₦airaland Forum

ImaIma1:
No matter how demonic or devilish the wife is, the man has absolutely no right to hit her. In such case he can walk away or leave the marriage because it is also a form on abuse on the man.
Do you beat your fellow men or friends whdn they frustrate or annoy you? Hitting a woman should never ever be an option.

In my comment,they is no where i encourage a man to beat his wife. In order to put an end to this domestic violence,we should first tackle the causes. Pls does killing of armed robber stop or reduce armed robbery? Capital NO. If will continue condemning the husband or wife every time it can't stop this violence. Especially on nairaland,ladies always support the female why very few men support the wife. Whether a woman likes it or not, a man or woman will come out from your body and the same to we men. If we condemn a woman,we have them as mother, daughter, sister or friends. Bad character from from background causes this. Mothers should always give their children marital training and discipline. No man will allow his son-in-law to maltreat his daughter and no woman will allow her daughter in-law to treat her son badly.
I have seen a situation where a man reported his wife to her parents several times to talk to their daughter,both were called to explain what happened. At the end of d day d parents supported their daughter. What do u think will happen next. Also,some Christian wife have placed their pastors ahead of their husband that they trust the pastors than the husband. Whatever the pastor tells her that is what she will believe. This is where u see the wife calling the mother in-law a witch.
I repeat,men should stop raising their hands to beat their wife. If she refuses to change, report her to her parents.
I can't advise a woman to permanently leave her husband because of this. Beheading is not a permanent solution to an headache. Can we advise a man to send d wife packing or advise the husband to pack out in order to avoid death. This can't stop the violence. I have see a situation where the wife pack out violently without finding ways to address the issue. After some months,some killed the husband and nobody knows who was responsible.
Domestic violence is very complex than what we are all deliberating on nairaland here. Just wish u dont experience it.

Firstly i will condemn the husband from killing his. This is very bad it is not the solution. Husband beating his wife is a devilish behaviour.
Secondly, u see many guys and ladies abusing the man here. Yes he must truelly be condemn. Let the law takes its stand. But what i want to say is women are sometimes genesis of this domestic conflict. It is only men that are married can understand what am trying to explain. There is no married man that wants to beat or molest his wife. All of us pray to have a good wife in order to be happy and have a peaceful home. Don't we know that some women can frustrate life out of their husband. Many of these women change to worse when the husband can no longer provide 4 the family again. We should understand few men can't manage psychological pressure. A Yoruba proverb says 'Ti esisin ba n je elegbo,aye ko nigbo sugbon to elegbo back ti n je esisin, gbogbo aye agbo. Meaning when flies start sucking your wounds, nobody will hear it but when u start killing the flies,all d world will hear and see what u are doing.
All these new generation wives need the training given to our old mothers. This for better for worse,till death do us part they said in church during wedding is just film trick. Many of our wife are just attending church for going sake. Words of God do not reflect in them. We men too have our bad part but i believe a wife makes a good home. She is in charge of the house. Many wives now are days abuse and caurse their husband. A wife that says it will not better 4 her husband that he will die,has she forgotten she she was told during her wedding that her husband is her head. If u abuse him,u abuse yourself and if the head is affected by what u said to him,it will affect u the wife.
Let me tell us this domestic conflict between husband and wife is happening in more than 40% marriages and home. Many men and ladies are not really matured to get married that is why these are happening. Our church and mosque are doing nothing concerning this. You see beautiful faces every Sunday but that beauty doesn't reflect in their character.
Men should stop beating their wife because if anything happens, you don't have any excuse.
No husband will ever attempt to molest or beat a good wife. Many men do not know d worth of a good wife if they have.

The payment history have been removed overnight. It was their yesterday evening.

innocentjiale:
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It has been long i heard so

u mean the nrc test applicants sat for about 3 weeks ago?

With this current recession in Nigeria, this recession pass world war 3. We don dey fight our own worldwar 3 tey they. We are no more afraid of any war again because we are about to enter world war 5 very soon

Eddiecute86:
Where did you play it online or shop? If it is shop hold the shop agent responsible. Bet9ja shop agents are found of irregularities .I know one that do cancel peoples game intentionally hoping that they won't win. One day he got into trouble after canceling someone's game with stake of 500k and all the game came out positive.

U should know he played it online when the guy is talking about red or green nah.

