagina and your anus.


5. Wash your anal area last. Keep your wash cloth from touching your vaginal area after you've washed your anus. Doing this will ensure that you don't drag rectal germs toward your vaginal area. These germs can cause you to get urinary tract infections.


6. Wash your vagina at least once per day. If you have sex, you may want to wash it a second time to feel fresh and clean, although washing after sex will not prevent pregnancy on its own.


Method 2 of 2: Keeping Yourself Smelling Fresh

1. Trim, wax or shave your pubic hair. Thick pubic hair can cause you to sweat down below, which may make you have some issues with odour.


2. Stay clean during your period. Change your pad or your tampons frequently, according to the directions on the package. If you're worried about how you smell when you're having your period, you can wash your vagina 2 or 3 times a day.


3. Wear cotton underwear. Breath able fabric helps to prevent vaginal odour.


4. Try a reusable pantyliner.[3] The idea of reusing and washing your pantyliners may seem strange at first, but the cotton will help your vagina to breathe while absorbing any excess discharge. If you like the way they make you feel, you can graduate to reusable cotton menstrual pads or menstrual cups.


5. Bathe as part of your pre-intimacy. So are you worried that your partner won't like your scent? Take a shower or a steamy bath before you have sex. Let your partner wash your vagina for you. Who knows? It might lead to all kinds of fun.


Tips

If you're concerned about a persistent, strong odour in your vaginal area, visit your gynaecologist. Your gynaecologist can test you for an infection and can prescribe an appropriate medication or topical cream if you need one. You can also talk to your gynaecologist if you're worried about odour and cleanliness.

To prevent odour, make sure that you wipe the area around your clitoris with toilet tissue every time you urinate. Urine and vaginal secretions can accumulate in this area and can give you that not-so-fresh feeling.
Heavy perfume is a no-go!

Vaginas aren't meant to smell like baby powder or fields of flowers. If you're really worried about how you smell, it's okay to talk to your partner about it. You'll probably find out that everything is fine. And if your clean scent is a turnoff, maybe you need a new partner.

Wash with clean water every time you go to the bathroom.
Use baby powder in the morning and at night. It helps prevent sweating in your vaginal area.
Always wipe front to back to prevent bacteria from getting into your vagina.

Be gentle! It's a very fragile area and you don't want to get a cut or an infection.

Be careful when washing your vagina, its not a race. Don't rush. Take your time because you don't want to irritate your skin.

If you really think your vagina is sick, then call a doctor so they can tell you if it is sick or not.


Warnings


Avoid washing inside your vagina. You don't want to upset the pH balance of your vaginal walls.
Also, you don't want to wash away all of your vaginal secretions because they are nature's cleaning mechanism for your vagina.

Skip douches and feminine deodorant sprays. Douches can upset the natural bacterial balance in your vagina. Also, both douches and feminine sprays can irritate the sensitive skin in your vaginal area.

100 Nigerian Music Stars And Their Real Names!
In this special.

Note that some of the names will crack you up.

