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Tosinex:
Unnhm... I think one of the reasons why this is happening is because she converted to a Muslim, if not it might have been something else, that must have also been the reason why fayose denied knowing her saying "who is Moji" it's well.

I can't blame you because it is not your fault.Ithis is the limit your brain can take. You have very low ram so it can not withstand enough senses.

@OP This your post just make me like Ayodele Fayose. and i believe many have fallen in love with him by trying to blackmail him with your post.It Tinubu finance the burial with his money,Tinubu has money and he is not in govt. I believe @op will be the first person to condemn Fayose if he had used the state money to sponsor the burial.

I don't think so. It is the most user friendly os at the moment and no any other os is competing with android.
Using an android os,u can do without other os but when using iOS,u will still be using other os like android.
It is only if a new os is introduce and can browse without loading data on it.

Why the elders no banish Wike?

The lady will get herself into the school trouble.

Some guys brain is just empty with wisdom. U never hear d guy side of the story u are just making judgment.
I don't support it if d story is true but I think d lady wants to get herself into more trouble. Why did she not report to the school authority and allow them to investigate. What permission does she has to display d guy pix on internet just like that. Even if she go to the police station to report,they will ask her why did she not come first b4 publishing the guy on internet.
The news get k-leg. How would a sane man beat a lady because she did not befriend his friend.

I started to fear women most when I heard d case of pastor Suleiman and the Otobo lady. If it is really true the pastor gave her such amount of money as she said. Despite the huge amount of money she collected from d man,she came out publicly,exposing the man on social media. That is pure betrayal. Pure wickedness on d side of the woman. She is worse than Judas Iscariot.
Do u think if pastor Suleiman have the opportunity,he will not kill her. Later the world will be saying a pastor killed a woman. If she do that in a country like Mexico,she is as good as death.
I fear women.

Okonzy1:

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What about you
You are there taking sides, is it because you're a lady? Are you living with them to know who is to be blamed? The young man gave his own side of view and you buy the mata like say na ur sister dem beat abeggi park well, all this frustrated independent lagoon calling themselves ladies can use their mouth to push you into fire and later they will start looking for who to sympatize with them Nonsense.

Don't mind her.It is this kind of woman that allow no shits from her daughter in-law. They have forgotten one day they will get married and have a son. The boy will grow up and get married too. So tell me what you will do as a mother to the husband when u see your son's wife misbehaving? Most of these ladies don't put themselves in d position of a man before making comments. One day u will become a mother in-law.

martyns303:
This is going to be long, I hope you endure to the end.

I know what I am about to say will be controversial and not "politically correct", mostly for the feminist and others. I expect a lot of backlash, abuse and calling of names, it is a burden I am willing to take on.

I expect everybody to come here and call this man names, he's an animal, a coward (I agree on this), woman beater and all sort just to be accepted. But I have decided to share a different opinion.

First, people don't just go about attacking other people, not a woman you are married to, not the mother of your children, even mad people don't frequently attack people at random.

The thing is everybody have a breaking point, no matter how much you try to endure and try to be the better person, there comes that point you just can't take it.

Have I hit a woman b4? Yes, twice. It is not something I am proud of, I feel ashamed of myself afterwards. Now I have had my fair share of relationships but one stands out and I pray no man finds himself with a woman like that. This girl's words are venom, she rain abuses at the slightest provocation. If anyone knows me outside NL will know that I am extremely quite, an introvert and avoids confrontation at all cost.

If we agree to meet somewhere and she gets there before, am dead. No matter the reason, she will call me and start abusing me, in fact if you are to hear her, you will call me a fool for staying with that kind of person. But she is not always like that, when she's not angry, she's one of the nicest person ever. Well educated and from a decent home so there's no indication that she will be like that.

The first time I hit her, we went to buy something together at the market. We ended up having a different opinion about an item and that was when she got angry, she started abusing me right there in public. It was as if the ground should open and swallow me, I was so embarrassed I decided to leave and go home. When she got back, she started yelling at me for leaving her behind at the market and the abuses begin. At that point I lost it, already am fuming from the market incident and now this, she has said worst things to me before and I simply walk away but this time I don't know what happened and I slapped her. Of course I apologized and begged and we got back to being normal, I noticed the abuses even stopped for sometime.

Now I don't want to mention what happened the second time, because not even a pope would have been able to handle the situation. At that point I ended the relationship.