Those that are saying Dagrin can't sing, is either u did not know him because u were in village that doesn't have lite or u be deaf and dumb. Dagrin songs that old , young,male and female listen to. All naija music artist wanted to colabo with him.

Dagrin was an instrumentalist. He used it better than the others. U fall in love with the lyrics and the instrumental.

All his female friends a nd male friends should be investigated I believe the police will get to the root of this case.Someone closed to him perpetrated the evil. Some that use to communicate with him always arranged the killing because of how the remove the sim and memory card.
I believe the guy was called out on the phone. I suspect he was arranged by a woman.
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Rosskii:
Trump is the most dangerous ruler on earth right now, and must be stopped before he leads us to a nuclear holocaust/armageddon.

He is unstable, vindictive, racist, insane, and bloodthirsty.

go stop him. Hope u have his address

Since i was born,i have never heard positive news about NEPA or phcn. It is everytime we hear blackout looms, blackout this blackout that. I pity this country.

Buzor44:
For me definitely Brave heart, war room- mehn, dat movie is very inspirational, Spartacus - when he died, last samurai - when the widowed wife dressed and fell in love with a man who killed her hubby, Swallow the sun.

Brave heart is a true life story also.
What happened in that movie wanted to repeat itself when lady Diana was have a relationship with an Egyptian billionaire son. But they prevented it from happening.

blingxx:
Hacksaw ridge...directed by mel gibson

You be witch. That is the film i want to write. The film is dope and very emotional. At the end of the film when i saw Mel Gibson as the film director,i said no wonder it is only you that can direct such film. The film looks real.
YEH VAADA RAHA (The promise) very old Indian film. You will cry when u watch.
PASSION OF CHRIST: Another film directed by Mel Gibson. So emotional.
WE WERE SOLDIER: Directed by Mel Gibson also.
SAVE PRIVATE RYAN: TOM HANKS
FORREST GUMP: Master piece by Tom hanks.

Some people are not seeing what am seeing. If it is true about this prophecy,it means the devil used the prophet and the parents to finish the lady or woman because we read she had a child. The boyfriend only did the physical killing. Why will a prophecy says a mature single mother must not have a relationship. A military person for that matter. The prophet and the parents should also be blame for their daughter's death. So the prophet did not see in his vision that his prophecy will lead to the lady's death before he told the parents.
I wonder why this generation prophets no dey see better things to tell. They always see negative prophecy to tell the poor people while the see positive prophecy to tell the politicians in order to exploit them. I'd am the parents of this lady,i will stop going to that church again.

dingbang:
Is it a sin for a man to wear skirt to a church?


Even d women wearing trousers will judge.. So forgerrit.

Did Jesus wear trousers in the bible time? He wore something like robe. Similar to female pattern.

enshi:
Have been dating my gf for six months now and for real i love her...
She is a banker and we met at the bank too... And sincerely she is pretty..

The issue at hand is she is always changing her dp on whatsapp and she keeps uploading selfies on fb and i am beginning to think she is seeking attention or trying to impress someone cos she is quite aware i dont like it.. ..

I have discussed it over with her more than four times yet she keeps doing this and has vowed never to stop ... As i write this piece 9:17AM she has changed her whatsapp dp twice ( one pic this morning at the office and the other one she had Before leaving the house).. We dont stay in same state though

Pls i need mature conttibutions on what and how exactly to tackle this and what could probably be the reason behind this

Choose if u want to marry beauty or wife material.If a bad wife show u pepper, nah that time u will know there is nothing like beautiful face.

This is because nah children dey enter university now are days.

I wonder why a military man will allow a woman tot to occupy the whole of his senses. Though he is young and I see he is not emotionally mature to manage crises.
The guy displayed his love affair everywhere, even on social media. I think a military man should always restrict himself from such.
Love intoxication killed the guy.

Matoni:
Nagging is like beating a man. As for no reason should a man lay his hands on a woman especially his wife... So for no reason should a woman nag or abuse or disrespect her husband.

Men that have beat their wife have said that before. Is not good to beat your wife but if your wife frustrated you. Those who did do realise it after they beat their wife.

I wonder why it always pains the ibos on any actions take by yorubas. If hausas killed yorubas, ibos go dey happy and abuse the yorubas and if the yorubas killed the hausas, ibos go still accuse and abuse the yorubas.
I am confused about Ibos. You time will come that u will look 4 support from Yoruba and they will have good excuse to tell u.
What do u want? There is no anything u like.