Don Jazzy Michael Collins Ajereh

Tiwa savage Tiwatope Savage-Balogun

D’prince Charles Enebeli

Dr sid Sidney Onoriode Esiri

Dj Sibo sikiru bolashodun

Naeto C Naetochukwu Chikwe

Ikechukwu Ikechukwu Onanaku

Korede Bello Korede Bello

Reekado Banks Ayoleyi Hanniel Solomon

Di’Ja Hadiza ‘DiJa’ Blell

D’banj Oladapo Daniel Oyebanjo

Skales Raoul John Njen-Njeng

Wizkid Ayodeji Ibrahim Balogun

L.A.X Damilola Afolabi

Banky W Bankole Wellington

Niyola Eniola Akinbo

Shaydee Shadrach Adeboye

M.I Jude Abaga

Jesse Jagz Jesse Garba Abaga

Ice Prince Panshak Zamani

Ruby Gyang Ngohide RubyAnn Gyang

Patoranking Patrick Nnaemeka Okorie

Olamide Olamide Adedeji

Lil Kesh Ololade Keshinro

Kay switch Kehinde Oladotun Oyebanjo

Ink Brian Toritseju Edwards

Chinko Ekun Oladipo olamide

Wande Coal Oluwatobi Wande Ojosipe

Adekunle Gold Adekunle Gold

Iyanya Iyanya Onoyom Mbuk

Selebobo Oku Udoka Chigozie

Tekno Augustin Miles

Emma Nyra Emma Chukwugoziam Obi

Seyi Shay Deborah Oluwaseyi Joshua

Yemi Alade Yemi Eberechi Alade

JJC Abdul Rasheed Bello

Victoria Kimani Victoria Kimani

Sean Tizzle Morihanfen Oluwaseun Oluwabamidele

Psquare Paul and Peter Okoye

Kcee Kingsley Chinweike Okonkwo

Harrysong Harrison Tare Okiri

Phyno Azubuike Chibuzo Nelson

Timaya Enetimi Alfred Odom

YQ Yakub Jubril

Jaywon Iledare Juwonlo

Essence Okoro Uwale

KSB Kehinde Saint Brown

Joe El Joel Amadi Minjin Adewale Lawanson Junior

Capital FEMI Femi Adeyinka

Falz Folarin Falana

Praiz Praise Ugbede Adejo

Simi Simisola Ogunleye

Sound sultan Olanrewaju Fasasi

Samklef Samuel Ogwuachuba

Lynxx Chukie Edozien

W4 Adewale Adepoju

Kel Kelechi Ohia

Gt The Guitarman Olugbemiro Tokunbo Olaolu Akigbogun

Bigiano Babalola Oluwagbemiga Gabriel

Baba Dee Dare Fasasi

Runtown Douglas Jack Agu

Burna Boy Damini Ogulu

Waje Aituaje Iruobe

Cynthia Morgan Cynthia Ikponmwenosa Morgan

Kiss Daniel Oluwatobiloba Daniel Anidugbe

9ice Alexander Abolore Adegbola Adigun Ajifolajifaola

Eva Elohor Eva Alordiah

Efa Efa Iwara

Dammy Krane Oyindamola Johnson Emmanuel

2face idibia Innocent Ujah Idibia

Dencia Reprudencia

J Martins Justice Okey

Davido David Adedeji Adeleke

B-Red Adebayo Adeleke

Sina Rambo Adeshina Adeleke

Danagog Daniel Damilola Agunbiade

Endia Ujah Lawrence Ujah

Orezi Esegine Orezi Allen

Olu Maintain Olumide Edwards Adegbolu

Asa Bukola Elemide

Ruggedman Michael Stephens

Brymo Olawale Ashimi

Mc Galaxy Innocent Udeme Udofot

Blackface Ahmedu Augustine Obiabo

Ty Bello Toyin Sokefun-Bello

Darey Dare Art Alade

Duncan Mighty Duncan Wene Okechukwu

Frank Edwards Frank Ugochukwu Edwards

Faze Chibuzor Oji Flavour Chinedu Okoli

Emmy Gee Emmanuel Nwankwo

Femi Kuti Olufemi Anikulapo Kuti

Seun Kuti Oluseun Anikulapo Kuti

Lagbaja Bisade Ologunde

May7ven Yemisi May Odegbami

Mo’Cheddah Modupe-Oreoluwa Oyeyemi Ola

Mode 9 Babatunde Olusegun Adewale

Muma Gee Gift Iyumame Eke

Muna Munachi Gail Teresa Abii Nwankwo

Nosa Nosa Omoregie

Nneka Nneka Lucia Egbuna

Obiwon Obiora Nwokolobia-Agu

Monica Ogah Monica Ene Ogah

Monica Ogah Omawumi Megbele

Sasha P Anthonia Yetunde Alabi

Tony Tetuila Anthony Olanrewaju Awotoye

Weird MC Adesola Adesimbo Idowu

Young Six Onome Onokohwomo….....

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iamsodium:
Na lie

when u don't even believe in your self

An Indian man Mahashta Mûrasi who claims to be born in 1835 is not only the oldest man in the world but also the man who lived the longest since the history of mankind (according to the Guinness World Records ). According to the information transmitted, the man was born in Bangalore on January 6 1835.De 1903, he lived in Varanasi, where he worked until 1957, until his retirement in 122 years.
According to WorldNewsDailyReport, all official documents to identify this man support his version. My grandchildren have died there a few years, “said Mûrasi.” In a way, death has forgotten me. And now I have lost all hope to die! Watch his video.
www.vibenigeria.com/death-has-forgotten-me-179-years-old-man-cries-out/

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BeeBeeOoh:
U mean the mere commisioner??

he is far more better than your father

The Seven Social Sins are:
Wealth without work. Pleasure without conscience. Knowledge without character. Commerce without morality. Science without humanity. Worship without sacrifice. Politics without principle.