Am i going to mention the times she gets angry and begin to damage my properties? Anything she gets her hands on she will destroy it. We all heard about Tonto Dikeh damaging properties worth millions of Churchill's.

The ultimate question is, why didn't I just leave the relationship, answer is, beside her bad moments she's a nice person. Plus I had to endure to keep up the relationship. Now it would be even more difficult for married people.

I am no way encouraging physical abuses by men, but before you crucify the man, have you considered what the man has been through?

No man should raise his hands on a woman, however we shouldn't be quick to throw the men under the bus either. This man is languishing in prison, some of us wouldn't have been able to walk half a mile in his shoes.

May God give us all compatible partners.

Wallai you are the only person I see on nairaland that understand this kind of thing. Here on nairaland u will see people only bashing the man when he involved in domestic violence, especially ladies,and men. Married and unmarried. It is until u are in this kind of situation before u can understand it. No man wants to beat his wife. There is no fun in it but as d poster said, there is breaking point. It is when the husband violently molested​ his wife that the whole world will know and will condemn him. But when the wife was emotionally giving the husband problem at home,no one cares.
I want us to know there is no smoke without fire. The way the women want to take the place of their husband now are days is nothing to write home about. They want to be in charge and be boss in the house now. And what God ordain as the head of the family and u want to turn it upside down. Know there will be serious problem.
Advise for men is don't beat your wife, because if u do,the whole blame will be put on you.
Why will a responsible woman will take to social media after having issues with her husband. The father of her children for that matter.Abeg let me finish my second bottle of Origin and start going home. Is night already.

Good!! I played over 8.5 corners and it will click

Some started collecting stipend since December 2016,some started since January,some since march and some have not collected at all. Npower refused to pay all the arrears. A friend of mine started collecting from march this year and they did not pay d arreas. So it means some people are more superior than others. Why will some collected more than others and till now,.they have not balance the inequalities. My friend even said if Npower doesn't pay all his arrears he will not go to work.
Also, they promised them device to help them during the programme. Till now nobody have not collected it,is it when the programme remain 5 months that they will start giving it out.

This is the reason most ladies initiate no sex before marriage. Ladies know what they are doing because they believe when a man sees she is beautiful, the down part and the rest are also beautiful. Beauty has robbed men so many thing.
Guys beware of ladies that says no sex before marriage.
Bitter truth.

This is the reason most ladies initiate no sex before marriage. Ladies know what they are doing because they believe when a man sees she is beautiful, the down part and the rest are also beautiful. Beauty has robbed men so many thing.
Guys beware of ladies that says no sex before marriage.

Go back to your history. Buhari was a coup plotter. So if some group of people plot a coup against him. It means he reap what he sow. Equation balance.

grossintel:
You stand a better chance of changing her favorite TV opera than changing a nagging wife. I have a nagging girlfriend I want to marry and I know I can't change her. I just have to live with it and ignore this side of her, it's what makes her.. Her

Is there anything like nagging girlfriend. You compare a nagging wife with stubborn single lady that can even adjust with time. You better don't go into marrying someone u believe will later be a problem 4 u,if u want to live long.

Safiaa:
What exactly is she nagging about please?

Almost everything. There is nothing u tell her that she agree with. Too much ego.

eezeribe:
One of the 'saints' appointed by Buhari...
Karma is just making mockery of Buhari...
Everything he said or did,ranging from media castigation against the then incumbent President GEJ,to his one sided appointments,have all Boomeranged on Him and his government.
APC has not been able to improve on any single aspect of the PDP led Government,rather everything has gone from bad to worse,be it economy,fuel price,power supply,security,value of our local currency,price of commodities,etc... The list is endless.

You spoiled your post by trying to support PDP that is even worse than APC. Is there any difference between APC and PDP.

I have tried all possible means to change my nagging wife but still,she doesn't change.
Any advice from people b4 it gets worse.

dominique:
Her husband actually put her through such strenuous long distance travel alone knowing fully well her state of health. That's too bad. RIP to the deceased

You can just conclude like that. Were u with the couple when d woman decided to travel? Do u know whether the man told her not to travel under that condition and she refused. Am not there with them but i know a situation where a man will advise his wife not to do something and she will want to do it. It is only God that knows what happened.

The girl nah thief. She go pour cow blood for body to make it look serious. Wayo girl.