I am a you bad man and I am not in support of this kind of war. But what would ibos have said if it was yoruba that was mostly killed? They will call us coward as they always say but now things turned around against the hausas and u can also see the ibos changing their chorus again. No more coward but another name entirely.
The ibos are somehow happy there will be reprisal attack against the yorubas in the north. Let me tell the ibos the truth, if fight should start in the north, ibos will suffer most casualties. Because you are everywhere and the hausas will not say let me spare ibos because they are not the yorubas.
Do u think we yorubas are coward? Education, exposure, culture and religion have makes us look like coward to other tribes. Frustrated people go to war between they believe they don't have life talk less of having better future. How do u expect a successful yorubas carrying guns and cutlasses with tribe that doesn't have future. That is impossible.
Everybody have to be at alert now to protect himself and his territory. Things have changed so you Ibos, give your neck the hausas if you want them to kill you.

The general problem with Ibos is they always blame others for their woe. I have never seen them finding their own fault. Today they will blame Yoruba, tomorrow they will blame hausa. Please,what do they want? And all Nigerians know you are the genesis of Nigeria problem in which you people always deny it. If you people do not know the history you better ask from the right source.
Now you blame the yorubas for playing politics with the housas. So you Ibos have quickly forgotten how you played politics with the housas against the west.
My advice to the ibos is they should stop blaming other tribes for their problems and they should also let themselves know what they want. Because I see them condemning Osinbajo. Tomorrow u will also condemn Buhari. Pls what do Ibos want?

If u all go through all @op (Johnniewalker) post and topics on nairaland,you will all see he is an unserious poster. His only selfish aim is to let people enter his useless blog link. That is why all his posts and topics on nairaland is followed by his blog link.
You can also see one of his useless post with pictures as follows.

I see many have eyes but they can't see. I know the church and I believe the pastor can never allow this. The poster only want traffic to is blog. Our can we relate those pics with the church? Just only nicky minaj pix and a magazine. Where is the picture of the church and name of the church here.

CROWNWEALTH019:
agbaya man

pray you will reach his age and status. It seems you don't have elders in your family. Even if you don't have pictures of old people in your house.

There is nothing bukola saraki dey in charge that will not run down, except his pocket.

[quote author=pocohantas post=54103599]Look at how pained guys are that a sister doesn't want to keep on donating her toto
I said it that most Nigerian guys are just looking for babes to keep on fucking. Relationship to them is a f<cking spree...Withdraw sex and watch the animalistic traits in them come to play. This are the same people that ask what a lady brings to the table aside sex.
One even talk of losing husband. Has he married all the ones he f<cked??

Ladies should learn from threads like this.
For an average Nigerian guy, sex equals love.[/quote God knows your house.olosho talking.]

The girl is seriously fucking someone else in calabar. So it is after she collected your 10k finish before she knows she can't come again or not interested.
To me if she want to proof her innocence, and to show she has really born again. Make she return the 10k and any other things u gave to because if she is still holding your money it is a sin. Ladies believe they are wise. They think having pre marital sex is the only sin. Collecting money from a guy u are not married to is also a sin.
My guy forget the lady if you want to have a happy home. The distance between you have make her to be fucking another guy. Do not allow any lady to mislead you on this tread because they will be supporting the girl.
Am married and I can tell you that if the lady really love you and if she doesn't like sex. There are many reasonable ways she can talk and advice you about it.
Avoid marrying a lady u have seen for a long time because of distance. Very risky or else u will blame yourself later and it will be too late to turn back.

vedaxcool:
But you liepob are the ones dancing skelewu behind Osinbajo because he is a christian. It is you guys that have acted hypocritically and always out of hatred for Muslims that now you guys insult even all his Ministers and say Osinbajo is doing the work.... sir it the same liepob and wailing zombies tendancies that have been playing ethno-religious politics that have resorted to this same stuff you are talking about... While some Yorubas have joined the band wagon it does not make it totally their doing.

It is a pity that with many people like you in this country, Nigeria can't grow. It shows you put religion before everything. U turn politics to religion issue. How many Muslims voted for Gej. Many Christians voted for pmb regardless of his religion. If u Muslims keep voting for a bad Muslim candidate because you share the same religion belief hope u see there is no how this country can progress.