Assuming the govrmnt says, everybody should register their boyfriend/girlfriend,or wife/ husband before July 29 2015 and you try to register yours and the machine tells you,"sorry the person you registering has already been registered!!!,"What wil you do? Share the fun but answer me first...

President buhari meet with president obama today. Nigeria president and his delegates meet with president obama at the Washington D.C. Where they are expected to discuss an range of issue including Boko haram

DTOBS:
mchtwwweee...#iranu #abasha #shoroniyen

I got something for u and I know u will love it

swtgrl4eva:
Two angry individuals

it u girls hand work na

I no fit laugh this on finish

“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.”
About six months into a serious relationship with my Girlfriend, we started experiencing major conflict. Fighting over small things, flipping out over misunderstandings, we just couldn’t seem to get on the same page about anything. This caused me to think about relationship conflict in general, what causes it, and how to deal with it.
It’s clear that relationship conflict occurs because expectations aren’t being met. Each person comes into a relationship with certain expectations. These are based on past experiences, childhood, or how you think things should be.
The problem is that no two people think the same, no matter how much you have in common. A lot of couples see conflict as a time to bail—either because they were already looking for a way out or because they freak out and feel threatened. When our ego feels threatened, it activates our flight or fight response. Sometimes it may be hard to get resolution on a conflict, making matters worse.
Instead of seeing conflict as a threat to a relationship, what if we reframed this and saw conflict as an opportunity and a sign of growth in a relationship? This requires understanding that conflict will inevitably occur in a close relationship. The only way of getting around it is to not share your opinion at all, which is not healthy.
So what if we focused on sharing our opinions in a way that is productive? To do this:
1. Remember not to sweat the small stuff. Instead of making every little molehill a mountain, agree to not make something a battle unless it’s truly important. Realize that not every disagreement needs to be an argument. Of course, this doesn’t mean you bow to someone else’s demands when it’s something you feel strongly about, but take the time to question the level of importance of the matter at hand.
2. Practice acceptance. If you find yourself in the midst of a conflict, try to remember that the other person is coming into the situation with a totally different background and set of experiences than yourself. You have not been in this person’s shoes, and while it may help to try to put yourself in them, your partner is the only person who can really explain where he or she is coming from.
3. Exercise patience. Granted, it’s hard to remember this in the heat of the moment. But stopping to take a few deep breaths, and deciding to take a break and revisit the discussion when tensions are not as high, can sometimes be the best way to deal with the immediate situation.
4. Lower your expectations. This is not to say you should have low expectations but it is to say that you should keep in mind you may have different expectations. The best way to clarify this is to ask what another’s expectations are in a scenario. Again, don’t automatically assume that you come into the situation with the same expectations. But what if you are in the heat of a conflict and you don’t seem to be doing anything other than polarizing each other?
5. Remember you both desire harmony. Most likely, you both want to get back on track and have a peaceful relationship. Also remember the feeling of connected ness that you want to feel. It’s hard to feel threatened by someone when you see yourselves as inter connected and working towards the same result.
6. Focus on the behaviour of the person and not their personal characteristics. Personal attacks can be far more damaging and long- lasting. Talk about what behavior upset you instead of what is “wrong” with someone’s personality.
7. Clarify what the person meant by their action, instead of what you perceived their action to mean. Most of the time, your partner is not deliberating trying to hurt you, and getting hurt happened to be a byproduct of that action.
8. Keep in mind your objective is to solve the problem, rather than win the fight. Resist the urge to be contrary just for that reason. Remember that it’s better to be happy than right!
9. Accept the other person’s response. Once you have shared your feelings as to what a person’s actions meant to you, accept their responses. If they tell you the intended meaning of their action was not as you received it, take that as face value.
10. Leave it in the past. Once you’ve both had the opportunity to share your side, mutually agree to let it go. Best case scenario, your discussion will end in a mutually satisfactory way. If it doesn’t, you may choose to revisit it later. When making this decision, ask yourself how important it is to you. If you make the decision to leave it in the past, do your best to do that, rather than bringing it up again in future conflicts. Conflict can be distressing. If you see it as an opportunity for growth, it can help you become closer and deepen your relationship.

O ga o this man go like to eat wit all is ten hands

I no fit laugh