Instead of your people to kill them all u are only protesting.Go get training from Ife people.

Politics,scam,nepotism and favouritism in living faith church and the universities​ now.
Nobody should quote me because i know what u don't know.
I never get their time now. By the time i get their time, Bishop David Oyedepo will hear some of his senior staffs atrocities.

Is it not a person that was working b4 that wld get tithe giving record.

SirVintageCock:
How much was she given as cash for the condiments and canopies?
You excluded meat, and the assorted fishes that cost an arm and a leg nowadays. Two parts of sizeable cow meat cost close to 35k for the kind of ceremony you are having, not even an elaborate trad just a small affair. Talk about a half carton of dryfish costing 20k, stockfish nko. I should know because we had our pocket whipped this easter during my sisters wedding.

Obviously, you registered your displeasure wrongly and harshly. No wonder your wife stayed back for three days and didn't even bother to explain her when confronted.

Abeg what concerning anybody with the amount he gave to them. We are talking about an attitude here. Something that is most important than money or bag of rice
Wedding will go nah marriage will remain. Is it not the wife that supposed to cover and support her husband interest before her family members.

Lloydfather:
I don't want to ready anybody comment before I say something. My brother marriage is a prison where u enter and find it difficult to come out. If what u wrote here is truth pls leave that woman and move on. If u start begging now u will forever be a begger, their is nothing wrong in a man begging his wife but not on this type of issue. U have to be a man and act now less u regret ur life. That lady don't regard as somebody that is why she's behaving like that.

Very nice

2dugged:
Same thing happened to my uncle, infact my mum and her sisters (thank God I didn't go) came back with empty stomachs, that's where I got perception from, but considering the fact that her(my uncle's wife) both parents are dead,it didn't cause any friction, infact everyone went on like nothing happened, that's why I suggest the op calms down

Calm down to do what please? Do u boyfriend and girlfriend issues is the same with husband and wife issues? If what the OP said is true there is no any amount of calm down that can make a right thinking man to proceed with that marriage. The man's parents sef will not permit it.Even if i gave them money with bad mood, does that warrant them to put me in such messy situation. A wife that doesn't listen to what i say.what do u expect will come out of it. Mother in-law that did not train her daughter well. The lady only trapped u with d wedding be showing u her character. Trouble sleep,yonga go wake am nah your case.

@Op the family that supposed to come and prostrate and beg you for scamming u. Why will they be telling u they are no more interested in the marriage again after collecting ur money. Why were they not interested before u gave them the money. The family scam u by using their daughter.1+1=2 or 11. That is go ahead with d marriage and see hell or leave the marriage and have rest of mind. This is the advice i can give to my blood. Thai is if u told us here is the truth. I can't be begging a woman that can endanger my entire life. I want u to know wedding is different from marriage. U have not entered marriage but u are about to so b4 u enter decide very well. No going back if u enter am.

BigBrother9ja:
What nonsense is this?
I dont believe your story... Are you trying to say that your wife was away for days and you two didnt communicate ? even on phone?

Are u a man? If u are, try to be in his shoe b4 u can judge.Did she not know that she supposed to be with her husband. That is common sense.

If a family is bad it is bad. There is nothing u can do about it. My friend calm down and think to decide d next better option b4 is too late. Most of married women now are days got married not because they love the husband and his family.She is showing u pepper now but nobody sees u. I pray she change in time but if she doesn't,it my lead to another domestic violence like what we read on nairaland yesterday. Whereby the husband killed the wife. So therefore,if u want to avoid people calling u a murderer in d future, you better quit now. Because if it is true about what u said about her. There is no how u will not pick a cutlass one day to kill her. And if it happens, people will overlook how she have been showing you pepper. You mother in-law is the devil and she gave birth to a devil daughter.
I believe she is the one that killed her husband. If you don't want history to repeat itself,pls run like Forest Gump.

Bollinger:
It is no excuse to approve jungle justice. Of course the first human instinct is to want revenge but you cannot substitute that with a lawful means of solving anything. Falling prey to are base instincts will only result in the kind of society Nigeria has evolved into. A beastly, maniacal society where anything goes and where might is for some reason always right.

I pray this kind of thing will not happen to any of ur relatives. That is y u talked like that.

eezeribe:
I am sure you would have said something different if they killed your relative.

You no hear English. Open your eyes and read again.